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BBWs...sexy or not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

as with anything, it's personal preference, some will find the larger lady hot, some won't....depends on the lady for me!

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By *tillup4funMan over a year ago

Wakefield

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

Yes we do find BBW attractive why would,nt we.

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

Yes I do find BBW attractive why would,nt we.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some will say yes...some will mean it... Others think big girls will be flattered that a guy like them approached them...

Some Dont.. Lee loves bigger ladies but doesn't mean all bigger ladies or that he doesn't appreciate slimmer ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

It was a piece I read in a magazine saying that men do not find bigger girls attractive enough to want them on their arm but prefer them in bed coz they're nicer to hold. But the majority just want to 'bang a big girl!'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some see BBW as a tick box thing (well thats one for the bucket list)

guilty pleasure (fuck her, wont date her though)

any holes a goal (fat bird must be desperate so she wont turn me down)

some genuinely do like the curves/feel of a larger lady

some feel comforted by them (warmth/protection)

some may think 'well she aint gonna leave/cheat on me'

all kinds of reasons,, but yes i do believe there are admirers of the larger woman

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By *o 1Man over a year ago

Ponteland / London

Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me it depends on the woman - just like curvy/skinny/athletic/voluptuous/average/etc women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For me it depends on the woman - just like curvy/skinny/athletic/voluptuous/average/etc women."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know many men who like fat, which is what it is. Men on here will say anything to get a fuck.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Some are, some not so much

The ones I say 'not so much' may very well appeal to other people

It's preference and individual sexual attraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But to answer the thread title of 'BBW sexy or not'

For me sexy is an attitude and a believe in yourself used to empower your own ability's.. its a feeling within thats electrifying. Its a very individual thing, some days i feel it, other days i dont. How others perceive me and my confidence levels/attitude is up to them :D

EVERYONE can be sexy..

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

These threads rarely go well

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know many men who like fat, which is what it is. Men on here will say anything to get a fuck. "
your wrong there as some men do like fat and not just ti get a fuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure different men like different types but they wouldn't be for me personally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"These threads rarely go well

Shame it's taken so few comments today though!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know many men who like fat, which is what it is. Men on here will say anything to get a fuck. "

Not always, what about the wonderfully tall woman that are broader built, they aren't fat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do love a bigger lady, though i also love slimmer ladies. The 2 'relationships ' i have had have reflected this. My first wife was a size 10 and the other relationship I had was with a woman whose size fluctuated between 18 and 22. Size does not mean a thing to me, its the connection that is made that counts x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know many men who like fat, which is what it is. Men on here will say anything to get a fuck.

Not always, what about the wonderfully tall woman that are broader built, they aren't fat"

You just said she isn't fat.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"These threads rarely go well

Shame it's taken so few comments today though! "

Sexy isn't a size... But some seem to just think its ok to insult over size.. and I Dont mean just calling people fat... As the big girls can be equally damming of those smaller..

Some guys like Big... Lee is one of those... But it takes me a lot to play with other guys because I'm less convinced... they have to chase..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well i love big girls and id happily walk down the street with one on my arm

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Plenty of guys like big girls and plenty are happy to be seen with them on their arm.

But the guys have confidence in themselves and not follow there mates..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"These threads rarely go well

Shame it's taken so few comments today though!

Sexy isn't a size... But some seem to just think its ok to insult over size.. and I Dont mean just calling people fat... As the big girls can be equally damming of those smaller..

Some guys like Big... Lee is one of those... But it takes me a lot to play with other guys because I'm less convinced... they have to chase..

well said, as usual....

We all have our preferences and things we find sexy/attractive, if a guy's that desperate to lower his own standards to shag someone he doesn't find sexy, I'd say he's the one with the issue....works for women too of course!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It was a piece I read in a magazine saying that men do not find bigger girls attractive enough to want them on their arm but prefer them in bed coz they're nicer to hold. But the majority just want to 'bang a big girl!'

But isn't that the whole point? We aren't here to find someone to have on our arm but to just have amazing sexual adventures whether that be with a self confessed BBW lover or a secret BBW lover who just wants to "bang a big bird"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If BBW is as the name sake big beautiful woman then yes. We both go for the face, if someone is good looking then we find them sexy.

We both prefer girls that are curvy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's more looks over size

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't know many men who like fat, which is what it is. Men on here will say anything to get a fuck.

Not always, what about the wonderfully tall woman that are broader built, they aren't fat

You just said she isn't fat. "

you said bbw means fat. I'm saying what about tall broad woman?? Surely they are bbws too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

for me its not a simple yes or no answer

but just going by experience ill say this. overall ive fancied more women of a slender build than i have larger

but some larger women have had me panting. for me its all in the shape and proportions

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

Some people like this.

Some people like that.

Some people point out the fucking obvious.

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By *imply_SensualMan over a year ago

warrington

" Men on here will say anything to get a fuck. "

I agree with this, there are plenty who will just do anything to get some action. However, it doesn't mean that all men hate larger women. Some do find them attractive, some don't, its as simple as that - its why we are all different and have different preferences. Its just that some of us stick to the preferences and don't just fuck for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure."

nothing worse...really...nothing at all?

death?

blindness?

impotence for life?

double incontinence?

living in Yorkshire?

being prone to exaggeration?

nothing? really?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep that's what I've found to be the truth in my experience...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My _iew on this is that i go for personality rather than looks or body shape, but must confess i am partial to a female who is curvy/BBW.

All my meets have been with women who are of this type and i have never left disappointed

So its a BIG YES from me

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts so if youve quoted them they have gone too sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me, attractiveness and being sexy is a combination of things, and never just a size issue. A nice sexy smile and a glint in the eye does much more for my libido than a supposedly "perfect" slim figure. Sexiness is an attitude more than anything else - my worst meet was with a very slim girl who was completely unresponsive (which to be fair could have been me!), and some of the best with curvy ladies who have only had to smile to make me want them. Great sex is much more mental than purely physical.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

i find bbw,s very sexy the bigger the better for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"as with anything, it's personal preference, some will find the larger lady hot, some won't....depends on the lady for me! "
being attracted to someone isn't based on simply their body, I love big women, I love small women, though I don't really like skinny women. It really does just depend on the women in question, I myself think you have a fantastic body, others may not. But the others are the ones whom should not cross your mind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

i find bbw,s very sexy the bigger the better for me

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By *igboobies42Woman over a year ago

Essex

I'm a BBW and I don't think I am sexy at all but am always flattered when others find me so.

I think sexy has as much to do with personality as it does with looks x

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By *y2funMan over a year ago

DUDLEY

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

they are always hungry :O)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

nothing worse...really...nothing at all?

death?

blindness?

impotence for life?

double incontinence?

living in Yorkshire?

being prone to exaggeration?

nothing? really?"

Losing a £20 and finding a £1?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

Damn sexy xxx

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By *y2funMan over a year ago

DUDLEY

"I think sexy has as much to do with personality as it does with looks x"

100% so.......... if your mind isn't feeling it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For me being cuddly guy myself I love a cuddly Bbw girl or a slim girl it's how I connect with her and vice versa at the end of the day I wouldn't sleep with someone if I didn't want them regardless of size or being seen out and about with. So slim or big It don't bother me I'll play and still be seen out with u as that's the way I am

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a BBW and I don't think I am sexy at all but am always flattered when others find me so.

I think sexy has as much to do with personality as it does with looks x"

Just as well personality is important as well as looks or there would be no hope for some us

You, however, are definitely sexy

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

Oh yeah my answer to the OP's question.

To me it depends on the middle B. The first one dosent come into it too much, the 'Beautiful' bit is the important bit.

And of course the W, she has to be a W and not a W that fell over, did a roly poly and ended up as a 'M'.

Im a CBM (C = Chubby)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I actually once got turned down flat at chams for being too slim xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually once got turned down flat at chams for being too slim xx "

Pah...can't please everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually once got turned down flat at chams for being too slim xx "

Likewise and I was actually insulted for like a minute or two

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually once got turned down flat at chams for being too slim xx

Likewise and I was actually insulted for like a minute or two

I know it's like ... Erm.... Am I insulted or complimented lol x,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've varied between a size 14- 20 during my adult life. I've had long relationships and been married, so they obviously didn't mind having me on their arm. I certainly didn't walk 5 paces behind!

To me it's the whole package of a person, not just body size , not just personality, not just looks - a combination. Thinking about it, my attraction has not been to guys of one body type - it's been to a variety and I imagine it works the same the other way round.

Everyone is beautiful to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I actually once got turned down flat at chams for being too slim xx

Likewise and I was actually insulted for like a minute or two

I know it's like ... Erm.... Am I insulted or complimented lol x,"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hmmm... Looks like a couple of my posts have disappeared.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not

But saying that I fell in love with a guy who is a male BBw lol a bbm maybe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To me it's the whole package of a person, not just body size , not just personality, not just looks - a combination.

Everyone is beautiful to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If Vera just had a face cam on most guys wouldn't know her body size, and i guarantee you she would get that many offers. If a guy then says oh but your a size 18-20-22 whatever and goes cold on her? Then I'm guessing it says more about the guy to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If Vera just had a face cam on most guys wouldn't know her body size, and i guarantee you she would get that many offers. If a guy then says oh but your a size 18-20-22 whatever and goes cold on her? Then I'm guessing it says more about the guy to be honest"

i dunno. you need to fancy someone physically to fuck. thats why most of us are here

i wouldnt blank someone because i dont find them sexually attractive but i wouldnt have sex with them either

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dunno. you need to fancy someone physically to fuck. thats why most of us are here

i wouldnt blank someone because i dont find them sexually attractive but i wouldnt have sex with them either"

physically and mentally...doesn't mean you want to marry them but a meeting of minds is so much fun!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

I can't speak for anyone else.....but I definitely find bbw's sexy x I prefer the feel of a "real" woman as opposed to one who feels compelled by outside sources to look "perfect"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i dunno. you need to fancy someone physically to fuck. thats why most of us are here

i wouldnt blank someone because i dont find them sexually attractive but i wouldnt have sex with them either

physically and mentally...doesn't mean you want to marry them but a meeting of minds is so much fun!"

yesh. good bants is good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being sexy is feeling sexy, having confidence regardless of size x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

I can't speak for anyone else.....but I definitely find bbw's sexy x I prefer the feel of a "real" woman as opposed to one who feels compelled by outside sources to look "perfect""

if you have a fanny ur a real woman. weight doesnt factor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it's attractive. But, then again, you need to be interesting, make me laugh and stimulate my mind.

That gets me going. I don't meet people based on their looks alone but if they can keep me on my toes ..then, they're a keeper.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

I can't speak for anyone else.....but I definitely find bbw's sexy x I prefer the feel of a "real" woman as opposed to one who feels compelled by outside sources to look "perfect""

I hate that fecking term...REAL.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No-one is ever willing to tell me where I can get a synthetic one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

I can't speak for anyone else.....but I definitely find bbw's sexy x I prefer the feel of a "real" woman as opposed to one who feels compelled by outside sources to look "perfect"

I hate that fecking term...REAL."

I hate it too... I have been all sizes from an 8 to a 32plus... and I have always been a real woman no matter what size..

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

I can't speak for anyone else.....but I definitely find bbw's sexy x I prefer the feel of a "real" woman as opposed to one who feels compelled by outside sources to look "perfect"

I hate that fecking term...REAL."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

I can't speak for anyone else.....but I definitely find bbw's sexy x I prefer the feel of a "real" woman as opposed to one who feels compelled by outside sources to look "perfect""

I'm a fake woman

don't let my boobs and ass fool you

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By *ittykate84Woman over a year ago

CHESTER

Ive been engaged and married so they both liked me that way.. I have had so many dates in the last year and none have been embarrassed have held hands and kissed me in public so men do like women who arent so slim!

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

BBW women fuck well, big tits and big bum to grab doggy style & and can take a good slap on the bum lol

And they are more cock hungry in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BBW women fuck well, big tits and big bum to grab doggy style & and can take a good slap on the bum lol

And they are more cock hungry in my opinion.

Cock hungry sluts we are...

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

Oh my god I just read your profile.

Each to their own I suppose. If he chooses to express his preference in that manner then that's down to him. Not sure how successful it would be.

My choice is equally down to me....so much prefer intelligent men who can write and speak the Queen's English

Serious question, some strapping lad is shagging the life out of you, your about to come again do you think to yourself 'I love your intelligence and your literacy skills'?

I know its your preference but does that happen when your with a brainy guy who speaks proper?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find bbws sexy

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By *uperock99Man over a year ago

Milton Keynes

"BBW women fuck well, big tits and big bum to grab doggy style & and can take a good slap on the bum lol

And they are more cock hungry in my opinion.

Cock hungry sluts we are...

"
can have my cock anytime

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BBW women fuck well, big tits and big bum to grab doggy style & and can take a good slap on the bum lol

And they are more cock hungry in my opinion.

Cock hungry sluts we are...

I know it's sarcasm but that was a little hot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BBW women fuck well, big tits and big bum to grab doggy style & and can take a good slap on the bum lol

And they are more cock hungry in my opinion.

Cock hungry sluts we are...

As long as you don't chew before swallowing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only meet with bigger ladies as my veris prove i find them very attractive but with that a pretty face and be able to have a decent conversation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure."

You seem to have a real vendetta against bigger women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some are, some aint.

The same can be said of slim women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"BBW women fuck well, big tits and big bum to grab doggy style & and can take a good slap on the bum lol

And they are more cock hungry in my opinion.

Which is an opinion only, I sometimes feel these threads are set up so somebody ends up being insulted, normally a slim person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

You seem to have a real vendetta against bigger women "

makes no difference to me who he likes so I'm not having a pop because he don't like trucks

but has anyone else ever noticed people on here who feel the need to be rude about others never seem to have any pics of themselves on show

for all we know he could be 25 stone and puts others down to make himself feel better, we only have his word he's to good for most of us on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The middle 'B' stands for bum in my case

some find me sexy and some dont

I feel sexy as im me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Firstly i have to say i love women..size is not important..It's how you get along with them and they with you .I have a lady friend who is a size 22 , and she is stunning.both to look at and to know .We have know each other for 30 plus years, we have never played together and she says that the only times she ever cries is when shes met a man and they have had sex and he then tells her it was just "to say i've tried a big girl"..I think its about saying what yo want and why and undersatnding the needs of the playmate

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

Absolutely not, have a real dislike for fat people. But it's personal preference and ours is as valid as everyone elses.

The problem is that in todays society, skinny bashing is fine but my god, you dare say anything about a fat person and you need crucifying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure."

Not even being double penetrated anally by two huge cocks,whilst sucking on a 3rd?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

You seem to have a real vendetta against bigger women

makes no difference to me who he likes so I'm not having a pop because he don't like trucks

but has anyone else ever noticed people on here who feel the need to be rude about others never seem to have any pics of themselves on show

for all we know he could be 25 stone and puts others down to make himself feel better, we only have his word he's to good for most of us on here

Yes, I've noticed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

Not even being double penetrated anally by two huge cocks,whilst sucking on a 3rd? "

You don't need to be large to be able to do this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love big woman x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely not, have a real dislike for fat people. But it's personal preference and ours is as valid as everyone elses.

The problem is that in todays society, skinny bashing is fine but my god, you dare say anything about a fat person and you need crucifying."

Got to say I do agree with this!

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

It is noticable though, how a massive % of swinger guys seem to love BBWs.

That said, when a guy writes that on his profile and then mails us, it's interesting to say "thanks, but we don't fit your likes" to which we nearly always receive "oh thats just on there" email.

Am of the _iew that most guys on here say it simply to widen their "will fuck anything" net but, when given the choice....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely not, have a real dislike for fat people. But it's personal preference and ours is as valid as everyone elses.

The problem is that in todays society, skinny bashing is fine but my god, you dare say anything about a fat person and you need crucifying.

Got to say I do agree with this! "

A friend of mine is extremely skinny. He gets loads of comments about his size and how he should eat more etc etc. It really pisses him off as he said if he was really fat, nobody would say anything about that to him!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Absolutely not, have a real dislike for fat people. But it's personal preference and ours is as valid as everyone elses.

The problem is that in todays society, skinny bashing is fine but my god, you dare say anything about a fat person and you need crucifying.

Got to say I do agree with this! "

I don't. I don't think bashing slim women is ok either. I don't think making nasty comments about anyone based on their size, shape, looks etc etc is ok.

The constant "do you like...?" threads and the "which is better...?" comparison threads and their insane frequency on here completely befuddle me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends entirely on the girl, what personally she brings and how confident she is. Would rather be with a confident big girl than frigid size 8 / 10 / 12.

Anyone confident enough to take the lead, tease and please and even sit on my face and rub would bring the sexual deviance and delight that a gentleman wishes to share.

Be proud of what you've got, and if you don't like it then work at sculpting yourself into something you do like. Then love yourself and the guys will love you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Def big is sexy

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

Have you heard that awful "all about the bass" song? It's blatent skinny bashing, even has the words "skinny bitch" in it.

Imagine a song that said "I'm better than any fat bitch".

can't imagine?

no, me either.

fucking society.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Curves all the way

Who'd want a lady with a six pack

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

The constant "do you like...?" threads and the "which is better...?" comparison threads and their insane frequency on here completely befuddle me."

With you there, 100%. Sneaking suspicion they are started by sad blokes having a wank.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It is noticable though, how a massive % of swinger guys seem to love BBWs.

That said, when a guy writes that on his profile and then mails us, it's interesting to say "thanks, but we don't fit your likes" to which we nearly always receive "oh thats just on there" email.

Am of the _iew that most guys on here say it simply to widen their "will fuck anything" net but, when given the choice...."

Get the same all the time,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curves all the way

Who'd want a lady with a six pack

Lots of men,so don't quite understand the shocked face emoticon

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

"It is noticable though, how a massive % of swinger guys seem to love BBWs.

That said, when a guy writes that on his profile and then mails us, it's interesting to say "thanks, but we don't fit your likes" to which we nearly always receive "oh thats just on there" email.

Am of the _iew that most guys on here say it simply to widen their "will fuck anything" net but, when given the choice....

Get the same all the time,,"

Kinda hope the BBWs types don't fall for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??"

They only want a shag

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People confuse bigger built women with fatties as bbz. There's a difference I believe.

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??"

My (mr, here) mother died at 61 due to health issues brought on by her weight. Her sister, niece and hell most of her family are obese.

If she hadn't been that big, she'd not have died.

This isn't a sob story, don't worry, it's a factual story.

I will never allow myself to be overweight for many reasons, that's just one.

In before the usual "I'm fat but really healthy" posts that will now commence.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??

They only want a shag "

With being overweight I meant

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple over a year ago

Brighton

"Curves all the way

Who'd want a lady with a six pack

Lots of men,so don't quite understand the shocked face emoticon"

He's just trying to maximise his perceived "mr nice". Don't worry, if a fit girl with a 6pack offered him a shag, he'd jump over 20 BBWs to accept.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"People confuse bigger built women with fatties as bbz. There's a difference I believe. "

What is a bbz?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Curves all the way

Who'd want a lady with a six pack

Lots of men,so don't quite understand the shocked face emoticon

He's just trying to maximise his perceived "mr nice". Don't worry, if a fit girl with a 6pack offered him a shag, he'd jump over 20 BBWs to accept."

Hahaha

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By *anchestercubMan over a year ago

manchester & NI

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??

They only want a shag "

It's tough to differentiate between ass licking and genuine attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??

They only want a shag

With being overweight I meant "

i know, what I ment is a guy who looks at a big women on here and find her sexy only wants a shag he don't care about her health

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??

They only want a shag

With being overweight I meant

i know, what I ment is a guy who looks at a big women on here and find her sexy only wants a shag he don't care about her health

Lol that made me laugh out load

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

Not even being double penetrated anally by two huge cocks,whilst sucking on a 3rd?

You don't need to be large to be able to do this

I wouldn't attempt it and I'm far from thin. I doubt he would try it either

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

Not for me but no offence x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??"

WTF? A health issue? I want a shag I don't need a doctor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Not for me but no offence x"

none taken

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By *rsIdiotWoman over a year ago

Bedworth

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

You seem to have a real vendetta against bigger women "

The green arrow tells the whole story.....it's a shame some people can't just keep their preferences without hurling abuse or name calling aimed at those they don't like

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its all a load of swollocks there are beautiful/ugly

healthy/unhealthy

fit/unfit

miserable/happy

nice/not nice

sexy/not sexy

in large/medium/slim people, some people will always put the other down in these threads

personnelly I'm having lots of fun with lots people, thats not just about the sex side, its about the social side too,nothing on this thread offends me

I'm afraid I am happy being just me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??

WTF? A health issue? I want a shag I don't need a doctor

Ok ok, just think thier are health issues involved with not looking after yourself that's all, when I first gave up smoking i piled on 3 stone, I was 10st which isn't big but as I'm short, I was overweight, but I noticed, out of breath no energy,, I started to run, eat better, therefore for me feeling better , but it is just my opinion

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By *asmanian TigerMan over a year ago

lala land

I can't believe what i am reading absolutely shocking!! Why do people have the need to be nasty the op was asking a straight forward question yet the minority managed to upset some people yet again get a life!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like big boobs, I like a squidgy bum I get can hold of, I love sexy bbws.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What is the need for such questions? If health isn't an issue and your happy, then what's another persons opinion matter?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think that the magazine may well be misinformed.....all my veris are hidden but if you were to see them, I can't think of a single slim girl on there...so for me its not a tick box thing, and if I'm willing to sleep with someone, I'm willing, nay happy to hold there hand in public and amongst friends family or company in any situation.

I'm sure its not just me either....

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By *riverUKMan over a year ago

Near you

Women cum in all shapes and sizes and we love them all

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By *arehamMan over a year ago

handforth

Bbw's not for me I love slim women most of all just my thing,but one of my best fucks was with a bbw what does that say about me?!.

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By *asmanian TigerMan over a year ago

lala land

I'm sure its not just me either...."

Well said mate

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By *atalie..Woman over a year ago

Bolton

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure."

I couldn't think of anything worse than banging someone with such a small mind

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By *igzag1Man over a year ago

hartlepool

No need for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure its not just me either...."

Faith restored

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By *asmanian TigerMan over a year ago

lala land

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

I couldn't think of anything worse than banging someone with such a small mind

Be careful you might get banned

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By *ery curious maleMan over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

I love a woman to have the body of a woman not a child !

Each to there own but skinny is not for me !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really like the large ladies. But it's about the person aswell. It's not just bang a big girl.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely not, have a real dislike for fat people. But it's personal preference and ours is as valid as everyone elses.

The problem is that in todays society, skinny bashing is fine but my god, you dare say anything about a fat person and you need crucifying."

not I dont think bashing anyone for their size is okay..

I am me be it a size 8 or when I was a size 32plus.. I am still me..

I am healthier than a lot of my slimmer counterparts.. I have stamina.. I do exercise a lot.. I eat well. there are other reasons I am the size I am.. and I am slowly losing weight not because I want to look better.. or get healthier.. but because I am slowly undoing something that was none of my doing..

I wont ever be slim again. I hated it when I was a size 8, I looked awful.. When I am a toned size 14/16 I will be happy.. although I know I will still be a good 2-3stone over my ideal weight...

bashing anyone isnt okay.. and you can say someone isnt your type without being offensive or rude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sexy isn't a size, sexy is the person

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By *lactontogMan over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

No i honestly love big curvy woman, my photography niche is larger ladies too and knowing how to shoot them in sexy glamour and adult poses.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely not, have a real dislike for fat people. But it's personal preference and ours is as valid as everyone elses.

The problem is that in todays society, skinny bashing is fine but my god, you dare say anything about a fat person and you need crucifying.

not I dont think bashing anyone for their size is okay..

I am me be it a size 8 or when I was a size 32plus.. I am still me..

I wont ever be slim again. I hated it when I was a size 8, I looked awful.. When I am a toned size 14/16 I will be happy.. although I know I will still be a good 2-3stone over my ideal weight...

bashing anyone isnt okay.. and you can say someone isnt your type without being offensive or rude. "

You are so right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Couldn't think of nothing worse than banging a fat lass to be honest, and definitely not on my bucket list that's for sure.

You seem to have a real vendetta against bigger women

makes no difference to me who he likes so I'm not having a pop because he don't like trucks

but has anyone else ever noticed people on here who feel the need to be rude about others never seem to have any pics of themselves on show

for all we know he could be 25 stone and puts others down to make himself feel better, we only have his word he's to good for most of us on here

ive defo noticed that. always a black silhouette posting this stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am attracted to women that are comfortable with their own body, be it bbw or not. Knowing that they feel sexy, in my eyes, makes them incredibly hot!

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By *r jblMan over a year ago

from parts unknown

"Do men really find us attractive or is it just a sex thing? Bang a big girl!!

"
. Have you got a face pls not got one on your profile. Bbw or skinny normal ample or athletic that's what will make my mind up. Got to be an attraction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am attracted to women that are comfortable with their own body, be it bbw or not. Knowing that they feel sexy, in my eyes, makes them incredibly hot!"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And big maybe sexy to some, but surly there are health issues??

They only want a shag

With being overweight I meant "

No there isn't.

Obesity can be fine, so long as you continue exercising and looking after yourself in other ways (I'll find some links when I'm on my laptop).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't like bbw just as much as I don't like sbw.

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By *an and wifeyCouple over a year ago

n lincs

Not into big women my self but I do find quiet a lot of big women extremely sexy. Depends how they carry them selves off. Dress sexy. Sexy hair and make up. Some women not nessesarily big women either just don't put the effort in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Big girl, you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

I said, "Hey girls, you are beautiful"

Diet Coke and a pizza please

Diet Coke, I'm on my knees

Screaming, "Big girl, you are beautiful"

You take your skinny girl

I feel like I'm gonna die

'Cause a real woman

Needs a real man, here's why

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Walks in to the room

Feels like a big balloon

I said, "Hey girls, you are beautiful"

Diet Coke and a pizza please

Diet Coke, I'm on my knees

Screaming, "Big girl, you are beautiful"

You take your girl

And multiply her by four

Now a whole lot of woman

Needs a whole lot more

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Oh, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girls, you are beautiful

Oh, you are beautiful

Get yourself to the butterfly lounge

Find yourself a big lady

Big boy, come on around

And they'll be calling you baby

No need to fantasize

Since I was in my braces

A watering hole with the girls around

And curves in all the right places

Big girl, you are beautiful

Sorry if this now gets into your head

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By *ilkchocolate87Man over a year ago

sw london

Love a bbw. Would love another like now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Size is unimportant, if your sexy your sexy, I don't go out of my way to look for a specific type, if your nice and you turn me on, I'll want you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love BBWs

Gorgeous curves are the best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've always stated that men like bbw,s

At home but like the slim

Perfect looking one to be seen in public

Just hope I'm not right!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Silly question, what do most class as big? I've put curvy on my profile as I've big boobs and bum and I'm not slim but not sure id classed as a bbw?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is the need for such questions? If health isn't an issue and your happy, then what's another persons opinion matter? "

It really really doesn't. I couldn't give a monkeys damn what anyone else thinks. I like who I am and how I look and that's not some fat bird pretending. Who honestly cares what anyone else thinks. They have a choice to look at you, as long as you like what you see in the mirror that is actually all anyone should care about x

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Of Course bbws are sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is the need for such questions? If health isn't an issue and your happy, then what's another persons opinion matter?

I think you look hot would like to chat with you sometime

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Have you heard that awful "all about the bass" song? It's blatent skinny bashing, even has the words "skinny bitch" in it.

Imagine a song that said "I'm better than any fat bitch".

can't imagine?

no, me either.

fucking society."

Says the person who just said they really dislike fat people

im not skinny but know i defo scrub up well better than a lot of "slim" women

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love wonen of all shapes and sizes

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By *ood at oralMan over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Tasteslikesugar77 you look stunning love a lady with curves and you have great looking curves xx

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By *ood at oralMan over a year ago

kirkcaldy

Bbw45 there is nothing better in the world than a big beautiful woman and you are certainly a beautiful big lady xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would i date a bbw. Hell yes. But there are many on here that wouldnt. Just like to fuck them. Just like the many white couples/single girls that wanna try the bbc. Do they wanna date black guys or just try them

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By *igj106Man over a year ago

yorkshire

Men won't admit they like bbw because of what others think. When ever iam out mates look at women and say she's hot. When I reply she's too skinny for me they usually then agree! Men are just shallow and do what they think will impress there mates.

BBw all the way for me x

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

To paraphrase.... "That which is pleasing to the touch is not always pleasant to the eye"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some will shag who ever, Its a hole and looks and size don't come into it at all .. Everyone like different things and that's what makes the world go around . Here most are not looking to run off and marry its fast lane sex to a lot and no feelings just sex and they may not even see that person again or be there friend that's swinging to some .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is the need for such questions? If health isn't an issue and your happy, then what's another persons opinion matter?

N, I hope you don't mind me using you as a case in point but you really do highlight why size is not an issue for many of us in deciding what we find sexy - your pictures are great, you have a lovely smile, and I defy anyone not to be turned on by picture 5....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

people can think what they want i love myself lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"people can think what they want i love myself lol"

I quite often end up doing that as well lol

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By *lactontogMan over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"I love wonen of all shapes and sizes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If people are happy what ever size they are Big or Small that's all that matters not what others think or say .. No ones perfect no one .. Learning to love yourself for who you are in and out that's what its all about .

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By *aughty grease monkeyMan over a year ago

Coventry

Big girls no what they want there lovely and not so full of themselves like most of the skinny women xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is the need for such questions? If health isn't an issue and your happy, then what's another persons opinion matter?

Exactly what I meant haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

http://www.nourishingconnections.com/obesity_myths_debunked.html

http://healthland.time.com/2012/09/05/can-you-be-fat-and-fit-or-thin-and-unhealthy/

http://abcnews.go.com/Health/overweight-bit-obese-bad/story?id=18108820

http://www.webmd.com/diet/tc/obesity-health-risks-of-obesity

One link does show the risks, just to balance it all out. Loads of info, plenty of links in the articles to medical info and research.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

at the bashing comments

there is bashing goes on every day, yet it seems some are more acceptable than others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure its not just me either....

Faith restored

It wasn't my intention to restore faith lol,but happy if my take on things has helped

Just keep in mind, as long as your happy, there will always be someone out there for you, no matter your size, height, color, I.q or favourite flavour of chewing gum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

at the bashing comments

there is bashing goes on every day, yet it seems some are more acceptable than others"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Depends entirely on the girl, what personally she brings and how confident she is. Would rather be with a confident big girl than frigid size 8 / 10 / 12.

Anyone confident enough to take the lead, tease and please and even sit on my face and rub would bring the sexual deviance and delight that a gentleman wishes to share.

Be proud of what you've got, and if you don't like it then work at sculpting yourself into something you do like. Then love yourself and the guys will love you "

Agree with you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Men won't admit they like bbw because of what others think. When ever iam out mates look at women and say she's hot. When I reply she's too skinny for me they usually then agree! Men are just shallow and do what they think will impress there mates.

BBw all the way for me x"

I disagree, I don't do things to please my mates...not in that sense anyhow....it helps that I pick and choose my friends though and they're not shallow fools..

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

I'm sure its not just me either....

Faith restored

It wasn't my intention to restore faith lol,but happy if my take on things has helped

Just keep in mind, as long as your happy, there will always be someone out there for you, no matter your size, height, color, I.q or favourite flavour of chewing gum

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm sure its not just me either....

Well said mate

Cheers fella, just sticking my tuppence worth in is all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What is the need for such questions? If health isn't an issue and your happy, then what's another persons opinion matter?

Well thank you... If someone is attractive that are attractive full stop not despite their size. When I look at people I look at the whole picture but then again I wouldn't want to converse with people who couldn't do the same..

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