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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I guess a few of you have used other websites in the past for sex, whether gay or straight.
I am hiding my fabs life from my hubby, and he is hiding something from me. I suspect he is bi/gay. He always clears browsing history, and i saw him logged on to a site similar to this with "last 100 people to view your profile" i thought it said camping.co.uk at the top but must have been wrong. I am sure i have seen him look at photos of guys wearing not much, and today saw there was a message function. Having not had sex with him for years it really does make me wonder.
I may be wrong - it could be football related - but why hide your ipad screen and clear history obsessively?
Tbh if i found out what he was looking at a sex site it could possibly bring things out into the open and maybe make us stronger together.....and allow us to br open. I have my finges crossed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe this is a conversation to have with your husband?
People here only know a tiny snippet of your life from what you've said so couldn't realistically comment with any authority. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Yes but cant put the site addy on here.....why not ask him?"
^this.
I could suggest sneaky ways to find out what he's browsing but do you really want to go that way?
Try talking about it first. |
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Also, if you were so inclined, you could check on his laptop or pc, the cookies cache which is different than the history. It would be better to raise the interest if swinging yourself casually. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also, if you were so inclined, you could check on his laptop or pc, the cookies cache which is different than the history. It would be better to raise the interest if swinging yourself casually. Good luck!"
Thanks for the tip! And thanks |
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are your bi/gay suspicions based on clearing the history or are there other indications? If you a secretive about your sexual activity then couldn't he just be looking at regular porn sites?
It must be a very difficult subject to bring up if you have grown a bit distant - good luck |
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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
As others have said, talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel, how you miss sex, is there anything he wants to do to have a more open relationship. Don't confront him straight out, but gently ask him if he has ever thought about other guys. Above all, avoid blame. If you are happy for him to have a bi lifestyle and he is happy for you to get your sexual satisfaction elsewhere then try to understand each other.
In any event, I hope things work out for you both. xxSindy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell him you've been thinking about swinging and what does he think of it?
I keep telling him i want sex! That seems to shock him enough  "
let him 'catch' you watching some male gay porn...see what the reaction is...if he sits down to watch with u...discuss  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"are your bi/gay suspicions based on clearing the history or are there other indications? If you a secretive about your sexual activity then couldn't he just be looking at regular porn sites?
It must be a very difficult subject to bring up if you have grown a bit distant - good luck "
There are a few indications. It's not just the internet thing - it all seems to add together and come up with the same answer. |
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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago
East Lancashire |
"Tell him you've been thinking about swinging and what does he think of it?
I keep telling him i want sex! That seems to shock him enough
let him 'catch' you watching some male gay porn...see what the reaction is...if he sits down to watch with u...discuss "
Now, there is an idea. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want put your mind at rest and find out where someone is looking on a pc or tablet there are plenty of ways to find out and not very difficult either. keylogging software can capture everything secretly and is invisible.
Drs xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"are your bi/gay suspicions based on clearing the history or are there other indications? If you a secretive about your sexual activity then couldn't he just be looking at regular porn sites?
It must be a very difficult subject to bring up if you have grown a bit distant - good luck
There are a few indications. It's not just the internet thing - it all seems to add together and come up with the same answer."
does he go overnight fishing and doesnt even come home with storys about the huge whopper he landed?...if he does, it might not be a fish either.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I ask why you haven't had this conversation with your hubby? Only because if you're hiding something, and you suspect something about him, it may be worth a chat?? Especially if you're not involved in a healthy sex life?
Only asking to help be constructive, please don't misunderstand my comments. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have just realised that the last 100 people to view me is a premium feature that you pay for. It would only be something you pay for in a sex site. I am now absolutely convinced. Thanks guys!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also, if you were so inclined, you could check on his laptop or pc, the cookies cache which is different than the history. It would be better to raise the interest if swinging yourself casually. Good luck!
Thanks for the tip! And thanks"
And for the iPad
settings -safari -advanced -website data
Might throw up some clues even if the history has been deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just realised that the last 100 people to view me is a premium feature that you pay for. It would only be something you pay for in a sex site. I am now absolutely convinced. Thanks guys!!"
heres hoping he isnt a member of an elite trainspotting site where each member can view the best trainspotters around the country's activity... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just realised that the last 100 people to view me is a premium feature that you pay for. It would only be something you pay for in a sex site. I am now absolutely convinced. Thanks guys!!
heres hoping he isnt a member of an elite trainspotting site where each member can view the best trainspotters around the country's activity..."
Good luck though OP, I hope you can work your situation out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just realised that the last 100 people to view me is a premium feature that you pay for. It would only be something you pay for in a sex site. I am now absolutely convinced. Thanks guys!!"
Could he be paying to look at websites to try and find what YOU are up to as opposed to looking out for himself ?
People will go extraordinary lengths to prove their suspicion.
Did the sex (with ur hubby) stop b4 u came to Fab ? Or after you joined ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You could ask him, without making him feeling entrapped. it may turn out to be a good step forward in your relationship. Reasoning together is key in these situations |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have just realised that the last 100 people to view me is a premium feature that you pay for. It would only be something you pay for in a sex site. I am now absolutely convinced. Thanks guys!!
Could he be paying to look at websites to try and find what YOU are up to as opposed to looking out for himself ?
People will go extraordinary lengths to prove their suspicion.
Did the sex (with ur hubby) stop b4 u came to Fab ? Or after you joined ?"
6 years before.....and 6 years with no sex is enough to drive a person crazy |
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"I guess a few of you have used other websites in the past for sex, whether gay or straight.
I am hiding my fabs life from my hubby, and he is hiding something from me. I suspect he is bi/gay. He always clears browsing history, and i saw him logged on to a site similar to this with "last 100 people to view your profile" i thought it said camping.co.uk at the top but must have been wrong. I am sure i have seen him look at photos of guys wearing not much, and today saw there was a message function. Having not had sex with him for years it really does make me wonder.
I may be wrong - it could be football related - but why hide your ipad screen and clear history obsessively?
Tbh if i found out what he was looking at a sex site it could possibly bring things out into the open and maybe make us stronger together.....and allow us to br open. I have my finges crossed.
Any ideas?"
you could cut out the middleman and make your relationship stronger and more open by actually asking him yourself. 
It's really incredibly disrespectful to be discussing him on here without his knowledge. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have just realised that the last 100 people to view me is a premium feature that you pay for. It would only be something you pay for in a sex site. I am now absolutely convinced. Thanks guys!!
Could he be paying to look at websites to try and find what YOU are up to as opposed to looking out for himself ?
People will go extraordinary lengths to prove their suspicion.
Did the sex (with ur hubby) stop b4 u came to Fab ? Or after you joined ?
6 years before.....and 6 years with no sex is enough to drive a person crazy"
Leave him then. Im sure if he saw you on here he would pack your bag for you. No need to cheat. Poor bloke |
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"I have just realised that the last 100 people to view me is a premium feature that you pay for. It would only be something you pay for in a sex site. I am now absolutely convinced. Thanks guys!!"
convinced of what? |
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"6 years before.....and 6 years with no sex is enough to drive a person crazy"
This will be difficult for some people to comprehend - but I have also been in there (not for 6 years though ) and it is tough - as other have said good luck and I hope you get yourselves sorted soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Did the sex (with ur hubby) stop b4 u came to Fab ? Or after you joined ?
6 years before.....and 6 years with no sex is enough to drive a person crazy"
Having been in a long term relationship that (after a while) was based more on friendship than sex, I know how destructive they can be to the hearts & minds of those involved.
My ex Mrs knew I liked the cock.
She was on board with it in mind if not in body.
In the end tho, she still fucked me (over) better than any man ever could |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If this was a guy posting the comments would be very different is all i can say  "
I was thinking it, you've said it.
I'm glad the OP has received some useful and helpful advice without being totally flamed (like married guys always are on here). I don't know anything about the OPs domestic situation and the circumstances as to why she's here (I'm sure they are many and complex) but I'm glad she was able to post on here and get a reasonable response from most. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"If this was a guy posting the comments would be very different is all i can say
I was thinking it, you've said it.
I'm glad the OP has received some useful and helpful advice without being totally flamed (like married guys always are on here). I don't know anything about the OPs domestic situation and the circumstances as to why she's here (I'm sure they are many and complex) but I'm glad she was able to post on here and get a reasonable response from most. "
Maybe next time a man gets flamed we can refer people to this thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So your creeping around on here, and you suspect your husband is also creeping around?
Think your best bet is to sit down and talk to him and tell about your suspicions, don't think it's a good idea to try and find him out by looking through his phone or laptop. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell him you've been thinking about swinging and what does he think of it?
I keep telling him i want sex! That seems to shock him enough "
Lifes too short to live like this x one of you has to take control and who knows ... May improve things x |
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