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By *r55 OP Man
over a year ago
southampton |
wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society. i know some grous have a secret handshake - i wonder what ours could be...or maybe a tatoo of some kind or ring or chain...perhaps i could start up a business! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would imagine for me it would save so much time on sites like this I guess.
Plus it's a bit typically british that we're so taboo -- will enjoying sex always be seen as a sin |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
I find identifying swingers easy!
They're ether on here or at the clubs/parties we go to.
The general public are just that - general, and public. If any of them are in fact swingers then I'm sure they wouldn't appreciate a big flashing sign above their head or any other random swinger being able to spot them.
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"I would imagine for me it would save so much time on sites like this I guess.
Plus it's a bit typically british that we're so taboo -- will enjoying sex always be seen as a sin"
it's not that we see it as a sin but we don't want to be choosing cushion covers in Debenhams and have an indiscreet person come up and start asking us about meeting, or waiting outside the ladies for my elderly mother and have her emerge to someone asking "would you fancy full swap?".
It's a case of discretion not shame for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society."
I cant think of anything worse  This is my private and secret life and that's how I want it to stay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society. i know some grous have a secret handshake - i wonder what ours could be...or maybe a tatoo of some kind or ring or chain...perhaps i could start up a business!"
Be sure to let us know what you come up with, so we can avoid it  |
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Or if you don't like the pampas grass idea, how about a swing in the back garden?
(We have a big one that can fit three if anyone's interested, and a monkey-bar bit where a fourth can hang upside down)
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"I would imagine for me it would save so much time on sites like this I guess.
Plus it's a bit typically british that we're so taboo -- will enjoying sex always be seen as a sin
it's not that we see it as a sin but we don't want to be choosing cushion covers in Debenhams and have an indiscreet person come up and start asking us about meeting, or waiting outside the ladies for my elderly mother and have her emerge to someone asking "would you fancy full swap?".
It's a case of discretion not shame for us."
This! 
Amazes me people assume if you're discreet and don't want all and sundry privy to your sex life you're ashamed etc!  |
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"the irony of some bloke with no head proposing being open to all n sundry about this aspect is strangely err well ironic..
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yea but he has to be discreet because of his job, he won't be wearing the identifying symbol that's for the rest of us  |
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"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars 
could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx "
it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous  |
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"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars
could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx
it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous "
hahaha xx |
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"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars
could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx
it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous
hahaha xx "
well the vicar got a massive shock when he parked up in a layby to have a cup of tea out of his thermos |
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"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars
could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx
it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous
hahaha xx "
Sometimes the fish symbol has legs on it. That means the swingers in the car are willing to travel. |
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"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars
could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx
it is....telling people that its for doggers is mischievous
hahaha xx
Sometimes the fish symbol has legs on it. That means the swingers in the car are willing to travel. "
or the fish are from Sellafield..?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't that what pampas grass is for?
Mr ddc"
There are loads of houses near us with pampas grass. Huge big bushes of it. Ooh I wonder if they're all swingers too? |
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"Isn't that what pampas grass is for?
Mr ddc
There are loads of houses near us with pampas grass. Huge big bushes of it. Ooh I wonder if they're all swingers too? "
Definitely.
Blackpool's famous for their swinging hotels where if someone leaves their door ajar, you're meant to jump in, totally naked, doing jazz-hands and go "ta-daa!"
(I think that's right....)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wouldn't it be good if we were able to identify each other as swingers in normal society. i know some grous have a secret handshake - i wonder what ours could be...or maybe a tatoo of some kind or ring or chain...perhaps i could start up a business!"
Maybe a compulsert 5 pointed gold tar on all clothnig! No wait that's been done before to identify a group of people.
I would say though if people wanted to be identify themselves they would have the "I'm a swinger" baseball cap.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who gives a shiney shite if u bump into another swinger in tesco anyway. They're hardly likely to nosh you off in the check out queue are they ?
Or write their profile name on an old shopping list
Grump, grump, grump |
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"Doggers have little silver fish emblems on their cars
could that not be confusing ... I always thought the fish symbol was for Christians ? ... maybe I am wrong xxx tabitha xx "
Oh tabitha you sound so sweet |
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By *r55 OP Man
over a year ago
southampton |
Thanks for the replies...im glad i illicited some very witty responses and got the clear message that nope we dont broadcast for a variety of reasons...im fine with that and look forward to meeting you all in secret or indeed without even knowing i am and vice versa! Have fun
Paul |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the replies...im glad i illicited some very witty responses and got the clear message that nope we dont broadcast for a variety of reasons...im fine with that and look forward to meeting you all in secret or indeed without even knowing i am and vice versa! Have fun
Paul "
Can I ask the reason you haven't got a face picture? Do you not detect the irony in your post? |
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I also can't think of anything worse. 