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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?"
no, they wink back,,,then you msg |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg"
Have to agree with paddy for once  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg"
This is what we do, I don't see the point in writing out long messages if they have no interest in us |
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg"
this....it isn't rocket science.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg"
This is the correct winking etiquette for fab  |
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over a year ago
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg"
This must be some unwritten code that everyone else knows except me. I always just delete them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg
this....it isn't rocket science...."
Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!
So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg
this....it isn't rocket science....
Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!
So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!
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Its only seen as lazy by the up their own arses crew....anyone else appreciates a good wink. |
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg
this....it isn't rocket science....
Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!
So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!
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We aren't meeting singles at the moment but when we do they are treated the same, if they wink us and we interested then we'll send 1 back just like we would with couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg
this....it isn't rocket science....
Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!
So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!
We aren't meeting singles at the moment but when we do they are treated the same, if they wink us and we interested then we'll send 1 back just like we would with couples "
That's good to hear 
There are a lot of profiles on here that say 'winks (and in some cases friend requests etc) will be blocked' though. I guess it all comes down to reading the profile properly first! |
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg
this....it isn't rocket science....
Depends on who does the winking first! If it's a guy then many people WILL see it as lazy and a lot will block you!
So whilst the 'wink, wink, message' scenario seems great in an ideal world, use this approach cautiously to avoid a 'wink, block' outcome!
We aren't meeting singles at the moment but when we do they are treated the same, if they wink us and we interested then we'll send 1 back just like we would with couples
That's good to hear
There are a lot of profiles on here that say 'winks (and in some cases friend requests etc) will be blocked' though. I guess it all comes down to reading the profile properly first! "
That it does
If people don't read profiles then it's there own fault
Everyone uses this site differently and for different things and they have the right to do what they want, if there wishes aren't followed then fair play to them for blocking people, whether it be a single or a couple |
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?"
They are better than cut and paste messages from people I don't think they are lazy just an indication of interest and far less hassle and easier to skip over if that is what you want. |
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
They are better than cut and paste messages from people I don't think they are lazy just an indication of interest and far less hassle and easier to skip over if that is what you want. "
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg"
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"Are they for lazy people who can't make the effort to write a message and expect the person who received the wink to message them first?
no, they wink back,,,then you msg"
I do the first move on this profile and if I get a wink back I'll then message. If not...move on to the next  |
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