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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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It's totally and utterly true. You'll have to turn gay to get ANY meets on fabswingers. Obviously. 
Even a social in a cafe has to be in 'The Pink Cat' gay cafe.... |
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
It's totally and utterly true. You'll have to turn gay to get ANY meets on fabswingers. Obviously.
Even a social in a cafe has to be in 'The Pink Cat' gay cafe...."
Damn!!! 
I'm breaking all the rules today! I've got a meet with a single man and he's not gay and neither am I and it's a mainstream cafe not a gay one!
I'm gonna be in so much trouble, I'm never gonna get off the naughty step.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think? |
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"Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think? "
There are loads, but they're just not meeting at the moment  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think?
There are loads, but they're just not meeting at the moment "
Or they're out of the country!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think?
There are loads, but they're just not meeting at the moment
Or they're out of the country! "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think?
There are loads, but they're just not meeting at the moment
Or they're out of the country! "
True |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think? "
But your profile says you're bi so why is that an issue?
I'd say that having been here a week, your expectations may be unrealistic and to be honest, your profile leaves a lot to be desired... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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Welcome to the forums. Have fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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maybe if your profile read better you may attract more interest. And don't forget about filters at least that way you can limit the amount of unwanted attention you get. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else."
Yeah - but what do you really think?
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"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else."
^ spot on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are desperate guys with an immature _iew of the women on here and unrealistic expectations... Simple delete will sort it. I do think a more comprehensive profile from the female might show she is more serious player and attract a better quality attention. I keep mine private for the majority of the time and I just contact gents myself. I happy that say there are some fantastic, respectful and respectable single makes on here x |
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"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else."
Completely agree  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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your first statement is false, I'm not gay,
my boyfriend is though, |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think?
There are loads, but they're just not meeting at the moment "
As an aside when did the New smilies come out,??? And more importantly why did no one tell me, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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You wont .... Well its very unlikely. Best of luck though |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I'm currently shagging Jonny Depp.
Come and get me ladies! 
I've done that!! At a house party earlier this year!
There are pics and a video to prove it too! 
A
Send me pictures or STFU!!!  "
Fox is still in bed - I'll pass on the request later!
PERVERT!!!!
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Nobody's said it, it's not instantshag.cum.
Mix in the swinging world so people get yo know you. Those who just use the site for it all likely get less positive results. Clubs and socials are your best steps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a lot of banter with single straight men on here.
Respect goes both ways, we're not looking for the quick shag now types. Swinging for us is about helping to fulfil fantasies as I would imagine is the same for others. So if that's your goal you shouldn't have a problem.
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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago
Bedworth |
"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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By being polite and respectful to the ladies on here! We are ladies who will choose to meet if someone takes our fancy. We are not desperate or free prostitutes who will drop our knickers for any guy who turns up, with a few words for a profile, who can't accomodate, and has a cock pic avatar but no other pics.
I think an adjustment to your expectations may serve you well.....also, sort out a decent profile with pics and maybe consider going to a club or organised social to get yourself seen and known on the scene in your local area |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why you saying it like that? if you look at most of people's profiles you will see that most of them want bi men "
^^ I sent your quote to the office of national statistics and the reply i received was.
Dear Sir.
What a load of Bollox
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else."
Agreed! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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There are a number of ways to gain respect. A decent profile and a decent attitude certainly help.
Conversely bitterness, moaning about other people's preferences and a sense of entitlement are all ways yo lose respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After reading the thread about making a polite thanks but no thanks message, I thought I'd try some out instead of just instant deleting like I normally do. Anyway first guy sent pics and a nice enough first message, I said appreciate the pics but you're not my type (even put a smilie on!) he said he'd read my profile blah blah blah and matches everything I want, he didn't he was a very slight build 5'6 tall and I like height on a guy and like them to be in good shape. He then proceeds to slag off all girls on this site saying we are time wasters! Then asked again why I wouldn't sleep with him, I said I like tall well built dominant guys, he messaged back saying he could be dominant and pin me down etc but then the stupidest thing of all, he asks me how do I know what my type is if I don't give him a chance and that I should just meet him once and if I don't like it then I don't have to meet him again! I just blocked him in the end and I'll just carry on deleting messages unless it's someone I'm interested in and not get into any conversations with anyone else!
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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That's where I'm going wrong! I need to start meeting gay men for sex and...oh, wait.... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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see... that is being defeatist before you start..... why you someone want to help if the first thought is negative?
you can get respect... you have to show you are not an arse.....
you can get round the site fairly well... but the onus is on you to stand out and be different..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else."
Absolutely this!!! OP I've been on here a while on and off and always try to be respectful and polite...the single ladies on here do appreciate it and while thus far I'm not necessarily what they may be looking for I've had some great conversations with both couples and singles and I know that someone wants a meet with someone like me that I'll be considered...threads like this seem to alienate people...this isn't a quick hook up site, it's a site for swingers which is a but different, it's a lifestyle choice not just lets all get laid. There are sites out there for that and one of those may be more appropriate for what you want |
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"After reading the thread about making a polite thanks but no thanks message, I thought I'd try some out instead of just instant deleting like I normally do. Anyway first guy sent pics and a nice enough first message, I said appreciate the pics but you're not my type (even put a smilie on!) he said he'd read my profile blah blah blah and matches everything I want, he didn't he was a very slight build 5'6 tall and I like height on a guy and like them to be in good shape. He then proceeds to slag off all girls on this site saying we are time wasters! Then asked again why I wouldn't sleep with him, I said I like tall well built dominant guys, he messaged back saying he could be dominant and pin me down etc but then the stupidest thing of all, he asks me how do I know what my type is if I don't give him a chance and that I should just meet him once and if I don't like it then I don't have to meet him again! I just blocked him in the end and I'll just carry on deleting messages unless it's someone I'm interested in and not get into any conversations with anyone else!
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This made me smile, oh the irony!! Armed with a new warm attitude to the singletons you ran headlong into a moron... There's an old saying that I use in times like this, 'never argue with an idiot as people may not be able to tell you apart.' Kudos for your attempt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hahhaah true looks like they all want you to be bisexual yo have a meet. Where have all the single women that want men gone?
There are to many fake profiles and not enough women don't you think? "
You should have no trouble meeting people then, as your profile says you are a bi porn star |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
It's totally and utterly true. You'll have to turn gay to get ANY meets on fabswingers. Obviously.
Even a social in a cafe has to be in 'The Pink Cat' gay cafe...."
and I have to film all meets to verify they happened |
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"I'm currently shagging Jonny Depp.
Come and get me ladies!
I've done that!! At a house party earlier this year!
There are pics and a video to prove it too!
A
Send me pictures or STFU!!!
Fox is still in bed - I'll pass on the request later!
PERVERT!!!!
A"
I resmble that remark! |
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"After reading the thread about making a polite thanks but no thanks message, I thought I'd try some out instead of just instant deleting like I normally do. Anyway first guy sent pics and a nice enough first message, I said appreciate the pics but you're not my type (even put a smilie on!) he said he'd read my profile blah blah blah and matches everything I want, he didn't he was a very slight build 5'6 tall and I like height on a guy and like them to be in good shape. He then proceeds to slag off all girls on this site saying we are time wasters! Then asked again why I wouldn't sleep with him, I said I like tall well built dominant guys, he messaged back saying he could be dominant and pin me down etc but then the stupidest thing of all, he asks me how do I know what my type is if I don't give him a chance and that I should just meet him once and if I don't like it then I don't have to meet him again! I just blocked him in the end and I'll just carry on deleting messages unless it's someone I'm interested in and not get into any conversations with anyone else!
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Out of interest for the last day I've been sending a nice 'thanks but no thanks' (not the actual words) type message back to people who have messaged me that I'm not interested in, normally I'd just delete. I have had so many passive aggressive, pathetic or downright abusive replies, my block list has increased by about 200% overnight.
So, guys who complain that you would rather have a reply, even if it's a no thanks, than just be deleted - THIS is why I won't be sending them anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are respectful people will respect you.
Some people are very rude. Ignore them.
Negativity breeds negativity......"
I treat all guys who message me with respect - always reply - they get a rough deal sometimes - I normally steer them towards forums to get some knowledge on how to increase their chances of positive results !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why you saying it like that? if you look at most of people's profiles you will see that most of them want bi men "
Apart from the ones that say no bi men... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why you saying it like that? if you look at most of people's profiles you will see that most of them want bi men
Apart from the ones that say no bi men..."
Which is a vast majority, being single, male and bi-curious myself I should ring a bell every time I post on forums or send a message... Although that might be slightly confusing to just post 'bong' |
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Out of interest for the last day I've been sending a nice 'thanks but no thanks' (not the actual words) type message back to people who have messaged me that I'm not interested in, normally I'd just delete. I have had so many passive aggressive, pathetic or downright abusive replies, my block list has increased by about 200% overnight.
So, guys who complain that you would rather have a reply, even if it's a no thanks, than just be deleted - THIS is why I won't be sending them anymore. "
Yes 100% agree! I had more abuse after sending a thanks but no thanks message. Had people saying that I must be a fake profile then or my favourite one is "you wouldn't be able to handle my dick anyway"
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"I love single men but don't have the time to keep all of them happy on here,nor do I want a shredded worn out fanny trying too "
Little but often
How very prudent of you
Nice peach by the way |
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"After reading the thread about making a polite thanks but no thanks message, I thought I'd try some out instead of just instant deleting like I normally do. Anyway first guy sent pics and a nice enough first message, I said appreciate the pics but you're not my type (even put a smilie on!) he said he'd read my profile blah blah blah and matches everything I want, he didn't he was a very slight build 5'6 tall and I like height on a guy and like them to be in good shape. He then proceeds to slag off all girls on this site saying we are time wasters! Then asked again why I wouldn't sleep with him, I said I like tall well built dominant guys, he messaged back saying he could be dominant and pin me down etc but then the stupidest thing of all, he asks me how do I know what my type is if I don't give him a chance and that I should just meet him once and if I don't like it then I don't have to meet him again! I just blocked him in the end and I'll just carry on deleting messages unless it's someone I'm interested in and not get into any conversations with anyone else!
Out of interest for the last day I've been sending a nice 'thanks but no thanks' (not the actual words) type message back to people who have messaged me that I'm not interested in, normally I'd just delete. I have had so many passive aggressive, pathetic or downright abusive replies, my block list has increased by about 200% overnight.
So, guys who complain that you would rather have a reply, even if it's a no thanks, than just be deleted - THIS is why I won't be sending them anymore. "
There is a massive difference in how men treat single ladies than couples then because I sometimes go through every message and reply and all I ever get back are really nice responses,oh I don't reply to messages that are ridiculously stupid though |
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"I love single men but don't have the time to keep all of them happy on here,nor do I want a shredded worn out fanny trying too
Little but often
How very prudent of you
Nice peach by the way"
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love single men but don't have the time to keep all of them happy on here,nor do I want a shredded worn out fanny trying too
Little but often
How very prudent of you
Nice peach by the way
Thank you "
Oh your most welcome. Good luck with that tingling by the way. I guess having something in ones eyes and constant winking just don't seem to be working lol haha |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Out of interest for the last day I've been sending a nice 'thanks but no thanks' (not the actual words) type message back to people who have messaged me that I'm not interested in, normally I'd just delete. I have had so many passive aggressive, pathetic or downright abusive replies, my block list has increased by about 200% overnight.
So, guys who complain that you would rather have a reply, even if it's a no thanks, than just be deleted - THIS is why I won't be sending them anymore.
Yes 100% agree! I had more abuse after sending a thanks but no thanks message. Had people saying that I must be a fake profile then or my favourite one is "you wouldn't be able to handle my dick anyway"
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Appropriate response: Well, since I won't be handling your dick, you'll never know.
No, I lie. Appropriate response: block and forget.
I never can fathom how those who can't cope with being politely declined expected to be able to manage on a site like this. Surely they realised not everyone would say yes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After reading the thread about making a polite thanks but no thanks message, I thought I'd try some out instead of just instant deleting like I normally do. Anyway first guy sent pics and a nice enough first message, I said appreciate the pics but you're not my type (even put a smilie on!) he said he'd read my profile blah blah blah and matches everything I want, he didn't he was a very slight build 5'6 tall and I like height on a guy and like them to be in good shape. He then proceeds to slag off all girls on this site saying we are time wasters! Then asked again why I wouldn't sleep with him, I said I like tall well built dominant guys, he messaged back saying he could be dominant and pin me down etc but then the stupidest thing of all, he asks me how do I know what my type is if I don't give him a chance and that I should just meet him once and if I don't like it then I don't have to meet him again! I just blocked him in the end and I'll just carry on deleting messages unless it's someone I'm interested in and not get into any conversations with anyone else!
Out of interest for the last day I've been sending a nice 'thanks but no thanks' (not the actual words) type message back to people who have messaged me that I'm not interested in, normally I'd just delete. I have had so many passive aggressive, pathetic or downright abusive replies, my block list has increased by about 200% overnight.
So, guys who complain that you would rather have a reply, even if it's a no thanks, than just be deleted - THIS is why I won't be sending them anymore.
There is a massive difference in how men treat single ladies than couples then because I sometimes go through every message and reply and all I ever get back are really nice responses,oh I don't reply to messages that are ridiculously stupid though "
Maybe you just get nicer people messaging you. I got a lot less abuse from deleting  |
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it may seem like that but im sure its not true ..unfortunately theres so many single men on here and most of those cant be bothered to read profiles or construct a decent first letter.the cut n past ones are always obvious ..i think its just a question of making a big effort to stand out on a site like this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true? "
No.
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How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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patience and being genuine.
Key word there in your own question is
" earn "
You cannot demand respect.
Try being the pariah of the site. I still get meets...
Patience and all the other good advice strewn across this and every other forum will help. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After reading the thread about making a polite thanks but no thanks message, I thought I'd try some out instead of just instant deleting like I normally do. Anyway first guy sent pics and a nice enough first message, I said appreciate the pics but you're not my type (even put a smilie on!) he said he'd read my profile blah blah blah and matches everything I want, he didn't he was a very slight build 5'6 tall and I like height on a guy and like them to be in good shape. He then proceeds to slag off all girls on this site saying we are time wasters! Then asked again why I wouldn't sleep with him, I said I like tall well built dominant guys, he messaged back saying he could be dominant and pin me down etc but then the stupidest thing of all, he asks me how do I know what my type is if I don't give him a chance and that I should just meet him once and if I don't like it then I don't have to meet him again! I just blocked him in the end and I'll just carry on deleting messages unless it's someone I'm interested in and not get into any conversations with anyone else!
Out of interest for the last day I've been sending a nice 'thanks but no thanks' (not the actual words) type message back to people who have messaged me that I'm not interested in, normally I'd just delete. I have had so many passive aggressive, pathetic or downright abusive replies, my block list has increased by about 200% overnight.
So, guys who complain that you would rather have a reply, even if it's a no thanks, than just be deleted - THIS is why I won't be sending them anymore. "
If I were a woman I wouldn't be arsed replying whatsoever if inboxers were unsuitable.
Sounds harsh to some, but receiving 4-500 messages a day it would be like a part time job, except getting paid fuck all for the privilege.
Plus chaps have a lot thicker skin than ladies usually. If someone didn't reply to me I wouldn't give a monkeys, I'd just find someone else who did.
A man who didn't get these two salient facts would therefore be effeminate and/or not capable of basic arithmatic so therefore thick as pigshit too.
Which is hardly the most fancied demograph on here.
And therefore most who start the "Woe is me" threads are painting themselves to be a cross between Trigger off Only Fools and Graham Norton.
You'll be beating the blivvet off with a shitty stick after that lads. |
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"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else.
^ spot on "
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"Is respect not something we all have to earn? It's not something you can ask for
Please?
What is hard to understand about that?
Pretty please? "
nope even with a please you still can't ask for it |
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"Is respect not something we all have to earn? It's not something you can ask for
Please?
What is hard to understand about that?
Pretty please?
nope even with a please you still can't ask for it "
I couldn't tempt you to a cherry could I?
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"Is respect not something we all have to earn? It's not something you can ask for
Please?
What is hard to understand about that?
Pretty please?
nope even with a please you still can't ask for it
I couldn't tempt you to a cherry could I?
NB: Not my cherry "
make it your cherry and you have my full respect |
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"Generally I find those men that treat this site as a sex site; bombard any woman, especially new women, with one line cock pic filed messages, have an inflated expectation of what the site can offer them, treat all women as desparate and gagging for it (very rarely the case), and are generally disrespectful in their approach and whole attitude are the guys who are not successful on here. There are many wonderful single guys on here who get it right. These are the ones who are respectful in vanilla life and on here they are no different. Be respectful to be respected. It has to be earned on here, even more so than anywhere else."
And lets not forget the single men who think that the majority of couples are on here cos they're bored with their sex life or the woman needs banged by someone else cos her other half is crap! Some of us are actually on here to have FUN! It isn't out of desperation or boredom! Rant over... |
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I think this can be true but not all the time, some women /couples do look down on single guys but by no means all
I have met some really great people and some not so nice, everyone is different
I find to get "respect" on here just be yourself, be respectful and most of the time you'll get it back and if you don't who cares lol |
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Relax, take it easy.
Imagine your front door letter box.
Imagine 100s of letters popping into your inbox everyday. Overwhelming?
What should the ladies do to through the chaff?
Of course it isn't going to be fair or nice, though sometimes dressed up as such e.g. "make that message outstanding" - at the end of the day, looking like George Clooney probably helps.
...thats probably why I don't get many replies, but then again, statistically speaking, if you have a quieter inbox and haven't sleep with all of fab, someone might find statistically lower chances of venereal disease (though not necessarily...) |
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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Getting meets has nothing at all to do with respect. It's much more to do with preferences and attraction. I don't see where respect comes into this at all. Messages are not ignored because of a lack of respect, but because there are so many of them. I never take an ignored message personally or see it as a mark of disrespect. |
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
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. Single guys get lots of respect on this site . You need an interesting profile , good pictures , and only mmake contact with members if you match their criteria . Respect is earned , it is not a right . |
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
. Single guys get lots of respect on this site . You need an interesting profile , good pictures , and only mmake contact with members if you match their criteria . Respect is earned , it is not a right ."
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"As it seems if your a single guy on this site you get no respect unless gay is that true?
How does a single guy earn respect and get meets?
Getting meets has nothing at all to do with respect. It's much more to do with preferences and attraction. I don't see where respect comes into this at all. Messages are not ignored because of a lack of respect, but because there are so many of them. I never take an ignored message personally or see it as a mark of disrespect."
If Brad Pitt was on here and messaged me 'fancy a fuck?' I'd say ..........oh go on then. Ive got a spare half hour. Unfortunately he's not! Seriously the best looking fella on here could send me a fancy a fuck and I'd see it as disrespectful. So no matter what the attraction or preferences are he'd have no chance.
Brad - if Angelina's free send her instead hunny. |
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"yup the bi's get it all, I just change from straight to bi to gay depending on what is between the legs of the victim.....
oops, I mean meet. I am baw deep everyday"
I have just returneth from a long adventure to be met by this little gem lol. What else will I find I wonder! Has anyone kicked off or lost it  |
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"yup the bi's get it all, I just change from straight to bi to gay depending on what is between the legs of the victim.....
oops, I mean meet. I am baw deep everyday"
I agree, we jump anything with a hole.... including polo mints |
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Hey OP? I've been watching some cuckold cream pie eating porn, and as you said you did porn, I was wondering if you were one of the 'cucks' who lap up the guys cum after he's barebacked the womans arse? |
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