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create the perfect 'thanks, but no thanks' rejection message
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Sometimes copy and paste has its uses. Team effort to write the perfect rejection message.
Whilst delete and block will surely remain popular, and a polite silence is more socially acceptable than You've left me feeling sick' or 'feck off', let's get something with heart for those who would benefit and appreciate some human contact, even if it's not in the flesh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you for your interest, however on perusing your multitude of penis pictures I fear that as none of them show it next to a can of Lynx, as is traditional, I feel I must politely decline your charming offer of 'a good hard arse fucking' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went through a phase of 'I'm sorry, I don't think I'm what you're looking for' but kept getting replies assuring me that I was.... Sometimes I wish they'd take the hint. I go with silence, and block if they're persistent or horrid. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes copy and paste has its uses. Team effort to write the perfect rejection message.
Whilst delete and block will surely remain popular, and a polite silence is more socially acceptable than You've left me feeling sick' or 'feck off', let's get something with heart for those who would benefit and appreciate some human contact, even if it's not in the flesh."
Another time maybe. Will be in touch. Happy swinging  xx
Sarah x |
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You look lovely in your pics but too lovely really. You are so my type that I am in danger of falling for you and I am not ready for that.
Can I get back to you in a few months when I will be ready for a 24/7 friendship ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got one recently - 'no thanks, I'm just not interested'. Only it was from someone i'd never fabbed or messaged. I wonder if that's a new single guys way to get you chatting? |
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Thank you for your message, but you are a tad too late. Yesterday, I had such a bad meet, I decided to become a monk/nun and have taken a vow of celibacy.
Thanks for the interest.
PS, I have blocked you as well on the grounds that sex whilst not married is a sin and therefore you're a heretic.
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Feel free to copy and paste that.... or just a "my god, you're ugly" could work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi,
Thanks for your lovely message of "I'd love to fuck you" but I'm afraid the feeling isn't mutual....I prefer one I'd actually be able to feel.
Happy Hunting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank you for your message.
The fact that you think I'd be desperate enough to even consider meeting you puts you immediately on my block list.
Have a great day ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know how to be polite but it really is just time consuming to reply to the people you aren't interested in. I wish I could add a polite thanks but no thanks message that would be automatically be sent when I press delete. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thankyou for your message, and the pics were appreciated, but I am not interested.
All the best, feir.
Ps you are blocked, don't bother trying to reply. I really am not interested and am just being polite.
Shame you can't message me coz it must have been exciting to get a reply and I would love to know if I made you feel deflated when I rejected you or if you felt like it would be appropriate to message me again in the hope I would change my mind, or possibly abide me for rejecting you. But now I'll never know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The perfect thanks but no thanks message has nothing at all to do with the wording unless you're being insulting and more to do with attitude of the person receiving the message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I perfer to be told no thanks its just nicer you know where you are but if people keep been dicks about it can see why people dont normally take the delete and no reply as a no
The block thing get to me though when done nothing wrong but its there world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You look lovely in your pics but too lovely really. You are so my type that I am in danger of falling for you and I am not ready for that.
Can I get back to you in a few months when I will be ready for a 24/7 friendship ?
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Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll meet you but only if you marry me.
Well you would not get that reply.
Yours would be a little more enticing.....well I hope so anyway  "
Ahahaha, likely but either way would probably be yes followed by a block or a very long, nononononono...nonono...no...Hell no!!! Blocked.  |
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"I know how to be polite but it really is just time consuming to reply to the people you aren't interested in. I wish I could add a polite thanks but no thanks message that would be automatically be sent when I press delete."
I do think an optional message like that would be great to have. |
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Thanks, but no thanks.
For further information, please call the Dear Sophie line, charged at the rate of $2 trillions per minute. Press 1, if desperate, 2, if a little stupid. 3, for a ranty outburst, 4, for a clear fuck off or 5 to record your own thoughts, whilst tinkering with that thing you tried to describe as a penis.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is with the utmost regret that I have to refuse your advances  I really have went to great effort to find you aesthetically pleasing and I've also attempted to overlook your clear hygiene issues, alas it seems I can't turn it around but happy fabbing!
Ps: shave your bush? |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Although I'm sure your cock is lovely and would in fact 'ruin me' (ah, the lyrival eloquence approaching the levels of a Yeats poem) I'm in a playing with ladies mood at the moment (hence why I state I am not looking for guys in text on my profile and in my 'looking for' section). Feel free to block me to avoid mistakenly messaging me again. Happy swinging! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the swinging world, No means No!
Simple No from us!
Rejections are sometimes hard, but that's life..only ever blocked one profile! As we happy to chat even if they no they are not for us. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
'Whilst you may not have recognised me with all this make up on, I actually know you. Give mum all my love and I'll see you both on Sunday for dinner, but no roast wanted, sorry.'
I think this one may actually solve the problem of people sending a second message trying to trump your decline. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks, but no thanks.
For further information, please call the Dear Sophie line, charged at the rate of $2 trillions per minute. Press 1, if desperate, 2, if a little stupid. 3, for a ranty outburst, 4, for a clear fuck off or 5 to record your own thoughts, whilst tinkering with that thing you tried to describe as a penis.
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lmao |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"No, I couldn't bear to meet you and then face having to leave you. My feelings run so deep I might fall for you for ever if we were to kiss.
I love you, goodbye, it's for the best xxx"
I confirm this is true as he sent it to me.
My favourite thanks but no thanks is, "it's not you, it's me".
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Thanks for sending me your erotic thoughts. As I'm in prison I am only able to offer social meets, and the chemical treatments they're forcing on me mean that I'm never going to have sexual needs again. The Home Office will visit your home to ensure that it is appropriate for my release. I repeat I am only needing a social event at this point in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're far too good looking. I'm sorry but I have to decline as I can't trust my emotions right now. I may fall in love with you and that's going to be a nightmare seeing that you're married 'n all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're far too good looking. I'm sorry but I have to decline as I can't trust my emotions right now. I may fall in love with you and that's going to be a nightmare seeing that you're married 'n all."
but I've just killed her to be with you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll meet you but only if you marry me."
Ha ha! I'm going try that on someone, except the guy who seems to be a bit persistent at the moment as he might say ok and then I'll be buggered! Lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll meet you but only if you marry me.
Ha ha! I'm going try that on someone, except the guy who seems to be a bit persistent at the moment as he might say ok and then I'll be buggered! Lol "
say you've anal warts and you wont be buggered  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll meet you but only if you marry me.
Ha ha! I'm going try that on someone, except the guy who seems to be a bit persistent at the moment as he might say ok and then I'll be buggered! Lol
say you've anal warts and you wont be buggered "
Ewwwww gross  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I did once, as a joke, tell a guy he had the face of a serial killer.
It did work though x
Who did he kill? "
Just had one of those faces from American serial killer documentaries. Or the one catherine tate married.
Don't think he was actually one lol x  |
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By *andS66Couple
over a year ago
Derby |
Hi,
Thanks for the message. Just to let you know though, 'we' is actually 'me', as I'm a single male pretending to be a couple. Also, I know there are only pics of the what you now know to be non-existent female half of us (copied and pasted from another couples profile on here... pretty cool, eh!), but I can't send a pic of me because of the position I'm in. Anyway, I get out on licence in a month, (it's only been 15 years), so if you're ok with that, hey, let's get it on!
PS... could you pick me up outside the gates? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"OK, I'll meet you but only if you marry me.
Ha ha! I'm going try that on someone, except the guy who seems to be a bit persistent at the moment as he might say ok and then I'll be buggered! Lol
say you've anal warts and you wont be buggered
Ewwwww gross "
lmao and gross |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"'Thank you for the message. I am sorry but you are not what I am looking for. Happy swinging'
That's what I use"
Me too and I get a nice thanks back 99% of the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be responding to the wrong kind of guys... I learnt a while ago that no matter how polite I was at do the 'thanks, but no thanks reply" I was setting myself up for a whole load of abuse.
Apparantly they really really wanted to shag the fat cow who should be lucky to be paid any attention! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be responding to the wrong kind of guys... I learnt a while ago that no matter how polite I was at do the 'thanks, but no thanks reply" I was setting myself up for a whole load of abuse.
Apparantly they really really wanted to shag the fat cow who should be lucky to be paid any attention! "
Yeah I've gone back to deleting after a brief experiment with nice replies, because I was getting a load of abuse back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have tried all of the usual responses
Still doesn't deter them!!
The block button is great, but should we have to just close the door on these characters, as they just knock on the next door over and over again to annoy other members
Perhaps a great deterrent and Also turns a possibly negative situation into a positive one for the respondent is rehabilitation, don't bow down to their level, take the upper hand and discuss it seriously in an adult way. Don't rise to it, I assure you it works for us.
Feels better when they block us, or just disappear with nothing left to say. Perhaps it might just stop them the next time they think of harassing someone again
Try it it feels good!
Happy fabbing
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have tried all of the usual responses
Still doesn't deter them!!
The block button is great, but should we have to just close the door on these characters, as they just knock on the next door over and over again to annoy other members
Perhaps a great deterrent and Also turns a possibly negative situation into a positive one for the respondent is rehabilitation, don't bow down to their level, take the upper hand and discuss it seriously in an adult way. Don't rise to it, I assure you it works for us.
Feels better when they block us, or just disappear with nothing left to say. Perhaps it might just stop them the next time they think of harassing someone again
Try it it feels good!
Happy fabbing
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And also it is fun to have the last word |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I must be responding to the wrong kind of guys... I learnt a while ago that no matter how polite I was at do the 'thanks, but no thanks reply" I was setting myself up for a whole load of abuse.
Apparantly they really really wanted to shag the fat cow who should be lucky to be paid any attention! "
that's terrible i can honestly say wev never sent an abusive reply,and wev had some strange request,but still, a bit of manners dont cost a thing and a simple no thanks but thanks for the offer don't take long,if they send abuse back report it job done oh and block  |
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