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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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does anyone on here have a sense of humour, sent a few messages not to chat anyone up or anything just to engage in conversation, messages deleted no reply, doesn't seem to be many people up for a chat or a laugh :-/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"does anyone on here have a sense of humour, sent a few messages not to chat anyone up or anything just to engage in conversation, messages deleted no reply, doesn't seem to be many people up for a chat or a laugh :-/"
You missed some comedy gold on a thread earlier. This best laughs seem to be had in here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe your sense of humour doesn't match theirs? Sometimes it's all hit and miss.
I know that many don't share my sense of humour. And it's rare to find those that 'click' and can respond to our banter as such. If they do..she's a hotlister.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the way to go is here on the forums, I think people save messages for arranging meets or for friends they already know, could be wrong but the social side seems to be in here more...
Don't know if any of the longer members can confirm that or if I'm just talking shite lol, just the way I feel.
Hope that helps? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the way to go is here on the forums, I think people save messages for arranging meets or for friends they already know, could be wrong but the social side seems to be in here more...
Don't know if any of the longer members can confirm that or if I'm just talking shite lol, just the way I feel.
Hope that helps?"
rarely had meets from the forums, unless its clubpartysocials...
a lot of my meets cant be arsed with forums(its a very low usage of the site) or chatrooms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the way to go is here on the forums, I think people save messages for arranging meets or for friends they already know, could be wrong but the social side seems to be in here more...
Don't know if any of the longer members can confirm that or if I'm just talking shite lol, just the way I feel.
Hope that helps?
rarely had meets from the forums, unless its clubpartysocials...
a lot of my meets cant be arsed with forums(its a very low usage of the site) or chatrooms"
I wasn't talking about meets...OP was asking about general conversation, not chatting people up,just for a banter |
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People often assume the same disinterest from mail looking for sexual stuff too. I just think op is drawing the wrong conclusion. Users want sex and the lighter side. No reply means not with him or not here, right now. Take the responsibility to find the right matches in the right contexts. Keep at it. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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If you just want chatter with people then the forum is as good as any other way.
If what you really mean is that you want your sense of humour to get people into bed through that first killer message then keep trying. If they don't reply they are not interested.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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Some people aren't looking for friends or chat with people they aren't interested in meeting.
I'd rather spend my time chatting to people I want to meet, looking for people I want to meet and on the fora.
One-to-one chat with someone I don't want to meet, unless they are interesting somehow, is a waste of my time. |
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"does anyone on here have a sense of humour, sent a few messages not to chat anyone up or anything just to engage in conversation, messages deleted no reply, doesn't seem to be many people up for a chat or a laugh :-/"
Can you tell us what jokes you were telling? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the way to go is here on the forums, I think people save messages for arranging meets or for friends they already know, could be wrong but the social side seems to be in here more...
Don't know if any of the longer members can confirm that or if I'm just talking shite lol, just the way I feel.
Hope that helps?"
I am much more likely to talk to a guy on the forum. I think it's because on the forums everyone can see what he had said, so he's probably going to be more genuine and not so much of a creepy dickhead. |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
I chat to people via other means.
However, simply because I do not want to 'have a laugh' with random males I do not know and have no wish to meet, does not mean I have no sense of humour. That assertion is reductio ad absurdum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the way to go is here on the forums, I think people save messages for arranging meets or for friends they already know, could be wrong but the social side seems to be in here more...
Don't know if any of the longer members can confirm that or if I'm just talking shite lol, just the way I feel.
Hope that helps?
I am much more likely to talk to a guy on the forum. I think it's because on the forums everyone can see what he had said, so he's probably going to be more genuine and not so much of a creepy dickhead."
No creepy dickheads.... which forums do you use? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the way to go is here on the forums, I think people save messages for arranging meets or for friends they already know, could be wrong but the social side seems to be in here more...
Don't know if any of the longer members can confirm that or if I'm just talking shite lol, just the way I feel.
Hope that helps?
I am much more likely to talk to a guy on the forum. I think it's because on the forums everyone can see what he had said, so he's probably going to be more genuine and not so much of a creepy dickhead.
No creepy dickheads.... which forums do you use?"
Haha. Point taken
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I don't have s sense of humour at all.
This becomes quite awkward when I start talking about my time-machine or my mate Nigel (he's a four-armed lizardman) at meets. A lot of ladies grab their underwear and run off at that point for some reason... |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Humour is fine in messages, but I'd imagine a few people would be worried that a joke is merely a prelude to asking for a meet and didn't wish to enter into a chain of correspondence.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humour is fine in messages, but I'd imagine a few people would be worried that a joke is merely a prelude to asking for a meet and didn't wish to enter into a chain of correspondence. "
Tina as always very wise words
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Humour is fine in messages, but I'd imagine a few people would be worried that a joke is merely a prelude to asking for a meet and didn't wish to enter into a chain of correspondence. "
^this
I fairly often reply that I'm not interested in meeting to "how are you?" messages. Rarely does anyone say they weren't messaging about a meet, and those that do are often not very convincing. Mostly they reply with thanks or ask why, confirming my suspicions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humour is fine in messages, but I'd imagine a few people would be worried that a joke is merely a prelude to asking for a meet and didn't wish to enter into a chain of correspondence. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you wish to chat the forums are your best bet. On the other hand if you want to get meets the clubs or possibly dogging venues are the places to go.
The site has its uses but unless you have an inordinate amount of time to spare to filter potential meets, it is highly unlikely that you will have much success.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Humour is fine in messages, but I'd imagine a few people would be worried that a joke is merely a prelude to asking for a meet and didn't wish to enter into a chain of correspondence. "
now translate that to council estate language for me please chuck xx |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
"Humour is fine in messages, but I'd imagine a few people would be worried that a joke is merely a prelude to asking for a meet and didn't wish to enter into a chain of correspondence. now translate that to council estate language for me please chuck xx"
lol the humour is merely building up to a try on. |
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