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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I feel I am somewhat lacking - I have never fallen in love, so am not interested in being with someone who expects that of me. I don't think I can. Even when I got married, we re-wrote our vows so I didn't have to say love - he accepted that at the time... although he did say when he left (after cheating for nearly 2 years) that he needed to be loved.
Therefore NSA doesn't come with the expectation of something to fail at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think it suits myself and where I am in life at the moment. My career is taking off and working long hours, quite dangerous, it just isn't something I'd want to put someone through and have them constantly worry.
In a few years time I'll settle down.....
Maybe!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curious to see other people's reasons but for me it's a combination of a few things. I've been single for a while and am used to my own space, I'm very independent (which scares most guys off) and it's just easier/less complicated than keep attempting to date... Plus I'm enjoying myself! I'm not completely closed to being with someone, but I don't think it would work if I then had to stick to just one sexual partner and, although I've not actively looked, I can't imagine it'd be easy to find someone who is willing to share in the 'real world', and prob just as difficult looking for someone who wants ties on here. Maybe one day I'll stumble on the mystical 'one' but until then I'm having fun on here and happy on my own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because of my bodybuilding.. I don't got time for anyone else as my diet and training takes up all my day and time, so just nsa meets would suit me best couple of times a week  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
It would be interesting to ask the people on here what they would consider a 'proper' relationship.
I have had one long relationship but even then I couldn't remain faithful. I enjoy variety far too much, and get bored very easily. I am also very highly sexed and always seem to pick men who aren't, or if they are they turn out to be complete wankers. I am not happy when trying monogamy and not happy being told what to do. So I choose to forgo a certain amount of intimacy to have free reign over my own life, and it seems to have gone OK so far.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Single, working a random shift pattern with a teenage young adult and family commitments. Nsa is all I can commit to, and to be honest I'm too cynical about love.
But I do like sex and it's better with some familiarity and respect. |
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I am that pariah of Fab - married and cheating !!!
OMG !! But guess what some people don't mind and just want to meet and have sex to put some fire back in their belly !!!
And also guess what ?? This is a sex dating site. Not everyone - by a long chalk on this site is in a long term swinging relationship.
Should not be a surprise that a lot of people are looking for NSA sex.
PM me and tell me I am wrong ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it chose me. Haha
It was either make the most of my seemingly 'default' single status (whilst indulging in some of my adventurous/naughty quirks) or not a great deal else. (Luckily) I'm having a good time on here and great time off here as well. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am that pariah of Fab - married and cheating !!!
OMG !! But guess what some people don't mind and just want to meet and have sex to put some fire back in their belly !!!
And also guess what ?? This is a sex dating site. Not everyone - by a long chalk on this site is in a long term swinging relationship.
Should not be a surprise that a lot of people are looking for NSA sex.
PM me and tell me I am wrong ??? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent met many that want kids, regardless of their age,or if they have or havent kids.
I'm hitting 40 soon..it'd be nice to have the option of having them,rather than an outright no future kids.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I havent met many that want kids, regardless of their age,or if they have or havent kids.
I'm hitting 40 soon..it'd be nice to have the option of having them,rather than an outright no future kids.
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Paddy... meet Cheeky.
Cheeky... meet Paddy.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I met someone once and because after a while I asked them to wear a different face mask every time we had sex as I bore easily, they dumped me.
I like variety
they were so fickle. |
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I fell out of love after a 12 yr relationship. I am fully convinced that love is transient and, as the pain of my last split was almost unbearable, I have decided not to get that involved again.
Started on dating sites but hurting others was an issue. You can tell ladies you are not exclusively with them but it doesn't stop them from becoming attached.
So here I am, muddling along and trying not to break my or anyone's heart again. Simples |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Question for the singles (for obvious reasons).
Why do you choose NSA instead of having a 'proper' relationship?"
Had 'proper' relationships and been married. I have discovered that I am infinitely happier single. However, I also like sex and have no intention of living like a nun. I have no hang ups about NSA and never confuse it with 'feelings'. It's a shag.
I am lucky to have good friends, including an fb, and family who give me support as and when. But, ultimately, I like being alone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent met many that want kids, regardless of their age,or if they have or havent kids.
I'm hitting 40 soon..it'd be nice to have the option of having them,rather than an outright no future kids.
Paddy... meet Cheeky.
Cheeky... meet Paddy.
x x"
I think our kids would be ugly
from their mothers side of course |
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When my marraige broke up I discovered Fab and used it to meet lovely ladies to 'catch up' as it where. It restored my confidence greatly and I had a lot of fun.
Since then I've been in two relationships both lasting around 18 months where I have hidden my profile and left the site.
Relationships are my natural state. I'm essentially monogamous ... but they don't seem to work and the baggage that comes with meeting people your own age range always gets in the way.
NSA is the only way forward really. I'd rather be honest about what I want on a site like Fab than try and get sex from dating or nightclubs, it seems more 'ethical' somehow.
I prefer regular meets and would love to find a regular FWB though - maybe even a 'relationship-lite' with thd right lady. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I have been single for years now. I would love to meet the one but realistically knowing the person I am it's unlikely to happen.
I am not a good prospect to any man financially now
That realistically isn't going to change. I still have young kids so I end up being reminded that I have little free time. I have an unreliable ex husband.
I refuse to have bad sex anymore. I want someone to adore me. Being confident and assertive scares guys off.
It's not what I want but I just carry on having fun on here x |
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I'm fucking useless at relationships.
I like my own space. I like being in my own company. I like to sleep on my own. I like doing a lot of stuff alone. I have a heap of friends who fit into my life and me theirs. I can have sex if I want to. I can have intimacy if I choose to. I have all the good parts of life and not so much of the shite. I don't want to do someone else's laundry or live with their bad habits. I have enough trouble living with my own. 
I'd never say never and I'm not at all bitter, but after the last total fucking disaster, it's gonna have to be someone pretty spectacular to make me want to even consider it. |
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By *exine xCouple
over a year ago
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"Personally I think it suits myself and where I am in life at the moment. My career is taking off and working long hours, quite dangerous, it just isn't something I'd want to put someone through and have them constantly worry.
In a few years time I'll settle down.....
Maybe! "
How considerate
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have kids, so its not just me in the relationship. Also had my heart broken too many times to believe in 'love'.
I like going to bed at 8pm if I feel like it, and not have to sit up watching crap on telly.
Cant go without sex tho!!! |
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i can never be controlled abused or bullied again ,cant stand being told what to wear or do ,the mental scars from the abuse will prob stay with me forever ,and the sexual abuse is hard to deal with too ,i hate being alone my family have nearly all gone now ,but cant be with a man just for the sake of it ,put up with too much for too long to do it again and then cant put up with other stuff either so i must plod along  |
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"I'm fucking useless at relationships.
I like my own space. I like being in my own company. I like to sleep on my own. I like doing a lot of stuff alone. I have a heap of friends who fit into my life and me theirs. I can have sex if I want to. I can have intimacy if I choose to. I have all the good parts of life and not so much of the shite. I don't want to do someone else's laundry or live with their bad habits. I have enough trouble living with my own.
I'd never say never and I'm not at all bitter, but after the last total fucking disaster, it's gonna have to be someone pretty spectacular to make me want to even consider it. "
agree with ya there gal  |
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"I havent met many that want kids, regardless of their age,or if they have or havent kids.
I'm hitting 40 soon..it'd be nice to have the option of having them,rather than an outright no future kids.
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I'll have your babies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havent met many that want kids, regardless of their age,or if they have or havent kids.
I'm hitting 40 soon..it'd be nice to have the option of having them,rather than an outright no future kids.
I'll have your babies "
I want it via a real shag though! |
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I don't like NSA sex hence why I don't meet often...I'm in a weird place in life at the moment...I think it's because I'm turning 35 in Jan and I think when I turn that and am still single, I'll always be single and that my fertility will of fallen of the face of the cliff in January...I know it's sad and I'm being pathetic it's just how I feel |
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"I havent met many that want kids, regardless of their age,or if they have or havent kids.
I'm hitting 40 soon..it'd be nice to have the option of having them,rather than an outright no future kids.
I'll have your babies
I want it via a real shag though! "
Ok paddy I've have worse shags |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not sure it was a conscious decision. It suits my life at the current time. I had a longish relationship then a marriage with a bad ending. I like my own company and have enjoyed finding "me" again. Pleasing myself rather than trying to compromise. I have also decided that my children come first, until they are older. I feel that makes it unfair to enter a relationship. So, NSA suits and at least here, you can be honest about what you're looking for without any judgements on it. |
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I was married for 20 years, not very happily might I add, and I recently finished a 5 year relationship as it wasn't going anywhere and I just think that maybe I'm not meant to be in a relationship, love lets you down no matter how much effort you put into it so why keep trying to find it 
I enjoy sex and I enjoy intimacy and that's one of the reasons I enjoy meeting people repeatedly, it is a relationship of sorts that gives you all the best bits without the bull shit and the arguments, my strings sometimes get tangled but it's nothing a pair of scissors can't sort out |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Too be honest, it is an interesting question and one I don't really have an answer to.
Because my parent are divorced was that the start? I have no idea, I've never wanted kids, so it's not like I have had the clock ticking thing, I've never been in love (that is an honest answer)
I've now been single for over 8 years and falling into a trap I need to be wary of (I think I could quite easily become a recluse )
So NSA for me is my way of having fun without any commitment, though I do place a high importance on being friends with my partners, as I do need a connection so I'm not totally heartless biatch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm too busy with work at the minute to put any real effort into a relationship, so it wouldn't be fair on either person. I don't envy my mates having to 'clock in' so to speak, when I can do what I want, when I want . I have my own place, and I enjoy my own space, I've just had a mate lodging for a couple of weeks, and that was tough when I'm used to living alone. But having NSA fun means I can entertain when I like, and just cos I'm single, it doesn't mean I don't have the needs & urges haha, plus, I also think you can meet more like minded people who are definitely a lot naughtier. But I kinda like being single....... just don't ask me about changing my quilt cover alone AAAaaaaaaarrrrgggghhhh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was in a relationship since I was 15yrs old (lasted 27yrs)and missed my teen years of n.s.a, now im enjoying my single life no intention of getting into a relationship at present, things may change in the future but definitely not at the moment x |
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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago
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I enjoy my life and love my kinks, in normal (vanilla) relationships i find it hard to indulge in them and i lose a portion of my life that i enjoy.
The perfect side would be to find a.n other who wants to indulge in the things i love long term, but in the meantime i'm confident enough and happy enough in myself to not feel the need to always have a significant other (and likewise not to judge others who feel the same).
A cliche it may be but you only live once seems as good a reason as any i've heard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love love, it's wonderful.
I an in no way cynical about 'longterm' relationships, I've had some great ones while they lasted including my marriage.
I do though thank fate for allowing me to live at a time when the world has effective contraception because I love being single. Being free to act on my impulses which include lots of great sex with different women is a price I am simply not willing to pay for a life partner.
I instead have lots of relationships, some much deeper than others. Being a naturally sensuous guy I can assure you that I don't go without real intimacy. I rarely have 'wham bam' sex and almost always have sex with the women I meet more than once, some for years and I have never misled any of them in order to have sex.
NSA is fantastic if you enjoy the single life and embrace it. I know that I am capable of genuinely loving a women and everything she is without feeling the need to tie her down, restrict or change her.
Is it a phase I'm going through? Maybe, but if it is it's been a long phase. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
Your previous answer sounded very sane to me Foxy. "
I thought so as well, but you know the age old adage 'those that try to convince others they are.....' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird' "
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm one of those stupid people who is'too nice!' Had two long term relationships over 20 years and both guys treated me badly - because I let them! Until I have enough self confidence to be sure i'll never let that happen again - then fab is my home - and I LOVE it! The fun and friendship even more than the mind-blowing sex!
Oh - and I have a daughter with behavioural issues - so a relationship would be virtually impossible anyway!!  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing."
Well, I'm glad it's not just me as some of the looks I've had over the years when I have said I have never wanted kids, you'd think I have suddenly grown to heads!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Going on 8 years by myself. I've done a helluva lot as a result. Not always easy but as I did more I had more and more fun and became even more liberated. Being on this site represents a connection to people who are like minded. Life is a little hectic at the moment with work, travels and goals. I never say never. My heart is always open so I can be receptive to new experiences. Because I can be alone, I can be with others without using them as a means of escape x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are too many sides to me, that they just can't sit in a relationship and some part not want to be somewhere else.
Swinging either affords me a very beautiful release or gives me everything I need to feed my hunger, or both.
I'm also a kinky bastard with an insanely high sex drive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing.
Well, I'm glad it's not just me as some of the looks I've had over the years when I have said I have never wanted kids, you'd think I have suddenly grown to heads! "
Ahh I don't want kids with ya foxy! and I'll bring a bag... So I can cover one of your heads ... |
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"Question for the singles (for obvious reasons).
Why do you choose NSA instead of having a 'proper' relationship?"
I want a "proper relationship" just hasn't happened yet but while I'm searching for that special one to spend the rest of my life with I still have needs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing.
Well, I'm glad it's not just me as some of the looks I've had over the years when I have said I have never wanted kids, you'd think I have suddenly grown to heads! "
I keep getting told I will when I meet 'the one'... All I'm hoping for is early menopause . I have a niece I adore, and my sister had just found out she pregnant with number 2, and as happy as being an Auntie makes me, I've not got the patience to be a mother. In fact my lack of patience might be another reason for my single status too... Making an effort with someone 24/7 sounds like hard work! |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing.
Well, I'm glad it's not just me as some of the looks I've had over the years when I have said I have never wanted kids, you'd think I have suddenly grown two heads!
Ahh I don't want kids with ya foxy! and I'll bring a bag... So I can cover one of your heads ... "
But which one will you cover? Maybe I could just wear blind folds? 
And thanks for correcting my spelling mistake (I've just done so!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After the break up of my marriage I found myself very alone, no friends, no relationship no self confidence and four kids to bring up. This lifestyle affords me the intimacy and friendship that I miss but is flexible and understanding. It also has taught me that even though im not the most handsome nor most ripped guy i am attractive to some.
I'm not saying never again but for now relationships are simply not feasible, my kids and work has to come first |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After the break up of my marriage I found myself very alone, no friends, no relationship no self confidence and four kids to bring up. This lifestyle affords me the intimacy and friendship that I miss but is flexible and understanding. It also has taught me that even though im not the most handsome nor most ripped guy i am attractive to some.
I'm not saying never again but for now relationships are simply not feasible, my kids and work has to come first"
I can relate very much to this as a single working mom |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you can have a 'proper' relationship as well as the NSA sex.. Many on here are happy in relationships as well as searching for NSA sex... As a single i quickly learnt for me there is no such thing as NSA unless you do what i do in clubs and at parties.. How can you befriend someone, get to know them, get intimate and then say there is nothing between you?? There will always be the emotional string |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would also add to my post that I have got amazing beautiful children, I adore them.
I don't need any more.
Oh damn I was going to ask you to be my sperm donor "
You should never compromise and you certainly don't need to compromise with donors.
I know what you said is tongue in cheek but if you stop searching for it, what you seek will find you while you're doing other things.
May sound a bit criptic but I believe it. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I think you can have a 'proper' relationship as well as the NSA sex.. Many on here are happy in relationships as well as searching for NSA sex... As a single i quickly learnt for me there is no such thing as NSA unless you do what i do in clubs and at parties.. How can you befriend someone, get to know them, get intimate and then say there is nothing between you?? There will always be the emotional string "
To be honest it is quite easy, or maybe it is just me? You can be friends with someone and care if something bad is going on in their life without caring if they are meeting and shagging others? Maybe my previous comment is true....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think you can have a 'proper' relationship as well as the NSA sex.. Many on here are happy in relationships as well as searching for NSA sex... As a single i quickly learnt for me there is no such thing as NSA unless you do what i do in clubs and at parties.. How can you befriend someone, get to know them, get intimate and then say there is nothing between you?? There will always be the emotional string "
There's not much wrong with those type of strings as long as you don't try to restrict the other person. |
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"I would also add to my post that I have got amazing beautiful children, I adore them.
I don't need any more.
Oh damn I was going to ask you to be my sperm donor
You should never compromise and you certainly don't need to compromise with donors.
I know what you said is tongue in cheek but if you stop searching for it, what you seek will find you while you're doing other things.
May sound a bit criptic but I believe it. "
It was very much tongue in cheek, however thanks for the wise words |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think you can have a 'proper' relationship as well as the NSA sex.. Many on here are happy in relationships as well as searching for NSA sex... As a single i quickly learnt for me there is no such thing as NSA unless you do what i do in clubs and at parties.. How can you befriend someone, get to know them, get intimate and then say there is nothing between you?? There will always be the emotional string
To be honest it is quite easy, or maybe it is just me? You can be friends with someone and care if something bad is going on in their life without caring if they are meeting and shagging others? Maybe my previous comment is true.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Quite sure I'm slightly Aspergers although no one else would notice I do! In my case I really struggle to interpret other peoples' intentions so college / uni for me was something of a disaster ending in depression until I worked it out.
The whole routine of dating, chatting up etc is something I've never been good at despite being confident and at least human looking but my last relationship ended in almost unbearable pain due to the fact we were heading in different directions. I loved her but struggled to express it.
So now I've found a happy medium for the time being until the rest of my life is in order. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing.
Well, I'm glad it's not just me as some of the looks I've had over the years when I have said I have never wanted kids, you'd think I have suddenly grown two heads!
Ahh I don't want kids with ya foxy! and I'll bring a bag... So I can cover one of your heads ...
But which one will you cover? Maybe I could just wear blind folds?
And thanks for correcting my spelling mistake (I've just done so!) "
Are you saying you need a blindfold to dally with me young lady? OI twice the head twice the fun? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am that pariah of Fab - married and cheating !!!
So you're not single are you. The OP asked for responses from single people."
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing.
Well, I'm glad it's not just me as some of the looks I've had over the years when I have said I have never wanted kids, you'd think I have suddenly grown two heads!
Ahh I don't want kids with ya foxy! and I'll bring a bag... So I can cover one of your heads ...
But which one will you cover? Maybe I could just wear blind folds?
And thanks for correcting my spelling mistake (I've just done so!)
Are you saying you need a blindfold to dally with me young lady? OI twice the head twice the fun? "
I was saying it so you wouldn't have to look at me, but your a cheeky biatch as always |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh and I forgot to add that 'maybe I'm just weird'
I can relate to both your posts!! I often find I'm not wired the same as most of the women I know :D
Think the kids thing has an impact on me too... I don't want em, and I don't believe/see the point in marriage so that's another reason I might not be first in line for the whole commitment thing.
Well, I'm glad it's not just me as some of the looks I've had over the years when I have said I have never wanted kids, you'd think I have suddenly grown two heads!
Ahh I don't want kids with ya foxy! and I'll bring a bag... So I can cover one of your heads ...
But which one will you cover? Maybe I could just wear blind folds?
And thanks for correcting my spelling mistake (I've just done so!)
Are you saying you need a blindfold to dally with me young lady? OI twice the head twice the fun?
I was saying it so you wouldn't have to look at me, but your a cheeky biatch as always "
Flattery my dear and you know it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Question for the singles (for obvious reasons).
Why do you choose NSA instead of having a 'proper' relationship?
I want a "proper relationship" just hasn't happened yet but while I'm searching for that special one to spend the rest of my life with I still have needs "
Yep, that's me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally don't think i'm relationship material. I don't chase which is my problem. I know that means i sometimes lose out. But, that's just me and my shit.
However, my situation is slowly changing and i'm thinking of settling down. That maybe due to those i used to meet or those around me are now settling down.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm too busy with work at the minute to put any real effort into a relationship, so it wouldn't be fair on either person. I don't envy my mates having to 'clock in' so to speak, when I can do what I want, when I want . I have my own place, and I enjoy my own space, I've just had a mate lodging for a couple of weeks, and that was tough when I'm used to living alone. But having NSA fun means I can entertain when I like, and just cos I'm single, it doesn't mean I don't have the needs & urges haha, plus, I also think you can meet more like minded people who are definitely a lot naughtier. But I kinda like being single....... just don't ask me about changing my quilt cover alone AAAaaaaaaarrrrgggghhhh "
Come down here I'll give you lessons - - after all well be spending a lot of time in the bedroom Sir !! |
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I actually don't like NSA, it does nothing for me. Took a long time and much unhappiness to figure it out.
For me, the FWB is far more where it's at, but sadly so much of the scene isn't geared toward this any more, hence why I don't meet.
It's all cool though, I'm very patient |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can't do vanilla now "
Who says you have to do vanilla in order to be in a relationship. What about all the lovely couples here on FAB. That can work for you xx |
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"Question for the singles (for obvious reasons).
Why do you choose NSA instead of having a 'proper' relationship?"
I don't, I'd far rather have a passionate, intense, exclusive relationship. But if I can't find that I'll look for FWB, and if I can't find those I'll seek FB, and only if neither of those are around will I go for nsa.
Unless he's really hot of course, then I might just feel reckless....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being single. I've been in and out of relationships for years, but like others, I get bored and hate the routine of it all.
I love meeting new people and seeing where the road might lead.
I would enter into a relationship again…but this time, it would be with a woman.
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"I actually don't like NSA, it does nothing for me. Took a long time and much unhappiness to figure it out.
For me, the FWB is far more where it's at, but sadly so much of the scene isn't geared toward this any more, hence why I don't meet.
It's all cool though, I'm very patient "
Thats a shame! |
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