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over a year ago
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More bi guys into being fucked rather than doing the fucking too.
S is a pure top whereas J is pretty much always a bottom.
Therefore, we only seek top guys for meets.
For every message we receive from a guy that ticks our box in that respect, I bet we get 10 that don't. |
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"Easier too let go than stay in control I guess ?"
I find it doesn't easier to be in control if I'm honest....I've been about and tried a hole lot of different things kink and vanilla. ..came into the swinging side of things a few years back and always nilla meets without even touching on the kink.
It's a whole lot harder gor me to trust someone completely and let them have total control.
He is very dominant and it took a while but when it happens its amazing.
But I think having my fiesty nature drives him mad but makes it worth the effort  |
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over a year ago
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I think there are alot of people generally who have read that book and think they are dom or sub. Really they know jack shit about it! Lets put up a quick thread - 'I want a sub' Yeh right fella thats gonna happen with a total stranger, who I've never met. Laughable!. |
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"Yes more easy to be sub"
I take exception to that comment. Only the ill informed think that the sub's role is to lay back and take the forced orgasms. Wrong!
If you're lucky enough to find the right Dom, your physical, mental and emotional strength is tested and pushed up to and beyond their limits.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes more easy to be sub
I take exception to that comment. Only the ill informed think that the sub's role is to lay back and take the forced orgasms. Wrong!
If you're lucky enough to find the right Dom, your physical, mental and emotional strength is tested and pushed up to and beyond their limits.
crystal"
As I said loads think they know about sub/dom relationship but only cos they have read that book. I'm a sub but only to women. In vanilla life I am a strong ballsy woman who takes crap from no one. I chose who I sub to.That is built on trust and respect. 'Easier to sub' by far the most ill informed statement I've heard. |
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Being a dom (least a good one) takes an awful lot of self confidence more than most people have and way more than the type of person in these kinds of sites tends to have |
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I find that every man who wanted me to dominate them has a list of things they want doing. That's not my idea of a sub. One of my regular men lets me get on with what I want to do,he knows I wouldn't go too far and hurt him. I'm naturally passive but he makes me want to do bad things to him  |
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"I find that every man who wanted me to dominate them has a list of things they want doing. That's not my idea of a sub. One of my regular men lets me get on with what I want to do,he knows I wouldn't go too far and hurt him. I'm naturally passive but he makes me want to do bad things to him "
Fully agree 
And tha ty book has nothelped with anything imo |
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