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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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I think it depends who says it, if hubs says it (and is not just after something lol) then I'm slightly cheerier, and I tend to be better looking when smiling as opposed to frowning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Feeling good can make you more confident and appear to have a happy glow. So possibly, yes.
This is more what I was thinking.
Does it work for you?"
Yes. Not from people telling me I'm beautiful though. Back handed compliments work for me. Funny comments. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
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No I don't think so. The only person who would be able to confirm that is the person who made the original compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
No I don't think so. The only person who would be able to confirm that is the person who made the original compliment. "
It would be even better if the person you thought was beautiful, thought you were beautiful too, then you could get together, and make a doubly beautiful baby!
It'd be a bit like Belgian Double Chocolate ice cream, except as a baby  |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
No I don't think so. The only person who would be able to confirm that is the person who made the original compliment. "
Even when the compliment is then reiterated by others not known to each other? |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
No I don't think so. The only person who would be able to confirm that is the person who made the original compliment.
It would be even better if the person you thought was beautiful, thought you were beautiful too, then you could get together, and make a doubly beautiful baby!
It'd be a bit like Belgian Double Chocolate ice cream, except as a baby "
Chocolate ice cream babies would melt and licking them seems a bit wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
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It's a feel good factor for sure but whether I actually believe them is another matter haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably not really what you're asking, but I got a genuine compliment the other day from an old lady who must have been 80+, who stopped to me to tell me she had been admiring my lovely hair. It sounds incredibly daft but an honest little compliment like that with no hidden agenda put a wee spring in my step and smile on my face. Given that confidence and happiness are seen as attractive traits by most, does that mean I was more attractive to others for the rest of the day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably not really what you're asking, but I got a genuine compliment the other day from an old lady who must have been 80+, who stopped to me to tell me she had been admiring my lovely hair. It sounds incredibly daft but an honest little compliment like that with no hidden agenda put a wee spring in my step and smile on my face. Given that confidence and happiness are seen as attractive traits by most, does that mean I was more attractive to others for the rest of the day? "
Reminds me of when my hairdresser said i had wonderful hair.
Boy was i relieved to hear his wife and two kids were dong fine. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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Beautiful is such a strong term that on the very few occasions someone has said it to me (as in in person) it made me feel completely embarrassed and almost like I needed to laugh it off. Except for when someone I love said it to me. I believed him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
No I don't think so. The only person who would be able to confirm that is the person who made the original compliment.
Even when the compliment is then reiterated by others not known to each other?"
The compliment being reiterated is that you are beautiful not that you are more beautiful than you were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably not really what you're asking, but I got a genuine compliment the other day from an old lady who must have been 80+, who stopped to me to tell me she had been admiring my lovely hair. It sounds incredibly daft but an honest little compliment like that with no hidden agenda put a wee spring in my step and smile on my face. Given that confidence and happiness are seen as attractive traits by most, does that mean I was more attractive to others for the rest of the day? "
Beauty and attractiveness are not the same thing. I do believe that a beautiful women can become more attractive by changes in her demeanour or mood. A genuine compliment can certainly impact demeanour or mood. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being complimented by someone I don't know doesn't do anything for me. The nearest I had to a compliment from someone I know well was when I asked a regular partner if he thought I was ugly. He answered with I've never fucked an ugly woman in my life. That will do me |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Probably not really what you're asking, but I got a genuine compliment the other day from an old lady who must have been 80+, who stopped to me to tell me she had been admiring my lovely hair. It sounds incredibly daft but an honest little compliment like that with no hidden agenda put a wee spring in my step and smile on my face. Given that confidence and happiness are seen as attractive traits by most, does that mean I was more attractive to others for the rest of the day? "
That is exactly what I mean. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being complimented by someone I don't know doesn't do anything for me. The nearest I had to a compliment from someone I know well was when I asked a regular partner if he thought I was ugly. He answered with I've never fucked an ugly woman in my life. That will do me "
But he's sure woken up with a few.
ps nothing personal, as you know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being complimented by someone I don't know doesn't do anything for me. The nearest I had to a compliment from someone I know well was when I asked a regular partner if he thought I was ugly. He answered with I've never fucked an ugly woman in my life. That will do me
But he's sure woken up with a few.
ps nothing personal, as you know. "
lol have you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being complimented by someone I don't know doesn't do anything for me. The nearest I had to a compliment from someone I know well was when I asked a regular partner if he thought I was ugly. He answered with I've never fucked an ugly woman in my life. That will do me
But he's sure woken up with a few.
ps nothing personal, as you know.
lol have you?"
I've often been woken up by one, in the past though.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being complimented by someone I don't know doesn't do anything for me. The nearest I had to a compliment from someone I know well was when I asked a regular partner if he thought I was ugly. He answered with I've never fucked an ugly woman in my life. That will do me
But he's sure woken up with a few.
ps nothing personal, as you know.
lol have you?
I've often been woken up by one, in the past though. "
You stopped getting d*unk then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends who says it. My Mum used to call me her beautiful girl, that always gave me a warm glow. If I said it, I'd mean it. It's never said as a passing remark. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I now have One Direction going round my head. THANKS!!!!
Are they going in the same direction? I take it there is a 1D song about this? I don't know it.
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Polar opposite |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being complimented by someone I don't know doesn't do anything for me. The nearest I had to a compliment from someone I know well was when I asked a regular partner if he thought I was ugly. He answered with I've never fucked an ugly woman in my life. That will do me
But he's sure woken up with a few.
ps nothing personal, as you know.
lol have you?
I've often been woken up by one, in the past though.
You stopped getting d*unk then?"
Oh aye, i've even stopped listening to Don Henley's : (if you still wanna hold her ) You Must Not Be Drinkin' Enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably not really what you're asking, but I got a genuine compliment the other day from an old lady who must have been 80+, who stopped to me to tell me she had been admiring my lovely hair. It sounds incredibly daft but an honest little compliment like that with no hidden agenda put a wee spring in my step and smile on my face. Given that confidence and happiness are seen as attractive traits by most, does that mean I was more attractive to others for the rest of the day?
That is exactly what I mean."
In that case then, I think the answer is yes. But only if you believe the person and believe the compliment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appreciate that many on here are not genuine but one of the most attractive female traits in my opinion is the ability to accept an honest compliment in the right way.
A genuine compliment is rarely given lightly, so it can be off putting when it is just dismissed. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Yeah, but no...I can honestly say I rarely get that sort of message, but I do get folk wanting to meet again. I'm not beautiful, I'm heading for 50 and a bit fat - I know my limitations...however, I'm a fairly good laugh, I enjoy fucking and I can also hold a conversation with most folk so yep, I'm fucking beautiful |
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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Actually thinking more about it I think it could do, for myself I think confident people are more attractive, they could be more confident because they have been told they are beautiful. As a youngster I always used to tell my buttys if you are confident you can get anyone you want, maybe that was arrogance, or it could have been because people told me I was beautiful, who knows but it worked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yeah, but no...I can honestly say I rarely get that sort of message, but I do get folk wanting to meet again. I'm not beautiful, I'm heading for 50 and a bit fat - I know my limitations...however, I'm a fairly good laugh, I enjoy fucking and I can also hold a conversation with most folk so yep, I'm fucking beautiful "
sssh don't tell everyone  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah, but no...I can honestly say I rarely get that sort of message, but I do get folk wanting to meet again. I'm not beautiful, I'm heading for 50 and a bit fat - I know my limitations...however, I'm a fairly good laugh, I enjoy fucking and I can also hold a conversation with most folk so yep, I'm fucking beautiful
sssh don't tell everyone "
I've kept it quiet so far  might eventually get a shag  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't really take that much notice of it on here.
I obviously love being told by my OH, it does make me feel happy. I was also told it by a young woman. I was in Torture Garden dressed as Marie Antoniette and she approached me and said that she just had to tell me how beautiful I was. I was very flattered because the make up was rather bizarre and I felt appreciated for my efforts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beautiful is a word I use for only the most breathtakingly lovely of women, and when I say it I mean it x"
The boy speaks sense. Save 'beautiful' for the special ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being complimented by someone I don't know doesn't do anything for me. The nearest I had to a compliment from someone I know well was when I asked a regular partner if he thought I was ugly. He answered with I've never fucked an ugly woman in my life. That will do me
But he's sure woken up with a few.
ps nothing personal, as you know.
lol have you?
I've often been woken up by one, in the past though.
You stopped getting d*unk then?
Oh aye, i've even stopped listening to Don Henley's : (if you still wanna hold her ) You Must Not Be Drinkin' Enough. "
No more Coyote ugly moments |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably not really what you're asking, but I got a genuine compliment the other day from an old lady who must have been 80+, who stopped to me to tell me she had been admiring my lovely hair. It sounds incredibly daft but an honest little compliment like that with no hidden agenda put a wee spring in my step and smile on my face. Given that confidence and happiness are seen as attractive traits by most, does that mean I was more attractive to others for the rest of the day? "
That's really nice.
I love it when random people who have no agenda come up to me and tell me I have nice hair or I'm attractive. I get it at least once a week. You would think I would be more confident. But it just makes me happeeeeee. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Probably not really what you're asking, but I got a genuine compliment the other day from an old lady who must have been 80+, who stopped to me to tell me she had been admiring my lovely hair. It sounds incredibly daft but an honest little compliment like that with no hidden agenda put a wee spring in my step and smile on my face. Given that confidence and happiness are seen as attractive traits by most, does that mean I was more attractive to others for the rest of the day? "
Love that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it does, if it's said by someone who actually means it.it def perks me up and makes me feel good, which in turn gives confidence.
Our son is an extremely handsome young man, we have total strangers coming up to us, telling us how gorgeous he is, that is lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
No I don't think so. The only person who would be able to confirm that is the person who made the original compliment.
It would be even better if the person you thought was beautiful, thought you were beautiful too, then you could get together, and make a doubly beautiful baby!
It'd be a bit like Belgian Double Chocolate ice cream, except as a baby "
Nomnom.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being told you are beautiful on here means jack shit. I don't have a public face pic but apparently I'm beautiful/gorgeous etc. Insincere bullshit that anybody can see through. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm crap at receiving any kind of compliment....
I think you're sexy, intelligent and a gent for a filthy minded fellow.....
Er.....cheers?  "
perhaps I should have phrased it better.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being told you are beautiful on here means jack shit. I don't have a public face pic but apparently I'm beautiful/gorgeous etc. Insincere bullshit that anybody can see through."
That's so true. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm crap at receiving any kind of compliment....
I think you're sexy, intelligent and a gent for a filthy minded fellow.....
Er.....cheers?
perhaps I should have phrased it better.... "
No, I'm just crap!.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being told you are beautiful on here means jack shit. I don't have a public face pic but apparently I'm beautiful/gorgeous etc. Insincere bullshit that anybody can see through."
You have pretty boobs....that's probably what they mean.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beauty is subjective. So when some one days you have nice eyes or something, I find that a more genuine compliment than just that whole....Awwww but your beautiful rubbish
I think it can give one a little confidence boost @ most but I am rarely a shrinking violet and rarely base decisions in how I am going to feel on what people tell me.
Each to there own I suppose...
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"Beauty is subjective. So when some one days you have nice eyes or something, I find that a more genuine compliment than just that whole....Awwww but your beautiful rubbish
I think it can give one a little confidence boost @ most but I am rarely a shrinking violet and rarely base decisions in how I am going to feel on what people tell me.
Each to there own I suppose...
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id like to think i see a blossoming pride when i say your beautiful to someone ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Beauty is subjective. So when some one days you have nice eyes or something, I find that a more genuine compliment than just that whole....Awwww but your beautiful rubbish
I think it can give one a little confidence boost @ most but I am rarely a shrinking violet and rarely base decisions in how I am going to feel on what people tell me.
Each to there own I suppose...
id like to think i see a blossoming pride when i say your beautiful to someone ... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes it does....when my Mr cups my face in his hands, looks into my eyes and whispers 'your beautiful' I know hes talking about all of me faults n all it makes me feel so warm and loved |
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"On here its a bit of a ego boost and makes you feel good for a nano second until you realise that the same is said to everyone with a fanny "
Exactly!!! |
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"On here its a bit of a ego boost and makes you feel good for a nano second until you realise that the same is said to everyone with a fanny
Exactly!!! "
you cynics .. but you blossom for a nanosecond.. and at least smile .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I guess it could.
It depends on what your being told is beautiful?
I go for personalities way before looks ...some people have beautiful personalities "
You get my vote beautiful  |
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
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Nope it makes me feel slightly uncomfortable, if someone says "you're an Attractive woman" I can handle that, or "you have a beautiful personality" that's ok , but beautiful !! Really !!!!
I think Fab has made me very cynical ! SOME men think a compliment = a shag !!!! Even been asked if I have ever been a model !!!! "Really !!! WTF" was my reply as I tried to control the laughter !!!!! |
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
Nope it makes me feel slightly uncomfortable, if someone says "you're an Attractive woman" I can handle that, or "you have a beautiful personality" that's ok , but beautiful !! Really !!!!
I think Fab has made me very cynical ! SOME men think a compliment = a shag !!!! Even been asked if I have ever been a model !!!! "Really !!! WTF" was my reply as I tried to control the laughter !!!!! "
i bet you have a lovely laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip. |
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip. "
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip. "
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
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I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. x"
Yeah but it takes time for them to see it sadly.
I have issues sometimes, it's 50/50 with me.
I didn't mean to sound narky at you.
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. x"
years of put downs from late hubby makes it hard for me to believe anything nice said about my looks i know sad moo but i am getting a little better x |
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I get told I'm beautiful quite a lot on here but to be honest I don't take that much notice. The only time I did is when I went to see my nan in hospital and the last time I saw her she said you are beautiful my duck don't let anyone tell you different. That was my true acceptance that actually I'm alright in the looks department. |
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
Nope it makes me feel slightly uncomfortable, if someone says "you're an Attractive woman" I can handle that, or "you have a beautiful personality" that's ok , but beautiful !! Really !!!!
I think Fab has made me very cynical ! SOME men think a compliment = a shag !!!! Even been asked if I have ever been a model !!!! "Really !!! WTF" was my reply as I tried to control the laughter !!!!! "
Well I can't see your face but I think you have a beautiful body.
This comes from a hideously ugly fat person (according to someone who hadn't seen a face pic) |
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. xyears of put downs from late hubby makes it hard for me to believe anything nice said about my looks i know sad moo but i am getting a little better x"
You will get there, self acceptance is truly the most precious gift you can give to yourself. I've been there with the put downs it will take a while for you to get there but you will. X |
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. xyears of put downs from late hubby makes it hard for me to believe anything nice said about my looks i know sad moo but i am getting a little better x"
It goes deeper when that happens.
Showing love for oneself was seen as negative when I was growing up so I try to forget that and find the positives in my personality.
Well that's my humble opinion on it. |
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. xyears of put downs from late hubby makes it hard for me to believe anything nice said about my looks i know sad moo but i am getting a little better x
You will get there, self acceptance is truly the most precious gift you can give to yourself. I've been there with the put downs it will take a while for you to get there but you will. X"
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. xyears of put downs from late hubby makes it hard for me to believe anything nice said about my looks i know sad moo but i am getting a little better x
It goes deeper when that happens.
Showing love for oneself was seen as negative when I was growing up so I try to forget that and find the positives in my personality.
Well that's my humble opinion on it."
not easy to do but one step at a time xx |
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"Everyone is beautiful to someone.
I actually think it's a bit big headed of people that say they never ever believe any compliments at all. It's like saying their own opinion matters more- everyone else is wrong. They are so awful that no-one would ever look at them with fondness and see beauty... seriously??! Get a grip.
Some have self esteem issues so I think it's unfair to say that.
It takes time often for it to sink in that they are beautiful on the inside and out.
I know. I mean my post with love, not hatred. It makes me sad when people really can't see anything beautiful in themselves at all.
I want to shake them. xyears of put downs from late hubby makes it hard for me to believe anything nice said about my looks i know sad moo but i am getting a little better x
It goes deeper when that happens.
Showing love for oneself was seen as negative when I was growing up so I try to forget that and find the positives in my personality.
Well that's my humble opinion on it.not easy to do but one step at a time xx"
Indeed. xxxxxxx |
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"I guess it could.
It depends on what your being told is beautiful?
I go for personalities way before looks ...some people have beautiful personalities "
Really?
Funny how you state 3 times on your profile "no face picture no reply"
Your really giving the personalities s chance to shine |
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
Nope it makes me feel slightly uncomfortable, if someone says "you're an Attractive woman" I can handle that, or "you have a beautiful personality" that's ok , but beautiful !! Really !!!!
I think Fab has made me very cynical ! SOME men think a compliment = a shag !!!! Even been asked if I have ever been a model !!!! "Really !!! WTF" was my reply as I tried to control the laughter !!!!!
Well I can't see your face but I think you have a beautiful body.
This comes from a hideously ugly fat person (according to someone who hadn't seen a face pic) "
The ones who throw unkind words around are the ones with ugly raging through them but I know you know that.
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Before I met tom I always thought I was a plain jane .. but since being with him and him telling me how beautiful I am and how just generally boosting my confidence .. I have recieved comments from . friends and collegues such as u are glowing and u look so pretty .... so I think that if u feel good inside and feel beautiful and confident about yourself it shows on the outside ..... and I have tom to thank for loving me so much and loving me for who I am ..... (I know I know a bit to gushy lol ) xxx tabitha xxx |
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"Before I met tom I always thought I was a plain jane .. but since being with him and him telling me how beautiful I am and how just generally boosting my confidence .. I have recieved comments from . friends and collegues such as u are glowing and u look so pretty .... so I think that if u feel good inside and feel beautiful and confident about yourself it shows on the outside ..... and I have tom to thank for loving me so much and loving me for who I am ..... (I know I know a bit to gushy lol ) xxx tabitha xxx "
aww thats lovely xx
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
No I don't think so. The only person who would be able to confirm that is the person who made the original compliment.
It would be even better if the person you thought was beautiful, thought you were beautiful too, then you could get together, and make a doubly beautiful baby!
It'd be a bit like Belgian Double Chocolate ice cream, except as a baby "
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yeah, but no...I can honestly say I rarely get that sort of message, but I do get folk wanting to meet again. I'm not beautiful, I'm heading for 50 and a bit fat - I know my limitations...however, I'm a fairly good laugh, I enjoy fucking and I can also hold a conversation with most folk so yep, I'm fucking beautiful "
I think you're beautiful. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Before I met tom I always thought I was a plain jane .. but since being with him and him telling me how beautiful I am and how just generally boosting my confidence .. I have recieved comments from . friends and collegues such as u are glowing and u look so pretty .... so I think that if u feel good inside and feel beautiful and confident about yourself it shows on the outside ..... and I have tom to thank for loving me so much and loving me for who I am ..... (I know I know a bit to gushy lol ) xxx tabitha xxx "
That is exactly what led to my OP. I keep seeing it in people.
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If I think someone is beautiful I will tell them, even if they are hundreds of miles away and no chance if a meet. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman, period. |
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"Before I met tom I always thought I was a plain jane .. but since being with him and him telling me how beautiful I am and how just generally boosting my confidence .. I have recieved comments from . friends and collegues such as u are glowing and u look so pretty .... so I think that if u feel good inside and feel beautiful and confident about yourself it shows on the outside ..... and I have tom to thank for loving me so much and loving me for who I am ..... (I know I know a bit to gushy lol ) xxx tabitha xxx"
love this
Sarah x |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I know I'm not beautiful, I barely touch pretty on the looks scale, if someone says it I me then it's in one ear and out the other, it can be a boost I suppose if you believe the hype "
Is beauty about a certain look?
Our idea of physical beauty can be shaped and/or influenced by the current zeitgeist.
I see quirky looking people who exude beauty to me. |
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
I've been told I'm handsome. I don't believe it.
Why not?
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I don't have a classical movie star looks. I have lots of visual insecurities. At least 7 anyway. |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
I've been told I'm handsome. I don't believe it.
Why not?
I don't have a classical movie star looks. I have lots of visual insecurities. At least 7 anyway. "
You have seven specific visual insecurities? Those very features might be what makes you handsome.
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I've been told it via message sometimes after they have received my face pic but it is just talk. no one has ever said it to my face but I am not beautiful |
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"I just got told that I wasn't too shabby ... would rather be called beautiful hahahaha
You look good
Think the b word just got banned!
Ha ha thanks "
Nice user name |
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"Beauty is a state of 'Mind'.
So abandoning all your make up and make tan tomorrow? Lol
I'm in a funny mood "
I didn't wear any make up today and my tan is real - Others may have thought I looked like crap but I was happy - in denial but happy (lol) x |
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By *supermenCouple (MM)
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"Beauty is a state of 'Mind'.
So abandoning all your make up and make tan tomorrow? Lol
I'm in a funny mood
I didn't wear any make up today and my tan is real - Others may have thought I looked like crap but I was happy - in denial but happy (lol) x"
Surely it will take more than a day fir the mind to change its state after hundreds of years of watching full on make up |
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By *supermenCouple (MM)
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"Beauty is a state of 'Mind'.
Ladies and gentle men we have a genius in this forum
Finally someone see's my brain more than a pair of boobs (lol) xxxx"
I always look at things that are exposed |
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By *icketysplits OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
If I think the compliment was made with genuine intent. It's doesn't make me more beautiful. But does make me smile. "
That might be the smile that lights up your being and everyone sees a beauty beacon. |
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"Beauty is a state of 'Mind'.
Ladies and gentle men we have a genius in this forum
Finally someone see's my brain more than a pair of boobs (lol) xxxx
I always look at things that are exposed "
As do I - what's with the socks on during sex? So 'not' beautiful! |
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"Does being told you are beautiful make you more beautiful?
I've been told I'm handsome. I don't believe it. "
You're incredibly cute and more importantly a really kind gent. |
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