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Who signs up couples?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Having had contact with some couples, a question came to mind.

When couples (referring to MF predominantly) join this, and other such sites, who actually went looking for the site(s) and signs up?

Is it the man or the woman?

Who does most of the looking/responding?

Just curious...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mrs P is in charge of our swinging activities. I am the one who is mostly on the forums though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gimp signed us up( my arm was not up my back lol)

I respond to most of the messaging, looking at veiws, things of interest, well basically all over the place like a rash lol

I leave Gimp to play kiss chase on the forums.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

We were both already on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Having had contact with some couples, a question came to mind.

When couples (referring to MF predominantly) join this, and other such sites, who actually went looking for the site(s) and signs up?

Is it the man or the woman?

Who does most of the looking/responding?

Just curious..."

In our case it was a case of us both being adventurous and knowing about this site before we actually met each other. We both admin our account. I (Sarah) signed us up, we know what the other likes, so we share the looking/responding, discuss everything/plan everything together and respect each other's views. The only thing we don't do together are the forums. He ain't interested in those aha. Which is fine by me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

I find it quite flattering when someone says nice arse. I pretend they mean me and not Mrs P.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

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Not here it is all a laugh

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

I find it quite flattering when someone says nice arse. I pretend they mean me and not Mrs P. "

Nice arse

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple over a year ago

Oxfordshire

We both looked for, found the site, and signed up together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

I find it quite flattering when someone says nice arse. I pretend they mean me and not Mrs P.

Nice arse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I pretty much do everything when it comes to the site, he's happy to take a back seat and meet anyone I recommend lol.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

I find it quite flattering when someone says nice arse. I pretend they mean me and not Mrs P.

Nice arse

But I know you mean me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

I find it quite flattering when someone says nice arse. I pretend they mean me and not Mrs P.

Nice arse

But I know you mean me

"
pair of you

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have though about this before,

And it must wind up the Male half of the couple when Men always make comments directed at the Female half in the forums,

I find it quite flattering when someone says nice arse. I pretend they mean me and not Mrs P.

Nice arse

But I know you mean me

I will just pretend Mrs P is saying that

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have been on a few sites and have always signed up our profile together.

Both of access and use the site. We tend to add any profiles that interest us to hotlist so that the other one can check them out.

I (Mrs) probably do most of the searching but that's purely because I have more free time. If we message someone it's because both of us are in agreement.

RespOnding to messages - depends on what it's about. If it's a new contact then we tend to wait until we are together to reply.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Forums...Mr B has no interest in, so I have free reign.

The only time he has ever been interested was when someone made a nice comment about him, couldn't read the thread quick enough then!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We'd talked about swinging though was me cinnamon who signed us up and did the responses at the start. Now though she plays an active role in choosing, perving and posting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We were together about eighteen months before we come on here, those boxes needed ticking

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Forums...Mr B has no interest in, so I have free reign.

The only time he has ever been interested was when someone made a nice comment about him, couldn't read the thread quick enough then!

lol yea sounds about right aha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was already here and Mo joined me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr Goldie signed us up as a surprise for me -What a shocker that was lol.Now I'm the Hunter as he calls me and I do most of the messaging and arranging.

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By *overs14Couple over a year ago

norwich

We both looked together for sites to join. I (her) am the one that uses fab. He just comes on to check what messages we've received and I've sent.

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By *unkydesignCouple over a year ago

Manchester

We decided to join FAB together when we were told about it at a swingers club. We both visit at different times as we have erratic work schedules but we only arrange meets by mutual consent.

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Having had contact with some couples, a question came to mind.

When couples (referring to MF predominantly) join this, and other such sites, who actually went looking for the site(s) and signs up?

Is it the man or the woman?

Who does most of the looking/responding?

Just curious..."
We were already on here as singles, so it seemed a natural progression for us, but he did the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mrs l signed us up on here, she's usually found in chat, I do most of the mailing and responding to messages and winks and such like, the forum is always me,

As I like to put it she is front of house and I'm just admin

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By *ickawitchCouple over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We signed up together and both had input into the profile. He mostly looks at winks, friend requests, pics and sometimes sends messages. I do most of the messages and I decide who we meet or don't meet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We joined together , I (mr) run the profile and respond to most messages , and am usually on the forums too . My wife checks out potential meets and occasionally posts on the forum . She says she isn't interested in the chat and so on ... on here to meet and play she says !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Joint decision. We both use the profile to mail people etc. Rarely use that profile on the forum though.

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By *ugarNspicecplCouple over a year ago

SCUNTHORPE

"Mrs P is in charge of our swinging activities. I am the one who is mostly on the forums though. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we met here and both set up this together - he uses chatrooms more than me unless were together and i flop around in here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Having had contact with some couples, a question came to mind.

When couples (referring to MF predominantly) join this, and other such sites, who actually went looking for the site(s) and signs up?

Is it the man or the woman?

Who does most of the looking/responding?

Just curious..."

Both of us but it depends who is in and if the football is on to how much attention is given to fab.

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By *indys loverCouple over a year ago

Stratford on avon

mindy never really looks at the site as forums don't really interest her but she usually looks over my shoulder most nights to make sure im not getting her into trouble

and if anyone messages us thinking they are going to get a response from her then I tell her shes got a bit of forum homework to do

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