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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Get me to cum properly? As in the inner cum. Only I can do it with my wand and rabbit  Squirting is easy.... But I need the real stuff! "
Ditto. I find it really difficult to orgasm with anyone else. Maybe I have performance anxiety. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"nobody but you can answer that question. You know your body and what does it for you  "
I suppose but I'd love to be able to lie back and cum without ending up with aching arm muscles  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Huh!! We need to do ALL the work 
You know the saying, if you want something done properly...
.....ask me  "
Please will you paint my conservatory properly for me. The first coat is done but it'll need two more. The paint and rollers are already out there.
I really cannot be arsed today.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe you haven't met the right person yet.
My friend Mark (who is a ninja) says he can make a woman cum by high fiving them.
To be fair his high fives are pretty awesome.  "
I'll try anything  |
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are you telling people what to do, where to touch etc even if its just by moving their hand or whatever a bit?
It would be nice of everyone knew exactly how to touch people without being shown or told but they don't and laying back and waiting for it to happen is a nice idea but unless you know someone very, very well isn't a likely occurrence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get me to cum properly? As in the inner cum. Only I can do it with my wand and rabbit Squirting is easy.... But I need the real stuff! "
If you where closer to me i would definitely find a way as im a stubborn bastard and i aim to please as well as its a two way thing |
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"are you telling people what to do, where to touch etc even if its just by moving their hand or whatever a bit?
It would be nice of everyone knew exactly how to touch people without being shown or told but they don't and laying back and waiting for it to happen is a nice idea but unless you know someone very, very well isn't a likely occurrence "
A little bit of communication helps a lot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get me to cum properly? As in the inner cum. Only I can do it with my wand and rabbit Squirting is easy.... But I need the real stuff! "
Because you aren't allowing them... When your mind is totally lost in it.. it will happen but to many guys concentrate on what they are doing... Not on getting your mind in the right place. You can do it yourself as your relaxed and comfy with yourself.
But Dont worry... Just enjoy and eventually it will happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Get me to cum properly? As in the inner cum. Only I can do it with my wand and rabbit Squirting is easy.... But I need the real stuff!
If your not cumming they are not doing it properly  "
See and that's a myth too... Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Commmunication, no pressure, a relaxed mood and taking your time all make it possible. If your expectations are high - so, would the orgasms.
Just go with the flow.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it a recent thing that you can't unless you do it yourself (so to speak) or has it always been the same ? I was just wondering if you had a mental block with it as the mind definitely has an affect on the body. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"are you telling people what to do, where to touch etc even if its just by moving their hand or whatever a bit?
It would be nice of everyone knew exactly how to touch people without being shown or told but they don't and laying back and waiting for it to happen is a nice idea but unless you know someone very, very well isn't a likely occurrence "
Not with newbies I don't but I have with others. I think it's lack of patience with them? It does take me a while. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can gush/squirt no problem, but for me that's not a true orgasm. I can only achieve the intense 'inny' climax when I do it myself (with toys)
Sorry if I've repeated..... Keeps kicking me off  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You're not alone, there are many of us that are the same.. Its not because someone isn't doing it properly or that you are not relaxed.. I find it difficult at times to bring myself off.. Its really not worth stressing about.. I have said it before and I'll say it again.. An orgasm is over rated.. I get more sensations from a sneezing fit then an orgasm.. Someone fetch me the pepper just enjoy the moment and if it happens it happens! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can gush/squirt no problem, but for me that's not a true orgasm. I can only achieve the intense 'inny' climax when I do it myself (with toys)
Sorry if I've repeated..... Keeps kicking me off "
Well here's me thinking squirting for a woman was the best kind of orgasm... I heard it was a full body experience...
I suppose in this case I'm wrong..
Anyway you probably need to find the right connection with a person that should do it..
Anyway it would be a pleasure to help with 'anything'  |
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