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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter  then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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By *supermenCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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As is so often the case I agree with everything you say.......BUT I am perfect   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a few time-wasters - but no abusive messages - and agree that the good ones by far outweigh the bad ones - and many of them are GORGEOUS and amazing in bed! For me - single guys rock!! God bless ya guys!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with this thread 100%.....even though I have encountered a couple of idiots I'm intelligent enough to realise that they don't represent the majority of guys. This site would be boring without the single guys, and I would have no use for it |
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take each message on it's own merit and try to reply to each one ..The majority of single guys that message me are charming and polite ..ok I've had a few that aren't but I realise it's only a minority that behave like that and I use the block button and move on ..This site is hard for single guys and in no way does it represent true life statistics ..I try to remember this xx |
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"I take each message on it's own merit and try to reply to each one ..The majority of single guys that message me are charming and polite ..ok I've had a few that aren't but I realise it's only a minority that behave like that and I use the block button and move on ..This site is hard for single guys and in no way does it represent true life statistics ..I try to remember this xx"
Soooo refreshing to hear this sort of attitude ladies.
I has frustrated me in the past that I have taken the time to respond with a personal message and yet receive only the big block button. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I agree with this thread 100%.....even though I have encountered a couple of idiots I'm intelligent enough to realise that they don't represent the majority of guys. This site would be boring without the single guys, and I would have no use for it "
^ what she said
The decent men make it worth being here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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thanks for this thread. Not all us single guys are bad and I am glad this has finally been recognised x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
As is so often the case I agree with everything you say.......BUT I am perfect "
Don't tell anyone but I did want to put in brackets that some of us are |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep have to agree. Some cracking single guys on here. To be perfectly frank we have more trouble with the couples than the single men. Like our profile states common courtesy doesn't go a miss. The minority will always try to spoil it for the majority. Trick is not to let them. Happy fabbing folks. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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good point. This will be a good read  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it probably also has something to do with the fact you have the decency to say "no thank you". Thats always appreciated. "
well said most just usually ignore !!!! |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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some men can be idiots...
some women can be idiots...
some couples can be idiots...
if people aren't prepared to look at others individually rather than lumping groups together... thats a "them" issue... not a "me" issue....
in the end I stand up for me and only me... I don't affect others chances, and others don't affect me....
all I can be is the best me I can... if that aint good enough to some... tough!!! I aint changing!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all. "
Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.
It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.
Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.
It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.
Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.
It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people."
That's why I put that, that subject has plenty of its own threads
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.
Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.
It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people.
That's why I put that, that subject has plenty of its own threads
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Yes, but your comment is from the point of view of the women. I'm pointing out that comments about women not replying aren't needed either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.
Fair enough, as long as the blokes don't start on with the anyone not replying is not decent.
It's a positive thread, which is great, not one for sniping at other people.
That's why I put that, that subject has plenty of its own threads
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Great thread, we only meet single guys. So nice to see something positive |
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Single guys are great and we love being here
Disclaimer: Posters thoughts are personal and relate to only the few he has met. Other single men on here may be dickheads and any opinion should not be used as a rule.
Terms and conditions of some other guys may differ and if he has small print...it may not be worth looking at. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all. "
AW after this thread made me feel all warm and fuzzy your post made me feel sad for you xx I'll send you a message if you want |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Let's not start on the "we get a ton of messages every day" don't want to, can't or don't have to reply"
We don't get many messages so I am able to reply to them all.
AW after this thread made me feel all warm and fuzzy your post made me feel sad for you xx I'll send you a message if you want "
Please, don't be sad, this is a positive thread. We are more than happy with what we get from this site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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I think you are just trying to butter me up to get in me pants |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
I think you are just trying to butter me up to get in me pants "
Is it working ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"some men can be idiots...
some women can be idiots...
some couples can be idiots...
if people aren't prepared to look at others individually rather than lumping groups together... thats a "them" issue... not a "me" issue....
in the end I stand up for me and only me... I don't affect others chances, and others don't affect me....
all I can be is the best me I can... if that aint good enough to some... tough!!! I aint changing!!! "
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"Just wanted to say: we have never had any problems with the single guys on this site, always had polite replies when we've said "no thank you" usually had some banter then wished them well in their search
The guys have a hard enough time on this site (yes I know there are some that let the side down )
But at the end of the day, none of us are perfect.
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Spot on guys,appreciate you putting a good word in for us singletons |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid "
Could shout this from the nearest mountain --- if I advertise which mountain , maybe all the local single guys could congregate !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love single men, without you guys I wouldn't get laid "
Could shout this from the nearest mountain --- if I advertise which mountain , maybe all the local single guys could congregate !!! "
I think you could whisper it and they'd still appear  |
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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago
Leicester |
"I take each message on it's own merit and try to reply to each one ..The majority of single guys that message me are charming and polite ..ok I've had a few that aren't but I realise it's only a minority that behave like that and I use the block button and move on ..This site is hard for single guys and in no way does it represent true life statistics ..I try to remember this xx
Soooo refreshing to hear this sort of attitude ladies.
I has frustrated me in the past that I have taken the time to respond with a personal message and yet receive only the big block button. "
yep, don't i know that one... |
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Im very Pro single guys here..
I basically find there are two types being;
a)Respectfull.. They read profiles and send a message that`s thought out and relevant .For these I will always have time for..
b) Disrespectfull.. Don`t read profiles and think they can message you any old shit/are funny/God`s gift and don`t like being politely declined (Like,isnt it OUR choice,surely?)
There`s loads of QUALITY guy`s here... It`s just a case of wading through all the dross,the banal and ridiculous messages to get to them...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im very Pro single guys here..
I basically find there are two types being;
a)Respectfull.. They read profiles and send a message that`s thought out and relevant .For these I will always have time for..
b) Disrespectfull.. Don`t read profiles and think they can message you any old shit/are funny/God`s gift and don`t like being politely declined (Like,isnt it OUR choice,surely?)
There`s loads of QUALITY guy`s here... It`s just a case of wading through all the dross,the banal and ridiculous messages to get to them... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't post in here single men!!!
IT'S A TRAP!!! 
Watch out for the trip wire in our bras ! "
I bet you £5 I can get into your bra without setting off the tripwire
*Mr Marmite come pre buttered up for easy access to contents of pants* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread is just what makes it so good to be on this site.
Would also say that (as a single guy) I have also had some very polite replies from couples and ladies...even when they say thanks but no thanks. It has sometimes led to a bit of banter before going our own ways.
And thanks to those that have said yes...quite true...there are quite a few of us "good guys" out there. And those of us that are have enjoyed much success...personally speaking anyway.
So yo all you lovely ladies and couples......a big thanks. Here's to the next 200 meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even though we don't play with single guys we've met some really awesome guys in clubs and had a good laugh.
Guys are there for the same reason as we are....to have a good time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Realistically guys have next to no chance on here. So best thing i have found is not to send messages but go to a club where you can chat and people find out who you are."
Ain't that the truth !!!! |
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totally agree with op x I always treat the single guys with the respect they deserve ... They get such a bad time and bad press also 