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Yep, nervous excitement is all part of it for me.
I don't look at my wobbly bits, to busy with my eyes on the the other person  I tend not to worry about what's wobbling |
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Yeah i get very nervous my biggest fear is meeting someone who knocks me back, I don't have much self confidence so things like that worry me a lot, I have in the past canceled meets because I've convinced myself they won't like me 
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not so much anymore I just worry about getting ready on time. I would be more worried about meeting someone who didn't have any recent verifications though. |
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"Yeah i get very nervous my biggest fear is meeting someone who knocks me back, I don't have much self confidence so things like that worry me a lot, I have in the past canceled meets because I've convinced myself they won't like me
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I'm the same. I've started to relax more recently as I've thought , well if worst comes to the worst we'll have a chat over a coffee or a drink. If we take it no furthe nothing's really lost and if we get on , it's worth the nerves. Likes others said the nerves are all part if it too, gets your adrenalin going.  |
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"Yeah i get very nervous my biggest fear is meeting someone who knocks me back, I don't have much self confidence so things like that worry me a lot, I have in the past canceled meets because I've convinced myself they won't like me
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Not just me that's done this then.  |
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No, not really. For me, here will always be socials beforehand, so the play meet is far more relaxed.
Nerves kill the mood and can ruin a perfectly good evening. If you are open, honest and relaxed about expectations, wants and desires what is there to be nervous about?
Fear is the mind killer. |
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I get nervous. I worry that I don't look good, that people won't like us or we won't like them. I worry they might do something we don't like. I am a born worrier, so it's to be expected. |
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"No, not really. For me, here will always be socials beforehand, so the play meet is far more relaxed.
Nerves kill the mood and can ruin a perfectly good evening. If you are open, honest and relaxed about expectations, wants and desires what is there to be nervous about?
Fear is the mind killer."
not really - the nerves usually disappear very early on into the meet - just the build up |
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"Get nervous before meets?
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When I was meeting new people on here...no.
Never.
But then I'm not shy at all.
And usually, I know what I want to the point where I'm actually looking forward to shagging said person.  |
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"Get nervous before meets?
If you do what do you worry bout?
If you do is your biggest fear not being able to perform, your wobbly bits or is it something else? "
I get awful... I have a real issue with one on one.... I can and have bailed.... Group or clubsI'm not so bad bit do not like to play alone. .
I worry about the fact in one on one I'm not confident. I Dont know how to progress from social to play.. And what To do once you have played x |
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Depends who it is, if it's someone I have got chatting to and we have seen before, then it's excitement rather than nerves.
If it's someone new then I'm totally bricking it! |
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No I don't I don't 'get' why people would get nervous...like singers who get stage fright. Get yourself comfortable in your own skin, if someone doesn't like it so what, plenty more fish in the....no, no that's another site. Plenty more fabulous people on Fab |
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"Yep, nervous excitement is all part of it for me.
I don't look at my wobbly bits, to busy with my eyes on the the other person I tend not to worry about what's wobbling "
This exactly!  .....I love that pre meet feeling. the day I don't get nervous is the day I'll stop meeting. |
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