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They say revenge is best served cold - what is the longest you waited?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I'll wait years. It's a bad trait of mine, I know but that's me.
^ this although I do deal with ppl at the time revenge is just a bonus. NOBODY gets the better of me EVER  "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As folks have said revenge is a waste of time, you're wasting your own time and energy on people who aren't worth it. It's easier said than done but in my experience the best thing you can do is just walk away from whatever it is. |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I don't do vengeance. It means someone's got the better of me by making me think about them. I have on occasion enjoyed a moment of schadenfreude however due to circumstances entirely free of my own involvement. |
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Silence! Thats the key.... People who expect some kind of revenge for any nasty deeds are really unerved and on edge , when silence is all they get! Karma can bite their arse when time is right too .... Aint got time for being bitter n twisted .... Their bad deeds their drama  |
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
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"Better to move on and put it behind you."
Not always possible to do this. In my case, I plan, one day, to be able to dance on the grave of the person who did me wrong over 30 yrs ago, then and only then will I be able to move on from it and yes, it really was THAT serious) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man?"
Probably have to see what he comes back as to be sure!
How people treat you is their karma, how you react is all yours
Revenge is in the dog  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't agree with revenge - I think it's quite childish to be honest, I just prefer to move on and wash them out my life. I did revenge with my x hubby but I've grown up since then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Better to move on and put it behind you.
Not always possible to do this. In my case, I plan, one day, to be able to dance on the grave of the person who did me wrong over 30 yrs ago, then and only then will I be able to move on from it and yes, it really was THAT serious)"
Ignoring the fact that it's not exactly revenge, but regradless of what they did - what will that achieve? Somethings are unforgivable, but a life full of hatred is not a healthy way to live.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't do vengeance. It means someone's got the better of me by making me think about them. I have on occasion enjoyed a moment of schadenfreude however due to circumstances entirely free of my own involvement."
 Sums it up perfectly. I might have a little smile to myself when some people land on their arses but I'd never actively seek to put them there |
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I can wait years
I have been know to carry on like nothing happened and buy my time to act. I will till the time is right and the give it right back to them and remind them if what they did.
I know most say no revenge but I do like the feeling of it and I know it makes me a BAD person but I like it served ice cold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't agree with revenge - I think it's quite childish to be honest, I just prefer to move on and wash them out my life. I did revenge with my x hubby but I've grown up since then "
I don't think it's childish, so someone can really hurt us and we just smile and go "oh well"
I don't think so and I'm def not childish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did exact revenge on my husband once. He had a piss in the toilet right behind my head,making me sit up. So,I invited him to sit in front of me in my bath. He got himself comfy and I wee'd on him then jumped out laughing at him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Silence! Thats the key.... People who expect some kind of revenge for any nasty deeds are really unerved and on edge , when silence is all they get! "
Couldn't agree more
Sarah x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man?"
he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man? he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal ! "
So true.
Free? Physically yes. But imagine the thoughts, fears, dark complexities, constantly wary of being found out (consciously or otherwise).. karma.
*shudders* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man? he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal ! So true.
Free? Physically yes. But imagine the thoughts, fears, dark complexities, constantly wary of being found out (consciously or otherwise).. karma.
*shudders*"
Sometimes karma is a smokescreen, an illusion...
Im not sure I either believe it, or understand it.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Karma is a lie, at least in the form that most people understand it. Karma isn't about your negative (or positive) actions returning upon you at done future point - that's just life because good things and bad things happen.
Karma is a state of mind, an intent of action. Bad karma (intent) less to bad action; positive to good action and so forth. Karma and your karmic balance comes from within - through your own mindfulness. |
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"Silence! Thats the key.... People who expect some kind of revenge for any nasty deeds are really unerved and on edge , when silence is all they get! Karma can bite their arse when time is right too .... Aint got time for being bitter n twisted .... Their bad deeds their drama "
I agree with this totally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list "
Cause and effect!
You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)
Eg instant karma
You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.
Simples |
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"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list
Cause and effect!
You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)
Eg instant karma
You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.
Simples "
no you call someone a prick they walk away thinking karma will get them back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just sit in the corner rocking, with a twisted smile on my face whilst I make voodoo dolls  "
An ex of mine actually tried the whole voodoo doll thing on me  |
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"I just sit in the corner rocking, with a twisted smile on my face whilst I make voodoo dolls
An ex of mine actually tried the whole voodoo doll thing on me "
Shit I didn't know u were on here!!!!... Only joking haha... Sorry in a naughty mood.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just sit in the corner rocking, with a twisted smile on my face whilst I make voodoo dolls
An ex of mine actually tried the whole voodoo doll thing on me
Shit I didn't know u were on here!!!!... Only joking haha... Sorry in a naughty mood. "
Lol had me worried then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list
Cause and effect!
You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)
Eg instant karma
You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.
Simples
no you call someone a prick they walk away thinking karma will get them back "
I don't think you grasped the concept! |
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"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list
Cause and effect!
You cause an event to happen and there will be an effect (consequence)
Eg instant karma
You call someone a prick, most likely you'll end up with a fat lip.
Simples
no you call someone a prick they walk away thinking karma will get them back
I don't think you grasped the concept! "
is that your way of trying to calling me stupid?
I fully understand and don't agree with you like I said before tangible evidence not some made up scenario |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's going to be a couple more years...
which will probs accumalate to around 11yrs.. All told 
It won't be revenge it will be what I deserve... And him, also for that matter..I will smile very sweetly. Some things are worth waiting for.... |
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"Does karma exist? How come J. Savile died a free and wealthy man? he was a deeply damaged man. . Yes he made others as messed up . . But he's now in a lake of fire being bummed by a narwhal ! "
So karma doesn't exist? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is that your way of trying to calling me stupid?
I fully understand and don't agree with you like I said before tangible evidence not some made up scenario "
No. It wouldn't be my intention to do so!!!
Read professor xxx post. The concept of karma is its 'your karma'. No one else's. It doesn't jump on to other people because they do bad things to you. Cause and effect in relation to your intentions! conscious or unconscious. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As folks have said revenge is a waste of time, you're wasting your own time and energy on people who aren't worth it. It's easier said than done but in my experience the best thing you can do is just walk away from whatever it is."
You never forget
And thats as bad after 47years and I presume
I never will...  |
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Those that claim that revenge isnt worth it, or you should turn the other cheek, cant care about people much.
It's been 20 years since I found out what happened, and now its payback.
I have waited, because I had to, but now I dont have to wait any more..... and the punishment will fit the crime.
I made a promise, and that promise will be honoured, he sowed the wind.... now he will reap the whirlwind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those that claim that revenge isnt worth it, or you should turn the other cheek, cant care about people much.
It's been 20 years since I found out what happened, and now its payback.
I have waited, because I had to, but now I dont have to wait any more..... and the punishment will fit the crime.
I made a promise, and that promise will be honoured, he sowed the wind.... now he will reap the whirlwind."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Show me some tangible evidence that karma is real and exists then I'll rip up my revenge list "
Karma does exist. I have seen her in action and it is truly amazing. It will happen when you least expect it.
I also believe what goes around goes around.
I don't do revenge as a rule I just like to think I'm giving karma a helping hand.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a short attention span so the whole revenge thing is lost on me, I get bored and theres always other more important stuff going on. This way I tend to find myself on the moral high ground a lot of the time which in turn gives me a nice warm smug feeling!! |
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