I've realised that there seems to be loads of good looking guys according to their profile. Yet when you go to the chat room and actually see people for real it is a very much different story.
We all know there's fake pics used on here, but I didn't realise how many.
Makes me feel better  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
I think most people try to post pics where they have tried to make a bit of an effort to look half way decent - and why wouldnt they?
Just because they go on cam in their scruffs, not had a shave, or dont have the opportunity to take a dozen crap shots and delete all but the most flattering ones, doesnt make their pics fake.
But if you think pics really are fake then just report them. |
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By *unybunyWoman
over a year ago
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There was a guy on yesterday who had lovely pics and a meet up for the same night. What confused me was the pics belonged to an Italian model who at the same time was on a photoshoot in a different country. Nice try all the same but quite scary for someone turning up to a meet expecting the genuine owner of the pics to open the door and getting the complete opposite  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"There was a guy on yesterday who had lovely pics and a meet up for the same night. What confused me was the pics belonged to an Italian model who at the same time was on a photoshoot in a different country. Nice try all the same but quite scary for someone turning up to a meet expecting the genuine owner of the pics to open the door and getting the complete opposite "
Assume you reported the profile?
Does make me wonder what they think the reaction of someone would be when faced with a completely different person!
"Oh well - I'm here now. May as well crack on!"
Somehow - I seriously doubt it!
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This is the thing.. im not judging peoples looks as such (although I am a bit).. its more about using pics that don't resemble you in reality.
When I look around at the competition it seems that 80% of guys gym 7 times a week. Yet on cam It looks like they are mainly salad dodgers  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"This is the thing.. im not judging peoples looks as such (although I am a bit).. its more about using pics that don't resemble you in reality.
When I look around at the competition it seems that 80% of guys gym 7 times a week. Yet on cam It looks like they are mainly salad dodgers "
If you treat life on Fab (or swinging in general) as a competition - you're setting yourself up to lose!
The only person you should ever worry about is yourself. You can't change other people. You may not be able to change too much about yourself physically either - but attitude and personality will generally go at least as far (if not further!) than purely physical characteristics.
Those that worry about the 'competition' often spend more time bemoaning others than focussing on things they can influence - themselves, their approaches and interactions.
They're really the only things that matter.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't go on cam but I do FaceTime people just as i am, no complaints so far even in my onesie 
Where as photos I do make an effort to make them look good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't go on cam but I do FaceTime people just as i am, no complaints so far even in my onesie
Where as photos I do make an effort to make them look good."
And they certainly do look good. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"This is the thing.. im not judging peoples looks as such (although I am a bit).. its more about using pics that don't resemble you in reality.
When I look around at the competition it seems that 80% of guys gym 7 times a week. Yet on cam It looks like they are mainly salad dodgers
If you treat life on Fab (or swinging in general) as a competition - you're setting yourself up to lose!
The only person you should ever worry about is yourself. You can't change other people. You may not be able to change too much about yourself physically either - but attitude and personality will generally go at least as far (if not further!) than purely physical characteristics.
Those that worry about the 'competition' often spend more time bemoaning others than focussing on things they can influence - themselves, their approaches and interactions.
They're really the only things that matter.
A"
Are you giving Confucius the day off today or summat??  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"This is the thing.. im not judging peoples looks as such (although I am a bit).. its more about using pics that don't resemble you in reality.
When I look around at the competition it seems that 80% of guys gym 7 times a week. Yet on cam It looks like they are mainly salad dodgers
If you treat life on Fab (or swinging in general) as a competition - you're setting yourself up to lose!
The only person you should ever worry about is yourself. You can't change other people. You may not be able to change too much about yourself physically either - but attitude and personality will generally go at least as far (if not further!) than purely physical characteristics.
Those that worry about the 'competition' often spend more time bemoaning others than focussing on things they can influence - themselves, their approaches and interactions.
They're really the only things that matter.
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Are you giving Confucius the day off today or summat?? "
Moi?? 
Nope - been eating fortune cookies!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've realised that there seems to be loads of good looking guys according to their profile. Yet when you go to the chat room and actually see people for real it is a very much different story.
We all know there's fake pics used on here, but I didn't realise how many.
Makes me feel better "
I am surprised its such a shock to you try going to one of the socials many of the people there look little like their profile pictures.  |
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