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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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How much would you write to someone you've never messaged before? I don't write long messages and get very few replies. However I do try to make what I do write a bit fun and interesting and avoid the standard 'hi' or 'wanna shag...' type of messages.
I would love to know what types of messages actually get a response.
Also, is there a length or type of message you will respond to? Will you only open messages from people you've spoken to in forums or on cam only? |
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For me personally the length doesn't matter, as long as it is well wrote and makes me giggle.
However, I always read profiles before I open a message and yours puts a lot of barriers in the way before I even read your message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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for me personally, a message shouldn't be longer than the profile, a paragraph is quite sufficient, read the profile and use something from it in your message. Expect to have your message read and deleted, most people check out the profile first, if doesn't catch ones eye then the message will get deleted as will the message. Patience is needed in abundance so just keep plodding on and use the forums, chat rooms if you want to get yourself known  |
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"For me personally the length doesn't matter, as long as it is well wrote and makes me giggle.
However, I always read profiles before I open a message and yours puts a lot of barriers in the way before I even read your message."
I can see what one of them is, but I've that onthere to at least be honest to others here rather than say I've got permission.
Would anything else put you off? I don't get the impression it's usually anything to do with my profile because most haven't looked at it before reading. |
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"For me personally the length doesn't matter, as long as it is well wrote and makes me giggle.
However, I always read profiles before I open a message and yours puts a lot of barriers in the way before I even read your message."
I agree with this  |
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"For me personally the length doesn't matter, as long as it is well wrote and makes me giggle.
However, I always read profiles before I open a message and yours puts a lot of barriers in the way before I even read your message.
I agree with this "
I know I won't fit into what everyone wants but if the language I used different and said looking for discreet fun should that actually make a difference? I'm assuming that if you don't like meeting with someone who is attached it shouldn't matter? |
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"For me personally the length doesn't matter, as long as it is well wrote and makes me giggle.
However, I always read profiles before I open a message and yours puts a lot of barriers in the way before I even read your message."
This for me too.
I reply to all messages even if it is a no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people are in 'stealth mode' so you can't see if they have looked at your profile or not. "
Makes me wonder if I'm in stealth mode but don't realise it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm starting to think the profile is the problem. Unfortunately it also makes me think I might be better off not being honest.  "
Stick to being honest but read that first paragraph out loud to yourself.
It dosen't read well and doesn't actually say you are playing with your partners consent. Just that it doesn't involve 'her' atm.
Good luck the rest is fine |
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