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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering why it take so long for members to reply to there mail ive got one over a year we started chatting now it stop thats a year ago...Burton xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My rule is if they don't reply after 7 days, delete and block, just so you don't message them again down the line, some people have too many messages to reply to all of them and don't like saying no thanks so they just leave the message in their inbox. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive always been told to be polite and nice to everyone on site just quick message wud be nice saying no thank you ...Burton xxx"
From the FAQ's
It's not rude not to reply.
Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't look at your sent box, and concentrate on your inbox, you'll find your experience here a lot more fun.
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Well that depends, I find there are plenty of unread messages in my sent box but if I look at my inbox ... * Tumble * ha ha  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering why it take so long for members to reply to there mail ive got one over a year we started chatting now it stop thats a year ago...Burton xx"
Hmm, maybe I'm not awake yet, or maybe it's poor grammar, but I didn't fully understand this.
Got one what over a year? |
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"Ive always been told to be polite and nice to everyone on site just quick message wud be nice saying no thank you ...Burton xxx"
nothing to do with been polite or nice, they simply arent interested, suck it up and move on, no one owes you a reply, no reply is your answer. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Just wondering why it take so long for members to reply to there mail ive got one over a year we started chatting now it stop thats a year ago...Burton xx"
it's often said that you need patience patience and more patience on here fella, I think you're the winner of that award  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't look at your sent box, and concentrate on your inbox, you'll find your experience here a lot more fun.
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 People complaining about delays in getting back to them is a turn off it would be a thanks and goodbye for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So you have been waiting for a reply for a year? Bloody hell there is patience and then again there is being deluded! Think it's safe to say the reply isnt coming. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering why it take so long for members to reply to there mail ive got one over a year we started chatting now it stop thats a year ago...Burton xx"
Why not message them and ask them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering why it take so long for members to reply to there mail ive got one over a year we started chatting now it stop thats a year ago...Burton xx"
Waiting over a year for a reply, I guess you're a glass half full kind of guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering why it take so long for members to reply to there mail ive got one over a year we started chatting now it stop thats a year ago...Burton xx
Waiting over a year for a reply, I guess you're a glass half full kind of guy."
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"Just wondering why it take so long for members to reply to there mail ive got one over a year we started chatting now it stop thats a year ago...Burton xx"
. Keep things simple and just assume that no reply means no. Why should people be expected to reply to a stranger ?. A bit pointless replying if the answer is no.
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"Ive always been told to be polite and nice to everyone on site just quick message wud be nice saying no thank you ...Burton xxx"
The only rule is to always be polite - the rest is down to individual style and preference.
As everyone has differing personal lives, with families. Jobs and travel thrown in to add complexity, the only more certain thing is that contact initiators are likely more motivated.
If we assume others have the best intentions then any polite response is great, even if slow.
The beauty of fab is that we are all different. If one is needing others then best practice is probably to persist with many attempts at a large number of prospective matches and to keep focused on that. We will never all respond in the same way or with the same speed - it's how life is. |
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Don't check your sent emails to see if they have been read.
Sometimes I send that many messages in an evening, I don't remember them when I reply until I've re-read their profile.
Don't stress about no replies...they are helping in that you have one less to contact
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