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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its subjective,if you think you are you have a massive ego,if you don't think you are you have no self esteem
You can't win so best not to bother worrying about it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its subjective,if you think you are you have a massive ego,if you don't think you are you have no self esteem
You can't win so best not to bother worrying about it "
Exactly right  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its subjective,if you think you are you have a massive ego,if you don't think you are you have no self esteem
You can't win so best not to bother worrying about it "
Ha, exactly. I see that and don't bother.
My take on it is they seek someone handsome, physically fit (slim, toned), probably hung, confident etc etc
I know I'll never meet their exacting standards so move on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't understand the reasoning behind putting that to be honest. All the guys I have met that have been exceptional in my opinion, haven't declared it. That seems to be what contributes to them being exceptional. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I put a line in my status that basically said "I've got such a high opinion of myself that I'm only willing to even consider shagging women who are stunning, fit, 10/10 Playboy Bunnies" then I'd expect to get very few messages.
That's how I read the 'exceptional males only' line, and respond to it accordingly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you turn up with a box of quality street and some blue nun you are considered exceptional in our house.
Blue bum is gross "
Absolutely. I wouldnt rim one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you turn up with a box of quality street and some blue nun you are considered exceptional in our house.
Blue bum is gross "
Put some drawers on then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you turn up with a box of quality street and some blue nun you are considered exceptional in our house.
Blue bum is gross
Absolutely. I wouldnt rim one. "
Nun I mean nun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you turn up with a box of quality street and some blue nun you are considered exceptional in our house.
I can stretch to half a toblerone and a bottle of Lambrini. Any good? "
You can keep the toblerone , but can you stretch to a double decker ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being a demi-god of swing, a traveller in the time-space-continuum-wormhole-thready-thingies, an Inter-Galactic Hero and just being generally awesome 
Ooww are you related to Dr Who? :D
That's me. In case you didn't realise...   "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Being a demi-god of swing, a traveller in the time-space-continuum-wormhole-thready-thingies, an Inter-Galactic Hero and just being generally awesome
That's me. In case you didn't realise... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I put a line in my status that basically said "I've got such a high opinion of myself that I'm only willing to even consider shagging women who are stunning, fit, 10/10 Playboy Bunnies" then I'd expect to get very few messages.
That's how I read the 'exceptional males only' line, and respond to it accordingly!"
I think it says a lot about the people that would put that in their profile... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im not exceptional at all but I am real and turn up . "
And that's all you can be. I'm never gonna win any beauty contests, I can't do owt about my cock size, I don't have the time or discipline to be super toned (although I am gymming to lose weight!), but I try to be honest, friendly respectful and reliable.
But the punchline is, this is essentially a sex dating site so physical perfection will always be high on most peoples requirements list before they're going to be prepared to even consider getting down and dirty with someone.
So for no strings sex natural selection will take place - the best looking will (overall) rise to the too and get most demand and that is clearly evident on these Forums if you see who the 'popular' males are |
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It's personnal preference to me, exceptional is respectful , confident and not in a cocky gobshite way, understanding of ones nerves ie patience I could go on but to honest I can't be arsed
I supposed you can't work out on here weither e guy is exceptional or not, the only way you know is if you met the person face to face. And this is shy I prefer clubs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't have that on our profile. We're not generally looking to meet single men. There are some we see for whom we would consider making an exception to that rule. The parameters of that vary according to what catches my eye and we don't expect anyone to jump through hoops which is why we don't say it...We do the approaching if we see someone who stands out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I see someone is looking for someone 'exceptional' on their profile, I usually think they're probably looking for someone who looks like they do modelling or something lol.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Often see this on profiles, but what makes a guy exceptional?"
A guy who has manners some style and physical fit but also sane of mind and not deluded into thinking he travels through time,far too many nutcases who try too hard.
Exceptional is often a guy who is confident and looks good too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Often see this on profiles, but what makes a guy exceptional?
A guy who has manners some style and physical fit but also sane of mind and not deluded into thinking he travels through time,far too many nutcases who try too hard.
Exceptional is often a guy who is confident and looks good too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of curiosity, do such people who ask for "exceptional males" ever give any inkling or idea of what they think makes an exceptional male?"
The reality is more that they don't want scruffy dirty guys who shoot their bold before their socks are off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it judged on number of verifications? How many have the single guys on this thread got? At what point (how many?) do you become "exceptional"..."
Nothing to do with verifications sweetie anyone who is prepared to let people trash his house, spunk on his carpet and curtains can pick those up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I am still looking for my female stevie wonder
Hello, is it me you're looking for?
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Uptight, everything's alright. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Often see this on profiles, but what makes a guy exceptional?"
I've put it in ours (Bo here). For me exceptional is someone, first and foremost, who can string a sentence together without text talk, hunni, babe etc; someone who is not overly pushy, can carry a conversation and not every second pic a cock pic.
It's a tough gig as a single loon no mistake. Much as D has the free reign to do what she so wishes on here, with or without me, (as I'm in the road so much) I really don't envy turning the tables at all. I'm sure I'd get pretty down as a single bloke on here.
That said. All the ones we've seen have been lovely. Credits to the single guys.
So I guess in short, for us; someone who goes the extra mile and stands out. I'd like to think we give a fair crack of the whip. I reply to most messages unless they're the one liners - which means they haven't read the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I am still looking for my female stevie wonder
Hello, is it me you're looking for?
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haha brilliant isn't she lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder I am still looking for my female stevie wonder
Hello, is it me you're looking for?
haha brilliant isn't she lovely x"
Fulfillingness first finale indeed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Often see this on profiles, but what makes a guy exceptional?
I've put it in ours (Bo here). For me exceptional is someone, first and foremost, who can string a sentence together without text talk, hunni, babe etc; someone who is not overly pushy, can carry a conversation and not every second pic a cock pic.
It's a tough gig as a single loon no mistake. Much as D has the free reign to do what she so wishes on here, with or without me, (as I'm in the road so much) I really don't envy turning the tables at all. I'm sure I'd get pretty down as a single bloke on here.
That said. All the ones we've seen have been lovely. Credits to the single guys.
So I guess in short, for us; someone who goes the extra mile and stands out. I'd like to think we give a fair crack of the whip. I reply to most messages unless they're the one liners - which means they haven't read the profile. "
I totally agree with Bo and in his definition he never once mentioned anything about appearance. Although looks are very important it's attitude that's the deal breaker. Also for me exceptional means not the norm, it's mostly couples or the fabled single female we would like to meet lol.
But occasionally as an exception to the rule we'd like to meet a single guy.
Not up our own arses honestly just not interested in the fancy a fuck messages or people who would send them.
Dx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it judged on number of verifications? How many have the single guys on this thread got? At what point (how many?) do you become "exceptional"...
Nothing to do with verifications sweetie anyone who is prepared to let people trash his house, spunk on his carpet and curtains can pick those up. "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Is it judged on number of verifications? How many have the single guys on this thread got? At what point (how many?) do you become "exceptional"...
Nothing to do with verifications sweetie anyone who is prepared to let people trash his house, spunk on his carpet and curtains can pick those up. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its subjective,if you think you are you have a massive ego,if you don't think you are you have no self esteem
You can't win so best not to bother worrying about it "
But if you don't think you are but might tick their boxes no one ever actually finds out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it judged on number of verifications? How many have the single guys on this thread got? At what point (how many?) do you become "exceptional"..."
I don't now...how many do you have? I don't think you've mentioned it...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we read this it is basically saying. We are exceptionally great ourselves and you are not worthy of breathing same air as us /me.
To that end we move onto next profile.
Have no time for arrogant big heads.
But hey whatever floats your boat, we can't all like same stuff.
Narcissistic people attract the same and they are happy with that then I for one am not going to say its wrong. Good luck to them.
Just not for us.
No runs for cover and waits for abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found being exceptional was a massive problem. The daily proposals from women, death threats from jealous husbands etc
So I had to take drastic action. A deliberately poor diet, plastic surgery and a penis reduction all paid off |
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"If you turn up with a box of quality street and some blue nun you are considered exceptional in our house.
I can stretch to half a toblerone and a bottle of Lambrini. Any good?
You can keep the toblerone , but can you stretch to a double decker ?"
Fuck me. You couples really are up yourselves, a Double Decker?! FFS!
You do know I'm EXCEPTIONAL don't you?! |
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"If you turn up with a box of quality street and some blue nun you are considered exceptional in our house.
I can stretch to half a toblerone and a bottle of Lambrini. Any good?
You can keep the toblerone , but can you stretch to a double decker ?
Fuck me. You couples really are up yourselves, a Double Decker?! FFS!
You do know I'm EXCEPTIONAL don't you?! "
Your profile name says it all, unconquerable, undefeated...unquestionably exceptional! |
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By *DFL6828Man
over a year ago
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That says to me, people so far up there own arse that when they talk, they talk shit...
id rather people be real and be there self's than be something they are not. But i forgot this site is full of people who talk shit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its subjective,if you think you are you have a massive ego,if you don't think you are you have no self esteem
You can't win so best not to bother worrying about it "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exceptional size, exceptional feet, exceptional brain, exceptional eyes, exceptional personality, exceptional staying power, Exceptional thoughtfulness/patience.....and many more. You be exceptional in any 1 of the above and a failure in 999 of the others .....are you still exceptional?
I suspect the focus is on size and apparently all black men are massive so they must be all exceptional!!! (not being racists just an obvious conclusion from reading comments/requests). |
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"My ego is sentient and occasionally wanders off on his own
...actually I think Funky has it this week..."
Yup I have it bro. Mind my/your ego is probably big enough for you/me to use it asynchronously. Time paradox's allowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It means you turn up with a bargain bucket from KFC with beans and gravy and a 2 litre bottle of cider.
Doesn't it?
So when exactly are you coming round? "
Just give me directions and I'll set off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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very good looking with a stunning cover model physique and a superb attitude to go with it.
the sort of man that turns heads in the street
lots of people seem to be fence sitters saying 'everyone is beautiful to someone' but most will agree on certain men
david gandy please message me when you are free xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"very good looking with a stunning cover model physique and a superb attitude to go with it.
the sort of man that turns heads in the street
lots of people seem to be fence sitters saying 'everyone is beautiful to someone' but most will agree on certain men
david gandy please message me when you are free xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me. it's the fact that they send a good message, stay in touch regardless of whether we ever meet or not and if a meet is arranged, they turn up "
Is that exceptional? I would see that as the norm. It is certainly what I always do. I don't consider myself exceptional....those who don't are just Nobs......(but from the forums in general a lot may be just that) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It means you turn up with a bargain bucket from KFC with beans and gravy and a 2 litre bottle of cider.
Doesn't it?
So when exactly are you coming round?
Just give me directions and I'll set off "
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"very good looking with a stunning cover model physique and a superb attitude to go with it.
the sort of man that turns heads in the street
lots of people seem to be fence sitters saying 'everyone is beautiful to someone' but most will agree on certain men
david gandy please message me when you are free xx"
I agree with this, too many won't say what they actually think in case it upsets someone, if push came to shove, most will agree on a certain look and physique. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I'm of the opinion that if you think you're exceptional then you are not (and not really that modest either!)
Exceptional is a subjective word anyway... It's going to mean different things to different people |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"I'm of the opinion that if you think you're exceptional then you are not (and not really that modest either!)
Exceptional is a subjective word anyway... It's going to mean different things to different people "
Yep!
I can confirm I'm the very best 'me' there is though.
So if that's not good enough for others - I'm really not going to worry!
Seeing 'exceptional only' or similar on a profile doesn't bother me and certainly wouldn't ever be a deciding factor on whether to get in touch. You never know if you fit someone's preferences/tastes til you ask the question.
It's no different to 'professional', 'genuine' or any other word used. It's just a word!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm of the opinion that if you think you're exceptional then you are not (and not really that modest either!)
Exceptional is a subjective word anyway... It's going to mean different things to different people
Yep!
I can confirm I'm the very best 'me' there is though.
So if that's not good enough for others - I'm really not going to worry!
Seeing 'exceptional only' or similar on a profile doesn't bother me and certainly wouldn't ever be a deciding factor on whether to get in touch. You never know if you fit someone's preferences/tastes til you ask the question.
It's no different to 'professional', 'genuine' or any other word used. It's just a word!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"very good looking with a stunning cover model physique and a superb attitude to go with it.
the sort of man that turns heads in the street
lots of people seem to be fence sitters saying 'everyone is beautiful to someone' but most will agree on certain men
david gandy please message me when you are free xx
I agree with this, too many won't say what they actually think in case it upsets someone, if push came to shove, most will agree on a certain look and physique."
Who doesn't like a head turning type of guy (or a woman). I haven't met lots of men but I have met different types of men. from slim to curvy. The majority made me laugh which is the main thing for me. Im not saying I didn't have a couple of favourites, who doesn't? And yes I'd like to meet them again but it's not going to happen so I moved on. So basically a nice guy is what counts who can make me laugh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Often see this on profiles, but what makes a guy exceptional?
A guy who has manners some style and physical fit but also sane of mind and not deluded into thinking he travels through time,far too many nutcases who try too hard.
Exceptional is often a guy who is confident and looks good too. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very good looking with a stunning cover model physique and a superb attitude to go with itHello, cover model body here with a 6pack "
do you think?
i dont want to be rude but you dont look particularly muscular to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very good looking with a stunning cover model physique and a superb attitude to go with itHello, cover model body here with a 6pack
do you think?
i dont want to be rude but you dont look particularly muscular to me. "
Hello, lego model here with a six pack (of Old Speckled Hen in a carrier bag) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you go with the flow, not fight to be most popular ( milk tray bloke) lol
I have noticed the most popular have done this, and that makes them exceptional and attractive.
We have some on our friends list
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you go with the flow, not fight to be most popular ( milk tray bloke) lol
I have noticed the most popular have done this, and that makes them exceptional and attractive.
We have some on our friends list
Her"
Must be a problem with the fab servers, my invite from you seems to be missing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very good looking with a stunning cover model physique and a superb attitude to go with itHello, cover model body here with a 6pack
do you think?
i dont want to be rude but you dont look particularly muscular to me. "
I dont want to be rude.....but. I will lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men"
Now now, play nicely. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Even the ones who are wrong.
Remember, those of us who dont have the "body beautiful" look have to rely on personality, wit, charm, manners and being an incredibly good fuck.
The "beautiful people" use their looks.
In ten years time when they are competing with the beautiul people who are ten years younger, they have to learn those skills from scratch.
I'll have had ten years practice
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By (user no longer on site)
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men"
Exceptional is subjective regardless of gender |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men"
yes and if they get the attention from the exceptional guys... so be it
the guys make the choice..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men"
Well why settle for second best, if you were used to getting hot men when you were younger its not so easy making do.  |
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men
Well why settle for second best, if you were used to getting hot men when you were younger its not so easy making do. "
Yes and a lot of men think the same way too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What defines exceptional?? "
If you need to ask,its not you
If you say you are then you've tipped the scales from exceptional to arrogant so its still not you
Its a lose lose situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men"
That's because this is a sex site, and they can. Basic Keynsian supply and demand.
So many men desperate for sex that that the 'unexceptional' women (as you call them) can dictate their terms.
In very simplistic terms they can raise the bar for casual sex much higher than if they were looking for a longer term partner in the dating game. Then natural selection tends to be more prevalent - i.e. the unexceptional women will find it much harder to pull the exceptional men.
Just the way it is! |
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So anyone who isnt exceptional is second rate? And anyone approached by a lady who was exceptional is third rate?
Your confidence may be on the decline if you have to "settle" for less than exceptional. But thanks a bunch for us who aren't in the running.
I will stick with my playmates who see me for who I am and what I do for them, rather than competing for the attention of the fickle.
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"So anyone who isnt exceptional is second rate? And anyone approached by a lady who was exceptional is third rate?
Your confidence may be on the decline if you have to "settle" for less than exceptional. But thanks a bunch for us who aren't in the running.
I will stick with my playmates who see me for who I am and what I do for them, rather than competing for the attention of the fickle.
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men
Exceptional is subjective regardless of gender "
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Often see this on profiles, but what makes a guy exceptional?"
Its simple!
An exceptional guy is one capable of putting up with all the earache women give single men on here! |
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"have you noticed some of the decidedly unexceptional women demanding attention from these exceptional men
Exceptional is subjective regardless of gender "
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