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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

In London forum there is a thread call Essex wife gang bang and it says minimum 6 men for his wife. White or black but no Asian men?

I know I could be just personal preference but I have seen this on quite alot websites. What other factor are involved except personal preference?

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

I'd guess none!

Preferences are what preferences are!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It'll be down to preference or previous bad experience perhaps. Can't think of any other reason really

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would you ask the same question if it said black only or white only?

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

Sorry in op I meant profiles not websites lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The answers are the same though....

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By *reelove1969Couple over a year ago

bristol

i dont think there is any deep hidden meaning other than the obvious ..preference !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its just preference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you have any ideas ? I think they just don't feel any sexual attraction to Asian men

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

Is this same with Asian women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I doubt it.

Its just preference. Sometimes a lovely tanned diminutive Thai lady sounds fun, at other times, a busty black goddess, and then again a leggy Nordic beauty...

It would be crap, however, if you wanted one and a different one introduced themselves for a meet...

That would be like ordering a Chinese Takeaway and getting Fish and Chips. Sure its food, but its not what you wanted...

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

When in doubt ask, ask the people concerned though as they're the only ones who know their reasons.

Anyone else will be guessing, which might give the totally wrong answer.

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By *ntelligent Gent.Man over a year ago

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I'm not speaking here specifically. However, in general, unfortunately negative stereotyping reinforced of Asian guys e.g. in news, does lead to this.

It won't change for this generation, but there's bigger worries in life

Oh and there's plenty of fantastic women interested. Makes them even more special to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I tend to avoid Asian men because in the past many have been aggressive and have lacked respect for women. I did ask one Asian friend and she said it was down to cultural differences where Asian males don't traditionally treat women as equals.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It wouldn't bother me. It just means i'm not what they're looking for. I really wouldn't dwell on it to it too much. That's their profile and what they want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely "

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I personally don't feel very attracted to dusky women....I seem to go for the paler shades of lady if that makes sense?..I have no idea why though....its purely sexual attraction and that's all I can put it down to....

I suppose that's just the way my libido is wired....many folk will have their own preferences and its just one of those 'how it is' things....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that."

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole"

The op asked for a reason if you are going to answer it answer it I was giving an opinion (which you might be surprised I am entitles to) you are just more intent on being petty I guess its jealousy it would be best if you got over it and maybe answer the op's question.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

eh...?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

"
Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too! "

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In London forum there is a thread call Essex wife gang bang and it says minimum 6 men for his wife. White or black but no Asian men?

I know I could be just personal preference but I have seen this on quite alot websites. What other factor are involved except personal preference?"

There could be many reasons from attitude, looks reliability,respect and 100 others I have to ask were you hoping for No 101 answer racist?

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"I tend to avoid Asian men because in the past many have been aggressive and have lacked respect for women. I did ask one Asian friend and she said it was down to cultural differences where Asian males don't traditionally treat women as equals. "

I would say you are spot on there with "some possible reasons" why in answer to the OP's question. Many girls and couples have said exactly the same thing to me while having conversations in clubs about why they don't meet/play with asians.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative."
lmfao are you for real? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you would have to ask them why tbh

its all guesswork going on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

With regards to OP's query...

This non-preference of Asian men may have a number of reasons. Here could be some possibilities:

1. They don't find Asian men attractive and thus don't wish to play with them

2. They may have had a bad experience with an Asian man or men in the past and this has led to an 'erring-on-the-side-of-caution' type approach

3. They may be influenced by the prevailing media driven stereotypes which may or may not have re-affirmed their preconceived notions of what Asian men are like...

4. They may have issues with the Asian phenotype/culture

Ultimately, it matters very little.

What matters is that you are comfortable with yourself, you are dignified and respectful to all and you are accepting of views that are contrary to your own.

Live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative. lmfao are you for real? Lol

I was going to ask you if you were or just trying to bully someone?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative. lmfao are you for real? Lol

I was going to ask you if you were or just trying to bully someone?

its funny i only see them pop up in these kindsa threads

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"With regards to OP's query...

This non-preference of Asian men may have a number of reasons. Here could be some possibilities:

1. They don't find Asian men attractive and thus don't wish to play with them

2. They may have had a bad experience with an Asian man or men in the past and this has led to an 'erring-on-the-side-of-caution' type approach

3. They may be influenced by the prevailing media driven stereotypes which may or may not have re-affirmed their preconceived notions of what Asian men are like...

4. They may have issues with the Asian phenotype/culture

Ultimately, it matters very little.

What matters is that you are comfortable with yourself, you are dignified and respectful to all and you are accepting of views that are contrary to your own.

Live and let live.

Mate you ever thought of joining the politics?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative. lmfao are you for real? Lol

I was going to ask you if you were or just trying to bully someone?

its funny i only see them pop up in these kindsa threads

I know those who have fuck all to add to the topic just like to pick on people and that in my book is a bully its pretty sad really.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

Why don't you all get a room

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With regards to OP's query...

This non-preference of Asian men may have a number of reasons. Here could be some possibilities:

1. They don't find Asian men attractive and thus don't wish to play with them

2. They may have had a bad experience with an Asian man or men in the past and this has led to an 'erring-on-the-side-of-caution' type approach

3. They may be influenced by the prevailing media driven stereotypes which may or may not have re-affirmed their preconceived notions of what Asian men are like...

4. They may have issues with the Asian phenotype/culture

Ultimately, it matters very little.

What matters is that you are comfortable with yourself, you are dignified and respectful to all and you are accepting of views that are contrary to your own.

Live and let live.

Mate you ever thought of joining the politics? "

Nope. Are they a band?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't you all get a room

If you ask questions why don't you respond to replays given?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I know I could be just personal preference but I have seen this on quite alot websites. What other factor are involved except personal preference?"

None. Even the women who say otherwise are just displaying personal preference, as there is no way they can tell that every Asian man is going to behave like the ones they've met. They've had a meet that didn't go as planned, therefore they avoid the type of man that disappointed them.

Me? Love them. I've met loads and think they are very sexy.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Op ... In reply to your question ... Think it all depends what experience people have with others. If a bad experience they then sometimes put all those in that catagory in the same stereo typical Pot ... Boil them up and think that all are the same!

However , some actually take people on their induvidual merits and treat others with respect , which in turn they get back,

simples!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Jealous of what exactly? If I could read minds I would answer the OPs question. You gave your opinion I gave my contradicting opinion. Have you ever had a bad experience with European men? I have but I don't rule all of them out because of it. I'm not surprised that anyone gives opinions on here. It's what is supposed to happen,and I respect everyone's opinion. You don't want Asian men because you think they all treat women badly,I will meet them because I know they don't. May not have directly answered the OPs question but giving both sides of a story might help people to understand more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op ... In reply to your question ... Think it all depends what experience people have with others. If a bad experience they then sometimes put all those in that catagory in the same stereo typical Pot ... Boil them up and think that all are the same!

However , some actually take people on their induvidual merits and treat others with respect , which in turn they get back,

simples! "

Maybe you should have put that rather than bullying someone. Though that does look like you are trying to say in a round about way someone is racist.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative. lmfao are you for real? Lol

I was going to ask you if you were or just trying to bully someone?

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lol me!? Have you read the thread !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

I think she had a point it looked like you had an issue with someones point of view rather than having one of your own.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative. lmfao are you for real? Lol

I was going to ask you if you were or just trying to bully someone?

its funny i only see them pop up in these kindsa threads

I know those who have fuck all to add to the topic just like to pick on people and that in my book is a bully its pretty sad really.

Why don't you all get a room

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

However , some actually take people on their induvidual merits and treat others with respect , which in turn they get back,

simples!

Maybe you should have put that rather than bullying someone. Though that does look like you are trying to say in a round about way someone is racist.

"
me a bully? That is bollocks abd wgere the fuck did you get i was implying anyone was racist?!! FFS

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Why don't you all get a room

If you ask questions why don't you respond to replays given? "

Apologies my good lady. I went to gym and now making dinner and later I'll be eating

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Personally, we have no issues with any "type" of person.... we're all just people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

However , some actually take people on their induvidual merits and treat others with respect , which in turn they get back,

simples!

Maybe you should have put that rather than bullying someone. Though that does look like you are trying to say in a round about way someone is racist.

me a bully? That is bollocks abd wgere the fuck did you get i was implying anyone was racist?!! FFS

Well you act like a bully you pick on people rather than having a point of view you can't expect people to think otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

Hello Popeye

Have you had chicken for your tea?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

Wow! People can reply how they see fit! Best you get over that too!

Yes I can so you should get over it I am sure the op found your comments to the point and informative. lmfao are you for real? Lol

I was going to ask you if you were or just trying to bully someone?

its funny i only see them pop up in these kindsa threads

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well if them? If you are refering to me... I reply to all type if threads and a Bully I Am not! Infact i took offence to how others were told how and what they could respond to... Like the OP needed their personal spokes person! I think not ... So now you went off the thread!! Will you get ya legs slapped too?! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just preferences there rarely are any reasons, I (shel) am only attracted to caucasian men there is no particular reason I don't know why exactly but it's just what floats my boat, the same as someone else only likes a certain figure on a person or a hair colour

I've received lots of abuse in the past calling me racist but I can assure you I'm not, one of my closest friends is a practicing Muslim and my best male friend from my school days was a Sikh, none of this matters but I want to point out that just because someone has a preference it's something they can't control it's just what floats their boat.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

However , some actually take people on their induvidual merits and treat others with respect , which in turn they get back,

simples!

Maybe you should have put that rather than bullying someone. Though that does look like you are trying to say in a round about way someone is racist.

me a bully? That is bollocks abd wgere the fuck did you get i was implying anyone was racist?!! FFS

Well you act like a bully you pick on people rather than having a point of view you can't expect people to think otherwise. "
carry on n think if you feel then ... I can sleep at night sweet !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Suppose it's just personal preference. Mine used to be 'no blondes' Didn't do it for me or so I thought. Must say I've fucked alot of blondes since joining this site, so not set in stone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

I have no doubt you haven't but the OP did ask about asian men in general and people will reply with possibilities. Asian men is a big group of people with many different attitudes with in areas and religious groups. There are certain religious groups that demean women you only have to look at Saudi where women are not even allowed to drive. There are plenty of other groups within the UK who do not treat women as equals or would you deny that?

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

Unfortunately some people will judge everything and everyone on one experience.

But on the other hand, if you've had a bad experience then you'd be entitled to be wary..

Just imagine if the first fruit you'd ever eaten was a lemon, or your first ever curry was a vindaloo. You'd never want to try fruit or curries again.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its a shame actually there are not many Asians in York (well, apart from Chinese, but they don't seem to socialise outside their own groups) so I have to go to Leeds or Manchester to fulfil my wants.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Racism...simple as.

Usually of the form 'Ive met a few Asians/blacks/whites who are 'x' therefore I assume that everyone with the same skin pigmentation must be the same and I now won't meet any of them'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've met a few Asian men,they were all extremely polite and respectful. One of my regular fwb is muslim and lovely

That doesn't ask the question he asked why not try answering that.

I should have quoted you. You seem to have corralled them into the same stereotypical pigeon hole

I think she had a point it looked like you had an issue with someones point of view rather than having one of your own. "

I don't have an issue with her. I think she thinks I do and became defensive

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

And not all mid-Asians are Muslims, but for some reason there are many on this site who assume Brown=Muslim.

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By *i fem huntersCouple over a year ago

london

Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can find all colours and creeds sexy but gilly does not find black and Asian men sexy I think it's just personal choice you can't help who you are attracted to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To not find a certain race attractive does not mean racism? We wouldnt meet black guys or asian guys for playtime yet we have plenty of both as friends. X

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

And not all mid-Asians are Muslims, but for some reason there are many on this site who assume Brown=Muslim."

Yes! You speak truth! This is stereotype!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no positive discrimination in the bedroom.

Its just preference.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

Unfortunately some people will judge everything and everyone on one experience.

But on the other hand, if you've had a bad experience then you'd be entitled to be wary..

Just imagine if the first fruit you'd ever eaten was a lemon, or your first ever curry was a vindaloo. You'd never want to try fruit or curries again."

To be fair to Petite Exhibitionist, who made the comment she did say it was "many" asian men, so i assume what she was saying was it was not a one off experience, but a recurring theme with meeting asian men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

And not all mid-Asians are Muslims, but for some reason there are many on this site who assume Brown=Muslim.

Yes! You speak truth! This is stereotype!

I mentioned muslim because my Asian fwb is muslim. It's how he described himself to me. I wasn't aware and don't care. He's sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Gingers get discriminated against too.

Some Asians are Ginger too. (e.g. in Afghanistan)

Therefore, Ginger Asians should get a higher pussy quota...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sexual preference doesnt make you racist but its an easy way to palm it off as such

me personally i`d bang anyone lady that was hot enough regardless of race

just because you wouldnt shag a certain group it doesnt mean you wouldnt associate with them. I might find someone not the least bit physically attractive but i wouldnt be a cnut to them because of it. i can still have a laugh and do the social side of things

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on................."

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"sexual preference doesnt make you racist but its an easy way to palm it off as such

me personally i`d bang anyone lady that was hot enough regardless of race

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"sexual preference doesnt make you racist but its an easy way to palm it off as such

me personally i`d bang anyone lady that was hot enough regardless of race

Top lad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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"Racism...simple as.

Usually of the form 'Ive met a few Asians/blacks/whites who are 'x' therefore I assume that everyone with the same skin pigmentation must be the same and I now won't meet any of them' "

This is a bit harsh....sexual preferences are often determined by early experiences e.g I've never had experience of men other than caucasian and so my fantasies always involve white men. So that's my preference. As is brown-eyed women and brunette men. xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason? "

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

This thread has taken a very dark turn.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread has taken a very dark turn.

What people have an opinion other than you wanted?

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction."

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations."

Lads will always be lads!!!! Made me smile. Legend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To brighten up the thread a bit. To be honest - many meet me (and i really don't mind it and they say i've never been with an Asian person before let alone one that looks like you.

...i love being their first. I feel so naughty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations."

Count me in!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations."

They would debate for hours and then go off to get pissed at a very expensive meal with expensive alcohol all paid for on expenses.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"To brighten up the thread a bit. To be honest - many meet me (and i really don't mind it and they say i've never been with an Asian person before let alone one that looks like you.

...i love being their first. I feel so naughty.

Positive lad

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This thread has taken a very dark turn.

You opened Pandoras Box mate. Don't worry about it. They'll get distracted by something else in a min.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Heal the world - build bridges one hole at a time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

It wasn't an opinion it was a question which was a valid one as only 3 people had mentioned the word muslim (including you)I guess you were attempting to steer the thread that way as you avoided answering.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"This thread has taken a very dark turn.

You opened Pandoras Box mate. Don't worry about it. They'll get distracted by something else in a min."

Guilty but there is a lady above accusing me of manipulation.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My preferences are not that rigid that it would cancel me out of meeting someone because of their race, skin colour etc but that is me. I could not tell you why others do maybe it is just personal preference but who nows

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way."

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

Good night... Before someone says why don't you 2 get a room lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night "

That's poppycock people explain many things people avoid explaining deceive comments as its difficult to come up with fictitious but believable answer.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

That's poppycock people explain many things people avoid explaining deceive comments as its difficult to come up with fictitious but believable answer."

Ok if you say so

Good night now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

That's poppycock people explain many things people avoid explaining deceive comments as its difficult to come up with fictitious but believable answer.

Ok if you say so

Good night now "

Odd you can answer but not come up with a reason for your comments. Not surprising though.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

That's poppycock people explain many things people avoid explaining deceive comments as its difficult to come up with fictitious but believable answer.

Ok if you say so

Good night now

Odd you can answer but not come up with a reason for your comments. Not surprising though. "

Night night xx

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

That's poppycock people explain many things people avoid explaining deceive comments as its difficult to come up with fictitious but believable answer.

Ok if you say so

Good night now

Odd you can answer but not come up with a reason for your comments. Not surprising though. "

You can't force anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

I wouldn't mind an explanation to why you focused on Muslims too as looking on this thread it makes little sense. Oh and goodnight to you before you say it.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This thread has taken a very dark turn.

You opened Pandoras Box mate. Don't worry about it. They'll get distracted by something else in a min.

Guilty but there is a lady above accusing me of manipulation.

Ignore them. People always reply to what they want to reply to, and there's no rule that replies are compulsory anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread has taken a very dark turn.

You opened Pandoras Box mate. Don't worry about it. They'll get distracted by something else in a min.

Guilty but there is a lady above accusing me of manipulation.

Ignore them. People always reply to what they want to reply to, and there's no rule that replies are compulsory anyway."

Thats true but without an explanation to comments people will make assumptions and often correct ones if people have been given the chance to clarify but fail to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am Asian, and have been fortunate to meet people, that have stated no Asians. It's a question of respect. And it's people's preference. In no way is it racism.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kill me. "

Why would I want to do that your duplicitous manner is doing that already.

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"I am Asian, and have been fortunate to meet people, that have stated no Asians. It's a question of respect. And it's people's preference. In no way is it racism. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am Asian, and have been fortunate to meet people, that have stated no Asians. It's a question of respect. And it's people's preference. In no way is it racism. "

I think you have a point there my heritage is mixed and I have yet to have a problem manners in general overcome a lot of barriers.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its thecperceotion that asian men treat women as second class especially white women may not be politically correct but thats my experience and opinion.

Thats not a generalisation of asian men but if those who state no asian men if they were honest and not be afraid of the race card being used in cases where its personal preference this topic would not brought up so often.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN? "

I need to be your friend.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With regards to OP's query...

This non-preference of Asian men may have a number of reasons. Here could be some possibilities:

1. They don't find Asian men attractive and thus don't wish to play with them

2. They may have had a bad experience with an Asian man or men in the past and this has led to an 'erring-on-the-side-of-caution' type approach

3. They may be influenced by the prevailing media driven stereotypes which may or may not have re-affirmed their preconceived notions of what Asian men are like...

4. They may have issues with the Asian phenotype/culture

Ultimately, it matters very little.

What matters is that you are comfortable with yourself, you are dignified and respectful to all and you are accepting of views that are contrary to your own.

Live and let live.

Mate you ever thought of joining the politics? "

Hope not...his answer made too much sense.

Politicians will give you massive answers, full of bollocks but actually saying nothing!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This thread has taken a very dark turn.

You opened Pandoras Box mate. Don't worry about it. They'll get distracted by something else in a min.

Guilty but there is a lady above accusing me of manipulation.

Ignore them. People always reply to what they want to reply to, and there's no rule that replies are compulsory anyway.

Thats true but without an explanation to comments people will make assumptions and often correct ones if people have been given the chance to clarify but fail to.

This is a forum on a site that enables like minded people to get naked together, not the letters page of the times. The OP has been blown way out of proportion, with many people badgering others for no reason apart from the fact they disagree. And will anyone change their minds? No!

So if the OP decides to keep replying to the badgering is up to him, but I believe that who or what I reply to on any post on here is up to me, and I'm just recommending to the OP that whatever he says won't satisfy anyone, so why bother?

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"With regards to OP's query...

This non-preference of Asian men may have a number of reasons. Here could be some possibilities:

1. They don't find Asian men attractive and thus don't wish to play with them

2. They may have had a bad experience with an Asian man or men in the past and this has led to an 'erring-on-the-side-of-caution' type approach

3. They may be influenced by the prevailing media driven stereotypes which may or may not have re-affirmed their preconceived notions of what Asian men are like...

4. They may have issues with the Asian phenotype/culture

Ultimately, it matters very little.

What matters is that you are comfortable with yourself, you are dignified and respectful to all and you are accepting of views that are contrary to your own.

Live and let live.

Mate you ever thought of joining the politics?

Hope not...his answer made too much sense.

Politicians will give you massive answers, full of bollocks but actually saying nothing!"

You have a point there!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

I need to be your friend.

You're actually an Inuit??

I'm still waiting for my Ikea pizza

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the big difference is whenever a racial thread gets started is if someone wrote "I don't meet white people" I wouldn't be offended and couldn't give a fuck.... A lot of white people try and jump to the defence of ethnic minorities because it's seen as the right thing to do. If people don't want to meet us cause of any reason then I'm sure we will cope lol

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

Preference or prejudice OP the bottom line is they don't want asians so why give a fuck?

Whatever their reasons the fact is this site promotes respecting ones decision & choices (regardless of their reasons) so there's nowt you can say or do about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

I need to be your friend.

You're actually an Inuit??

I'm still waiting for my Ikea pizza "

What you doing this weekend? Let's go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This thread has taken a very dark turn.

You opened Pandoras Box mate. Don't worry about it. They'll get distracted by something else in a min.

Guilty but there is a lady above accusing me of manipulation.

Ignore them. People always reply to what they want to reply to, and there's no rule that replies are compulsory anyway.

Thats true but without an explanation to comments people will make assumptions and often correct ones if people have been given the chance to clarify but fail to.

I would agree though it did make me read the OP's original reference to muslims and it was factually incorrect I did ask him myself but as he hasn't answered I have come to the conclusion like others it was a manipulative remark and without an explanation it will stay that way.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

Hello Popeye

Have you had chicken for your tea?

How was your trip?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

I need to be your friend.

You're actually an Inuit??

I'm still waiting for my Ikea pizza

What you doing this weekend? Let's go.

I'll check me diary

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"In London forum there is a thread call Essex wife gang bang and it says minimum 6 men for his wife. White or black but no Asian men?

I know I could be just personal preference but I have seen this on quite alot websites. What other factor are involved except personal preference?"

OP there are many, many different profiles within which people state the preferences..

maybe just maybe others should respect those preferences and concentrate on the profiles which they may have a commonality etc..

there are plenty of folks on here with whom to meet..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

Hello Popeye

Have you had chicken for your tea?

How was your trip?

Lovely thanks,back to earth with a bump

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

I need to be your friend.

You're actually an Inuit??

I'm still waiting for my Ikea pizza

What you doing this weekend? Let's go.

I'll check me diary

The trouble is, there are too many lonely men with blue helmets in the U.N. and not enough hot patootie...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know I could be just personal preference but I have seen this on quite alot websites. What other factor are involved except personal preference?

Me? Love them. I've met loads and think they are very sexy."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

I need to be your friend.

You're actually an Inuit??

I'm still waiting for my Ikea pizza

What you doing this weekend? Let's go.

I'll check me diary

Yes please.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Erm, can someone speak to me please. I'm asian - have i ever treated or looked down upon any women on here? Have i ever seen them as inferior or not equal to me?

I really don't like it when people generalise. All for the wrong reasons.

Hello Popeye

Have you had chicken for your tea?

How was your trip?

Lovely thanks,back to earth with a bump

I can always kiss the bump better.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

I need to be your friend.

You're actually an Inuit??

I'm still waiting for my Ikea pizza

What you doing this weekend? Let's go.

I'll check me diary

The trouble is, there are too many lonely men with blue helmets in the U.N. and not enough hot patootie..."

Are they blue helmets because it's cold in Alaska?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

That's poppycock people explain many things people avoid explaining deceive comments as its difficult to come up with fictitious but believable answer."
what were you saying earlier? " if you act like a bully" Lmfao....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Relax.

Just imagine an orgy in The United Nations.

Count me in!

Don't leave me out. I haven't had sex with an Inuit yet. Are they in the UN?

I need to be your friend.

You're actually an Inuit??

I'm still waiting for my Ikea pizza

What you doing this weekend? Let's go.

I'll check me diary

The trouble is, there are too many lonely men with blue helmets in the U.N. and not enough hot patootie...

Are they blue helmets because it's cold in Alaska? "

Let me find Sara Palin - I'll ask er...

Sex could save the world...

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"I think the big difference is whenever a racial thread gets started is if someone wrote "I don't meet white people" I wouldn't be offended and couldn't give a fuck.... A lot of white people try and jump to the defence of ethnic minorities because it's seen as the right thing to do. If people don't want to meet us cause of any reason then I'm sure we will cope lol"

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By *igSuki81Man over a year ago

Retirement Village

I missed this post when i first read through & it's reminded me of how lovely these threads can be

Right all you women on here, i am a disrespectful, aggressive asian man and i will do as i want and you will do as i say. Obviously i will have to beat you up occasionally and treat you like dirt as you are not my equal. It's not my fault apparently it's cultural differences and we live in a multi-cultured society so you must accept.

Hopefully that'll improve my chances on here

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason? "

Something I struggle to understand!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

Something I struggle to understand!"

I am in total agreement on that its just weird to me people fretting and mulling over people who are just not going to meet them anyway when the sensible thing is to concentrate on those who will.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As an Asian man born and breed here I don't find again women attractive so does that make me racist? No it's just a preference.

the OP just should get over it.

As to the no respect comment, every couture or creed has a few arseholes who tar us with the same brush. Not everyone is like that. Some of us have morals and respect for all! Anyway rant over and peace out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

That's poppycock people explain many things people avoid explaining deceive comments as its difficult to come up with fictitious but believable answer. what were you saying earlier? " if you act like a bully" Lmfao....

You do act that way though on a regular basis and it looks like a few have come to the same conclusion.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Who gives a damn? it's a matter of preference! If you don't fill the criteria then move on.................

Far too many on here seem to want to concern themselves with those who don't want to meet with them, when they don't fit the criteria, for whatever reason?

They don't like being excluded you get it with many people on here for many reasons I do think some have an agenda into putting pressure on people to meet them if they can by what ever means.

Selective in what you respond to aren't you! I note you avoided "Only three people have and one of them is you twice why dwell on it?" which said a lot on manipulation of a thread direction.

Do I have to comment on every ones opinion?

How would I know what they were going to say?? I just correct them as it wasn't fair in my opinion! Simple

You still haven't answered and without a good explanation it points to you wanting to bring in the muslim element as only 2 people had mentioned it in a positive way.

People only explain when they have done some thing wrong.

Good night

You do act that way though on a regular basis and it looks like a few have come to the same conclusion.

"
please feel free to give me examples of me bullying? Thank you .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Personally I prefer to be called orientals! My 'opinion' of Asian is usually associated with middle east. Far East is mostly the 'orient'. We dont call caucasian men european men...ur either 'white, english, french, german etc..' we refer u to ur origin country not continent '....just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

I have a chinese friend who i have known for 20 years, he prefers to be called oriental rather than asian aswel.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

In the header of the profile she also says "petite oriental looking for naughty fun".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's always always personal preference whatever that may be, people really need to understand this

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

In the header of the profile she also says "petite oriental looking for naughty fun"."

*quality fun not naughty.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

In the header of the profile she also says "petite oriental looking for naughty fun"."

Yes I saw that too,I wasn't referring to that though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All you guys need to know is. I'm asian. And my lips and tongue have their moments.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

No different if ur white n from London, Leeds, Newcastle...we just refer u to as english or british. We dont call u European!?! I believe UK is part of Europe? Im chinese...Im oriental. Asian is referred to continent Asia...from pakistan to india to china to Japan. My opinion u just refer us as chinese, indian, pakistani...not abbreviated but this is how we differentiate our ethnics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fab doesn’t oddly It has

Caucasian (White)

Black

Mixed Race

Hispanic

Middle eastern

Asian

South Asian

Rather not say

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab doesn’t oddly It has

Caucasian (White)

Black

Mixed Race

Hispanic

Middle eastern

Asian

South Asian

Rather not say

Why do Middle East get their own ethnic?! Most forms I fill in ALWAYS has chinese! Hmmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

You can't use the term Pakistani apparently it can for some bizarre reason be seen as offensive and you can be arrested. No you think so did I till I witnessed it first hand it was surreal to the extreme.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

I'm confused

I can confuse u more by saying Im white too. I was born in UK. My parents are chinese so my ethnic background is chinese but Im white like everyone other caucasian hehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fab doesn’t oddly It has

Caucasian (White)

Black

Mixed Race

Hispanic

Middle eastern

Asian

South Asian

Rather not say

Why do Middle East get their own ethnic?! Most forms I fill in ALWAYS has chinese! Hmmm"

I have absolutely no Idea it made me think go have a look in Personal Details under the bottom box Ethnicity:

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By *supermen OP Couple (MM) over a year ago

North London

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

They use this term in bbc news... A group of Pakistani men blah blah blah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

Its 'how' u use the word. Hence if u 'abbreviated it' to the first 4 letters!! But associating a person with its full country name is not. I use Pakistani all the time in my workplace not only as associated with ethnic background but also as the language.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A cat got stuck in the tree...

Someone help the pussy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

They use this term in bbc news... A group of Pakistani men blah blah blah"

Only if its in reference to the country it was avoided in the main with the Rotherham pedos though its gone haywire now down there.

Anyway it wasn't in reference to a news article it was when someone was assaulted and used it to identify the perpetrator.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A cat got stuck in the tree...

Someone help the pussy!"

Oh dear I didn't answer the OP, am I in trouble?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

Nope not abbreviated it was used by a guy who had been attacked to identify the guy who did it. It really was surreal to watch.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are we mentioning Muslims? Asian is not only associated with Muslims!! Indians, Chinese, Thai all are Asians

Thank you for clarifying that because I read that saying someone was oriental was a racist term which confused me a little

Im even more confused now though because you have asian on your profile

Its late maybe its me

Nope not abbreviated it was used by a guy who had been attacked to identify the guy who did it. It really was surreal to watch. "

Funny how we cant associate a description of a perpertrator without mentioning their ethnic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny how we cant associate a description of a perpertrator without mentioning their ethnic.

He as actually asked by the fuzz who did it describe him so he did they got freaky with him nicked him and the guy who lumped him. I tell you if someone had told me I would have said never!!! But that's the way it went down I still don't get it though I will stick to my Asian description if I ever get mugged by a chap of that ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny how we cant associate a description of a perpertrator without mentioning their ethnic.

I would too. Describe the person as they are. I can describe a person by height, size, colour eyes, hair, but how do u narrow it down...always down to skin colour n accent. I know its not the politically correct way but it is the truth.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny how we cant associate a description of a perpertrator without mentioning their ethnic.

It makes you think though the guy who was mugged wasn't a friend and I didn't know him though did go to court as a witness was in a real mess I think it was 27 stitches in his head and ear so I don't think he could really think about all the pc stuff although me and the lady paramedic witnessed it all and she couldn't believe it ether.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

Funny how we cant associate a description of a perpertrator without mentioning their ethnic.

That really is crazy, political correctness gone mad for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny how we cant associate a description of a perpertrator without mentioning their ethnic.

That really is crazy, political correctness gone mad for sure."

Seriously you would have been shocked the paramedic asked the fuzz what they were doing and they all offed it to the hospital and the nick the medic asked me for contact details so I gave my phone no then was called as a material witness much to my bosses annoyance and the arresting officer lied in court but clever fucker here recorded half of it on his phone good job too it transpired.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Preference" is a weak shroud that has a deep rooted prejudice lurking beneath. A preference for skin colour is rather pathetic and distasteful. To commensurate skin colour with other supposedly preferable attributes ,such as intellect, wit, physique, personality and hygiene, is a categorical debacle. If one were colour-blind would it alter ones prejudice?

The tragic yet amusing irony is that a significant proportion of those individuals who find brown skin unattractive, are tanning their hides when the sun makes an appearence, in an effort to become brown themselves. You have to laugh at the hypocrisy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

""Preference" is a weak shroud that has a deep rooted prejudice lurking beneath. A preference for skin colour is rather pathetic and distasteful. To commensurate skin colour with other supposedly preferable attributes ,such as intellect, wit, physique, personality and hygiene, is a categorical debacle. If one were colour-blind would it alter ones prejudice?

That's bullshit nothing more nothing less preference is preference and to generalise is just offensive to people it would be like me accusing you of being homophobic because you don't let men fuck you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no different to shaved down below or unshaven. Beard/no facial hair, hairy/smooth chest, tattoos/no tattoos....dont even get me started on smokers...all preferences!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Preference is, in effect, borne out of generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Preference is, in effect, borne out of generalisation. "

Preference, is a choice determined by influenced judgement . With regard to skin colour, it is not commensurate to hairy bollocks or a pierced phallus. There is no right or wrong, when considering a preference to skin colour, it is simply wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not speaking here specifically. However, in general, unfortunately negative stereotyping reinforced of Asian guys e.g. in news, does lead to this.

It won't change for this generation, but there's bigger worries in life

Oh and there's plenty of fantastic women interested. Makes them even more special to me."

Very honest answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Preference is, in effect, borne out of generalisation.

Do you really believe that or just trying to be controversial? People have preferences on skin from colour to how hairy it is or the hair colour or even how much skin there is I think the main thing that is simply wrong is your attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Preference is, in effect, borne out of generalisation.

White or black but not brown... I beg to differ.

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By *entaur_UKMan over a year ago

Cannock

"Preference is, in effect, borne out of generalisation.

.......in your opinion.

other people obviously feel differently.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Preference is, in effect, borne out of generalisation.

White or black but not brown... I beg to differ."

People have preferences for many reasons which they are entitled to. All I see in you doing is being angry that people won't meet you. Next you will be forcing people to meet and have sex and that's got another name for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Preference is, in effect, borne out of generalisation.

.......in your opinion.

other people obviously feel differently."

But some feel you should ignore your choices and fuck on politically correct grounds. Strangely I rarely see gingers kicking up as much fuss that people are not interested due to hair colour.

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