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are clubs the easiest way to get your first verification
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is clubbing the easiest way to get your first verification. I know we as a couple had no interest in camming as a way to get our first but is it the best and safest |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Never seen any value in cam veri's personally.
But the easiest or best?
Yes, clubs are usually a good way - if nobody else verifies you the owners usually will. But equally a simple social meet in a coffee shop/bar is just as good - no expectancy of play so less pressure - and a very is just confirmation you exist.
Some even manage their first from a play meet.
Horses for courses!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm here for a bit of chat nothing else I have just had three messages from people yesterday who have no verifications no photos but loads of friends with loads of verifications so just wondering why some people take for ever to get some and what is the easiest way if you don't can wondering how many profiles are also fake as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs are not for everyone it certainly wasn't for us. Verifications are only to confirm you are genuine. Social meets are a good way to get someone to verify you. We are just as happy meeting couples that aren't verified to those who are. We all have to start without them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm here for a bit of chat nothing else I have just had three messages from people yesterday who have no verifications no photos but loads of friends with loads of verifications so just wondering why some people take for ever to get some and what is the easiest way if you don't can wondering how many profiles are also fake as well"
it worked for you, not always everybodys cup of tea, but yes its a good way to get verified, no obligation to play.
I tend to have unverified blocked saves alot of the yes I meet you at a club and no shows |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clubs OK but many who go to clubs are not on this site, so not necessarily going to get verified at a club night. I would think Fab Socials are the best bet, though they do appear to be populated by the maddest of the forum users 
But if you are only here to chat why do you need verifications? |
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Personally we think club meets are good for verifications, as you may meet several people on one night, have a good chat, and of whom will quite possibly verify you.
Several verifications from a club meet from the same night kinda tells is someones the real deal.
We'd rather meet someone with 1 club meet than 3 meeting in person/play meets.
Reason being, as was shown on another thread yesterday, a woman was blatantly offering a meeting in person verification but not wanting to meet, so they can in essence be false veris.
Where as say 3 or 4 Veris from people from different areas on a club night to us are much more believable!!!
Just our opinion though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a few verifications all from club meets was just seeing if people think that that's the quickest\safest way to get them I don't like the idea of sending face pics to strangers who don't have any verifications or pictures but have loads of friends all who have verifications but haven't given their friend one yet. I said this to three people who contacted me yesterday but two then asked how they could get them if no one would agree to meet so just checking the advice I gave was the best. I said club or social meets were best
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