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you lick their pussy but they don't wanna give a BJ
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some women just don't like doing it.
An ex-gf of mine loved having me go down on her but never sucked me off.
Mind you, she wasn't very adventurous in bed - she put it down to naivity and in-experience.
Suffice to say the relationship didn't last very long - but that was mainly down to her personality, lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do and some don't its just a fact of life my friend. Personally I would be more than happy as I love to give more than I receive. "
to be honest i love giving blow job but to have a guy lay there and take with no concern about my pleasure really pisses me off, it don't even bother men that much if they are no good at oral so long as they have put the effort in, if they have at least tried to pleasure me but aren't really doing anything for me I will focus more on them for me it's about making the effort and not making me feel like an escort they forgot to pay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's probably much more common for a guy to take and not receive! I personally love to lick a dry they soaking pussy!
It's a great starter for 10 x"
Did you mean take and not give? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This sounds like the xmas present mentality
I will give to you if you will give to me
Well I'm a good Xmas presenter
I give not to receive
I give because I like giving  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do and some don't its just a fact of life my friend. Personally I would be more than happy as I love to give more than I receive.
to be honest i love giving blow job but to have a guy lay there and take with no concern about my pleasure really pisses me off, it don't even bother men that much if they are no good at oral so long as they have put the effort in, if they have at least tried to pleasure me but aren't really doing anything for me I will focus more on them for me it's about making the effort and not making me feel like an escort they forgot to pay"
That's quiet right if they have put the effort in and tried then if your happy to reciprocate then that's good to. For me I like the feeling of being able to tease and please and if a lady wanted to direct me a little as to how she likes it nothing would please me more and no one has a perfect technique and everyone likes something a little different.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Much as I do rather enjoy having my cock sucked, I do really enjoy giving a lady oral pleasure, and have been told on many occasions that I'm rather good at it.
Ladies, please form an orderly queue, lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's probably much more common for a guy to take and not receive! I personally love to lick a dry they soaking pussy!
It's a great starter for 10 x
Did you mean take and not give? "
Sure did, it would be less common to take and not receive! Not even sure how that would work x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This sounds like the xmas present mentality
I will give to you if you will give to me
Well I'm a good Xmas presenter
I give not to receive
I give because I like giving "
I like giving but I also like not being used |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This sounds like the xmas present mentality
I will give to you if you will give to me
Well I'm a good Xmas presenter
I give not to receive
I give because I like giving
I like giving but I also like not being used "
I'd be more than happy to go Dutch with you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some do and some don't its just a fact of life my friend. Personally I would be more than happy as I love to give more than I receive.
to be honest i love giving blow job but to have a guy lay there and take with no concern about my pleasure really pisses me off, it don't even bother men that much if they are no good at oral so long as they have put the effort in, if they have at least tried to pleasure me but aren't really doing anything for me I will focus more on them for me it's about making the effort and not making me feel like an escort they forgot to pay"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
Have no issue with this. My ex wife and girlfriends never minded that I've never been keen on BJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ewwww I'm not having one of those things in my mouth, no matter how clean it is.  "
Lol, missing out on having the look of pleasure in ur mans eyes then, best thing between a couple I say
I often give my guy a bj without expecting anything in return, if I do happy days ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've met loads of guy who will take a blow job but don't give oral, some people are just selfish, men and women "
I can give or take receiving oral, doesn't really bother me! I love to give though, I like to please! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
Did you discuss it first?
You need to get them to sign a contract before commencing play. You sign to agree to lick them on condition they sign to suck you. Then if they don't you can take them to a small (or average, or VWE) claims court.
*I'd put a disclaimer clause in there though cancelling the contract in the case of either party smelling of 'brewed urine'!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've met loads of guy who will take a blow job but don't give oral, some people are just selfish, men and women "
I see, I am the opposite - ready to give and ready to receive.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some lassies have no gag reflex, you don't want that mess on you!
I've been with girls and they just don't like it, it's all about preference x"
okay ?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some do and some don't its just a fact of life my friend. Personally I would be more than happy as I love to give more than I receive.
to be honest i love giving blow job but to have a guy lay there and take with no concern about my pleasure really pisses me off, it don't even bother men that much if they are no good at oral so long as they have put the effort in, if they have at least tried to pleasure me but aren't really doing anything for me I will focus more on them for me it's about making the effort and not making me feel like an escort they forgot to pay"
I like 69 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
Maybe you are meeting the wrong women Joe.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)
Did you discuss it first?
You need to get them to sign a contract before commencing play. You sign to agree to lick them on condition they sign to suck you. Then if they don't you can take them to a small (or average, or VWE) claims court.
*I'd put a disclaimer clause in there though cancelling the contract in the case of either party smelling of 'brewed urine'! Ha ha haa 'brewed urine' one of my forums. But this time, we assume everyone is clean down there after a shower.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
Probably just meeting the wrong women.. I've never heard it that way around though but I suppose it happens! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)
Maybe you are meeting the wrong women Joe. "
Could be, but as I have got to know now, people's preference differ. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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It wouldnt bother me. its all about personal preferences and what turns people on. I wouldnt expect a woman to do anything that was a turn off for her. On the other hand though, I love to give oral pleasure and find it a huge turn on.
I did once have a girlfriend who refused to give me a BJ because, in her words, "I dont do it the way you like so Im not doing it", needless to say she's now an ex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's probably much more common for a guy to take and not receive! I personally love to lick a dry they soaking pussy!
It's a great starter for 10 x
Did you mean take and not give?
Sure did, it would be less common to take and not receive! Not even sure how that would work x"
There is a difference between taking something and receiving,one is theft |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
I am happy to lick even if I don't get one in return. I feel honoured and know i am doing a great job when a woman mourn in excitement when I am between their legs.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's probably much more common for a guy to take and not receive! I personally love to lick a dry they soaking pussy!
It's a great starter for 10 x
Did you mean take and not give?
Sure did, it would be less common to take and not receive! Not even sure how that would work x
There is a difference between taking something and receiving,one is theft "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)I am happy to lick even if I don't get one in return. I feel honoured and know i am doing a great job when a woman mourn in excitement when I am between their legs."
so why this thread? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)I am happy to lick even if I don't get one in return. I feel honoured and know i am doing a great job when a woman mourn in excitement when I am between their legs.
so why this thread?"
give and take. It also feels good if a BJ is received, lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get dressed and leave
now, I'd be tempted to put that to the test
I would take the alcohol with me as well Tsk! Met your sort before! Lol "
Tall dark and handsome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they're not willing to get totally involved in a meet...eg.blowjob, which is a standard part of love making these days as opposed to anal etc then they shouldn't tag themselves as swinger's.... It's a selfish attitude . remember, to give is to receive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Since when has it been mandatory to give to recieve?
If I ever discover a guy has a cock similar to a stinking cesspit im not going there even if hes licked me for the last hour |
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By *ug247Man
over a year ago
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I met a girl who loved to give, which was great. But my problem came as she refused to receive as she had always been told that it was always about giving. I was gutted as it's one thing I'm good at (or have been told I am) and I love doing it. |
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I don't like to give oral and I do like to receive oral. I know this is a bit selfish, but I have written it flankly in my profile. If the man cannot accept it, they can move on. Also, if the man doesn't want to give me oral, I don't mind either. I will still meet him if he can make me want to meet him…
After all, it's all sexual preferences ! |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
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"It wouldnt bother me. its all about personal preferences and what turns people on. I wouldnt expect a woman to do anything that was a turn off for her. On the other hand though, I love to give oral pleasure and find it a huge turn on.
I did once have a girlfriend who refused to give me a BJ because, in her words, "I dont do it the way you like so Im not doing it", needless to say she's now an ex"
I know from experience how much you love to give oral pleasure
But you've also seen how much I love to give a BJ. I enjoy the whole of a guys genitals, not just the cock. Nothing turns me on more than licking, kissing and sucking then I'm ready for the f**king! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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 I hope that some of the guys on here are actually kidding.
Imagine the scenario:
I will use for bloke for lady...
lick lick lick
mmm nice enough
right my turn
not my thing
 hang on I gave, now its your turn
oh if you insist
mmm yeah baby
uninterested lick
im ready lets fuck
oh ok
poke poke mmm yeah
yawn
poke poke can I do your bum I suppose (sigh)
poke poke splurge
 that good?
I was wasn't I
( reaches for strap on)
whoa watcha doing???
you gave, now it's my turn |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"If they're not willing to get totally involved in a meet...eg.blowjob, which is a standard part of love making these days as opposed to anal etc then they shouldn't tag themselves as swinger's.... It's a selfish attitude . remember, to give is to receive."
Wtf??
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
" I hope that some of the guys on here are actually kidding.
Imagine the scenario:
I will use for bloke for lady...
lick lick lick
mmm nice enough
right my turn
not my thing
hang on I gave, now its your turn
oh if you insist
mmm yeah baby
uninterested lick
im ready lets fuck
oh ok
poke poke mmm yeah
yawn
poke poke can I do your bum I suppose (sigh)
poke poke splurge
that good?
I was wasn't I
( reaches for strap on)
whoa watcha doing???
you gave, now it's my turn "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they're not willing to get totally involved in a meet...eg.blowjob, which is a standard part of love making these days as opposed to anal etc then they shouldn't tag themselves as swinger's.... It's a selfish attitude . remember, to give is to receive."
Are you for real?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they're not willing to get totally involved in a meet...eg.blowjob, which is a standard part of love making these days as opposed to anal etc then they shouldn't tag themselves as swinger's.... It's a selfish attitude . remember, to give is to receive."
Aww bless. I love virgins. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"If they're not willing to get totally involved in a meet...eg.blowjob, which is a standard part of love making these days as opposed to anal etc then they shouldn't tag themselves as swinger's.... It's a selfish attitude . remember, to give is to receive."
What a heap of shit this statement is  |
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
Is the answer.... people should never do something they don't want to just because someone else thinks they should?
Whether you are a man or woman, if you perform oral on someone because you are expecting oral back... may be you're the one doing it for the wrong reason.
Try focusing on the things you both want to do and enjoy those.
If I rim someone it is my choice to do so. I should have no right to demand they do the same to me just because I wanted to do it to them.
There are of course some people who only want 'their' kicks and just want to take take take - they ask for things to be done and then don't give anything back. These people are selfish.
However, my personal view is .... if you (a generally speaking you) are stupid enough to do something to someone (that you didn't do just for the sheer fun of it) and then think you are 'entitled' to "your turn"... may be you are actually the selfish fucker. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)
Is the answer.... people should never do something they don't want to just because someone else thinks they should?
Whether you are a man or woman, if you perform oral on someone because you are expecting oral back... may be you're the one doing it for the wrong reason.
Try focusing on the things you both want to do and enjoy those.
If I rim someone it is my choice to do so. I should have no right to demand they do the same to me just because I wanted to do it to them.
There are of course some people who only want 'their' kicks and just want to take take take - they ask for things to be done and then don't give anything back. These people are selfish.
However, my personal view is .... if you (a generally speaking you) are stupid enough to do something to someone (that you didn't do just for the sheer fun of it) and then think you are 'entitled' to "your turn"... may be you are actually the selfish fucker."
Yeehaw! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just love to give oral for me it my real big turn on just looking up as they are about to cum and there body spasms or maybe a little bubble slowly trickled over her clit or a very little bit of spearmint mouth wash then gently bow so many different thinks to do when giving oral it's grait |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just love to give oral for me it my real big turn on just looking up as they are about to cum and there body spasms or maybe a little bubble slowly trickled over her clit or a very little bit of spearmint mouth wash then gently blow so many different thinks to do when giving oral it's grait "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they're not willing to get totally involved in a meet...eg.blowjob, which is a standard part of love making these days as opposed to anal etc then they shouldn't tag themselves as swinger's.... It's a selfish attitude . remember, to give is to receive.
What a heap of shit this statement is "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
Wtf! I get about 10 seconds licking if I'm lucky |
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From what my female work colleague has just told me, she thinks girls who swallow spend more time sucking so the get their reward... Ha ha!!
For guys, I guess they need to know what they are doing - it's fun when you give the lady that intense pleasure and it's all thanks to your tongue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies please help, how come some women like to be licked but they wont give a BJ no matter how clean it is (you take a shower with them)"
adore licking pussy so not overly bothered
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This sounds like the xmas present mentality
I will give to you if you will give to me
Well I'm a good Xmas presenter
I give not to receive
I give because I like giving "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't understand those that only give to receive, I get pleasure out of giving pleasure but I'm lucky to have nets lots of lovely pleasure givers too
Love nothing more than giving a man a teasing blow job |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"It wouldnt bother me. its all about personal preferences and what turns people on. I wouldnt expect a woman to do anything that was a turn off for her. On the other hand though, I love to give oral pleasure and find it a huge turn on.
I did once have a girlfriend who refused to give me a BJ because, in her words, "I dont do it the way you like so Im not doing it", needless to say she's now an ex
I know from experience how much you love to give oral pleasure
But you've also seen how much I love to give a BJ. I enjoy the whole of a guys genitals, not just the cock. Nothing turns me on more than licking, kissing and sucking then I'm ready for the f**king! "
Any you do i amazing well my dear, cant wait for next time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happened mNy times no BJ in return you can lick that pussy all day long fuck that pussy till it's dripping ...
But once you ask for BJ they say- sorry I do that just for someone I love. I can't it makes me pjuke. It's not my thing !!!
What I can do still lick I can't resist to lick pussy !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because it's a preference just like everything in sex.. You would'nt force a woman to have anal or anyother sexual act that's not for the so oral is just the same in in my book. "
But the people that say it's selfish not to do as they want... That's a bit weird to me. Disrespectful people I don't want to meet! |
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