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so many timewasters why do they bother
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't belive how many timewasters there are on the site why do they bother to arrange with no intention I wish they could be named and shamed on an area of the site then 3 strikes and then off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can't belive how many timewasters there are on the site why do they bother to arrange with no intention I wish they could be named and shamed on an area of the site then 3 strikes and then off "
I understand your frustration but that would never work - too open for abuse. Block and move on, and make sure your pre meet checks are more robust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have just had dealings with a "lady" who turned out to be a complete timewaster. I wish I could name and shame her, but what's the point? It is annoying after getting to know someone over a month or so by phone and text, agreeing to meet, having it cancelled under dubious circumstances, re-arranging another meet, having that cancelled and when asking them what's going on, to be deleted and blocked instantly.  |
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"I have just had dealings with a "lady" who turned out to be a complete timewaster. I wish I could name and shame her, but what's the point? It is annoying after getting to know someone over a month or so by phone and text, agreeing to meet, having it cancelled under dubious circumstances, re-arranging another meet, having that cancelled and when asking them what's going on, to be deleted and blocked instantly. "
Why would you arrange a 2nd meet after she cancelled the first meet under dubious circumstances?
Sometimes there are genuine reasons for a cancellation but if its a crap excuse then i don't give a 2nd chance.
If i do give a 2nd chance and she cancels the 3rd time then it is the block button! |
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Single men are just as bad! Arrange to meet at a club, they spend the next two days messaging 'are we still on for Sat' etc and then they don't turn up! Honestly don't know what they get out of it! |
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"I can't belive how many timewasters there are on the site why do they bother to arrange with no intention I wish they could be named and shamed on an area of the site then 3 strikes and then off "
What is your definition of a time waster . Did you arrange the meet by phone and did you maked a realistic assessment of what you had to offer them ? Not complaints with the people I meet . But I am also realistic in my expectations and what I have to offer  |
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