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Are forums a way of passing time till you get a def meet.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your thoughts 
Or are they a good way of introducing yourselves to new people and hopefully setting meets up?"
And that too ...but everyone seems so far away most of the time . |
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"Your thoughts
Or are they a good way of introducing yourselves to new people and hopefully setting meets up?
And that too ...but everyone seems so far away most of the time ."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your thoughts
Or are they a good way of introducing yourselves to new people and hopefully setting meets up?
And that too ...but everyone seems so far away most of the time ."
Some of the people who may or may not come into this thread may not be.
And if people are 'far away' but interest builds, do whst some have done, do and will do... And travel
For me, I came into the forums to get a fuller site experience and to fart around. And I've since been introduced to some nice and bonkers people.
I've even got a couple of meets as a consequence.
If someone comes onto any part of the site with one thing in mind, chances are, they'll miss out on what they are after.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got to know some great people through the forums, we definitely need to meet some of them too 
We get interest from our profile but we've found we get a much better feel for people here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not been on the site long and I'm kinda finding it hard to connect with people through messaging-it all seems a bit forced. I'm really enjoying the forums though and hoping to attend socials with people I've chatted with through those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Banter, flirting and banter, flirting, oh and banter with flirting...
I like banter with my flirting just to make it clear  nice bottom by the way "
Oooh are you bantering or flirting 
Nice pics by the way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your thoughts
Or are they a good way of introducing yourselves to new people and hopefully setting meets up?"
I thought that and lost 12 months of my life here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, for me the forums are like having a quick chat with mates, or a bit of cheeky banter with associates, its a day long activity, its a social without having to shave your legs "
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"Banter, flirting and banter, flirting, oh and banter with flirting...
I like banter with my flirting just to make it clear nice bottom by the way
Oooh are you bantering or flirting
Nice pics by the way "
I am flirting with my banter good rope skills |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not for me they aren't.
I've had lots of laughs, made friends & learnt loads in the last year.
Also the majority of my meets have been from the forums, this is the only place where I tend to message men first, usually based on how they are on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a great way to get to get to know people on here and enjoy a few laughs along the way.
When I first joined I used to frequent the chat rooms but not any more as I have enjoyed my time far more in the forums than anywhere else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Banter, flirting and banter, flirting, oh and banter with flirting...
I like banter with my flirting just to make it clear nice bottom by the way
Oooh are you bantering or flirting
Nice pics by the way
I am flirting with my banter good rope skills "
I have been hoping I would get to banter with my flirting xx good oral skills |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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I've had a couple of meets through the forum but I come on here since I enjoy the banter, occasional flirting and generally fun side of the fora. It's not killing time between meets, it's as well as. Reading and replying to personal messages sometimes (depending on the sender obviously) feels like an administrative chore. The fora are like a chat in a pub after work with a slightly kinky group of mates and acquaintances. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your thoughts
Or are they a good way of introducing yourselves to new people and hopefully setting meets up?
I thought that and lost 12 months of my life here "
so funny |
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It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible. |
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible. "
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess |
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess "
Again.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your thoughts
Or are they a good way of introducing yourselves to new people and hopefully setting meets up?
I thought that and lost 12 months of my life here
so funny "
I am serious........ well I did have a few meets as well |
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess "
I've had my fingers burnt a few times in the beginning and it stays with you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You cant beat the banter on here and I only go in the chat rooms for a perv every now an then
But I have only made contact with Women through the forums,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here for the banter and the odd offshoot pm conversation, I get strangely and overly excited when every now and then the new message icon lights up.
Most of the time they come due to a comment or thread on the Forum, sometimes nice, sometimes helpful, sometimes abusive ha ha.
I go searching for meets elsewhere on the site generally, but have tried a couple of cheeky approaches to a couple of exceptional people on here for meets but no joy - ha.
I have had a couple of meets from Fab (one verified, one not) and was on the Forums before and since, so no I'm not here just until I get a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess "
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama."
This is true. I've seen bits and pieces of this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama."
I'm so glad I don't get attached,I've met lovely men via the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well to add my two penneth worth, I have been active on here for about 6 months even though I have had a profile for over 12, Trying to meet ladies through direct contact has so far been a complete waste of time, however, the last few weeks I have used these forums and at least I have had a few friend requests which is a start. Updating your Status has also had a couple of comments sent through, but no where near as many as forums, so stick with this.
Mind you, still not had a meet - pmsl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They are sometimes fun, sometimes informative and sometimes annoying. I have had one meet from MissCheekychops Dating Bonanza and few nice chats from using the forums. |
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Fairly new to all this but I wouldn't consider it mutually exclusive. I like talking nonsense (I mean all intellectual and that!) on the forums, I find the forums revealing, funny, thought provoking and frustrating, would still be around mooching in the corner whether meeting or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama.
This is true. I've seen bits and pieces of this. "
Recently? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama.
This is true. I've seen bits and pieces of this.
Recently? "
I've never noticed anything like this, but perhaps I haven't been around long enough. But then I do have this mental image of the forum clan as all being in the midlands and down south with the odd northerner like me waving from the sidelines. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama.
This is true. I've seen bits and pieces of this.
Recently?
I've never noticed anything like this, but perhaps I haven't been around long enough. But then I do have this mental image of the forum clan as all being in the midlands and down south with the odd northerner like me waving from the sidelines. "
Another northerner waving |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama.
This is true. I've seen bits and pieces of this.
Recently?
I've never noticed anything like this, but perhaps I haven't been around long enough. But then I do have this mental image of the forum clan as all being in the midlands and down south with the odd northerner like me waving from the sidelines. "
Must be something that happened before we joined. I'm happy to fuck anyone from the forum if there's that mutual attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm lucky. I can say whatever I like on the forum and it gets ignored. I'm not looking to meet anyone from the forums so that suits me fine "
Darn
*bottom lip goes*
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By (user no longer on site)
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I use the forums for discussion, I like reading other peoples thoughts. I log on when I'm relaxing, instead of picking up a reading book.
I don't use the forum to gain popularity for meets or to set up meets. I just like reading and contributing to discussion. I don't browse profiles or pictures very often either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm lucky. I can say whatever I like on the forum and it gets ignored. I'm not looking to meet anyone from the forums so that suits me fine
Darn
*bottom lip goes*
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you're not just someone from the forum! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm lucky. I can say whatever I like on the forum and it gets ignored. I'm not looking to meet anyone from the forums so that suits me fine
Darn
*bottom lip goes*
you're not just someone from the forum! "
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No, I use it as a distracting amusement to get me through the working day, or to unwind last thing at night mostly. My intention was to not meet anyone via the forums, but I have met two or three now....
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama.
This is true. I've seen bits and pieces of this.
Recently?
I've never noticed anything like this, but perhaps I haven't been around long enough. But then I do have this mental image of the forum clan as all being in the midlands and down south with the odd northerner like me waving from the sidelines.
Another northerner waving "
A northerner living down south waving |
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Not really. A lot of people I meet don't use the forums so am arranging meets etc with them at the same time as keeping in touch with people and trying to make new friends, so it's not a filler, just another aspect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I just like popping in every now and again. Especially when I am bored. I've learnt quite a bit from the forums and hopefully contributed to them in a positive way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's funny though because you know who is meeting who and who has met who...I've been on the forums for a few years and I've seen people get together but I've seen some fallouts of the century. To me I'd rather meet men away from the forums and that's no disrespect to those that are on here as there are a few Id love to get down and dirty with...I do think sometimes that if I was to meet certain people Id be stepping on some people's toes and I try and keep my real life and fab life as drama free as possible.
I agree with this,id have a good laugh and a drink with loads of lovely and very hot people on the forums but it has been shown at times to be incestuous and very territorial,drama is a pain in the arse and pissing up lamp posts leaves a mess
I guess some peoples idea of nsa is very different from others, hence the fallout & drama.
This is true. I've seen bits and pieces of this.
Recently?
I've never noticed anything like this, but perhaps I haven't been around long enough. But then I do have this mental image of the forum clan as all being in the midlands and down south with the odd northerner like me waving from the sidelines. "
And another
Since starting to come into the forums (and certainly not using them till a meet comes along) we have chatted and become friends with some really lovely people and they really brighten up your day *well most days  * having abit of harmless flirting and cheeky banter x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Originally we were on here as a couple looking for meets, then L started working away a lot and we had to stretch to make time for each other so no room for meets as well, consequently we closed down the profile, but I missed the forums and came back just for them alone, (don't meet solo) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your thoughts "
A lot don't meet they are just here to use the forums. You have to remember there are a lot of people who have few friends out there and using the forums is a way of relieving the loneliness. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I see the forums, as a huge local pub... Where you can giggle, be daft, natter, and bicker with like minded, people.. It's fun! It's light relief, from the sometimes stressful, daily grind.
You get a feel
For someone's personality from their posts, sometimes you just click, and find yourself on the same wavelength. Sometimes you dont!
We've been fortunate enough to have met, a fair few from the forums, at mainly socials, and will be meeting more at the end of the month
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By *londeCazWoman
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Another Northerner waves...Although the majority of my play meets are with non forumites, I've met some awesome people socially via the forums (the big Socials that have been arranged) plus occasional play meets with folk who would never even have shown up on my radar other than via forum flanter and I even pal around with Wyrdwoman on our epic tour of the UK's swinging clubs (coming soon to a club near YOU - be afraid...be very afraid)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your thoughts
A lot don't meet they are just here to use the forums. You have to remember there are a lot of people who have few friends out there and using the forums is a way of relieving the loneliness. "
Thats sad.....I feel for you xx |
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