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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just have to ask this as we are getting lots of messages from ppl 50+ we dont mind but its starting to become a regular thing is it our profile, we dont want to limit age and all that as wel chat to anybody just wondering why we seem to be attracting the more mature. Hope this dont cause offence to anyone   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I checked your profile for reference to bingo, WRI and the great British Bake off....
nope, not sure why you are attracting them."
lol not sure either  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested."
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just have to ask this as we are getting lots of messages from ppl 50+ we dont mind but its starting to become a regular thing is it our profile, we dont want to limit age and all that as wel chat to anybody just wondering why we seem to be attracting the more mature. Hope this dont cause offence to anyone "
Do you drive a Volvo by any chance? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just have to ask this as we are getting lots of messages from ppl 50+ we dont mind but its starting to become a regular thing is it our profile, we dont want to limit age and all that as wel chat to anybody just wondering why we seem to be attracting the more mature. Hope this dont cause offence to anyone
Do you drive a Volvo by any chance? "
haha no volvo here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why "
You both look really great to me! Perhaps there are more 'older' people in your area. I checked and I'm not out of your age range. I feel young now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested."
Just stop making sense, okay!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dont get me wrong here we dont mind but we are only 34 and 35 would like to meet ppl our age but have seen some really nice mature women on here so wouldn't rule them out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm seem to get 60+ year old guys message me at the moment...it's quite sweet  "
it is and its nice to know that there are some ppl out there wanting to meet us |
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why "
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range? "
Yes and getting meets would be really easy to lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range? "
its not ment to be a moan just a question like we said dont mind wel talk to anyone |
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range?
its not ment to be a moan just a question like we said dont mind wel talk to anyone "
you are a young attractive couple who has age preferences but has not blocked other age ranges from contacting you so dontt be surprised you are sought after by older woe because you will be. Your post does come across as a moan....way ask this question if you are happy talking to everybody regardless of age! Just keep chatting x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range?
its not ment to be a moan just a question like we said dont mind wel talk to anyone
you are a young attractive couple who has age preferences but has not blocked other age ranges from contacting you so dontt be surprised you are sought after by older woe because you will be. Your post does come across as a moan....way ask this question if you are happy talking to everybody regardless of age! Just keep chatting x"
not a moan just a generalization as we get a lot more older ppl checking us out then our own age like i said don't mean to offend any one,i was thinking its coz we may look older than we are but im not sure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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The question is why do older more mature women and couples talk to us than that of our own age is it our profile,pics or wot not trying to cause a war lol |
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"Lol ohh thanks,, my my why she took the hump Il never know, but Il apologize as didn't mean to offend just asked a question.
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i never take the hump, i try to participate in forums and give my opinion...i gave you my answer and tried to suggest other reasons why this is happening to you (and thousands of other couples/males/females etc...). You just do not listen!" I hope you find an answer to your question..sadly it seems i could not help....i did try  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol ohh thanks,, my my why she took the hump Il never know, but Il apologize as didn't mean to offend just asked a question.
i never take the hump, i try to participate in forums and give my opinion...i gave you my answer and tried to suggest other reasons why this is happening to you (and thousands of other couples/males/females etc...). You just do not listen!" I hope you find an answer to your question..sadly it seems i could not help....i did try "
sorry but i still don't see your answer to my question only change the age to which didn't answer our question in the first place we dont think this is necessary as we still chat to ppl no matter wot the age thay are we dont want a slagging match just ppls thoughts on the matter so pls read question again if not good bye been a pleasure hearing your _iews xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The question is why do older more mature women and couples talk to us than that of our own age is it our profile,pics or wot not trying to cause a war lol "
Okay, - do you pull a small caravan with your Volvo, then? Yeah, that'll be it.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range?
its not ment to be a moan just a question like we said dont mind wel talk to anyone "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol ohh thanks,, my my why she took the hump Il never know, but Il apologize as didn't mean to offend just asked a question.
i never take the hump, i try to participate in forums and give my opinion...i gave you my answer and tried to suggest other reasons why this is happening to you (and thousands of other couples/males/females etc...). You just do not listen!" I hope you find an answer to your question..sadly it seems i could not help....i did try "
Wow, some people just have to, don't they |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range? "
They didn't...they said they didn't mind them but was wondering why. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i am never rude to anyone in forums but i'm done...finito. oh...and you're blocked because you do not listen.
Harsh! "
just a bit but nevermind
win some lose some |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can set your age preferences to 'only in my age range' and that will stop unwanted mail....sadly it would eliminate me too if I was interested.
no we dont want that as age is just a number to us and do enjoy a chat and had some very nice conversations,just wondering why
i really have to ask....why than moan about getting messages from people outside your age range?
They didn't...they said they didn't mind them but was wondering why."
thank you!!!! i think she got her wires crossed that's all |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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if you want to younger people rather that waiting on people to come to you , go out and chase the people you want...
be the hunters rather than the hunted!!! be proactive.... |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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after reading more
Maybe a little reminder of the forum rule summary.
Forum Rules
In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.
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" after reading more
Maybe a little reminder of the forum rule summary.
Forum Rules
In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.
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Plus Sunday is a day of rest |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if you want to younger people rather that waiting on people to come to you , go out and chase the people you want...
be the hunters rather than the hunted!!! be proactive...."
thanks and yes we do and have joined a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And you have met a few older people so maybe they think they'll get a meet too.
now that an answer ,this might have some weight to it
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There you go, sorted and all done with a smile
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if you want to younger people rather that waiting on people to come to you , go out and chase the people you want...
be the hunters rather than the hunted!!! be proactive....
thanks and yes we do and have joined the caravan club "
See that's why they are messaging you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if you want to younger people rather that waiting on people to come to you , go out and chase the people you want...
be the hunters rather than the hunted!!! be proactive....
thanks and yes we do and have joined the caravan club
See that's why they are messaging you "
hahahha u got me  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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" after reading more
Maybe a little reminder of the forum rule summary.
Forum Rules
In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.
Plus Sunday is a day of rest "
Sunday is the new Thursday...I think people must be getting bored |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" after reading more
Maybe a little reminder of the forum rule summary.
Forum Rules
In summary: If you treat other people with respect, you can't go far wrong. Don't forget that the forums are meant to be fun, if you find yourself fuming and writing long angry messages you're probably best taking a break from it.
Plus Sunday is a day of rest
Sunday is the new Thursday...I think people must be getting bored "
It's the change in the weather.. Colder days mean they are indoors getting bored, although it's a lovely shorts and tshirt day here today! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"And you have met a few older people so maybe they think they'll get a meet too.
now that an answer ,this might have some weight to it
There you go, sorted and all done with a smile
(I'm here every day, all problems answered )"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nope just looked at your profile not that sorry "
haha cheers for that one 
had to move a naughty pics as some one sent them to a close friend that isn't on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The veris being older people, us I think you look older than your age,, "
these are only socials as 2of them we have known before we even decided to try this ourselves but yes i think it could be that now thanks
we have never played with them lol and all have much younger female partners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The veris being older people, us I think you look older than your age,,
these are only socials as 2of them we have known before we even decided to try this ourselves but yes i think it could be that now thanks
we have never played with them lol and all have much younger female partners "
Don't we all take a step back from this it may be enlightening ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dont get me wrong we would play with older ppl as some are still hot but twice our age wed have to draw a line at i think ,but you never say never lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In our experience age is nt an issue in swinging enjoy the attention attraction is paramount so get yer rocks off guys "
i agree totally if we really liked some one then age dont matter to us at all but wed have to fancy them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do watch Downton Abbey and think those modern gadgets will never take on...
ppfffttt wireless never "
I love this thread! You young 'uns have a great sense of humour. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Your post doesn't come across as a moan to me,just a query. Why you are only attracting people older than you could be for any number of reasons."
lol not only older but seems alot more interest from older ppl |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just have to ask this as we are getting lots of messages from ppl 50+ we dont mind but its starting to become a regular thing is it our profile, we dont want to limit age and all that as wel chat to anybody just wondering why we seem to be attracting the more mature. Hope this dont cause offence to anyone "
Its probably not about attracting the older ones but what you are not attracting the younger ones. How you do that is debatable but if that is what you are doing see if you can work out how to attract younger members. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just have to ask this as we are getting lots of messages from ppl 50+ we dont mind but its starting to become a regular thing is it our profile, we dont want to limit age and all that as wel chat to anybody just wondering why we seem to be attracting the more mature. Hope this dont cause offence to anyone
Its probably not about attracting the older ones but what you are not attracting the younger ones. How you do that is debatable but if that is what you are doing see if you can work out how to attract younger members."
good point to be fair i think maybe our pics as no naughty ones in public younger ppl like pics iv noticed lol
thanks valid point that |
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