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"Do you enjoy being on here at all? You just seem to becoming really frustrated by the whole thing from your recent posts " to be honest... I enjoy the site... its got some fun people that are miles away from my neck of the woods... I try my hardest to politely message and chat with "local" ish contacts as i can travel the world looking for a bit of fun... put once you've got nowhere or ignored or just plain and simply find you can message a profile that does interest you... because out of respect you don't fit they're bill because they'll only meet people up to the age of 40 or you get people or couple in my age group wanting to meet with under 40's? So after a while you lose heart... don't you? And to top it off I've had a few very chatty contacts just turn round and block me out of the blue? So I don't really know what's going on or what to think really... don't know if someone might be bad mouthing me... theres some odd? I just feel a little bit is it worth it... yes! And I'll slap the next person who says move on the next one as there aren't many next ones to move on to okay! lol | |||
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"Do you enjoy being on here at all? You just seem to becoming really frustrated by the whole thing from your recent posts to be honest... I enjoy the site... its got some fun people that are miles away from my neck of the woods... I try my hardest to politely message and chat with "local" ish contacts as i can travel the world looking for a bit of fun... put once you've got nowhere or ignored or just plain and simply find you can message a profile that does interest you... because out of respect you don't fit they're bill because they'll only meet people up to the age of 40 or you get people or couple in my age group wanting to meet with under 40's? So after a while you lose heart... don't you? And to top it off I've had a few very chatty contacts just turn round and block me out of the blue? So I don't really know what's going on or what to think really... don't know if someone might be bad mouthing me... theres some odd? I just feel a little bit is it worth it... yes! And I'll slap the next person who says move on the next one as there aren't many next ones to move on to okay! lol" For some reason when i was reading this I could hear violins playing, but it is ok now I banged on the neighbours wall and their daughter has stopped practising! Seriously though, if this is getting to you so much then it maybe isn't a case of moving onto the next one, it could be a case of moving on fullstop! But that is just my opinion from reading through a few of your recent posts, you may well be a very happy bunny who just doesn't portray it that well in written form! Again, just my opinion. | |||
"Move onto the next one" SLAP!!! | |||
"You try your luck and message and say I know your only looking for up to 40 but I'm only 41 would you be interested in chatting... NO! we've picked 40 as the cut off for a reason... but then they don't explain... 40 something stinks!!! " I find most people's cut off age is 50 but I am 55, Sasha is only 27 and in my opinion gorgeous, this in turn attracts a lot of couples to mail us but we will not meet them if one of us is outside thier age criteria, it makes us feel like "the last one picked for the playground football team" kinda "she is nice we will have to put up with the old git" We certainly won't "try our luck" mailing people when your outside thier criteria for any reason only annoys them, we block people who "try thier luck" because we consider them to be timewasters, we have to waste our time reading thier profile, mailing them back to point out they are not what we are looking for and often either getting an abusive mail back or being asked to "make an exception in this case" We are what we are and we respect everyone's boundaries, "trying thier luck" makes us think that the same person might disrespect other boundaries or rules if we met. That's just our opinion of course but may help some readers realise what kind of signal they may be sending. | |||
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"Why does the OP feel that people have to explain their personal preferences?, I would say that if you do not understand that people will have preferences and can't accept that fact...then you really shouldn't be on a site like this." here,,here,,, order,, order goes back to his seat,,, the backbencher.. | |||
"Why does the OP feel that people have to explain their personal preferences?, I would say that if you do not understand that people will have preferences and can't accept that fact...then you really shouldn't be on a site like this." I always enjoy being talked down too by you Jane... makes ny day knowing that I can't stand up for myself and talk to you privately about your thoughts!? what with you having blocked me for no reason... shame you not woman enough to allow me to talk to you privately... on subjects... hidden in you safe little world... wind your neck in and butt out!! I READ PEOPLE PROFILES OKAY!!! but can't yours thankfully... get a life! There I guess i be blocked from the forums... and i'm beyond caring today... go to work rugby... just isn't my week... jane your thoughts don't help okay! | |||
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"Crap I'm over 40 myself and just realised, better leave Fab then " so long....farewell...aufwiedersehn goodbyyyyeeee | |||
"Crap I'm over 40 myself and just realised, better leave Fab then so long....farewell...aufwiedersehn goodbyyyyeeee " oooo harsh! But he did call me a harlot so he deserves it | |||
"Crap I'm over 40 myself and just realised, better leave Fab then so long....farewell...aufwiedersehn goodbyyyyeeee " Just waiting for the Taxi | |||
"Why does the OP feel that people have to explain their personal preferences?, I would say that if you do not understand that people will have preferences and can't accept that fact...then you really shouldn't be on a site like this. I always enjoy being talked down too by you Jane... makes ny day knowing that I can't stand up for myself and talk to you privately about your thoughts!? what with you having blocked me for no reason... shame you not woman enough to allow me to talk to you privately... on subjects... hidden in you safe little world... wind your neck in and butt out!! I READ PEOPLE PROFILES OKAY!!! but can't yours thankfully... get a life! There I guess i be blocked from the forums... and i'm beyond caring today... go to work rugby... just isn't my week... jane your thoughts don't help okay! " Now a couple or maybe more times you have lost your temper on here and uneccessarily become angry at people,especially if they have blocked you,this is the second time you have bought a personal block up in the forums,people have every right to block whoever they choose for whatever reason Maybe your temper may be part of the whole problem That sort of behaviour would make me run a mile | |||
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"thank god I'm only 98, don't know whats going to happen in 2 years time though " You get a telegram from the queen | |||
"thank god I'm only 98, don't know whats going to happen in 2 years time though You get a telegram from the queen" phew - got something exciting to look forward to then | |||
"thank god I'm only 98, don't know whats going to happen in 2 years time though You get a telegram from the queen phew - got something exciting to look forward to then " Not really....you die the day after.. | |||
"thank god I'm only 98, don't know whats going to happen in 2 years time though You get a telegram from the queen phew - got something exciting to look forward to then Not really....you die the day after.. " gee thanks | |||
"thank god I'm only 98, don't know whats going to happen in 2 years time though You get a telegram from the queen phew - got something exciting to look forward to then Not really....you die the day after.. " everyone who gets a telegram from the queen diesthe day after does it have some sort of poison in the printing?? | |||
"thank god I'm only 98, don't know whats going to happen in 2 years time though You get a telegram from the queen phew - got something exciting to look forward to then Not really....you die the day after.. everyone who gets a telegram from the queen diesthe day after does it have some sort of poison in the printing?? " The bad news is that due to austerity cuts by the new coalition, people will in future get their telegram from the queen at the age of 80....the next day they will be carried off for a humane killing. Their remains will be composted down into charcoal brickettes to keep the poor warm in the winter.... | |||
"thank god I'm only 98, don't know whats going to happen in 2 years time though You get a telegram from the queen phew - got something exciting to look forward to then Not really....you die the day after.. everyone who gets a telegram from the queen diesthe day after does it have some sort of poison in the printing?? The bad news is that due to austerity cuts by the new coalition, people will in future get their telegram from the queen at the age of 80....the next day they will be carried off for a humane killing. Their remains will be composted down into charcoal brickettes to keep the poor warm in the winter...." so I can look forward to having a purpose in the afterlife then pmsl | |||
"There I guess i be blocked from the forums... and i'm beyond caring today... go to work rugby... just isn't my week... jane your thoughts don't help okay! " Waaaahhhhh! Wahhhhh! There, there....we all wuvs you really.... . . . . . . ...ish. | |||
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"for some reason I fancy a bowl of frosties " is this really the right place to post such an outrageous thought? | |||
"for some reason I fancy a bowl of frosties is this really the right place to post such an outrageous thought? " Ooops did I say it out loud? I did'nt mean to | |||
"for some reason I fancy a bowl of frosties " It's a start... | |||
"for some reason I fancy a bowl of frosties is this really the right place to post such an outrageous thought? Ooops did I say it out loud? I did'nt mean to " its ok we know you have difficulty separating fact from fiction south of the border | |||