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Having a very high sex drive...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is considered great, isn't it? It's fun, passionate and great for relationships.
But it isn't great is it, for me! I find myself wanting more sex than my partner, I find myself on my own and feeling ridiculously horny with nowhere to go...
I'm actually starting to wish I wasn't so active in my desires. I spend half my time sexually frustrated, no matter how damn good the sex is. now I'm not saying I'd be happy retiring and doing jigsaws! but... I think I'll be happy when I get a bit older and it all starts to calm down.
Anyone else get this?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey, I'll still be having sex, don't get me wrong! I wouldn't change that for the world! Jeeeezus! :P
But I'd like to be able to turn my Dial down from 11 to say 9 on occassion |
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"My sex drive seems to be getting higher the older I'm getting 
Yeah I think this is true of me too...
I'm noticing this more and more with myself."
me too! !..... And the same happens to women as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more I get, the more I want. It's a vicious (literally on occasion) cycle."
This is like me, I've been without for six weeks atm and I'm gagging and going through batteries at an alarming rate 
But I know if I leave it another couple of weeks I will start to feel like I can't be arsed 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah, it is frustrating. Always want more. Especially certain moments throughout the day, or even after work really.
Not sure what to say as advice. I'm on the same boat. My only problem is everyone i used to meet regularly are now going in to relationships. So, that's me and her out the window.
...so, the search continues for me again now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The more I get, the more I want."
This ! Mine has definitely got worse since my mid 30's. Not that I've ever had a low sex drive , but I'm glad I have a high one rather than a low one.  |
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"It means you're ready to get married Alex - that'll take the wind out of your sales!
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I'm single with a high sex drive and use a word regularly that married people can seldom use ..... "NEXT"
Jenny xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been ridiculously craving sex these past few days. I'm lucky that I have a lot to take my mind off it. When I'm like this I need filthy,rough,almost abusive sex which only one man can give me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It means you're ready to get married Alex - that'll take the wind out of your sales!
Burn the heretics!!
Haha, be afraid, be very afraid...."
Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it  |
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"It means you're ready to get married Alex - that'll take the wind out of your sales!
Burn the heretics!!
Haha, be afraid, be very afraid....
Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it "
That's what I meant - a lot of people have a lower sex drive in a marriage anyway, they feel less like it!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 44 now and my sex drive is far higher than it's ever been but then Sharons is also so not a problem for us.
I do wonder if my cock my wear out though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It means you're ready to get married Alex - that'll take the wind out of your sales!
Burn the heretics!!
Haha, be afraid, be very afraid....
Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it
That's what I meant - a lot of people have a lower sex drive in a marriage anyway, they feel less like it!!!"
If only one partner has a low sex drive then trouble starts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It means you're ready to get married Alex - that'll take the wind out of your sales!
Burn the heretics!!
Haha, be afraid, be very afraid....
Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it
That's what I meant - a lot of people have a lower sex drive in a marriage anyway, they feel less like it!!!
If only one partner has a low sex drive then trouble starts "
so true  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I spend half my time sexually frustrated, no matter how damn good the sex is.
If there is no pleasing you you're f****d aren't you!!! "
Or wishing I was!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it
Not always true
I was speaking from experience "
I know it's that was for some, my cousin also in his 40's told me him and his wife only do it about once a month OMG!
We used to be about 3 times a week but now days almost every day, sometimes morning and night.
I just wonder if it's just a spurt of sexual energy people have before they start going on the decline? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it
Not always true
I was speaking from experience
I know it's that was for some, my cousin also in his 40's told me him and his wife only do it about once a month OMG!
We used to be about 3 times a week but now days almost every day, sometimes morning and night.
I just wonder if it's just a spurt of sexual energy people have before they start going on the decline?"
To calm down a little, yes, I'd like that... Going into decline?! 
Take them away mummy, I can hear the voices again mummy!! I don't like the voices mummy!! |
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" I spend half my time sexually frustrated, no matter how damn good the sex is.
If there is no pleasing you you're f****d aren't you!!!
Or wishing I was!!!"
Maybe next time i'm in your neck of the woods...you'd have to dress up as Robin Hood..of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sex drive is a bit like a computer hard drive when the fan is broken. I needed to remove it to stop myself overheating. However now the computer is good for nothing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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" I spend half my time sexually frustrated, no matter how damn good the sex is.
If there is no pleasing you you're f****d aren't you!!!
Or wishing I was!!!
Maybe next time i'm in your neck of the woods...you'd have to dress up as Robin Hood..of course "
You won't see me in green spandex, ever :P |
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" I spend half my time sexually frustrated, no matter how damn good the sex is.
If there is no pleasing you you're f****d aren't you!!!
Or wishing I was!!!
Maybe next time i'm in your neck of the woods...you'd have to dress up as Robin Hood..of course
You won't see me in green spandex, ever :P"
damned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it
Not always true
I was speaking from experience
I know it's that was for some, my cousin also in his 40's told me him and his wife only do it about once a month OMG!
We used to be about 3 times a week but now days almost every day, sometimes morning and night.
I just wonder if it's just a spurt of sexual energy people have before they start going on the decline?
To calm down a little, yes, I'd like that... Going into decline?!
Take them away mummy, I can hear the voices again mummy!! I don't like the voices mummy!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah with you on this it actually pisses me off and there's no sign of it calming down yetAwww Cutie hope I don't do that to you xx"
You are partly to blame but then its my fault for perving you |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My sex drive is insatiable but that's why were here although don't think I've ever been 100% sated "
It is why we are here. but my issue is, I want it every day and all day, without a word of exaggeration. I had a lot of sex last night and got to sleep at 5 am... lunchtime today... I want more... and it's like this every day, I walk around at work unable to concentrate..! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My sex drive is insatiable but that's why were here although don't think I've ever been 100% sated
It is why we are here. but my issue is, I want it every day and all day, without a word of exaggeration. I had a lot of sex last night and got to sleep at 5 am... lunchtime today... I want more... and it's like this every day, I walk around at work unable to concentrate..!"
See your gp they may prescribe you something for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My sex drive is insatiable but that's why were here although don't think I've ever been 100% sated
It is why we are here. but my issue is, I want it every day and all day, without a word of exaggeration. I had a lot of sex last night and got to sleep at 5 am... lunchtime today... I want more... and it's like this every day, I walk around at work unable to concentrate..!"
Are you very active in your daily life? One of my regular partners is like you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I'm quite active. I run for the bus cos I'm late and I go to the gym at work at lunchtimes."
I think that has something to do with it. The more active a man is the more sex he needs. I could be wrong,I'm just going by the men I know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep
I was in a relationship where she wanted sex about once a month and I wanted it at least once a day.....if the one key 'day a month' was missed then I had to wait another month....
Result? .... Eventually I cracked and am now divorced and much happier for it.
I now have a partner/friend/lover/everything who has a similar sex drive to me.
We have sex at least twice a day during the week and more at weekends... I have more sex now in a week than a year before...
I'm my experience a massive difference in sex drive leads to trouble (if sex is important in your relationship)
Other experiences may vary
Mwah
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex drive is manic. It seems the more I'm not having it the more sexual I'm feeling and am craving it. BUT I am also quite specific with whom I want to have sex with. I find taking time getting to know one another in a relaxed social setting and laughing makes it for a way better experience for me. I don't want the quick fuck thing going on...you must understand that I've done that been there and have nothing more to prove.... Anyway this us my story my journey and I'm really happy where I'm at x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yep
I was in a relationship where she wanted sex about once a month and I wanted it at least once a day.....if the one key 'day a month' was missed then I had to wait another month....
Result? .... Eventually I cracked and am now divorced and much happier for it.
I now have a partner/friend/lover/everything who has a similar sex drive to me.
We have sex at least twice a day during the week and more at weekends... I have more sex now in a week than a year before...
I'm my experience a massive difference in sex drive leads to trouble (if sex is important in your relationship)
Other experiences may vary
Mwah
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"The only way I can keep my libido under control is to abstain from sex completely. The first few months are torture but then it settles down.
Otherwise I can never get enough."
Me too.
When I had all my bits taken away and I went for the extras I was told they didn't like to remove the extras in women of my age as it would lessen my sex drive. As I was celibate at the time I told to whip it all out. They did. My libido has not diminished at all.
I'm feeling a bit frisky tonight so may have to read an edifying book.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is considered great, isn't it? It's fun, passionate and great for relationships.
But it isn't great is it, for me! I find myself wanting more sex than my partner, I find myself on my own and feeling ridiculously horny with nowhere to go...
I'm actually starting to wish I wasn't so active in my desires. I spend half my time sexually frustrated, no matter how damn good the sex is. now I'm not saying I'd be happy retiring and doing jigsaws! but... I think I'll be happy when I get a bit older and it all starts to calm down.
Anyone else get this??"
A lot of guys come on this forum saying the same. They are the same ones who perfect the art of putting their cocks up their own arse. (Not that I am suggesting you do) but its a potential option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how he's getting on
You know... up and down "
In and out. I feel like I'm intruding in my mind but I have seen him in action and it's hard to get it out of my head  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wonder how he's getting on"
I'm getting on well, it's been a productive evening and we will carry on until late afternoon, but now I need some breakfast so I've been given a break haha
I got told I was a desperate single man "trolling" the site yesterday evening, by a couple I'd never spoken to before |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Same here. I got high sex drive and after a workout I get even more horny so have to knock one out in the showers there lol "
Dude, I don't EVER want to go to the same gym as you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Same here. I got high sex drive and after a workout I get even more horny so have to knock one out in the showers there lol
Dude, I don't EVER want to go to the same gym as you..."
lol its ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Wonder how he's getting on
I'm getting on well, it's been a productive evening and we will carry on until late afternoon, but now I need some breakfast so I've been given a break haha
I got told I was a desperate single man "trolling" the site yesterday evening, by a couple I'd never spoken to before "
Some people don't know the meaning of the word by the sound of it. You seem to have had a great time |
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"It means you're ready to get married Alex - that'll take the wind out of your sales!
Burn the heretics!!
Haha, be afraid, be very afraid....
Marriage?? You get less sex when you're married and you have to work hard for it
That's what I meant - a lot of people have a lower sex drive in a marriage anyway, they feel less like it!!!
If only one partner has a low sex drive then trouble starts so true "
So true... Maybe it will calm down. . Years ago I had no interest .. Now I'm so horny is ridiculous! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I did, but not before being called desperate. Imagine trying to get seen on a social networking site, who'd have thought it :Please
And yes, I had a great time, so good I spent the whole weekend with her
And now I'm a busy boy again from now till Saturday. Sunday is a day of rest of course |
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