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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well last night if was 'whatever the fuck you've got clipped to me had just moved... It needs to come off NOW!' Seeing as I don't really say much usually it seemed to work... But only after I heard him giggle at me. Git! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have never needed one with my Fwb.
Only once had to ask him to take a clip off my nipple as he was a bit busy further down and forgot it was still there...
He's a spark so it wasn't your run of the mill peg  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is usually mmffhmmmmfphf,which translates to that fucking hurts!
I assume they got the message  "
He ignores me anyway but has never gone too far. He goes a little bit further every now and then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well last night if was 'whatever the fuck you've got clipped to me had just moved... It needs to come off NOW!' Seeing as I don't really say much usually it seemed to work... But only after I heard him giggle at me. Git! "
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"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.
They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting
Her"
got a song thing going here - want that Carl Douglas? Classic |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.
They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting
Her
got a song thing going here - want that Carl Douglas? Classic "
yes I was singing as I was printing, it ended up there
Her |
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"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.
They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting
Her
got a song thing going here - want that Carl Douglas? Classic yes I was singing as I was printing, it ended up there
Her"
that does need re-releasing - together with 'red light spells danger' which are now my safewords |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never needed one we know if something isnt right with each other - we chatted about having such a thing for when on meets but for the same reason we would know by a look or by the way we were acting - |
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"To be honest if you trust someone that much you wouldn't need one.
They would know, if they didn't listen its a case everybody was kung foo fighting
Her"
hmmmm we have had 1 since the night we went on our 1st date (its ardvark btw)
As well as a safe gesture.
We have been together 13 years and its been used once.
We both like to push and sometimes push hard and i (Mr) like to sometimes go a little further than elle comfortable with.
Its also useful in roleplay situations as NO does not always mean NO when you playing this way. |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play."
Echo this, if they haven't got the sensory acuity to see what is working or not, they're not safe to play with. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
"if you have one is it always the same or what would yours be - with my pain threshold mine would be
"oh it's starting to chafe" "
had an fb who's safe word was:
"you're just a pussy"
lol it was an experience lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play."
Totally agree. I won't get in a situation where I'd need one, with anyone I don't fully trust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my opinion, you should always have safe words/signs.
I suppose it's the level of play that you get to, one should always be known.
We use the usual ,amber and Red.
I've never said red yet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play.
Echo this, if they haven't got the sensory acuity to see what is working or not, they're not safe to play with. "
I do fully trust my Doms but don't agree with this. |
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"if you have one is it always the same or what would yours be - with my pain threshold mine would be
"oh it's starting to chafe" "
I don't use words....the gag gets in the way hand signals work best! |
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"Never used a safe word, never will. If I can't trust them to look after me and me to look after them... no play.
Echo this, if they haven't got the sensory acuity to see what is working or not, they're not safe to play with.
I do fully trust my Doms but don't agree with this."
I dont either but mainly coz i dont know what acuity means  |
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"More !"
Lol greedy!
Speaking of which I had to make sure Mr Smoothie was ok whilst being tied up and flogged earlier by checking he knew our safe word. He was moaning excessively, so I had to check so that I was happy to continue. It's all a learning curve  |
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Slightly different than a safe word but I met a couple a while back, after about 15 minutes of chatting in there lounge hubby went to put the kettle on, she asked for tea which meant it was a go, if she would of asked for coffee it would have been a no go.. As I found out afterwards lol |
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