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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal? |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point? |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point?"
Sure, there won't be a 2nd time x |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point?"
I was thinking the same, why meet guys who are not going to do it for you when there are so many who will here. |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point?
I was thinking the same, why meet guys who are not going to do it for you when there are so many who will here. "
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point?
I was thinking the same, why meet guys who are not going to do it for you when there are so many who will here. "
Sometimes you only get to know this during the actual meet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another men bashing forum  "
I know and its a little sad as in general men make far more effort to satisfy than women its not as though you don't get a choice on here with guys so they really do try to please in every way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another men bashing forum
I know and its a little sad as in general men make far more effort to satisfy than women its not as though you don't get a choice on here with guys so they really do try to please in every way. "
I had a gf who didnt like giving bjs or receiving oral...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Weve had no end of meets with guys who forget to return the favour. We have to say when arranging meets now DONT FORGET TO EAT HER PUSSY it seems cold and harsh saying it but if we dont they talk the talk but almost never walk the walk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
I've never met a guy that doesn't like it and never will |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm definitely not selfish as nothing I like more than going down and knowing the lady is enjoying themselves... I get off knowing they are enjoying themselves and will stay down for as long as they want....say they want because if it was up to me I would stay there till I learned to breath through my ears 
Sex without oral would be like jumping in the shower not washing then getting back out....  .....quick but don't feel right ....selfish is quite a good description to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not a problem here - provided its fresh and hygienic there's nowhere else I'd prefer to be! "
In case anyone missed this, please let me reiterate once more: I LIKE TO DO THIS
(That was a public service broadcast for all female Fabbers in reasonable distance from Berkshire)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Weve had no end of meets with guys who forget to return the favour. We have to say when arranging meets now DONT FORGET TO EAT HER PUSSY it seems cold and harsh saying it but if we dont they talk the talk but almost never walk the walk."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Weve had no end of meets with guys who forget to return the favour. We have to say when arranging meets now DONT FORGET TO EAT HER PUSSY it seems cold and harsh saying it but if we dont they talk the talk but almost never walk the walk."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going to say the unthinkable on here now... I don't get anything from sucking on a cock. I do it to give pleasure. I hope for some reciprocity.
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Well I can't reach mine so can't comment lol but it's all about our pleasure and the person we are with ....it's good to give and not expect anything in return and if I get something in return that's a bonus |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hence I recently added this to the end of my profile ... ;p!
Ps !!!
I expect you to eat my pussy with the same enthusiasm that Winnie the Pooh face-fucks a jar of honey with. Questions? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've met a few guys who didn't give oral, sadly most guys don't tell you this before a meet, but any guys who don't give generally don't make it to the end of the session never mind a re meet, I have got dressed and left a few meets mid way through because the guy has been lazy/selfish |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm going to say the unthinkable on here now... I don't get anything from sucking on a cock. I do it to give pleasure. I hope for some reciprocity.
Well I can't reach mine so can't comment lol but it's all about our pleasure and the person we are with ....it's good to give and not expect anything in return and if I get something in return that's a bonus "
It's the one gift I would like to get something back, except with one very special person as it's my way of showing him how much I care.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Foreplay to me is the most pleasurable part ...exploring their body and curves from head to toe front and back and not forgetting the sides too lol I'm more than happy with that , that sex itself would not matter ....it's not always just about jumping on |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hence I recently added this to the end of my profile ... ;p!
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I expect you to eat my pussy with the same enthusiasm that Winnie the Pooh face-fucks a jar of honey with. Questions?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am quite happy at giving blow jobs and leaving at that, it is a kiss from me.
If I was taken for granted for that though, I have a toy box, then I will be selfish alone.
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"Another men bashing forum
I know and its a little sad as in general men make far more effort to satisfy than women its not as though you don't get a choice on here with guys so they really do try to please in every way. "
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The problem is that some guys will say they like to do this, there are an abundance of guys who will claim they will go down for hours.
Unfortunately what they say and what they actually will do can differ somewhat.
I love oral so do expect it and we have this conversation before. However it isn't really an issue because my OH will pleasure me and there aren't many who can equal his expertise, in my opinion of course, because he knows the exact moves that I love, so I never feel frustrated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
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"Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
Gimp"
Lmfao.....gimp your such a sonic and a warm ray of light even if it is true their no need to tell em ffs man some of us are single  |
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"Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
Gimp
Lmfao.....gimp your such a sonic and a warm ray of light even if it is true their no need to tell em ffs man some of us are single "
Sonic or even a sinic what ever you get my drift |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
Gimp
Lmfao.....gimp your such a sonic and a warm ray of light even if it is true their no need to tell em ffs man some of us are single
Sonic or even a sinic what ever you get my drift "
I get a tea tray put on my back for all this would you please
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"Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
Gimp
Lmfao.....gimp your such a sonic and a warm ray of light even if it is true their no need to tell em ffs man some of us are single
Sonic or even a sinic what ever you get my drift I get a tea tray put on my back for all this would you please
Her"
Hmmmm kinky bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem is that some guys will say they like to do this, there are an abundance of guys who will claim they will go down for hours.
Unfortunately what they say and what they actually will do can differ somewhat.
I love oral so do expect it and we have this conversation before. However it isn't really an issue because my OH will pleasure me and there aren't many who can equal his expertise, in my opinion of course, because he knows the exact moves that I love, so I never feel frustrated. "
I agree, bar the bit about your husband people will say what they think you want to hear and although every guy I have met claims to love to give oral in reality not all of them do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
Of COURSE it should be reciprocated. Not to do so is selfish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The problem is that some guys will say they like to do this, there are an abundance of guys who will claim they will go down for hours.
Unfortunately what they say and what they actually will do can differ somewhat.
I love oral so do expect it and we have this conversation before. However it isn't really an issue because my OH will pleasure me and there aren't many who can equal his expertise, in my opinion of course, because he knows the exact moves that I love, so I never feel frustrated.
I agree, bar the bit about your husband people will say what they think you want to hear and although every guy I have met claims to love to give oral in reality not all of them do"
I found it's the men who don't proclaim they love it and do it for ages are the ones who are best. I think it's because they enjoy doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Of COURSE it should be reciprocated. Not to do so is selfish."
Abso-blooming-lutely...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
Gimp
Lmfao.....gimp your such a sonic and a warm ray of light even if it is true their no need to tell em ffs man some of us are single
Sonic or even a sinic what ever you get my drift I get a tea tray put on my back for all this would you please
Her
Hmmmm kinky bitch "
well yea it leaves inprints |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe I go about meeting people a different way because this has never been a problem for me & believe me it would be!
By the time I'm meeting someone for a meet, meet.... we've pretty much wound each other up to the point of no return & can't wait to make the flirty messages a reality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"By the time I'm meeting someone for a meet, meet.... we've pretty much wound each other up to the point of no return & can't wait to make the flirty messages a reality"
Have you been reading my private messages
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another men bashing forum
I know and its a little sad as in general men make far more effort to satisfy than women its not as though you don't get a choice on here with guys so they really do try to please in every way. "
What percentage of the male membership have you been with to qualify this statement?
Unless you're admitting that the men you meet make more effort than you  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As far as I'm concerned it's no1,no2 and no3 on the menu ,love the lady garden ...nothing finer "
Not picking on you personally as weve not met so I dont know what you do. But this message is worded VERY typically of the guys we have met who hardly even look at Emilys pussy. They ram a few fingers in thinking thrusting at 100mph will excite her then after shes sucked their cock they are climbing on her. Shes not demanding enough to say stop and eat it first unfortunately. I said it for her once but the guy basically told me it was about what Emily wanted not me. Her response was in that case I want you to leave |
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"Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
Gimp
Lmfao.....gimp your such a sonic and a warm ray of light even if it is true their no need to tell em ffs man some of us are single
Sonic or even a sinic what ever you get my drift I get a tea tray put on my back for all this would you please
Her
Hmmmm kinky bitch well yea it leaves inprints "
Promises promises. ....god I hope thats her lmfao |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh Dear!
Yet another Female that doesn't understand the Male Psyche, You get ya Gums around his plums on a one night thing and he blows his load..Job done.
All this Cobblers from the Milk Tray Brigade about oh yes i will always make sure that the Bird is satisfied is bollox.
Suck Swallow watch the Football
Gimp
Lmfao.....gimp your such a sonic and a warm ray of light even if it is true their no need to tell em ffs man some of us are single
Sonic or even a sinic what ever you get my drift I get a tea tray put on my back for all this would you please
Her
Hmmmm kinky bitch well yea it leaves inprints
Promises promises. ....god I hope thats her lmfao "
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"As far as I'm concerned it's no1,no2 and no3 on the menu ,love the lady garden ...nothing finer
Not picking on you personally as weve not met so I dont know what you do. But this message is worded VERY typically of the guys we have met who hardly even look at Emilys pussy. They ram a few fingers in thinking thrusting at 100mph will excite her then after shes sucked their cock they are climbing on her. Shes not demanding enough to say stop and eat it first unfortunately. I said it for her once but the guy basically told me it was about what Emily wanted not me. Her response was in that case I want you to leave "
What so 100 mph doesn't do it for you......bollex im fucked then |
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"The problem is that some guys will say they like to do this, there are an abundance of guys who will claim they will go down for hours.
Unfortunately what they say and what they actually will do can differ somewhat.
I love oral so do expect it and we have this conversation before. However it isn't really an issue because my OH will pleasure me and there aren't many who can equal his expertise, in my opinion of course, because he knows the exact moves that I love, so I never feel frustrated.
I agree, bar the bit about your husband people will say what they think you want to hear and although every guy I have met claims to love to give oral in reality not all of them do"
If you read some of my veris you will see that indeed I do! |
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I just don't meet those that don't meet my catholic tastes. Whilst I don't have a prefixed menu of what we will and won't do, if their tastes don't match mine then it's not going to leave me satisfied. Likewise those who want to come around for a blow job, if I need fucking I'm still going to need fucking, probably even more so.
Kissing is important too, so I'd expect to know if that's off the agenda. All parties can then make informed choices. |
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"The problem is that some guys will say they like to do this, there are an abundance of guys who will claim they will go down for hours.
Unfortunately what they say and what they actually will do can differ somewhat.
I love oral so do expect it and we have this conversation before. However it isn't really an issue because my OH will pleasure me and there aren't many who can equal his expertise, in my opinion of course, because he knows the exact moves that I love, so I never feel frustrated.
I agree, bar the bit about your husband people will say what they think you want to hear and although every guy I have met claims to love to give oral in reality not all of them do
If you read some of my veris you will see that indeed I do!"
There is nothing about sucking cock just making volovants and hovering up but if you say you suck cock its good enough for us. |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
Yes it should be but it works both ways. I met a girl from a similar site to this a couple of years ago, after i gave her lots of oral, she then said she would not return the favour. When she said that it totally ruined the moment, was the worst meet i ever had and i did not meet her again after that. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I just don't meet those that don't meet my catholic tastes. Whilst I don't have a prefixed menu of what we will and won't do, if their tastes don't match mine then it's not going to leave me satisfied. Likewise those who want to come around for a blow job, if I need fucking I'm still going to need fucking, probably even more so.
Kissing is important too, so I'd expect to know if that's off the agenda. All parties can then make informed choices."
Well said Sophie |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Another men bashing forum
I know and its a little sad as in general men make far more effort to satisfy than women its not as though you don't get a choice on here with guys so they really do try to please in every way.
What percentage of the male membership have you been with to qualify this statement?
Unless you're admitting that the men you meet make more effort than you ."
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
. Should be both ways . You can always tell him to leave buy would be better to know before arranging the meet. 69 ideal for me . Deep throated as I suck/ lick pussy .
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By (user no longer on site)
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I (stupidly?) assumed that if oral sex is listed in someone's profile, that meant giving and receiving.
Met a guy once who when we met, said he doesn't give oral to one night stands. I replied that I thought we were meeting again. He said yes but then changed it to say he meant women he met from the internet.
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
No. Perhaps they don't like to give oral. It's not a tick box exercise. If I don't like something I won't do it. |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point?
I was thinking the same, why meet guys who are not going to do it for you when there are so many who will here. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm going to say the unthinkable on here now... I don't get anything from sucking on a cock. I do it to give pleasure. I hope for some reciprocity.
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I bet if a lot of woman was truthful here they would say the same thing. lol xxxxx |
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"I'm going to say the unthinkable on here now... I don't get anything from sucking on a cock. I do it to give pleasure. I hope for some reciprocity.
I bet if a lot of woman was truthful here they would say the same thing. lol xxxxx "
I bet if a lot of the Blokes were truthful on here they would say who gives a Toss if she really enjoys it
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By (user no longer on site)
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See I don't understand that, yea I like having my cock sucked, but it's not the be all and end all, however for some reason I love licking and sucking a gorgeous woman, could happily do it all night xx |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
Ahhh the classic 68er
It's like a 69 but the bloke owes you one,  |
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"I'm going to say the unthinkable on here now... I don't get anything from sucking on a cock. I do it to give pleasure. I hope for some reciprocity.
I bet if a lot of woman was truthful here they would say the same thing. lol xxxxx
I bet if a lot of the Blokes were truthful on here they would say who gives a Toss if she really enjoys it
Gimp "
Yes I bet your right too .... I bet loads hate giving oral men and woman if the truth is known and only do as have to .... Some not all as some love it I know you can tell if into it and you when playing . lol |
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"I'm going to say the unthinkable on here now... I don't get anything from sucking on a cock. I do it to give pleasure. I hope for some reciprocity.
I bet if a lot of woman was truthful here they would say the same thing. lol xxxxx
I bet if a lot of the Blokes were truthful on here they would say who gives a Toss if she really enjoys it
Gimp Yes I bet your right too .... I bet loads hate giving oral men and woman if the truth is known and only do as have to .... Some not all as some love it I know you can tell if into it and you when playing . lol "
Dont get me wrong we both Enjoy what we do with each other and other Couples..In fact Sword Swallowing is Nettes favourite Sport but what i find Funny is all the Blokes who say oh yeah i will happily lick all night, Really ?.
What Bird really wants a Blokes Head between Her legs for Six hours solid then when he comes up to Snog ya his gonna have a Mouth like a Trawlerman's Jockstrap
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"I'm going to say the unthinkable on here now... I don't get anything from sucking on a cock. I do it to give pleasure. I hope for some reciprocity.
I bet if a lot of woman was truthful here they would say the same thing. lol xxxxx
I bet if a lot of the Blokes were truthful on here they would say who gives a Toss if she really enjoys it
Gimp Yes I bet your right too .... I bet loads hate giving oral men and woman if the truth is known and only do as have to .... Some not all as some love it I know you can tell if into it and you when playing . lol
Dont get me wrong we both Enjoy what we do with each other and other Couples..In fact Sword Swallowing is Nettes favourite Sport but what i find Funny is all the Blokes who say oh yeah i will happily lick all night, Really ?.
What Bird really wants a Blokes Head between Her legs for Six hours solid then when he comes up to Snog ya his gonna have a Mouth like a Trawlerman's Jockstrap
Gimp "
lololol Thanks for making me smile Gimp Trawlerman's Jockstrap
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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
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No. Perhaps they don't like to give oral. It's not a tick box exercise. If I don't like something I won't do it. "
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No-one is obligated or should feel pressurised to do something they don't want to do, that's just wrong. If I didn't enjoy giving a man a blow job, I wouldn't want to feel like it was expected of me and I certainly wouldn't expect them to give me oral. However, there are plenty of men who expect to get their needs met without a second thought for the woman's needs and you don't find that out until the meet itself. |
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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
On behalf of my lovely better half, agreed. -Mr. |
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over a year ago
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point?
I was thinking the same, why meet guys who are not going to do it for you when there are so many who will here. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
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No. Perhaps they don't like to give oral. It's not a tick box exercise. If I don't like something I won't do it.
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No-one is obligated or should feel pressurised to do something they don't want to do, that's just wrong. If I didn't enjoy giving a man a blow job, I wouldn't want to feel like it was expected of me and I certainly wouldn't expect them to give me oral. However, there are plenty of men who expect to get their needs met without a second thought for the woman's needs and you don't find that out until the meet itself."
Very true. In which case I hurry him up and I leave. |
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over a year ago
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""By the time I'm meeting someone for a meet, meet.... we've pretty much wound each other up to the point of no return & can't wait to make the flirty messages a reality"
Have you been reading my private messages
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And mine |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I (stupidly?) assumed that if oral sex is listed in someone's profile, that meant giving and receiving.
Met a guy once who when we met, said he doesn't give oral to one night stands. I replied that I thought we were meeting again. He said yes but then changed it to say he meant women he met from the internet.
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I think I met him in a club. He still wanted to be sucked though so I told him I don't suck dickheads. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The problem is that some guys will say they like to do this, there are an abundance of guys who will claim they will go down for hours.
Unfortunately what they say and what they actually will do can differ somewhat.
I love oral so do expect it and we have this conversation before. However it isn't really an issue because my OH will pleasure me and there aren't many who can equal his expertise, in my opinion of course, because he knows the exact moves that I love, so I never feel frustrated.
I agree, bar the bit about your husband people will say what they think you want to hear and although every guy I have met claims to love to give oral in reality not all of them do
If you read some of my veris you will see that indeed I do!"
i ain't got time for that |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"the other day on my f/book there was a brilliant picture of a cat with a startled look on its face with the caption lesbians eat what ? when i saw it i wished i could have put it on here "
I've seen a T-shirt with that. I should have bought it but I don't wear them. |
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By *erge3Man
over a year ago
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do we blame the internet for this?
more access to porn etc,
the old saying used be sorry for being crude snog, fondle.tits.fanny, muff,shag, but some of these amateur vids the girls are just there for the man's pleasure, |
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Would rather somone do it cos they into it, and enjoy it... Rather than give a "licking a fleas kneecap " performance... Whats the point in that?! If we able to say ' we aint into whatever' then others are too.
That said .... They can make it up in other ways! Lol   |
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over a year ago
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I love oral, giving and receiving... but then I love every inch of women! You've got to admit, guys, that running your hands of every inch of a beautiful women's skin, smelling her scent, kissing her body, beck, face and lips... is intoxicating. I could literally do that for hours, teasing and playing, bringing her close to orgasm and back again .... but not to the point the moment goes... then releasing her and using my fingers to quite devastating effect
Did I get carried away there..?! lol |
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"I love oral, giving and receiving... but then I love every inch of women! You've got to admit, guys, that running your hands of every inch of a beautiful women's skin, smelling her scent, kissing her body, beck, face and lips... is intoxicating. I could literally do that for hours, teasing and playing, bringing her close to orgasm and back again .... but not to the point the moment goes... then releasing her and using my fingers to quite devastating effect
Did I get carried away there..?! lol"
Uh huh you did ~ no need to apologise tho...!!!
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I was discussing this last night with a nice young man at Partners, as he had heard that men did not give oral as much as their profiles would suggest. I had to tell him that unfortunately its true - they are happy enough to receive it, but many times they go straight for full sex without any reciprocation.
Fortunately the nice young man last night, and my last meet, were notable exceptions, but its a shame that they were exceptions, and not the norm. Come on guys! If you want your cock sucked, make an effort! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I guess most men need to know the lady and trust her.
In short where has she been lol"
The fact is (confirmed by my GUM clinic doctor) that women are more likely to receive a STI from men than vice versa. |
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over a year ago
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"I was discussing this last night with a nice young man at Partners, as he had heard that men did not give oral as much as their profiles would suggest. I had to tell him that unfortunately its true - they are happy enough to receive it, but many times they go straight for full sex without any reciprocation.
Fortunately the nice young man last night, and my last meet, were notable exceptions, but its a shame that they were exceptions, and not the norm. Come on guys! If you want your cock sucked, make an effort!"
Should the question why don't they? be addressed do you think? I had one man I saw a few times say he felt suffocated when doing it |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Should the question why don't they? be addressed do you think? I had one man I saw a few times say he felt suffocated when doing it"
And having a cock shoved so far down my throat I can't breathe is considered acceptable? If he felt suffocated he should discuss more comfortable positions, not just knock it on the head altogether. |
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"I just don't meet those that don't meet my catholic tastes. Whilst I don't have a prefixed menu of what we will and won't do, if their tastes don't match mine then it's not going to leave me satisfied. Likewise those who want to come around for a blow job, if I need fucking I'm still going to need fucking, probably even more so.
Kissing is important too, so I'd expect to know if that's off the agenda. All parties can then make informed choices.
Well said Sophie "
It is a good point, you set out your stall and then everyone know where they stand |
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"Should the question why don't they? be addressed do you think? I had one man I saw a few times say he felt suffocated when doing it
And having a cock shoved so far down my throat I can't breathe is considered acceptable? If he felt suffocated he should discuss more comfortable positions, not just knock it on the head altogether."
I don't mind not receiving,I prefer to be kissed on my mouth and he would never shove his cock down my throat. If I wasn't happy I wouldn't have kept seeing him. We never discussed what we would do before we met |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Don't meet them then! You meet for mutual pleasure no? If you're not getting what you want what's the point?
I was thinking the same, why meet guys who are not going to do it for you when there are so many who will here. "
Absolutely agreewi ya here |
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Also...how cum its all the ladies with shaven havens and not guys also..
If your a guy liking hios dick sucked, do us the same courtesy AND SHAVE/TRIM/WAX...ANYTHING!!!
Makes for much nicer oral...
ps .. or come to me and i will gladly sort it |
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"Also...how cum its all the ladies with shaven havens and not guys also..
If your a guy liking hios dick sucked, do us the same courtesy AND SHAVE/TRIM/WAX...ANYTHING!!!
Makes for much nicer oral...
ps .. or come to me and i will gladly sort it "
It defo makes the licking much easier and nicer xx |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?"
Personally I love eating pussy. To answer your question, I think peoples boundaries should always be respected, and discussed before a meet. I don't think there is anything wrong with enjoying a BJ, but not enjoying eating pussy. It is just a limit for that person. If you struggle with men that do not eat pussy, then you should confirm they are okay with eating pussy before a meet. |
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If i actually got to meet a chick off here i prob would be able to prove i love pussy eating, if the chicks on here just meet the blokes who love themselves too much and always have the girls falling at their feet why are they going to bother eating you out |
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"If i actually got to meet a chick off here i prob would be able to prove i love pussy eating, if the chicks on here just meet the blokes who love themselves too much and always have the girls falling at their feet why are they going to bother eating you out"
Oh dear. Would you like some snacks to go with that bitter?
I'm only speaking for myself here, but I have no qualms going down on a woman. I find it interesting that some men will happily accept a blowjob (heck some even insist on it) but then balk when it comes to 'returning the favour'.
I'm just as curious with some of the female profiles I've seen where a stipulation of the meet is the man going down on her only. He shouldn't even entertain the idea of receiving anything.
That lends itself to the suggestion of psychological 'power' some see in the act of oral sex as opposed to pleasure giving.
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"If i actually got to meet a chick off here i prob would be able to prove i love pussy eating, if the chicks on here just meet the blokes who love themselves too much and always have the girls falling at their feet why are they going to bother eating you out
Oh dear. Would you like some snacks to go with that bitter?
I'm only speaking for myself here, but I have no qualms going down on a woman. I find it interesting that some men will happily accept a blowjob (heck some even insist on it) but then balk when it comes to 'returning the favour'.
I'm just as curious with some of the female profiles I've seen where a stipulation of the meet is the man going down on her only. He shouldn't even entertain the idea of receiving anything.
That lends itself to the suggestion of psychological 'power' some see in the act of oral sex as opposed to pleasure giving.
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You have raised an interesting point here and I have to say that I would avoid anyone who insisted we did anything specific on a meet. I find it really odd that some people won't give oral without receiving it almost turns into point scoring.....whatever happened to doing something just because you both want it with no expectation of getting something in return? Thats why I can never answer the "what do you like?" Question as for me it varies greatly depending on the other person and the mood at the time. |
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"If i actually got to meet a chick off here i prob would be able to prove i love pussy eating, if the chicks on here just meet the blokes who love themselves too much and always have the girls falling at their feet why are they going to bother eating you out
Oh dear. Would you like some snacks to go with that bitter?
I'm only speaking for myself here, but I have no qualms going down on a woman. I find it interesting that some men will happily accept a blowjob (heck some even insist on it) but then balk when it comes to 'returning the favour'.
I'm just as curious with some of the female profiles I've seen where a stipulation of the meet is the man going down on her only. He shouldn't even entertain the idea of receiving anything.
That lends itself to the suggestion of psychological 'power' some see in the act of oral sex as opposed to pleasure giving.
You have raised an interesting point here and I have to say that I would avoid anyone who insisted we did anything specific on a meet. I find it really odd that some people won't give oral without receiving it almost turns into point scoring.....whatever happened to doing something just because you both want it with no expectation of getting something in return? Thats why I can never answer the "what do you like?" Question as for me it varies greatly depending on the other person and the mood at the time."
So what do you like, then?
Only kidding. Lol |
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"If i actually got to meet a chick off here i prob would be able to prove i love pussy eating, if the chicks on here just meet the blokes who love themselves too much and always have the girls falling at their feet why are they going to bother eating you out
Oh dear. Would you like some snacks to go with that bitter?
I'm only speaking for myself here, but I have no qualms going down on a woman. I find it interesting that some men will happily accept a blowjob (heck some even insist on it) but then balk when it comes to 'returning the favour'.
I'm just as curious with some of the female profiles I've seen where a stipulation of the meet is the man going down on her only. He shouldn't even entertain the idea of receiving anything.
That lends itself to the suggestion of psychological 'power' some see in the act of oral sex as opposed to pleasure giving.
You have raised an interesting point here and I have to say that I would avoid anyone who insisted we did anything specific on a meet. I find it really odd that some people won't give oral without receiving it almost turns into point scoring.....whatever happened to doing something just because you both want it with no expectation of getting something in return? Thats why I can never answer the "what do you like?" Question as for me it varies greatly depending on the other person and the mood at the time."
This all the way |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Personally I love eating pussy. To answer your question, I think peoples boundaries should always be respected, and discussed before a meet. I don't think there is anything wrong with enjoying a BJ, but not enjoying eating pussy. It is just a limit for that person. If you struggle with men that do not eat pussy, then you should confirm they are okay with eating pussy before a meet."
This is all well and good. Talk about what you like and don't like but quite often people say things then don't do them and you can't force anyone can you |
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"Selfish might be too strong a word but I struggle with men that do not like to lick/eat a woman's pussy but want to have their cocks sucked! I know we all have no nos and personal preferences but shouldn't it be reciprocal?
Personally I love eating pussy. To answer your question, I think peoples boundaries should always be respected, and discussed before a meet. I don't think there is anything wrong with enjoying a BJ, but not enjoying eating pussy. It is just a limit for that person. If you struggle with men that do not eat pussy, then you should confirm they are okay with eating pussy before a meet.
This is all well and good. Talk about what you like and don't like but quite often people say things then don't do them and you can't force anyone can you "
Which then leads to resentment and disappointment and a negative feel from the meet
Go with the flow |
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I love to slowly work my tounge down the ladys body to her nice moist succulent tight pussy slowly teasing her inbetween her thighs slowly and softly licking her until she cums i have alnight for that all night love to get the juices flowing |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I do try and get some sort of communication going with regards to consensual oral, but when a profile states 'I adore licking pussy. I am so good as pussy licking you won't be able to stand for a week. I am the pussy licking god!!@ (Hyperbole not necessarily included), only to meet and he barely touches my lady bits, I am likely to feel a touch unfulfilled. |
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I met a guy of here who said he liked all the things I liked ... We seemed compatable ..so We met
We chatted for a while ..then went off to bedroom after a lot of kissing and I gave him a bj ...then he was very odd
Which now I interpret as he wanted me to leave ... That was it ... Meet over...selfish b**tard !!
He had the cheek to contact me again months later .. twice actually ..think he'd forgotten who I was ..I told him i had met him before and it wasnt a pleasurable experience and I'd pass thanks ..blocked now lol |
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