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Why no male pics on couples profiles
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you are swinging with a lady partner or wife........The wife needs to see the man just as much as the man needs to see the lady and then because of no male pics have to ask for a photo......then get sent a distant photo taken in 1973....or a grainy pic.
Wtf is that about? |
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Most i've seen have a token pic or two of the male half of the couple, but for the most part it is pics of the lady. I guess the reason is it is the pics of the women that attract most attention to the profile. |
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there are 7 of A on ours. I do like to see what the male half looks like and in our experience when a guy is reluctant to show his photo he is also reluctant to take part in swinging. I know this won't always be the case but it has proved true every time we have met couples where the guy won't show himself on their photo gallery. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have a few but how many different pics of a man can you take. Women have it easy when it comes to pics. They have loads of different outfits and poses. The ones we have show what needs to be seen and we also have a good clear face pic of both of us together.
If they haven't got any of both people we normally just skip the profile when browsing. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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Mrblue you would have thought that they understand the reasons why its important to have pics of both on.
Maybe thats why many single fems I have met in the past ignore messages or delete them and find the attraction to the woman and often not the man. Yes I know its their profile but nothing worse than couples complaining about not meeting single bi fems but they hinder their own chances as a couple because of their profile.
Selling themselves is important. We all know the shop window technique. If the window only sells part of the whole package then don't be surprised when it doesn't work. In a club the only couples that will have fun are the ones that have both the male and the female there for the lady to get to know
Just my point of view but taken from years on the scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mrblue you would have thought that they understand the reasons why its important to have pics of both on.
Maybe thats why many single fems I have met in the past ignore messages or delete them and find the attraction to the woman and often not the man. Yes I know its their profile but nothing worse than couples complaining about not meeting single bi fems but they hinder their own chances as a couple because of their profile.
Selling themselves is important. We all know the shop window technique. If the window only sells part of the whole package then don't be surprised when it doesn't work. In a club the only couples that will have fun are the ones that have both the male and the female there for the lady to get to know
Just my point of view but taken from years on the scene. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol
I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me."
that would be first in our case lol
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"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol
I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me."
Oh Lord I just re read that I don't mean the lady in your profile doesn't look hot...  .
Of course I meant that it isn't the female in any profile that will encourage me to take things further...I'll put the spade down now |
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"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol
I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me.
that would be first in our case lol
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well you're both very nice but the main attraction for me will always be the man in the profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have both of us on ours, there are alot that haven't. its coz the women are hotter tho i think i could be wrong lol
I'm straight, the woman doesn't look hotter to me.
Oh Lord I just re read that I don't mean the lady in your profile doesn't look hot... .
Of course I meant that it isn't the female in any profile that will encourage me to take things further...I'll put the spade down now"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never play on meets so no need to see me. There is a face pic of us both in private pics but apart from that it shouldnt matter what I look like nobody gets to play with me. Stu. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.
We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.
I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really.  |
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"I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.
We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.
I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really. "
And that's exactly how everyone should run their profile....in a way that suits them, no explanation, no justification |
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By *andWCouple
over a year ago
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"I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.
We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.
I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really. "
We are the same, I had to fight the case with MrB to get pics including him on ours x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you are swinging with a lady partner or wife........The wife needs to see the man just as much as the man needs to see the lady and then because of no male pics have to ask for a photo......then get sent a distant photo taken in 1973....or a grainy pic.
Wtf is that about?"
Its been asked a hundred times and there is no definitive answer. Maybe the reality is the woman is better looking than the guy? But who knows a lot of couples still do it. |
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"I never make excuses on this issue, We don't have any of the male half on our public pics and we are ever likely to.
We enjoy our swinging lifestyle and what works for us. We don't need to sell ourselves to anyone.
I like posing and taking pictures of myself, he doesn't, so its simply really.
And that's exactly how everyone should run their profile....in a way that suits them, no explanation, no justification "
what a lovely attitude |
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We have some of me on ours, but most are of angel, mainly because i am the one that graps the camera when i see something i want captured.......and sadly i'm just not photogenic, being fat n ugly n all  |
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Although we're a couple is really only me that plays Mr s plays very rarely and we have pics in private if anyone wants to see them. But we don't really play with other couples . mostly i play alone with his permission. It's very difficult to find a couple where everyone is attracted to each other. I know a few who have separate profiles as they have very different taste. But as a lovely couple said all should run their profile in the way that suits them and its no one else's business . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's not many of me on our profile but that's because I'm not very photogenic lol, plus at the minute our prefered meet is mfm so it doesn't really matter what I look like |
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As I said I think everyone should run their profile exactly as they want there's too much worrying about what other people want. We all have our opinions on this and I like to see clear body pictures of a guy on a profile to me it shows he's involved, interested and realises that any woman in a couple should have the opportunity to see him the same as her partner has the chance to see his partner. However if for any reason a couple don't want to show him that I'd entirely their prerogative |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are guilty of that and in the past have used lots of excuses.
I'm shy and not the best looking, I take all the picture and I'm no good and selfies.
However not being the best looking doesn't stop me getting naked on the dance floor at
Xtasia, I could as Mo to take a few pictures and most of the pictures of is together are selfies.
Truth be told we have no valid excuse we have just been too lazy to do it!    |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are guilty of that and in the past have used lots of excuses.
I'm shy and not the best looking, I take all the picture and I'm no good and selfies.
However not being the best looking doesn't stop me getting naked on the dance floor at
Xtasia, I could as Mo to take a few pictures and most of the pictures of is together are selfies.
Truth be told we have no valid excuse we have just been too lazy to do it! "
*ask Mo |
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