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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I know how this is going to go....its gonna be mad, there all gonna give theyre opinion and it aint gonna end well...u get me?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

"

we are all different, I could run rings around you at other things maybe no spelling but loads of other things I can . lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "

Work not works

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By *ittykate84Woman  over a year ago

CHESTER

Spelling does irritate me when done incorrectly, mainly when text speak is used instead. Why write 'lyk' why put in a letter than isnt even in the word.

Though I do take into account some people may be dyslexic so it is not their fault.

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By *andcCouple  over a year ago

London and Cheshire

Nope! we are looking for NSA fun not an English exam!

We also want to meet with people from all areas of society, including people who may not be born here in the UK, so spelling/grammar is not an issue to us.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aslong as I don't have to spend an hour googleing what all these abbreviations mean poor spelling doesn't make a difference.

When there is a huge page of writing with no punctuation at all I give up trying to read it

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By *londeCazWoman  over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Yes, in the privacy of my own home, I wince at bad spelling and grammar, but it doesn't stop me from exchanging messages...messages that I struggle to read because of txt spk are less likely to lead to extended exchanges.

I'd never pick apart a post or PM (unless done ironically on a spelling thread)

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

i am one of the people who does the lazy spelling thing like no instead of know and wot instead of what i do this because i want to all i can suggest to ease your frustration is dont bother reading anything on any forum post from joxxnick simples

(her)

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

It's not a spelling or dick measuring contest. Yes we are all different and typing mistakes, I'm sure we can all live with.

Maybe I spend too much time correcting my kids' spelling that I cannot help myself when on here.


"I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

we are all different, I could run rings around you at other things maybe no spelling but loads of other things I can . lol "

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By *adybee77Woman  over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I hate txt spk - I find it annoying and difficult to decipher (maybe I'm just an old, curmudgeonly, grumpy old bird!)

Bad spelling I can overlook as long as its not every other word. I do detest people getting no and know mixed, there and their and to, too and two!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Isn't it all about the fun not the labour we all do enough work just enjoy it fuck it one life and we all complain about something wtf

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not too bothered about it as i am a culprit at times. I use my phone mostly and big fingers and little keypad are the main culprit for mis-spelling. Im also lazy and cant be bothered to go back to correct. Its not an exam and most people get the context.

However i do hate txt speak and gangsta style chat, reading the word innit many times in some peoples posts is so annoying

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Grammar and spelling is not a big issue for me.

I hate text speak, why not type the full word!

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By *igilant2TV/TS  over a year ago

peterborough

I do understand what the original post refers too, and in some instances, agree with it. A lot of the problem, I think, is down to education, as I have seen my stepdaughters work, which has not been corrected, or commented on by teachers, plus, I am aware, that some 'suffer' from what I dont know if I spell right, but Dyslexia, which is difficult for them, so I dont think critisism is needed, unless the facts are known

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Couldn't give a fuck, personally.

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By *unky monkeyMan  over a year ago

in the night garden

As long as someone is articulate I don't mind spelling or grammar.

There are people whom have messaged me with impeccable sentence structure and spelling but seem thick as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Couldn't give a fuck, personally."

lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"It's not a spelling or dick measuring contest. Yes we are all different and typing mistakes, I'm sure we can all live with.

Maybe I spend too much time correcting my kids' spelling that I cannot help myself when on here.

I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

"

Well I am sorry I just see spelling as some people are different . As I know Agatha Christie was the world's best selling book writer had dyslexia but in no way did it stop her from being creative . Albert Einstein Being one of the most important great minds of his century Albert Einstein was then known to suffer from dyslexia mainly because of his bad memory and his constant failure to memorize the simplest of things. Loads of people in high places cant spell well .

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

George Washington and Winston Churchill and Richard Branson I could name 100s who cant spell and read and wright well .

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

now that (wright) surely was deliberate ...


"George Washington and Winston Churchill and Richard Branson I could name 100s who cant spell and read and wright well .

"

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By *xpresMan  over a year ago

Elland


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"now that (wright) surely was deliberate ...

George Washington and Winston Churchill and Richard Branson I could name 100s who cant spell and read and wright well .

"

lol no but you new what I was saying .

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By *ire_bladeMan  over a year ago

Manchester

I find the subject extremely boring and so not worth the ban by giving my true thoughts. the words get a life for some reason spring to mind

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent

As my spelling and grammar is far from perfect it doesn't bother me too much, usually the profiles or posts that are totally written in text speak that I can't make head nor tail of annoy me more.

Spelling mistakes aren't normally enough to put me off, the odd word spelled incorrectly doesn't prevent me from understanding what they are trying to say.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Couldn't give a fuck, personally."

Spot on

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By *nnyMan  over a year ago

Glasgow

Poor spelling in thread titles makes searching difficult.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple  over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

No but then my spelling, grammar and punctuation isn't great. As long as I can make out what someone is trying to say, that's all that matters to me.

I find the spelling police and grammar nazi's who swoop down on others, much more annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I couldn't care less. Some long-winded,overly descriptive posts bore me. I'm guilty of that myself. Oh,and being a bad speller and poor at grammar doesn't mean a person is uneducated,and vice versa

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By *uslaffMan  over a year ago

manchester


"I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

"

Are commas rationed these days ?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Nope! we are looking for NSA fun not an English exam!

We also want to meet with people from all areas of society, including people who may not be born here in the UK, so spelling/grammar is not an issue to us."

exactly this

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By *imon_hydeMan  over a year ago

Stockport

Not a problem for me. Though I do find intelligence a huge turn on so articulate posters get perved. Aren't you the lucky bunch.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "

Well said it gets to the point I wonder if its fan I'm on or a teaching forum

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By *utmegsMan  over a year ago

Closer than you think

I'm not too precious about spelling, but the messages sent in Batco with no key setting rly grp m sht.

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By *DFL6828Man  over a year ago

Leicester

IM a really poor speller, but when i have to send Emails i always have auto correct on. Tho i really hate text talk...

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By *at69driveMan  over a year ago

Hertford


"I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

Will not penalise people for poor spelling and grammar , but still prefer well written messages with correct spelling. I find text language completely unacceptable.

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

"

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By *iceguy25Man  over a year ago

tongbridge

Its a sex site not school exams!

If the miss use of words really bothers you, then please feel free to move on to the next message, some people, myself included, get offended when our spelling and grammar is picked apart

apart.

Just because you are better at spelling dose not give you the right to put anyone down!

At the end of the day it you need to really think about changing "no" to "know" to the point you find it hard to read, you should ask who really is the stupid one.

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By *ire_bladeMan  over a year ago

Manchester


"Its a sex site not school exams!

If the miss use of words really bothers you, then please feel free to move on to the next message, some people, myself included, get offended when our spelling and grammar is picked apart

apart.

Just because you are better at spelling dose not give you the right to put anyone down!

At the end of the day it you need to really think about changing "no" to "know" to the point you find it hard to read, you should ask who really is the stupid one. "

well said that man

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I can't think why you would class it as a controversial subject ? It most certainly is not but would bet good money that it's been done to death on here.

Just another sneaky way of thinking a certain type believe they're smarter than others.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "
I agree this site is fun not an English lesson! Pa hope I spelt that all right lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... I agree this site is fun not an English lesson! Pa hope I spelt that all right lol "

I've just read my post back, there is no grammar it is what so ever. Ah well I knew what I meant lol.

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By *om1962Man  over a year ago

Brighton

First of all, it took me two attempts to pass my English O Level and, I only got a grade C. So, there maybe mistakes in this post!

However, I always flinch when I see people using "your" (belongs to you), when they mean "you're" (contraction of "you are").

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If it's simply the typical errors most make with spelling and grammar, I'm not too fussed as long as it is readable.

However, when I get messages which are indecipherable then I just don't understand why they bother If I can't make sense of it, then I cannot answer it.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

If it's simply the typical errors most make with spelling and grammar, I'm not too fussed as long as it is readable.

However, when I get messages which are indecipherable then I just don't understand why they bother If I can't make sense of it, then I cannot answer it.

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills

How you spell and read tends (stresses tends) to come from your preferred way of accessing information.

Majority of people tend to use visual information gathering, so bad spelling will stop the flow of information, which is annoying as they're putting things right instead of information gathering.

A large number prefer auditory to gather information, therefore they gather information phonetically and spelling isn't a problem. Equally a large number of auditory gathers will be put off by a large text so will not have read this far - ho hum.

So it depends on the persons and how the tend to access the world.

I know (and there are usually clues in profiles, posts) that if a person does access visually a badly worded message is not going to cut ice and I adapt to meet their requirements.

Now I need to get out of my head mode - where's the bottle.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "

Well said.

If spelling on an Internet forum was all I had to moan about I'd consider myself very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Spelling and grammar are important to me personally, but I'd rather know what the other person is trying to say than pick apart how they say it.

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By *adyGardenWoman  over a year ago

LONDON (se)

On posts and messaging all yext type bothers me.

I like a well written profile though as that can be spell checked before submitting

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"How you spell and read tends (stresses tends) to come from your preferred way of accessing information.

Majority of people tend to use visual information gathering, so bad spelling will stop the flow of information, which is annoying as they're putting things right instead of information gathering.

A large number prefer auditory to gather information, therefore they gather information phonetically and spelling isn't a problem. Equally a large number of auditory gathers will be put off by a large text so will not have read this far - ho hum.

So it depends on the persons and how the tend to access the world.

I know (and there are usually clues in profiles, posts) that if a person does access visually a badly worded message is not going to cut ice and I adapt to meet their requirements.

Now I need to get out of my head mode - where's the bottle. "

Gilly thank you for teaching me something today. I never knew the above and it was a very interesting post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Firstly, it's a swinger's site not a sex site - a more than subtle difference.

It was not my intention to offend anybody. I was just airing my frustration on this forum which is a place for free speech and banter. I am not native to the UK and maybe having learnt English as a foreign language made me be more careful with my spelling to get the right message across and avoid being misunderstood.

As for your last sentence, we will let the populus decide.

p.s. a late entry to my list ... "dose" and "those"


"Its a sex site not school exams!

If the miss use of words really bothers you, then please feel free to move on to the next message, some people, myself included, get offended when our spelling and grammar is picked apart

apart.

Just because you are better at spelling dose not give you the right to put anyone down!

At the end of the day it you need to really think about changing "no" to "know" to the point you find it hard to read, you should ask who really is the stupid one. "

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

"

no! It dont find it irritating or frustrating.. Am more interested in what people have to say, and how they come across, not if words are spelt right or a full stop been used .

I'm happy to read how people _xpress themselves. I don't in any way compare their spelling skills to any skills they may have in the bedroom! Like to keep things real

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By *ittykate84Woman  over a year ago

CHESTER

Have to say when I get a message saying:

"Your fit id bang you"

I can't help but send back *you're

But that's just me being a sarcastic bugger

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

PS ... What does make me cringe are those who constantly feel the need to correct or try belittle others ....

Not nice really is it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Firstly, it's a swinger's site not a sex site - a more than subtle difference.

It was not my intention to offend anybody. I was just airing my frustration on this forum which is a place for free speech and banter. I am not native to the UK and maybe having learnt English as a foreign language made me be more careful with my spelling to get the right message across and avoid being misunderstood.

As for your last sentence, we will let the populus decide.

p.s. a late entry to my list ... "dose" and "those"

Its a sex site not school exams!

If the miss use of words really bothers you, then please feel free to move on to the next message, some people, myself included, get offended when our spelling and grammar is picked apart

apart.

Just because you are better at spelling dose not give you the right to put anyone down!

At the end of the day it you need to really think about changing "no" to "know" to the point you find it hard to read, you should ask who really is the stupid one. "

For couples it can be a swingers site, for us singles it's a sex site as it's been stated on more than one occasion that single people on here cannot be classed as swingers.

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"How you spell and read tends (stresses tends) to come from your preferred way of accessing information.

Majority of people tend to use visual information gathering, so bad spelling will stop the flow of information, which is annoying as they're putting things right instead of information gathering.

A large number prefer auditory to gather information, therefore they gather information phonetically and spelling isn't a problem. Equally a large number of auditory gathers will be put off by a large text so will not have read this far - ho hum.

So it depends on the persons and how the tend to access the world.

I know (and there are usually clues in profiles, posts) that if a person does access visually a badly worded message is not going to cut ice and I adapt to meet their requirements.

Now I need to get out of my head mode - where's the bottle.

Gilly thank you for teaching me something today. I never knew the above and it was a very interesting post. "

Ha ha, don't take the Mick, I have been known to think above the waistline, well once before.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"How you spell and read tends (stresses tends) to come from your preferred way of accessing information.

Majority of people tend to use visual information gathering, so bad spelling will stop the flow of information, which is annoying as they're putting things right instead of information gathering.

A large number prefer auditory to gather information, therefore they gather information phonetically and spelling isn't a problem. Equally a large number of auditory gathers will be put off by a large text so will not have read this far - ho hum.

So it depends on the persons and how the tend to access the world.

I know (and there are usually clues in profiles, posts) that if a person does access visually a badly worded message is not going to cut ice and I adapt to meet their requirements.

Now I need to get out of my head mode - where's the bottle.

Gilly thank you for teaching me something today. I never knew the above and it was a very interesting post.

Ha ha, don't take the Mick, I have been known to think above the waistline, well once before. "

I'm not taking the mick, I genuinely didn't know any of the above

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"How you spell and read tends (stresses tends) to come from your preferred way of accessing information.

Majority of people tend to use visual information gathering, so bad spelling will stop the flow of information, which is annoying as they're putting things right instead of information gathering.

A large number prefer auditory to gather information, therefore they gather information phonetically and spelling isn't a problem. Equally a large number of auditory gathers will be put off by a large text so will not have read this far - ho hum.

So it depends on the persons and how the tend to access the world.

I know (and there are usually clues in profiles, posts) that if a person does access visually a badly worded message is not going to cut ice and I adapt to meet their requirements.

Now I need to get out of my head mode - where's the bottle.

Gilly thank you for teaching me something today. I never knew the above and it was a very interesting post.

Ha ha, don't take the Mick, I have been known to think above the waistline, well once before.

I'm not taking the mick, I genuinely didn't know any of the above "

Opps might have been me teasing

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By *icefellatwoMan  over a year ago

hastings


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "

Like you my English and spelling is not good.

But it doesn't make us bad people does it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman  over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"How you spell and read tends (stresses tends) to come from your preferred way of accessing information.

Majority of people tend to use visual information gathering, so bad spelling will stop the flow of information, which is annoying as they're putting things right instead of information gathering.

A large number prefer auditory to gather information, therefore they gather information phonetically and spelling isn't a problem. Equally a large number of auditory gathers will be put off by a large text so will not have read this far - ho hum.

So it depends on the persons and how the tend to access the world.

I know (and there are usually clues in profiles, posts) that if a person does access visually a badly worded message is not going to cut ice and I adapt to meet their requirements.

Now I need to get out of my head mode - where's the bottle.

Gilly thank you for teaching me something today. I never knew the above and it was a very interesting post.

Ha ha, don't take the Mick, I have been known to think above the waistline, well once before.

I'm not taking the mick, I genuinely didn't know any of the above

Opps might have been me teasing "

You are so naughty

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"How you spell and read tends (stresses tends) to come from your preferred way of accessing information.

Majority of people tend to use visual information gathering, so bad spelling will stop the flow of information, which is annoying as they're putting things right instead of information gathering.

A large number prefer auditory to gather information, therefore they gather information phonetically and spelling isn't a problem. Equally a large number of auditory gathers will be put off by a large text so will not have read this far - ho hum.

So it depends on the persons and how the tend to access the world.

I know (and there are usually clues in profiles, posts) that if a person does access visually a badly worded message is not going to cut ice and I adapt to meet their requirements.

Now I need to get out of my head mode - where's the bottle.

Gilly thank you for teaching me something today. I never knew the above and it was a very interesting post.

Ha ha, don't take the Mick, I have been known to think above the waistline, well once before.

I'm not taking the mick, I genuinely didn't know any of the above

Opps might have been me teasing

You are so naughty "

Always

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What i find more annoying than bad spelling or grammar is people quoting all of the previous posts in a thread...why do this? Just quote on the remark you are referring to.

It makes the threads increadibly long and boring to read the same post requoted over and over again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I don't care if people cannot spell, if I find them funny, I will use my brain, to work out what they are saying.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If they can't spell, they are unable to play? I must remember to give future girlfriends a spelling test before I shag them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What i find more annoying than bad spelling or grammar is people quoting all of the previous posts in a thread...why do this? Just quote on the remark you are referring to.

It makes the threads increadibly long and boring to read the same post requoted over and over again"

Snap, spelling can be put down to many things from phone typos etc but bad grammar! Do people really talk in the same fashion as they type? If so god help us all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

What really annoys me is people throwing Twix wrappers in our front garden.

(This is a general moaning thread, isn't it?)

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By *icentiousCouple  over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"What i find more annoying than bad spelling or grammar is people quoting all of the previous posts in a thread...why do this? Just quote on the remark you are referring to.

It makes the threads increadibly long and boring to read the same post requoted over and over again"

I agree, it's nearly as annoying as not knowing what post the reply was replying too.

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By *om DawnCouple  over a year ago

Medway

Our _iew is it gives an indication of the type of people we are meeting up with regardless if they are physically attractive ( which is priority one of course ) it's also nice to make a connection too rather that just be about the sex. Having said that we have played with couples in a club and barely spoken with them beforehand or knew their names. We would avoid text / street talk people - nah wot im sayin bruv

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Is it Thursday?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My pet hate is. I'm Board lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent


"Firstly, it's a swinger's site not a sex site - a more than subtle difference.

It was not my intention to offend anybody. I was just airing my frustration on this forum which is a place for free speech and banter. I am not native to the UK and maybe having learnt English as a foreign language made me be more careful with my spelling to get the right message across and avoid being misunderstood.

As for your last sentence, we will let the populus decide.

p.s. a late entry to my list ... "dose" and "those"

Its a sex site not school exams!

If the miss use of words really bothers you, then please feel free to move on to the next message, some people, myself included, get offended when our spelling and grammar is picked apart

apart.

Just because you are better at spelling dose not give you the right to put anyone down!

At the end of the day it you need to really think about changing "no" to "know" to the point you find it hard to read, you should ask who really is the stupid one. "

I think that does was supposed to be does. Those wouldn't of made any sense.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do not give a rodent's posterior as to a person's spelling or written grammar. I have not found it to be a reliable indicator of how much I enjoy their company.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"PS ... What does make me cringe are those who constantly feel the need to correct or try belittle others ....

Not nice really is it "

This, it doesn't bother me at all that someone's spelling or grammar isn't up to par with O'level English standards, but I really don't like to see others correcting their mistakes or making fun of them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do not give a rodent's posterior as to a person's spelling or written grammar. I have not found it to be a reliable indicator of how much I enjoy their company. "

The same cannot be said for pedants

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do not give a rodent's posterior as to a person's spelling or written grammar. I have not found it to be a reliable indicator of how much I enjoy their company. "

This ! Especially as some of the funniest and loveliest people in my life have dyslexia. I understand what they're trying to say, however it's spelt. Spelling/grammar really isn't the be all and end all.

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"PS ... What does make me cringe are those who constantly feel the need to correct or try belittle others ....

Not nice really is it

This, it doesn't bother me at all that someone's spelling or grammar isn't up to par with O'level English standards, but I really don't like to see others correcting their mistakes or making fun of them. "

I just typed out almost exactly the same thing but then I deleted it and I will instead

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By *utmegsMan  over a year ago

Closer than you think

^^^Discus.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Couldn't give a fuck, personally."

cdnt giv a fk

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

"

Bad spelling is not nearly as bad as text speak.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Spelling is irrelevant:

Olny Srmat Poelpe Can Raed Tihs

I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn’t mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a srod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can still raed it wouthit a porbelm.

Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs psas it on!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Text speak gets me worked up.. bad spelling and grammar only pisses me off when I am correcting GCSE , A level or BA Degree in English literature. I am not really that fused on social media website. If it's part of your screening process, I can understand that also. But to complain about it, is incensitive to those that have difficulty with spelling etc.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Spelling is irrelevant:

Olny Srmat Poelpe Can Raed Tihs

I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn’t mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a srod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can still raed it wouthit a porbelm.

Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs psas it on!!

"

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By *iewMan  over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

doesn't bother me in the slightest.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Spelling is irrelevant:

Olny Srmat Poelpe Can Raed Tihs

I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn’t mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a srod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can still raed it wouthit a porbelm.

Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs psas it on!!

"

yeap every word!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I do not give a rodent's posterior as to a person's spelling or written grammar. I have not found it to be a reliable indicator of how much I enjoy their company. "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"As long as someone is articulate I don't mind spelling or grammar.

There are people whom have messaged me with impeccable sentence structure and spelling but seem thick as fuck."

So what does articulate mean to you? The dictionary defines it as: _xpressed, formulated, or presented with clarity and effectiveness, e.g.:

an articulate thought.

So, poor grammar and spelling may not confer clarity and be confusing a lot of the time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Did you say artitulate, sorry my mind seems to be on other things!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bad spelling I can live with as long as its close enough to the real spelling so its easily understandable. Bad grammar just makes me thing someone is half baked or an idiot everyone should be able to come up with passable understandable sentences.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"As long as someone is articulate I don't mind spelling or grammar.

There are people whom have messaged me with impeccable sentence structure and spelling but seem thick as fuck.

So what does articulate mean to you? The dictionary defines it as: _xpressed, formulated, or presented with clarity and effectiveness, e.g.:

an articulate thought.

So, poor grammar and spelling may not confer clarity and be confusing a lot of the time

"

there are many ways for a person to _xpress themselves! Not just in the written word.... I have many an articulate thought and can oraly _xpress myself very well!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Spelling and punctuation isn't a big deal to us as we know English standards are low these days, I've seen more than enough job applications at work to see that and Mo is an ex teaching assistant so she's seen it first hand is schools.

Laziness and text speak are the things that we don't receive well, you can often tell how much effort has been put in, when its obvious that little or no effort has been made we give the same effort back.

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By *win PeaksCouple  over a year ago

Northamptonshire

I just find it amusing that people who claim to be "professional" on their profile can't spell the word.

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are many ways for a person to _xpress themselves! Not just in the written word.... I have many an articulate thought and can oraly _xpress myself very well! "

That's great, but the way in which most people on here make their first communication is written, so the written medium is the initial way in which you put yourself across to someone. Doesn't matter how articulate and erudite you are in your head, that won't come across in a written message if it's badly written

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Wats up if peeps dnt no how to spell props all da time. Chill out init itz not da end of da wurld

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wats up if peeps dnt no how to spell props all da time. Chill out init itz not da end of da wurld "

Eh?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"There are many ways for a person to _xpress themselves! Not just in the written word.... I have many an articulate thought and can oraly _xpress myself very well!

That's great, but the way in which most people on here make their first communication is written, so the written medium is the initial way in which you put yourself across to someone. Doesn't matter how articulate and erudite you are in your head, that won't come across in a written message if it's badly written "

Think its a case of perspective really... Only a small proportion of people on fab use the forums... We have met people at clubs who don't even use this site. So in that respect written messages are of no importance. If people choose to use perfect spelling etc as a filter to who they meet or not , then so be it.

My point is face to face , (for us anyway ) is the true reflection of a person ... As I mentioned earlier, the fact some have to correct and belittle others actually tells me more about them , than the person who spelt a word wrong or put a full stop in the wrong place.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

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"Wats up if peeps dnt no how to spell props all da time. Chill out init itz not da end of da wurld "
nope it sure aint! At all!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I tend to Spell and construct a sentence the way i speak,If people aint gonna gerron wiv that they certainly aint gonna gerron with me face to face.

i have neva yet met a Bird who cries out oh my oh my one is arriving or says would one be so kind as to ejeculate ones semen over my heaving Bosoms

Grammatical Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wats up if peeps dnt no how to spell props all da time. Chill out init itz not da end of da wurld "

Word up Bruva...reeeespekt innit

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By *bony in IvoryCouple  over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I tend to Spell and construct a sentence the way i speak,If people aint gonna gerron wiv that they certainly aint gonna gerron with me face to face.

i have neva yet met a Bird who cries out oh my oh my one is arriving or says would one be so kind as to ejeculate ones semen over my heaving Bosoms

Grammatical Gimp "

hahaha!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"There are many ways for a person to _xpress themselves! Not just in the written word.... I have many an articulate thought and can oraly _xpress myself very well!

That's great, but the way in which most people on here make their first communication is written, so the written medium is the initial way in which you put yourself across to someone. Doesn't matter how articulate and erudite you are in your head, that won't come across in a written message if it's badly written

Think its a case of perspective really... Only a small proportion of people on fab use the forums... We have met people at clubs who don't even use this site. So in that respect written messages are of no importance. If people choose to use perfect spelling etc as a filter to who they meet or not , then so be it.

My point is face to face , (for us anyway ) is the true reflection of a person ... As I mentioned earlier, the fact some have to correct and belittle others actually tells me more about them , than the person who spelt a word wrong or put a full stop in the wrong place. "

We are with you there, as I said before English standards have dropped over the years many can't even enunciate correctly let alone be able to put it down on paper. Let the personality shine not the standard of their education.

We do agree the drop in standards are shocking though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I thought I'd bring another controversial subject to the fore this morning ...

Do you find lazy spelling and basic grammatical mistakes irritating? Does it bother you having to decipher what the person is really trying to say?

I find it really frustrating when reading posts or emails of people mixing up "no" and "know", "to" and too", "his" and "he's", "underwear" and "underware", "masturbate" and "masterbate" !!

"

]

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This is a pet hate of mine. It drives me crazy! Its not just on here though its everywhere!

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By *arkinberksMan  over a year ago

Ascot

A thought. In order to post anything on here you have to have some sort of computer device, be it a pc, laptop, tablet or smartphone. All of these can also run word processing applications, which oddly enough have spelling and in some cases grammar checkers. I'm writing this on a smartphone and it is coming up with predictive text. So the dyslexia argument doesn't hold water. Poor spelling is because people can't be bothered to use the tools at their disposal. In other words - laziness. [Stands back waiting to be flamed]

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Spelling is irrelevant:

Olny Srmat Poelpe Can Raed Tihs

I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn’t mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a srod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can still raed it wouthit a porbelm.

Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs psas it on!!

"

This also proves that following grammar rules is very important. Though each word has the correct letter which are mixed up - the grammatical construction of each sentences is actually spot on. If you mixed that up then it would be total gibberish.

Spelling is often not the issue - but bad grammar can sometimes make a piece of text nigh on unreadable.

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By *B9 QueenWoman  over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Spelling is irrelevant:

Olny Srmat Poelpe Can Raed Tihs

I cdnuolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg. The phaonmneal pweor of the hmuan mnid, aoccdrnig to a rscheearch at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn’t mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a srod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can still raed it wouthit a porbelm.

Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe. Amzanig huh? Yaeh and I awlyas tghuhot slpeling was ipmorantt! If you can raed tihs psas it on!!

This also proves that following grammar rules is very important. Though each word has the correct letter which are mixed up - the grammatical construction of each sentences is actually spot on. If you mixed that up then it would be total gibberish.

Spelling is often not the issue - but bad grammar can sometimes make a piece of text nigh on unreadable."

PS, please spot my deliberate mistakes!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Wats up if peeps dnt no how to spell props all da time. Chill out init itz not da end of da wurld

Word up Bruva...reeeespekt innit "

Raaaaaasss blud itz safe ya no respekt

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A thought. In order to post anything on here you have to have some sort of computer device, be it a pc, laptop, tablet or smartphone. All of these can also run word processing applications, which oddly enough have spelling and in some cases grammar checkers. I'm writing this on a smartphone and it is coming up with predictive text. So the dyslexia argument doesn't hold water. Poor spelling is because people can't be bothered to use the tools at their disposal. In other words - laziness. [Stands back waiting to be flamed]"

Absolute Tosh,How can Predictive Text help Dyslexia.

It comes up with various spelling suggestions..Often American, This is no help to a Dyslexic at all.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"A thought. In order to post anything on here you have to have some sort of computer device, be it a pc, laptop, tablet or smartphone. All of these can also run word processing applications, which oddly enough have spelling and in some cases grammar checkers. I'm writing this on a smartphone and it is coming up with predictive text. So the dyslexia argument doesn't hold water. Poor spelling is because people can't be bothered to use the tools at their disposal. In other words - laziness. [Stands back waiting to be flamed]

Absolute Tosh,How can Predictive Text help Dyslexia.

It comes up with various spelling suggestions..Often American, This is no help to a Dyslexic at all.

Gimp "

thats me fucked then as ive never been able to master predictive txt.

It keeps offering me a range of words but i can never seem to select the one i want when i try snd choose one it inputs another so i switch it off type manually at the risk of upsetting the grammar police

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If someone is so uptight they have to point out spelling/ grammar mistakes, think what a crap meet they'd be.

Pointing out if you were in the wrong position, you weren't horny enough, you had an orgasm at the wrong moment...!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I find people that constantly moan about people's spelling and grammar frustrating...I'm not a great speller and my grammar needs works but these threads just make me feel I am stupid as we all cannot be perfect at everything... "

Fancy a fuk ficky?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have to say when I get a message saying:

"Your fit id bang you"

I can't help but send back *you're

But that's just me being a sarcastic bugger "

And I'd.

I am not a native English speaker so have an excuse to ask them to write in standard English. Thing is, some of them honestly do not know the difference.

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