How good are you at making eye contact?
i was dancing last night and i had a dance with a guy who made the most intense eye contact. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable but when i feel like this i tend to look down so it looked like i was looking at his crotch 
Another dance was with the instructor of the class who kept telling me off for looking down as i danced, again i felt uncomfortable and looked around the room instead of at him.
i need more confidence i think |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"How good are you at making eye contact?
i was dancing last night and i had a dance with a guy who made the most intense eye contact. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable but when i feel like this i tend to look down so it looked like i was looking at his crotch
Another dance was with the instructor of the class who kept telling me off for looking down as i danced, again i felt uncomfortable and looked around the room instead of at him.
i need more confidence i think"
I dance a lot with a guy who does that and I cannot look back any more, but you can look around their neck/shoulder level and that works fine.
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By *rymeplsMan
over a year ago
manchester |
"How good are you at making eye contact?
i was dancing last night and i had a dance with a guy who made the most intense eye contact. It made me feel a bit uncomfortable but when i feel like this i tend to look down so it looked like i was looking at his crotch wear shades
Another dance was with the instructor of the class who kept telling me off for looking down as i danced, again i felt uncomfortable and looked around the room instead of at him.
i need more confidence i think"
 |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I was out with an old flame recently (all above board) and she text me a few days later and said she loved the way I look into her eyes. I didn't even realise I was. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Too much unwavering eye contact stresses me out a bit. There's a guy I work with like that, and it instantly makes me feel uncomfortable."
I think inappropriate eye contact can be very discomforting. Eye contact develops with intimacy. Too much at the wrong time or if the desired level of connection is not mutual can be invasive. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"In certain environments (pub, work) I am fine making eye contact. In other scenarios (shopping etc) I rarely make eye contact. And during sex I keep my eyes shut  "
We stuck our tongue out and pull funny when woman close their eyes during sex. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt
I use it to assert my self
And I use it to reassure.
It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt
I use it to assert my self
And I use it to reassure.
It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time "
Shel does have lovely eyes. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I have to have eye contact and if the person Im conversing with is unable to look back at me it makes me feel uncomfortable.. I want that eye contact when speaking to people |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I have to have eye contact and if the person Im conversing with is unable to look back at me it makes me feel uncomfortable.. I want that eye contact when speaking to people "
i look at people when i talk to them but the was unwavering, direct eye contact |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt
I use it to assert my self
And I use it to reassure.
It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time
Shel does have lovely eyes. "
Thank you - got to say mrs Polk has a lovely arse  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Always make eye contact.. And the depth of that depends what I'm doing at the time! Can accept some people are naturally shy when they talk to you, but persistant eye dodgers are plain shifty to me! i am very perseptive .. ( mrs) |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I think making eye contact is important. I use it to flirt
I use it to assert my self
And I use it to reassure.
It all depends on the situation when you should use it and your body's actions and other facial expressions at the same time "
 agree... I have a very expressive face n tend to show what i'm thinking... Which can be awkward at times lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I like eye contact and always look at people in the eye while talking etc....however when I'm uneasy around someone or my spirit does not take to them I often can't look at them "
What has your vodka and diet got to do with it |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
always try to make eye contact - in my job i look at peoples faces all day as i chat to them usually to judge the reactions and behaviour - if they start yawning i figure im yakking on too much or their meds have kicked in |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I wear shades so that you can't see me looking.
Also, have you ever thought that the person "looking" at you might be very short sighted and probably can only see your silhouette  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I wear shades so that you can't see me looking.
Also, have you ever thought that the person "looking" at you might be very short sighted and probably can only see your silhouette "
hope not cos its dark when we dance lol |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Never sure how much eye contact is too much when meeting socially. eye contact is taken as a sign of honesty in business, so I'm used to keeping eye contact through long drawn out meetings, and I do love to gaze into her eyes as we kiss and when she cums, but try not to stare at her like a psycho all the time. The eyes are the doorways to the soul after all |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself
"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.
I am a pleb |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself
"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.
I am a pleb "
not if she read this thread - she would say - oh is that the face you were chatting on about |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself
"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.
I am a pleb
not if she read this thread - she would say - oh is that the face you were chatting on about "
Then she would run for the hills and be like "the fuck was that" |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Never sure how much eye contact is too much when meeting socially. eye contact is taken as a sign of honesty in business, so I'm used to keeping eye contact through long drawn out meetings, and I do love to gaze into her eyes as we kiss and when she cums, but try not to stare at her like a psycho all the time. The eyes are the doorways to the soul after all "
2 seconds too much and ya doomed! Lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I always make eye contact with people but more often or not I lock eyes with a woman I find attractive and I think to myself
"Smile this time E Jay you idiot" and then I end up putting on my game face and she looks away because I end up looking like I'm moody or uninterested.
I am a pleb
not if she read this thread - she would say - oh is that the face you were chatting on about
Then she would run for the hills and be like "the fuck was that""
have to try a different look  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'm always amazed how people send pics sporting their sunglasses. Duh! Does zilch for me. Obviously those are not on the same wave length as me. Eyes will always be the windows of one's soul. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
