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over a year ago
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Have been on the site a while now and have met some gorgeous men  I currently have a stalker ( a female that's also met one of the men I've met) Anyone had the same thing ? |
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over a year ago
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"Have been on the site a while now and have met some gorgeous men I currently have a stalker ( a female that's also met one of the men I've met) Anyone had the same thing ? "
I've had similar, all boiled down to jealousy. She didn't like the fact men she had met were meeting me lol!   |
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over a year ago
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"Have been on the site a while now and have met some gorgeous men I currently have a stalker ( a female that's also met one of the men I've met) Anyone had the same thing ? "
Yes and I blocked and reported them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have been on the site a while now and have met some gorgeous men I currently have a stalker ( a female that's also met one of the men I've met) Anyone had the same thing ?
I've had similar, all boiled down to jealousy. She didn't like the fact men she had met were meeting me lol! "
Yes it definitely is a touch of the green eyed monster lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've got a female stalker she is always creating new profiles she has contacted people we know to ask about us, we know who she is, it has changed how we use the site but it hasn't stopped us having fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i had a woman on my case for about a week i just blanked her she got bored not seen her for a few weeks but no doubt she will pop up again for another try but she never got abusive or anything so just left her to it lol |
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over a year ago
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"We've got a female stalker she is always creating new profiles she has contacted people we know to ask about us, we know who she is, it has changed how we use the site but it hasn't stopped us having fun "
It's terrible that people are prepared to go to those lengths though isn't it? Quite sad and desperate I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have been on the site a while now and have met some gorgeous men I currently have a stalker ( a female that's also met one of the men I've met) Anyone had the same thing ? "
It depends on what you call a stalker. If its someone who keeps looking at your profile then block but that said thats not really a stalker is it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've got a female stalker she is always creating new profiles she has contacted people we know to ask about us, we know who she is, it has changed how we use the site but it hasn't stopped us having fun
It's terrible that people are prepared to go to those lengths though isn't it? Quite sad and desperate I think "
i had a guy that did that once, I met him and didn't want to meet him again, he kept messaging me, commenting every time I put a new.pic up or met someone etc so I blocked him, he kept opening new accounts so I blocked men and.he bloody opened a couples account |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've got a female stalker she is always creating new profiles she has contacted people we know to ask about us, we know who she is, it has changed how we use the site but it hasn't stopped us having fun
It's terrible that people are prepared to go to those lengths though isn't it? Quite sad and desperate I think "
Yeah but it won't ruin our fun |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We've got a female stalker she is always creating new profiles she has contacted people we know to ask about us, we know who she is, it has changed how we use the site but it hasn't stopped us having fun
It's terrible that people are prepared to go to those lengths though isn't it?
Quite sad and desperate I think
Yeah but it won't ruin our fun "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've got a female stalker she is always creating new profiles she has contacted people we know to ask about us, we know who she is, it has changed how we use the site but it hasn't stopped us having fun
It's terrible that people are prepared to go to those lengths though isn't it? Quite sad and desperate I think
i had a guy that did that once, I met him and didn't want to meet him again, he kept messaging me, commenting every time I put a new.pic up or met someone etc so I blocked him, he kept opening new accounts so I blocked men and.he bloody opened a couples account "
I know I shouldn't but I'm  sorry |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would call a stalker someone who infiltrates your life. Finds out where you live etc etc. that is worth worrying about."
I had one of those. It's frightening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she is still seeing him and wished you all to get on well ....... Its swinging or is he now your boy friends and just yours and saying he is not seeing her.? Some mail knowing its all part of this game she maybe think you have now something in common with her .. Over the years had woman mail me too its fine not stalking me at all . |
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over a year ago
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"Maybe she is still seeing him and wished you all to get on well ....... Its swinging or is he now your boy friends and just yours and saying he is not seeing her.? Some mail knowing its all part of this game she maybe think you have now something in common with her .. Over the years had woman mail me too its fine not stalking me at all ."
Yeah something like that lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe she is still seeing him and wished you all to get on well ....... Its swinging or is he now your boy friends and just yours and saying he is not seeing her.? Some mail knowing its all part of this game she maybe think you have now something in common with her .. Over the years had woman mail me too its fine not stalking me at all .
Yeah something like that lol"
well lets hope you all get on well could end up a ffm if you all like as that's what all my ladies was after. lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep I've got a stalker, makes me want to leave the site and not come back
I wouldn't give them the satisfaction "
Try being followed into chatrooms or forums and being personally attacked, or having your account hacked   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe she is still seeing him and wished you all to get on well ....... Its swinging or is he now your boy friends and just yours and saying he is not seeing her.? Some mail knowing its all part of this game she maybe think you have now something in common with her .. Over the years had woman mail me too its fine not stalking me at all .
Yeah something like that lolwell lets hope you all get on well could end up a ffm if you all like as that's what all my ladies was after. lol "
Ummmm I think not lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Back when we first joined fab we had a guy who used very aggressive tactics and stalked Mo but we dealt with it and moved on but it did make us put some barriers up for a while. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Back when we first joined fab we had a guy who used very aggressive tactics and stalked Mo but we dealt with it and moved on but it did make us put some barriers up for a while."
Glad you got it sorted. I blocked her and females then she created a male profile to contact me ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's only on here it's very easy to ignore and block...no matter how many profiles they create. By reacting, even posting this thread you are giving them some satisfaction. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it's only on here it's very easy to ignore and block...no matter how many profiles they create. By reacting, even posting this thread you are giving them some satisfaction."
I have ignored and blocked but the thing is I should be able to have my profile on view and not be concerned about people "keeping a check on me" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's only on here it's very easy to ignore and block...no matter how many profiles they create. By reacting, even posting this thread you are giving them some satisfaction.
I have ignored and blocked but the thing is I should be able to have my profile on view and not be concerned about people "keeping a check on me""
so what if she is keeping a check on you. Does she know any personal info about you? That is where I would become concerned. |
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A guy I met had a stalker who he used to be fb's with, she created an account after we had met and she saw my veri, she basically tried to befriend etc, asked to meet for a coffee, kept going on about an old fb she was in love with but was living up 'my end' and kept dropping hints about him!
I messaged him asked if she was the stalker he confirmed it so i confronted her told her a few home truths about what she was doing and then blocked her and I then blocked him too I was getting drawn into crap like that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If it's only on here it's very easy to ignore and block...no matter how many profiles they create. By reacting, even posting this thread you are giving them some satisfaction.
I have ignored and blocked but the thing is I should be able to have my profile on view and not be concerned about people "keeping a check on me"
so what if she is keeping a check on you. Does she know any personal info about you? That is where I would become concerned."
She may well do because of the person we have in common between us |
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over a year ago
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"A guy I met had a stalker who he used to be fb's with, she created an account after we had met and she saw my veri, she basically tried to befriend etc, asked to meet for a coffee, kept going on about an old fb she was in love with but was living up 'my end' and kept dropping hints about him!
I messaged him asked if she was the stalker he confirmed it so i confronted her told her a few home truths about what she was doing and then blocked her and I then blocked him too I was getting drawn into crap like that! "
Lol good on you. I did have my say when she created a male profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Blocking will stop mail so its easy really. Some men here play games I find. They get sex here where and when they can and see lots of woman and mail loads its swinging not dating. But the woman is made to feel like the only ones they see. And some think sex is special, They are special when its not and most the time its like a sport just marks on the bed post to a lot . But again its swinging not dating no strings sex. Some woman will mail others here just letting them know the truth so they don't get taken for a mug .. In my years here been pleased they mailed me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself |
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over a year ago
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself "
Woman after my own heart and we have a mutual appreciation of black men it seems |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a female stalker. Would constantly view my profile then started meeting the men I'd met and would talk to them about me and as negatively as possible. That's when I deleted my old profile.
Funny thing; we'd never met. |
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself "
That's a jealous woman not a stalker we see stalker different here. ? I once had a man who I had never meet find out where I lived my real name my phone number.. where I would go shopping as mail and tell me how I was dressed and send me flowers all sorts at the time was very scary all just from seeing me at a wedding . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a female stalker. Would constantly view my profile then started meeting the men I'd met and would talk to them about me and as negatively as possible. That's when I deleted my old profile.
Funny thing; we'd never met."
That's practically identical to what happened to me! |
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself That's a jealous woman not a stalker we see stalker different here. ? I once had a man who I had never meet find out where I lived my real name my phone number.. where I would go shopping as mail and tell me how I was dressed and send me flowers all sorts at the time was very scary all just from seeing me at a wedding ."
You hit the nail on the head |
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself That's a jealous woman not a stalker we see stalker different here. ? I once had a man who I had never meet find out where I lived my real name my phone number.. where I would go shopping as mail and tell me how I was dressed and send me flowers all sorts at the time was very scary all just from seeing me at a wedding ."
I'm sorry, I shouldn't have done it but you're just so darned fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
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we had a few newbies that were obviously the same person really making a go for us - and we have a lady that keeps peeping at us - we laugh and log the dates now - we're due a visit soon pmsl - |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a female stalker. Would constantly view my profile then started meeting the men I'd met and would talk to them about me and as negatively as possible. That's when I deleted my old profile.
Funny thing; we'd never met.
That's practically identical to what happened to me! "
She also found me on Twitter and Facebook. Bit odd.
Not a nice thing. |
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There is some misunderstanding about the term stalker.
To me a stalker is someone that follows you home, stares at you through your window, possibly steals underwear from your washing line, eventually breaks into your house and mastuurbates on your front room floor... or something, I'm just guessing.  |
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"There is some misunderstanding about the term stalker.
To me a stalker is someone that follows you home, stares at you through your window, possibly steals underwear from your washing line, eventually breaks into your house and mastuurbates on your front room floor... or something, I'm just guessing. "
You sound like you know an awful lot about it! |
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"There is some misunderstanding about the term stalker.
To me a stalker is someone that follows you home, stares at you through your window, possibly steals underwear from your washing line, eventually breaks into your house and mastuurbates on your front room floor... or something, I'm just guessing. "
Sure we've seen that ass outside our window before |
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"Have been on the site a while now and have met some gorgeous men I currently have a stalker ( a female that's also met one of the men I've met) Anyone had the same thing ?
I've had similar, all boiled down to jealousy. She didn't like the fact men she had met were meeting me lol!
Yes it definitely is a touch of the green eyed monster lol"
Pretty crazy to get jealous on a swinging site! |
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"Stalking can either be virtual or real as I understand it. "
then in that case there is a national stalking helpline. Just Google it, they may be able to offer proper advice. |
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"Have been on the site a while now and have met some gorgeous men I currently have a stalker ( a female that's also met one of the men I've met) Anyone had the same thing ?
I've had similar, all boiled down to jealousy. She didn't like the fact men she had met were meeting me lol!
Yes it definitely is a touch of the green eyed monster lol
Pretty crazy to get jealous on a swinging site!"
yes crazy but loads do as see it as more then just sex in there heads. |
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"Stalking can either be virtual or real as I understand it. "
 I think there's different extents of stalking too. Obviously online stalking is not as severe as having someone follow you around, turn up at your house etc but I still see it as a form of stalking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think if you have had loads of mail from same person and nasty maybe let fab sort it and take them off the site op. One letter don't make people a stalker its something that go on and on over time. |
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"I would call a stalker someone who infiltrates your life. Finds out where you live etc etc. that is worth worrying about.
I had one of those. It's frightening "
Damn right it is!  and poles apart from having a stalker on here. |
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"I would call a stalker someone who infiltrates your life. Finds out where you live etc etc. that is worth worrying about.
I had one of those. It's frightening
Damn right it is! and poles apart from having a stalker on here. "
yes your right its very different . |
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"There is some misunderstanding about the term stalker.
To me a stalker is someone that follows you home, stares at you through your window, possibly steals underwear from your washing line, eventually breaks into your house and mastuurbates on your front room floor... or something, I'm just guessing.
You sound like you know an awful lot about it!"
Erm. Why I don't know what you mean. |
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"There is some misunderstanding about the term stalker.
To me a stalker is someone that follows you home, stares at you through your window, possibly steals underwear from your washing line, eventually breaks into your house and mastuurbates on your front room floor... or something, I'm just guessing.
Sure we've seen that ass outside our window before "
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I'm going to presume everyone who has felt that they've had their life affected either online or in person by a stalker has signed the petition for the government to create a stalker register? |
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself
Woman after my own heart and we have a mutual appreciation of black men it seems "
Oh yes so it seems your have to join me and the girls in london interracial partys sometime |
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself That's a jealous woman not a stalker we see stalker different here. ? I once had a man who I had never meet find out where I lived my real name my phone number.. where I would go shopping as mail and tell me how I was dressed and send me flowers all sorts at the time was very scary all just from seeing me at a wedding ."
doubt she would admit that.feels like a stalker to me, she very scary
seriously I do get your point though had a male who sat outside my house last year a couple times texting watching me.he soon left me alone when spoke to him after taking car registration and said I will call police.i never had anyone at my house since.but that mild compared to some peoples stalkers
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself
Woman after my own heart and we have a mutual appreciation of black men it seems
Oh yes so it seems your have to join me and the girls in london interracial partys sometime "
Whooop whoop bring it on |
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Firstly this was an experiment!
To see how much information I might be giving away I picked 2 profiles of PoF and just used google and facebook. In one the lass used the same pics on both sites and also had a pic of her house, with a utility bill with the address clearly visible
The second lass I found again all too easily and even think she may be one here!
I'm in no way condoning stalking in anyway but I do think some give away too much detail without realising. |
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"Yep had a female stalker for a year.gives me evil looks at partys.tells men if have a veri from me she wont meet them.text a man I met first meet said I hear sheri said she loves u, she makes comments to men at partys.
she has made herself look daft, I ignore and smile and carry on enjoy myself
Woman after my own heart and we have a mutual appreciation of black men it seems
Oh yes so it seems your have to join me and the girls in london interracial partys sometime
Whooop whoop bring it on "
you're have to message me if interested as woman blocked  |
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