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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.
No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.
I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.
Any thoughts?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say nerves are normal. Why not choose a person you have met before and make it the one you would feel most at ease with. Plan it as just a social even if that makes it easier ? Just let the night flow and see what happens ?  |
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"It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.
No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.
I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.
Any thoughts?
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Try and find a patient guy who is happy to do a few social meets first so you feel relaxed and at ease. Maybe go to a local club with a friend to meet people too.
Hope it works out for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Adrenaline is good. It wouldn't be fun without that excitement and anticipation! Suck up those nerves, and use that nervous energy to your advantage! It'll be awesome!
I hope you have an amazing time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You need to blow those cobwebs away. Once you get chatting to someone sexy again you'll be fine "
I think cobwebs is definitely the right terminology!
Thanks for all the advice folks |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.
No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.
I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.
Any thoughts?
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I have been meeting for years. The best part of the meet is the nerves/anticipation to the meet. That's one way to know it'll be a good one! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's been almost a year since I met someone from here and even though I really want to get back into meeting, I feel nervous, even to meet someone I've met regularly in the past.
No previous bad experiences and no negative feedback.
I'm wondering whether I've lost a lot of my confidence or if it's just because it's been so long.
Any thoughts?
I have been meeting for years. The best part of the meet is the nerves/anticipation to the meet. That's one way to know it'll be a good one! "
I meant more that I'm hesitant to meet even if I'm excited by someone. I've been on here for 4 years and never had that problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe try a no pressure meet for a coffee with someone first. I say someone I really mean me lol xx
Haha I know you do, Dave :p"
What could possibly go wrong, other than tucking your skirt into your knickers lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get nervous all the time, I get nervous because I wonder if they will like me, will I like him etc..I need to get out there and start meeting more I'm my own worst enemy at times "
They should like you cheeky chops, your a top person, I'd come to Coventry for a meet with you xxx |
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"I get nervous all the time, I get nervous because I wonder if they will like me, will I like him etc..I need to get out there and start meeting more I'm my own worst enemy at times
They should like you cheeky chops, your a top person, I'd come to Coventry for a meet with you xxx"
Come to Coventry and see if you can find me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get nervous all the time, I get nervous because I wonder if they will like me, will I like him etc..I need to get out there and start meeting more I'm my own worst enemy at times
They should like you cheeky chops, your a top person, I'd come to Coventry for a meet with you xxx
Come to Coventry and see if you can find me "
Maybe I should bring L'Amour we can make it a 3 way boost everyone's confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been back here a few months now and I haven't had a meet am thinking of going to the no3 social Thursday which am nervous about even though I have been many times in the past just get back into it slow and steady  |
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