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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not worth it. Makes you look bitter. Let Karma come around and focus on more positive things. Consuming oneself with hatred and thoughts of revenge just hinders tomorrow's happiness.
Everything happens for a reason and revenge is really only for bunny boilers who want to be known as 'the crazy ex'
Nobody needs that title! Lol B x |
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Agreed, as u get older you realise karma really does exist, whatever u want to call it.
Eg my ex, cheated as he 'wasn't ready to settle down' (we already had our planned child), then the mistress fell pregnant, her dad not to be messed with he's now quote 'trapped in an unwanted marriage with 3 unplanned kids' calls me d*unk every new year telling me what a mess he's made of his life |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Agreed, as u get older you realise karma really does exist, whatever u want to call it.
Eg my ex, cheated as he 'wasn't ready to settle down' (we already had our planned child), then the mistress fell pregnant, her dad not to be messed with he's now quote 'trapped in an unwanted marriage with 3 unplanned kids' calls me d*unk every new year telling me what a mess he's made of his life"
Karma at its best!  |
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Leave it to karma coz as soon as you say the word karma it's already in motion, revenge is a dish best not served iam not a vengeful person but iv saw wot karma does to ppl who think there untouchable,,, reduced to wimperin shadows of who they thot they first were ,,, do bad things & bad thing will happen to you,,,,, xxxx     |
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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago
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No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Justice is better than revenge, the trouble with revenge is that though its a dish best served cold, you cant get carried away or the hate will consume you. |
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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Leave it to karma coz as soon as you say the word karma it's already in motion, revenge is a dish best not served iam not a vengeful person but iv saw wot karma does to ppl who think there untouchable,,, reduced to wimperin shadows of who they thot they first were ,,, do bad things & bad thing will happen to you,,,,, xxxx "
I'm not normally a vengeful person either but sometimes maybe it is deserved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved"
Thats awful, they dont care really, do they? Poor you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved"
Not revenge,just common sense tell them how you feel and see what they say,and if they dont seem to show any remorse or think its funny,just cut them out of your life,because a true friend would never leave another friend behind  |
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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved
Thats awful, they dont care really, do they? Poor you! "
I thought this person did but I'm thinking niw maybe I was wrong |
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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved
Not revenge,just common sense tell them how you feel and see what they say,and if they dont seem to show any remorse or think its funny,just cut them out of your life,because a true friend would never leave another friend behind "
I'm sure this person knows.
To be honest I'm almost sick of being nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved
Not revenge,just common sense tell them how you feel and see what they say,and if they dont seem to show any remorse or think its funny,just cut them out of your life,because a true friend would never leave another friend behind
I'm sure this person knows.
To be honest I'm almost sick of being nice"
Life is to short for wasting it on people you dont like,savior it for the people you do |
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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved
Not revenge,just common sense tell them how you feel and see what they say,and if they dont seem to show any remorse or think its funny,just cut them out of your life,because a true friend would never leave another friend behind
I'm sure this person knows.
To be honest I'm almost sick of being nice
Life is to short for wasting it on people you dont like,savior it for the people you do "
This is true
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved
Not revenge,just common sense tell them how you feel and see what they say,and if they dont seem to show any remorse or think its funny,just cut them out of your life,because a true friend would never leave another friend behind
I'm sure this person knows.
To be honest I'm almost sick of being nice
Life is to short for wasting it on people you dont like,savior it for the people you do
This is true
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Leave it to karma coz as soon as you say the word karma it's already in motion, revenge is a dish best not served iam not a vengeful person but iv saw wot karma does to ppl who think there untouchable,,, reduced to wimperin shadows of who they thot they first were ,,, do bad things & bad thing will happen to you,,,,, xxxx "
How refreshing to read this post here on Fab; - Absolute truth!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved"
I don't know the whole story , however to me that is not something a true friend would do. It could have put you in danger and sounds extremely thoughtless.
Like others I'm a strong believer in Kharma and the _xpression " what goes around comes around." I've seen it in action many times. Hope you're ok though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very difficult when someone has done you wrong not to seek vengeance for their actions but I that would lower a person to their standards. Karma has a wonderful way of showing up when least expected and working her magic so I find the best course of action is to keep your head high and sit back and wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's very difficult when someone has done you wrong not to seek vengeance for their actions but I that would lower a person to their standards. Karma has a wonderful way of showing up when least expected and working her magic so I find the best course of action is to keep your head high and sit back and wait
'Her magic'??? Oh, so it's a female, then, if course, I might have known, 'erhem'!! "
To be honest I couldn't care what sex Karma is as long as "what comes around, goes around" is the end result |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me revenge is proportionate. On these sites you get scumbags from organizations and the media digging for filth.
Sometimes it's who is zooming who if you know what you are doing.
If someone in the media leaked anything about me I'd hunt them down and burn their house and that's before the real fun starts. |
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What sort of revenge would you take fir what seems an inconsiderate action from what you've told us? Take them off somewhere and leave them? Wouldn't that make you as bad as them?
If they left you out of no more than selfishness and there were no extenuating circumstances and you didn't contribute to being left in any way speak to them, tell them how you feel and what you think of their actions, then cut them out of your life or give them the opportunity to make amends.
An eye for an eye makes us all blind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved"
No revenge from me for that. If it was on purpose I just wouldn't have anything to do with them anymore. Or was it accidental? |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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Friends do not leave friends vulnerable. You are a good person who deserves friends who love and cherish you. Forget the person who left you and move on. Revenge is not necessary, you can be the better person and let their own actions decide their fate |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
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The way I see it, when people make false accusations about about me, pointing the finger of blame, I like to remind them they point 3 fingers back at themselves.
And oh yes, its great when karma lets you watch as she catches up with the person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"leave it and wait for Karma to come around."
Karma happens in the next life, not this one!
Personally, I think revenge has its place. But serve it cold when emotions are not running so high! |
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved"
Not revenge no - that would turn you into a vengeful person, you'd end up being the loser twice.
But there are consequences for people's deliberate actions. If a so called friend lets me down that badly, they may have simply lost one of the most loyal friends on the planet. Were there 'extenuating circumstances'??
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By (user no longer on site)
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speak to your friend, hear what she has to say for abandoning you ~ who knows if you were both tipsy she might have thought you were sorted for a lift.
if you don't believe her explanation or she doesn't care about what happened then she's not a true friend & only you can decide if you wish to remain with her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Friends do not leave friends vulnerable. You are a good person who deserves friends who love and cherish you. Forget the person who left you and move on. Revenge is not necessary, you can be the better person and let their own actions decide their fate "
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved"
If a person left you as above the that person is no friend, it is better you know now than to be let down by him/her later.
Forget him/her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Revenge can sometimes become a vicious cycle if tit for tat.
I prefer to just cut the person out of my life altogether, if the person does not attempt to make things right. You are better off without them anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe in karma
But I don't think revenge is healthy for the person that was treated bad by someone either
Be rational and think clearly the friend is a scum bag just let people know what she or he had done if possible , if its impossible just put it down to experience, and don't let someone get as close next time if they are not up to the mark its a hard way to learn about a person but better now than later
What has this person said about what happened out if interest
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone will have good and bad times some more than others t
Some people are just shit and treat sone people terribly thinking karma is gonna bite them on the arse is pathetic
Why do the best of people have terrible things happen to them? Does karma get involved with that?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved"
Revenge? No. But I'd expect a pretty sincere apology and explanation for the friendship to continue.
I find revenge a bit pointless, focussing on my own happiness eather than other people's unhappiness is a far more rewarding. |
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Id like to say karma has it's place but totally backfired on me....spent many years in an abusive relationship, had kids, easier to stay than leave etc
Finally did break up and had 4 even worse years.....thankfully he remarried and moved away (thank god)....all was going well for him....seemed like he had a happy ending until he showed his true colours, and beat her up.....she chucked him out, his stepkids don't want him there, he was back living at his mums blah blah .....and I thought "YES! KARMA HAS KICKED IN"......life gone to shit, serves him right.....then she took him back......"it was the drink, think I have aspbergers".....lifes all rosy again.....maybe they deserve each other....dunno
Regardless.....my kids realise hes a waste of skin....and I'm more than happy with my beloved x |
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"For me revenge is proportionate. On these sites you get scumbags from organizations and the media digging for filth.
Sometimes it's who is zooming who if you know what you are doing.
If someone in the media leaked anything about me I'd hunt them down and burn their house and that's before the real fun starts. "
really? |
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"Kama can be a bitch and I shall sit quietly and wait for her appearance.
Revenge may be sweet, but I'm sweeter and shall relish the revenge of kama "
have you not discussed the issue with her and listened to her side..? |
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"Thinking about starting a thread is karma real or not generally surprised about the amount of people that put their faith in it  "
well even if its not real, the belief in it can calm a situation that otherwise would eat some away from the inside out. People do some Damn nasty things in their lives.. It catches up with em eventually.
I actually believe in it... Seen it a good few times ... How ever long it takes , it do happen!  |
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"No I'm not a bitter person. But if a supposed friend left you stranded while you were a wee tipsy in a plase you didn't know and you just spent 120 making them happy surely some kind of revenge is deserved
Not revenge,just common sense tell them how you feel and see what they say,and if they dont seem to show any remorse or think its funny,just cut them out of your life,because a true friend would never leave another friend behind "
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By *adyGarden OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Kama can be a bitch and I shall sit quietly and wait for her appearance.
Revenge may be sweet, but I'm sweeter and shall relish the revenge of kama
have you not discussed the issue with her and listened to her side..?"
Him and yes but he just said he didn't know why he left me and was sorry |
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