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What the best, funniest or shocking reaction you've had to politely saying no or not replying to somebody?
Seems a lot of threads about rude or people with personalities of a pumpkin on here, let's hear your best reactions.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All of our 'no thanks' messages have been received with good grace and dignity. We usually get a thanks for replying and wishes. I suppose it's all down to how well you write your rejection message.
We must do good ones  |
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Oh I had an absolute cracker a few weeks ago. Totally out of the blue from someone I had politely declined once or twice and then just ignored after that. It went a bit like this....
How can you turn me down, look at you! You're huge and disgusting!
My favourite part was where he called me a pasty cunt. I mean, pasty is just taking it too far isn't it? |
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"Don't get why a guys best insult is calling people fat lol.
Must have mother issues lol "
Because they think us fatties are desperate and will take whatever is offered, and it hurts when they find out that's not the case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get why a guys best insult is calling people fat lol.
Must have mother issues lol "
They are pathetic and immature, lacking the manners, self confidence and respect to just take a polite no thanks and move on. Not sure they realise how sad they make themselves look with such abuse. Speaks volumes about them. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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Very rarely get abuse for turning someone down but I remember not long after I joined the site I got a message from a guy. Then, when I didn't reply IMMEDIATELY he messaged again saying something like 'how dare you not reply to me, you fat cow'. Blocked.
Then his wife started messaging me to abuse me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get why a guys best insult is calling people fat lol.
Must have mother issues lol "
Maybe they think I've not realised and are actually being gentlemanly by pointing it out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say the majority of reactions are polite & say thanks for replying.
If it's a rude one then 9 times out of 10 I'm accused of 'being up my own arse'.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say the majority of reactions are polite & say thanks for replying.
If it's a rude one then 9 times out of 10 I'm accused of 'being up my own arse'..... "
There was a thread about that
Yuk |
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I think we've been quite lucky - nothing truly nasty (yet).
We did get accused of being fake and just picture collectors once - coming from a guy who asked to go on our friends list and had no veris. Errm - ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Them "Wanna fuck"
Me "Thanks but no thanks"
Them "A fatty like you should be grateful I'm offering, no one else will"
Me "Again thanks for your offer but no thanks" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say the majority of reactions are polite & say thanks for replying.
If it's a rude one then 9 times out of 10 I'm accused of 'being up my own arse'.....
There was a thread about that
Yuk"
I hope you're not referring to my arse as being yuk..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only once had a rude reply after declining a "fancy putting that cock up my arse?" (From a woman).
Something like ...you're a single bloke...you should be grateful? Sorry but you can still be choosy as a bloke!
If I get requests from guys then I figure they can't read my profile so wouldn't be able to read my reply. So I don't reply....I just block! |
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I have had "You are only here for an ego boost, you are fat and ugly and cant get a man in the real world", I replied "Well I hope you feel better now you have vented your wrath, I hope you enjoy the rest of your evening" because I am polite like that  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 26/09/14 21:06:26]"
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I hardly bother with no thanks, unless they made an effort...the worst I've had recently is being sprouted at the this is a sex site you know!
I've had the I wouldn't shag you anyway! So why message me in the first place? It's a funny old world lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had a few over the years, which is why I delete now. Had one tell me I'm a smelly fat bitch who only fucks ugly men... Still don't know how he knew I hasn't had a shower yet that morning?! Maybe it's a platinum member thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few over the years, which is why I delete now. Had one tell me I'm a smelly fat bitch who only fucks ugly men... Still don't know how he knew I hasn't had a shower yet that morning?! Maybe it's a platinum member thing "
You should of replied with well I haven't fucked you yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had a few over the years, which is why I delete now. Had one tell me I'm a smelly fat bitch who only fucks ugly men... Still don't know how he knew I hasn't had a shower yet that morning?! Maybe it's a platinum member thing
You should of replied with well I haven't fucked you yet "
I think my reply was something along the lines of still not wanting to fuck him even though I'm clearly desperate... Don't think he liked the sarcasm as he then had the cheek to block me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All of our 'no thanks' messages have been received with good grace and dignity. We usually get a thanks for replying and wishes. I suppose it's all down to how well you write your rejection message.
We must do good ones "
 Same here. Can only think of one nasty response in the last few years. Mostly just get 'thank you for replying'. I reply to all first mails.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"UNLOS
What's that mean?
Or am I being thick tonight lol
I user no longer on site
I need to get down with the young ones more lol
I feel educated now !  "
Or the old ones as I am older than you
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say the majority of reactions are polite & say thanks for replying.
If it's a rude one then 9 times out of 10 I'm accused of 'being up my own arse'.....
There was a thread about that
Yuk
I hope you're not referring to my arse as being yuk..... "
don't be silly, you've a gorgeous arse. I was referring to the guy who likes to shove his own cock in his arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say the majority of reactions are polite & say thanks for replying.
If it's a rude one then 9 times out of 10 I'm accused of 'being up my own arse'.....
There was a thread about that
Yuk
I hope you're not referring to my arse as being yuk.....
don't be silly, you've a gorgeous arse. I was referring to the guy who likes to shove his own cock in his arse "
I was teasing you, hence the
I forget it doesn't always come across that way x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a woman from Ireland messaging me. I told her it wasn't a goer due to the distance. All she kept replying was "ah go on, go on, go on, go on....
I think living with three celibate priests was getting to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have to say the majority of reactions are polite & say thanks for replying.
If it's a rude one then 9 times out of 10 I'm accused of 'being up my own arse'.....
There was a thread about that
Yuk
I hope you're not referring to my arse as being yuk.....
don't be silly, you've a gorgeous arse. I was referring to the guy who likes to shove his own cock in his arse
I was teasing you, hence the
I forget it doesn't always come across that way x"
I know you were hence my
I just wanted an excuse to tell you how good your arse is
Oh, and the rest of you aint too shabby
;-) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once had a well I'm a doctor and can tell you that you are going to get beast cancer and die anyway?????
So obviously after that I knew he was a keeper. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After a single female asked me to be her club buddy, so I could drive her and save money, to which I responded...
'You don't even know what my face looks like or personality is like?'
I then got a second message saying:
'You're a sad bastard, surprised you've have meets'
Not the most abusive I've had, but most amusing. |
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Been a long time since I had insulting responses to my rejections and think my rejections are similar to my thread killer messages. Watch out for news reports of unexpected deaths of people logged on: Police say they are looking for a midland's slut to help their enquiries. Generally my responses are slow to messages as it's been a year of massive pc problems. Now if the rejected offered a social meet and a few top end desktop and laptops thrown in, they could turn up for a cuppa and a natter with my rabbit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Two standout ones for me were:
When declining a private party invite at a luxury apartment due to it being at 11pm, miles away from me, not having met anyone there before and the supposed profiles attending having no pics:
"to be honest, it's for fit, sexy people so you might not fit in.
Probably best if we leave it, I know another girl who is interested anyway"
When reading and deleting an, "I really wanna fuck you. Come back if you're interested" message:
Now I am convinced ur are ignorant, u have no respect for ur own race. It would have been nice if u blocked me.
Well, I didn't come back, so....
As you can imagine. I was really cut up about both  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What the best, funniest or shocking reaction you've had to politely saying no or not replying to somebody?
Seems a lot of threads about rude or people with personalities of a pumpkin on here, let's hear your best reactions. "
"Well you look like you have a higher Bmi that Is normally my type!" |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I did have one from a newbie once with no pictures or verifications, at the time I had about 40 verifications and full face pictures and he said I was a fake "
So that wasn't you at the Xtasia social? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found the best response is never to reject anyone, then no one is upset, happiness and joy abounds.
As no one ever asks though, I don't have to accept.
It's a state of Zen-like harmony! |
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"I did have one from a newbie once with no pictures or verifications, at the time I had about 40 verifications and full face pictures and he said I was a fake
So that wasn't you at the Xtasia social? "
figmant of your imagination lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fave one was from a couple who mailed me, I replied and all I said was sorry but I don't meet couples to which they replied....you mean couples won't meet you because you are ugly and single guys are less fussy
how i did laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get why a guys best insult is calling people fat lol.
Must have mother issues lol "
i think it's because most big ladies are a little insecure about their weight so they think calling them fat is hitting them where it hurts the most |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Three almost begging requests to meet from a guy who met none of my preferences, I declined politely and was told "well you look like a bloke whose had a sex change". My reply "Really, and two minutes ago you were desperate to fuck me so what does that say about you?" Then I blocked him. (Some messages just ask for it!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most replies to a thanks but no thanks have been accepted gracefully but I do remember one when the first message I got of him was.......do you fancy dogging with me and my mate...my reply....not for me thank you....his reply....why not, I bet you look like a pit bull!!!! Then he blocked me.
Gutted....not because of his reply but I couldnt reply and tell him what a charmer he was!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll pay you whatever you want, just tell me how much.
ive had guys offer to pay when I've turned them down "
Cause the only reason we say no is because we're hookers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll pay you whatever you want, just tell me how much.
ive had guys offer to pay when I've turned them down
Cause the only reason we say no is because we're hookers! "
got to be honest i was offered £200 to piss on someone once, I'd be a lair if I didn't say I was tempted lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll pay you whatever you want, just tell me how much.
ive had guys offer to pay when I've turned them down
Cause the only reason we say no is because we're hookers!
got to be honest i was offered £200 to piss on someone once, I'd be a lair if I didn't say I was tempted lol"
Haha shopping!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll pay you whatever you want, just tell me how much.
ive had guys offer to pay when I've turned them down
Cause the only reason we say no is because we're hookers!
got to be honest i was offered £200 to piss on someone once, I'd be a lair if I didn't say I was tempted lol"
I would for £100 |
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By *r jblMan
over a year ago
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"What the best, funniest or shocking reaction you've had to politely saying no or not replying to somebody?
Seems a lot of threads about rude or people with personalities of a pumpkin on here, let's hear your best reactions. "
. Getting blocked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Today I got a message from a couple saying ' your invited ' I replied to what ? She said to fuck my husband I said thank you for the invite but I'm not meeting couples and not happy to play with part of a couple but have fun ... I thought very polite lol but I got back why not you dirty cunt lol I couldn't be bothered to reply as I know I'm not dirty I just blocked lol it's sad when a polite no is replied with such nastiness but the good outway the bad so I just laugh now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the flip side, an abusive reply to a no thanks confirms beyond all doubt that your decision to not want to meet them was the correct one so smile, feel sorry for the sad immature individual (for all of a nano second!) and be pleased you dodged a bullet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What happened to just a basic "thanks but no thanks"
I can't believe some people would be so critical and be rude esp re: someones looks .... Seems there must be a lot of perfect people in this country. |
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I had a guy just this week who must have assumed I eat online when in reality I was logged on via my phone but had no Internet access and I was at work anyway.
If I didn't reply he sent me messages like: why haven't replied? You don't like me. You're knocking me back. Goodbye. Good luck. Have fun with ask the other guys and on and on.
I reported him for pestering and being pushy. He's no longer on the site. What a needy pratt!
I replied saying that I found him too needy and I didn't have any obligation to either reply or meet him.
Then I blocked him. I don't need idiots like that demanding my attention!
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"What the best, funniest or shocking reaction you've had to politely saying no or not replying to somebody?
Seems a lot of threads about rude or people with personalities of a pumpkin on here, let's hear your best reactions. . Getting blocked "
why is that shocking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had a guy just this week who must have assumed I eat online when in reality I was logged on via my phone but had no Internet access and I was at work anyway.
If I didn't reply he sent me messages like: why haven't replied? You don't like me. You're knocking me back. Goodbye. Good luck. Have fun with ask the other guys and on and on.
I reported him for pestering and being pushy. He's no longer on the site. What a needy pratt!
I replied saying that I found him too needy and I didn't have any obligation to either reply or meet him.
Then I blocked him. I don't need idiots like that demanding my attention!
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You mean you actually have a live outside fab?!! |
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From not replying i've had a few "..." or "?" over and over or they will resend the same message asking if I have received the fist.
To the extreme of, I once (and occasionally still, as he makes new accounts just to message me) politely declined a guy as he lives a bit too local to me. His response was that he actually knows who I am and is going to attack me if he sees me  and its disgusting I'm on here ect.
We wont even get started on the messages that claim they can "save my damaged whore soul".. |
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