Ok so this has intrigued me for a while especially since me and my partner began swinging.
The expression 'TO FUCK' sounds, to me, both really coarse and disrespectful and yet at the same time so horny and totally descriptive in its etymology of exactly what it describes.
So when my partner asks me to fuck her, part of me questions the use of the word and I almost feel like saying, don't you mean 'make love to you' or 'have sex with you' and yet using the phrase 'I'm going to fuck you' or hearing 'fuck me' has something that can't be replaced with other language.
I guess that's why it's been so popular!
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It has its place at certain times.
Lore Legend -urban dictionary
In ancient England a person could not have sex unless you had consent of the King (unless you were in the Royal Family). When anyone wanted to have a baby, they got consent of the King, the King gave them a placard that they hung on their door while they were having sex. The placard had F.*.*.*. (Fornication Under Consent of the King) on it. Now you know where that came from.
If the king is ok with it...less all F***! |
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over a year ago
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"Actually following it with please makes it quite submissive so I'd say yes. But that's if you like submissive..."
I say please a lot. I think it's my upbringing |
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Don't get me wrong I love the phrase!
It must be a deep part of my ego that it grinds on (sorry sexual pun) that makes me question it.
Probably far too philosophical and should probably just get on and keep fucking. |
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My first girlfriend generally used to almost whisper "I want you to make love to me" and a long session with sensual massages and gentle kisses all over would follow. All very tender and loving.
But during the week following her period, she'd just grab me and demand "FUCK ME NOW!!" Which let to a much wilder frantic session, one time on her parents kitchen table.
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"Fuck is crude, primal, bestial and sometimes that what I want  "
Sometimes lust takes over and you need to fuck!Love it when a woman tells me to fuck her.I always oblige...
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Hearing "make love to me" indicates to me slow, sensuous, gentle sex. "fuck me now" means i want it hard and dirty. It just lets your partner know your mood |
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"When a woman utters the words 'fuck me' the hairs on the back of my neck stand on end and the curse of the cock takes over.... So very very horny 
What about if she wants you to "fook" her  "
That still works  |
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