"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?
I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."
No, it doesn't bother either of us but we are both so used to meeting new people in our jobs. I can understand how someone would feel a bit shy though  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I fake it until it's real.
I have to be very out there in my work life and I don't get shy in those situations. Socially I always think most of us are feeling a little apprehensive with new people so I take the initiative and start talking to people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dastardly is genuinely shy, which some read as social awkwardness.
Once he is comfy with you tho, he's a proper little livewire 
Thing is, I really like that about him. Sooner have a quiet guy than one who has to be in with the party. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?
I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."
same here it takes me an hour or so to stop stuttering and looking like an ass  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not shy, but i am a natural introvert with mild social anxiety so i have to work hard at it, not easy when there are outgoing people with big personalities around. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm better if I meet people at clubs and socials because they aren't there to meet me, I'm just chatting to someone who's already there, I get more nervous on private meets as they have come to see me so I feel under more pressure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?
I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."
I'm the same, I find it impossible when the other person is shy also |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I'm not shy in my day to day life as I am used to presenting to large groups etc. I do find it proper weird when everyone is semi naked and acting normal at a club though. "
What is normal? I doubt you'd like it if everyone was acting like the last days of Caligula. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not shy in my day to day life as I am used to presenting to large groups etc. I do find it proper weird when everyone is semi naked and acting normal at a club though. "
I am weird so it's only to be expected of me |
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"I'm better if I meet people at clubs and socials because they aren't there to meet me, I'm just chatting to someone who's already there, I get more nervous on private meets as they have come to see me so I feel under more pressure "
I'm exactly the same, I feel relaxed at clubs a little shy at first but not for long. Private meets I get very nervous.
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"I'm not remotely shy. 
But I get very frustrated with the men at clubs who follow me around but never even try to make eye contact.  You know, the ones who appear everywhere you go and then nonchalantly look at the floor, the ceiling, everywhere but at the person they are interested in.  "
I know, we had some followers last time we went to a club |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very shy but soon relax if the people I'm meeting are chatty and involve me in the chat but I do find it awkward if they talk to whoever I'm with and take no notice of me but thankfully that hasn't happened often |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am sooooo shy . It's ridiculous . However , I step into a club dressed up make up on heels on and I am miss confident I am chatty and people are drawn to me . Makes me feel amazing !!
Can't do one on one meets as too shy |
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"Does it bother you when you meet some one at a club/social ?
I'm abit shy initially but after chatting for a little bit I relax."
I've never been to an adult club so can imagine being hesitant rather than shy. I used to be shy. Not any more. |
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I've never been shy also there are different levels of shyness. I went to school with a girl that was so bad she used to go bright red and shake if someone spoke to her. She ended up being taken out of school, I often wonder what happened to her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On my own I'm shy. Wine stops the shyness though. However Paul isn't shy in the slightest so I usually let him take the lead and then start babbling away x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm very shy to begin with babble away like a crazy woman to cover my nerves  "
Thank god, I thought I was the only one who did that. I'm always getting told I talk too much at a first meet lol. I'm normal after all (mrs) xx |
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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago
South Coast |
"I'm really shy!
Are you?!
You know I bloody am!
Can't say I'd noticed.
Except for around moths, You are definitely shy of those..."
I've never seen so many of the feckin horrible critters in one place |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I'm really shy!
Are you?!
You know I bloody am!
Can't say I'd noticed.
Except for around moths, You are definitely shy of those...
I've never seen so many of the feckin horrible critters in one place "
I'll have to cut those buddlias down....
Random flying things do seem to like my garden - I've seen the odd firefly where the apple trees are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not shy at all and have loads of confidence, as long as Im wearing my confidence belt.. Can and do control a room full of men.. Strip me naked and Im as shy as they come!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im not shy, but i am a natural introvert with mild social anxiety so i have to work hard at it, not easy when there are outgoing people with big personalities around."
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I'm fairly outgoing and confident but many people get nerves in some situations even if normally confident. I like to get people relaxed, share a joke and chill. Often just some time is all that's needed without pressure or any rush. |
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