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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

ALL CHEAP/FREE SHAGS LOL

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Wut?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

??? as appose to paying?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Make your mind up is it cheap or free?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?"

You possibly have a different definition of cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?"

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you have a husband that is playing away?

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?"
you sound bitter? and we arnt married, but if we were would it be ok for you to judge seen as in 1 breath your moaning about hearing about shagging strangers then in the next your questioning vows, even though on your profile you say you have a partner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I detect a future UNLOS?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Those who don't cheat could equally well say they are sick of hearing cheats try to justify it, lying and making excuses.

I don't think there's actually any mention of sex in most wedding vows, yet most couples do it.

If you're going to cheat then just do it without making a song and dance about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like to shag cheating wifes, owt is better

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The word "issues" springs to mind

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By *abybellWoman over a year ago

mid-ulster

anyone for popcorn??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Those who don't cheat could equally well say they are sick of hearing cheats try to justify it, lying and making excuses.

I don't think there's actually any mention of sex in most wedding vows, yet most couples do it.

If you're going to cheat then just do it without making a song and dance about it."

Not trying to justify anything, it causes me no problems, just sick to death of so called swingers sickened by a cheat but happily shag strangers in front of their partners or worse with their partners lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I think you will find that the main difference is the 'honesty'! Between couples on here and singles cheating on their partners!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT"

You keep telling yourself that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The word "issues" springs to mind

Nope sorry to disappoint you, no issues, just sick of the holier than thou attitude of swingers that shag complete strangers just like the cheats do lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT"

Yes you are!! It's not the same what you do is potentially going to hurt someone else!! And the people I shag aren't strangers!! That's the beauty of swinging.... You make friends first, if thats not how you do it fine but don't tell me I'm anything like you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

You keep telling yourself that

**bang head on brick wall, get more sense**

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

Cheating = fucking others without the knowledge of your partner.

Swinging = fucking others with the knowledge of your partner.

Completely different. Trust and honesty involved with swinging not with cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

op, you might be on the wrong site if it offends you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

They are ultimately strangers the same as the men I meet,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"anyone for popcorn??

Can I drop minstrels in mine??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"op, you might be on the wrong site if it offends you?"

Nope here for a shag like you love.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT"

Your last comment doesn't make any sense, you've contradicted yourself!

Cheating and swinging isn't the same!

So it isn't the same when it comes to shagging strangers, single men and women aren't doing it behind anyone's back! And couples are doing it together so they both know!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you have a husband that is playing away?

Her"

Yes, why do you ask?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kettles on

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think you will find that the main difference is the 'honesty'! Between couples on here and singles cheating on their partners!

Have to agree with this 100%

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT"

Not all cheaters are shagging strangers and not all swinging couples are either.

Swinging usually involves a couple having sex with one or more other people together.....mutually consenting and trusting each other.

Cheats are lieing to the person they are supposed to love, breaking trust & potentially hurting all involved.

So whilst there is a common link in the sex with someone other then your partner the two are worlds apart.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

They are ultimately strangers the same as the men I meet,

They were before I got to know them...... But I didn't let them near my fou fou until I did! Just in case they were murders, psychopaths or cheats

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cheating is exactly that, you are breaking you rules

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple over a year ago

Bristol

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?"

A complete stranger would be someone we'd just bumped into and never spoken to!!

You're views seem very skewed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

Your last comment doesn't make any sense, you've contradicted yourself!

Cheating and swinging isn't the same!

So it isn't the same when it comes to shagging strangers, single men and women aren't doing it behind anyone's back! And couples are doing it together so they both know! "

It is the same when I am referring to shagging strangers, we all do that - ultimately start off as strangers before you sugar coat it with oooh we have a drink and a laugh first. Swingers and cheaters are two different types of people in one way, but shagging strangers means they are the same type of people in another way

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT"

I beg to differ...

I would say one is completely consensual of all parties as in it isn't a case of having to do it behind peoples backs... call it "need to know"

and the other one isn't....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

A complete stranger would be someone we'd just bumped into and never spoken to!!

You're views seem very skewed

Everyone starts out as a stranger on here!! O

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Those who don't cheat could equally well say they are sick of hearing cheats try to justify it, lying and making excuses.

I don't think there's actually any mention of sex in most wedding vows, yet most couples do it.

If you're going to cheat then just do it without making a song and dance about it.

Uh, that shagging strangers with their partner thing? That is actually swinging... That's kind of what the site is about.

The shagging people without your partner and without the knowledge of your partner, that's not swinging. That's something entirely different.

It's not about who is shagging strangers, it's about honesty and whether they're doing it behind someone else's back.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The Sun reporter alert !!!!!!!!!

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By *andyandy572Man over a year ago

derbyshire ish

"anyone for popcorn??

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make mine sweet

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By *hortieWoman over a year ago

Northampton

oh hi seksy.. I remember you!!

your threads on here a few weeks ago about 'us women having no standards or morals' was some good reading.

I look forward to your threads and thank you for bringing these issues to our attention for open discussion and debate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

I beg to differ...

I would say one is completely consensual of all parties as in it isn't a case of having to do it behind peoples backs... call it "need to know"

and the other one isn't....

It'still shagging which is what we all do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Whatever way you want to dress it up swinging and cheating are 2 totally different things

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Those who don't cheat could equally well say they are sick of hearing cheats try to justify it, lying and making excuses.

I don't think there's actually any mention of sex in most wedding vows, yet most couples do it.

If you're going to cheat then just do it without making a song and dance about it.

Uh, that shagging strangers with their partner thing? That is actually swinging... That's kind of what the site is about.

The shagging people without your partner and without the knowledge of your partner, that's not swinging. That's something entirely different.

It's not about who is shagging strangers, it's about honesty and whether they're doing it behind someone else's back. "

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By *adgodCouple over a year ago

Greensburg

"I think you will find that the main difference is the 'honesty'! Between couples on here and singles cheating on their partners!

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

I beg to differ...

I would say one is completely consensual of all parties as in it isn't a case of having to do it behind peoples backs... call it "need to know"

and the other one isn't....

No, don't ruin the illusion...

I'm working on a way to justify armed bank robbery as being the same as going in and withdrawing money from an account!

I'm nearly there. I just need a shooter to go with this stocking.

Will fishnet work?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh god! This again. The two are completely different, as others have said, successful swinging couples are honest with and trust each other, those who cheat are deceptive, going behind their partners backs. Swinging as a couple is sharing experiences, cheating is all for the one person's benefit. As different as night and day!

Sounds like someone's trying to justify their own actions to me....

I'd never pass judgement on someone playing away on here for lack of knowledge on the situation along with it being none of my business, however the two are completely different situations.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT"

No it's not the same. I shag friends not strangers!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Why does anyone on here care what anyone else on here thinks about them so much to do a ranty thread about anyone on here who doesn't agree with them? How, exactly, is calling every couple on here a cheat going to help?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Spouty ranty angry rubbish

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By *iceduoCouple (FF) over a year ago

manchester

"ALL CHEAP/FREE SHAGS LOL"

are you on drugs? and if you are can i have some?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I don't give a damn what anyone else thinks of what we get up to. It's none of their business.

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By *dwalu2Couple over a year ago

Bristol

Has the OP been knocked back by someone who doesn't want to play because she is cheating, by any chance?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry all free shags, sick of hearing about the so called do gooders who don't cheat, but shag complete strangers in front of their partners. Was it in your wedding vows then?

Get over yourself!! Just because other people dont agree with you and have judged you on cheating on your partner don't go spitting your dummy out all over the place

I'm not spitting my dummy out, I'm saying cheating is different to swinging, but they are both the same when it comes to shagging strangers, WE BOTH DO IT

No it's not the same. I shag friends not strangers!!"

They start out as strangers especially if you meet them on here - ultimately strangers until you've had a drink and a few messages

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