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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes, indeed there are women who cheat on their partners, but i'm not sure a cheaters club on fab would be such a great idea. A separate 'Fabcheaters' website, maybe, but as many have said before - Cheating is not swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, indeed there are women who cheat on their partners, but i'm not sure a cheaters club on fab would be such a great idea. A separate 'Fabcheaters' website, maybe, but as many have said before - Cheating is not swinging."
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"It's not just the blokes who cheat. Where are the ladies who do so we should all join up and create fab cheaters be much easier. Any thoughts"
I don't differeniate between a man who cheats and a woman who cheats...
in that regard I am quite happy I am "equal ops" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes, indeed there are women who cheat on their partners, but i'm not sure a cheaters club on fab would be such a great idea. A separate 'Fabcheaters' website, maybe, but as many have said before - Cheating is not swinging."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not just the blokes who cheat. Where are the ladies who do so we should all join up and create fab cheaters be much easier. Any thoughts
I don't differeniate between a man who cheats and a woman who cheats...
in that regard I am quite happy I am "equal ops""
Nor us.
But the main difference is that women are far less to try and justify their actions or start threads bemoaing their lack of success on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure if a fab cheaters is such a good idea, yes men and women cheat.. No difference between the 2 really accept you find the married men harp on about it and the married women don't. |
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"Not sure if a fab cheaters is such a good idea, yes men and women cheat.. No difference between the 2 really accept you find the married men harp on about it and the married women don't. "
Exactly ladies don't feel the need to publicise their extra martial affairs and just enjoy themselves.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jesus. Didn't intend this to be that serious a thread "
The "cheating" issue is a very emotive subject on here for some, others aren't so bothered but as some have pointed out, cheating is not swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So what's best a cheater who is open about it or one who hides it. ? So many have better morals and don't want to get involved with us so being open about it allows them to avoid us. Both men and Women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what's best a cheater who is open about it or one who hides it. ? So many have better morals and don't want to get involved with us so being open about it allows them to avoid us. Both men and Women. "
Personally we find what's best is someone who isn;t a cheat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always think it's better to be open and honest about it that way it let's other make an informative decision on whether they want to meet them or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what's best a cheater who is open about it or one who hides it. ? So many have better morals and don't want to get involved with us so being open about it allows them to avoid us. Both men and Women. "
Its a personal choice of the individual, if they don't want to play with married people then their choice should be respected as with all personal choices. Having a preference doesn't mean people who choose not to play with attached people have better morals. I wish more people who were playing away were upfront about it. |
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"So what's best a cheater who is open about it or one who hides it. ? So many have better morals and don't want to get involved with us so being open about it allows them to avoid us. Both men and Women. "
Not better morals. Just a different set of morals. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guess what? I "cheat" .. and with multiple partners so I cheat-swing. My profile makes it crystal clear. How abput we all look after our own conscience and those who are oppose can jog on.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just to clarify. My profile clearly states I'm married.
Well yes, it does, but it doesn't state whether or not your wife knows you're on here.
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Never thought of that one. It will soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what's best a cheater who is open about it or one who hides it. ? So many have better morals and don't want to get involved with us so being open about it allows them to avoid us. Both men and Women.
Not better morals. Just a different set of morals."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"So what's best a cheater who is open about it or one who hides it. ? So many have better morals and don't want to get involved with us so being open about it allows them to avoid us. Both men and Women. "
There's being open and drawing unnecessary attention to it.
It's an emotive subject. Best just to get on with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?"
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being laid for bytheir husband.
For blokes the same except the husband is worried about everything he's built being taken away in divorce proceedings |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just to clarify. My profile clearly states I'm married.
Well yes, it does, but it doesn't state whether or not your wife knows you're on here.
Never thought of that one. It will soon"
Glad you took my comment in the manner it was intended |
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being laid for bytheir husband.
For blokes the same except the husband is worried about everything he's built being taken away in divorce proceedings"
Everything HE built ?
What epoch in history are you referring to ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being paid for bytheir husband "
NO! Try older husband and 30yr relationship based on friendship. He cannot function sexually.. but there is still LOVE. You may not understand that but its true. I would never leave my lovely man just because we don't ave sex and fyi, we have an equal input JOINT account.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being laid for bytheir husband.
For blokes the same except the husband is worried about everything he's built being taken away in divorce proceedings
Everything HE built ?
What epoch in history are you referring to ?"
Come on you know the little lady sits at home all day watching jezza repeats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not just the blokes who cheat. Where are the ladies who do so we should all join up and create fab cheaters be much easier. Any thoughts"
Both cheat males and females! I am all for getting the tar and feathers out! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being paid for bytheir husband
NO! Try older husband and 30yr relationship based on friendship. He cannot function sexually.. but there is still LOVE. You may not understand that but its true. I would never leave my lovely man just because we don't ave sex and fyi, we have an equal input JOINT account. "
However you go behind his back and do things for your own gratification that would deeply hurt and upset him?
Yeah that sounds like love.
Maybe if he was fully informed he could make his own decisions about whether your lovley man would want to be with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being laid for bytheir husband.
For blokes the same except the husband is worried about everything he's built being taken away in divorce proceedings
Everything HE built ?
What epoch in history are you referring to ?"
The one in which divorce settlements typical favour women?
Hey if you wanna complain about inequality feel free to argue that men get the privilege of making up 95% of work place deaths. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My husband would have had fuck all without me behind him and I worked too. Luckily for him,the cheating cunt,I didn't want anything from the marriage and let him have everything,small sacrifice in my eyes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"informed choices: put it on the profile, please can then make a decision."
This.
Personally it's not about judging or higher morals. Who am I to judge. Nobody is perfect and we all have our own reasons for being here but I personally do not want to be involved with a married person, male or female, as I don't want to be involved in any potential drama |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
Some girls will, some girls won't
Some girls need a lot of lovin' and, some girls don't
Welll I got the fever and I don't know why,
Some say they will and some girls lie.
(change *girls for *men as applicable.)
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Theres already sites out there for extra marital affairs, why try to change a swinging site into a cheating site, if I need to put a screw in I choose to use a screwdriver I dont use a saw, I select the correct tool, if I made the choice of the wrong tool I wouldnt go moaning it wasnt doing the job. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being paid for bytheir husband
NO! Try older husband and 30yr relationship based on friendship. He cannot function sexually.. but there is still LOVE. You may not understand that but its true. I would never leave my lovely man just because we don't ave sex and fyi, we have an equal input JOINT account.
However you go behind his back and do things for your own gratification that would deeply hurt and upset him?
Yeah that sounds like love.
Maybe if he was fully informed he could make his own decisions about whether your lovley man would want to be with you"
Bullshit. It must be wonderful living in a world where everything is so black and white and straightforward and easy.
I've said this before because these always go threads go this way. There are a lot of people out there quietly and discreetly doing what they feel they need to do whether inside or outside the relationship. It doesn't always have to end in chaos, tears and strangers being named in divorce proceedings, in fact it rarely does.
And perhaps the reason why men and women come out of divorce proceedings differently can be linked with unequal pay, women's career prospects usually being damaged if they choose to have children, and other factors of that kind - not some army of evil harridans sleeping around while their poor hardworking husbands are out earning the bread. FFS. |
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being paid for bytheir husband
NO! Try older husband and 30yr relationship based on friendship. He cannot function sexually.. but there is still LOVE. You may not understand that but its true. I would never leave my lovely man just because we don't ave sex and fyi, we have an equal input JOINT account.
However you go behind his back and do things for your own gratification that would deeply hurt and upset him?
Yeah that sounds like love.
Maybe if he was fully informed he could make his own decisions about whether your lovley man would want to be with you
Bullshit. It must be wonderful living in a world where everything is so black and white and straightforward and easy.
I've said this before because these always go threads go this way. There are a lot of people out there quietly and discreetly doing what they feel they need to do whether inside or outside the relationship. It doesn't always have to end in chaos, tears and strangers being named in divorce proceedings, in fact it rarely does.
And perhaps the reason why men and women come out of divorce proceedings differently can be linked with unequal pay, women's career prospects usually being damaged if they choose to have children, and other factors of that kind - not some army of evil harridans sleeping around while their poor hardworking husbands are out earning the bread. FFS. "
lol, keep telling yourself that if it makes you feel better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being laid for bytheir husband.
For blokes the same except the husband is worried about everything he's built being taken away in divorce proceedings
Everything HE built ?
What epoch in history are you referring to ?
The one in which divorce settlements typical favour women?
Hey if you wanna complain about inequality feel free to argue that men get the privilege of making up 95% of work place deaths. "
Is it our fault they are more clumsy? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being laid for bytheir husband.
For blokes the same except the husband is worried about everything he's built being taken away in divorce proceedings"
"everything he's built". I thought marriages were partnerships? This really pisses me off. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Yes, indeed there are women who cheat on their partners, but i'm not sure a cheaters club on fab would be such a great idea. A separate 'Fabcheaters' website, maybe, but as many have said before - Cheating is not swinging."
irony being that, for that kind of site to work, you are still relying on people telling the truth with regards to their cheating state.....
and if it doesn't have as much traffic as here for example... it not like people are going to switch.... they would just be truthful there... and just "truthful enough" or "flat out lie" here to get their leg over....
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being laid for bytheir husband.
For blokes the same except the husband is worried about everything he's built being taken away in divorce proceedings
Everything HE built ?
What epoch in history are you referring to ?
The one in which divorce settlements typical favour women?
Hey if you wanna complain about inequality feel free to argue that men get the privilege of making up 95% of work place deaths. "
Divorce settlements generally favour women in the cases where they have the children living with them ie marital homes can't be sold until the youngest child reaches 18. Also, our wages are generally lower due to having to work part time to look after children which then also has an impact on pension contributions.
And if you are worried about workplace accidents, get yourself an office job, although I do suffer terrible paper cuts on a daily basis in my secretarial role!
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"Yes, indeed there are women who cheat on their partners, but i'm not sure a cheaters club on fab would be such a great idea. A separate 'Fabcheaters' website, maybe, but as many have said before - Cheating is not swinging."
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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago
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"So what's best a cheater who is open about it or one who hides it. ? So many have better morals and don't want to get involved with us so being open about it allows them to avoid us. Both men and Women. "
Easy, get a divorce. Then morals won't come into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why do people cheat...??? Is it because sexual/physical attraction to their partner is not there anymore? Or for the thrill? Lack of attention perhaps? Why not just end it?
*incoming argument starter*
For women the relationship isn't what it was so they want to go have another/sex with others but don't want to sacrifice the life they have gotten used to being paid for bytheir husband
NO! Try older husband and 30yr relationship based on friendship. He cannot function sexually.. but there is still LOVE. You may not understand that but its true. I would never leave my lovely man just because we don't ave sex and fyi, we have an equal input JOINT account.
However you go behind his back and do things for your own gratification that would deeply hurt and upset him?
Yeah that sounds like love.
Maybe if he was fully informed he could make his own decisions about whether your lovley man would want to be with you
Bullshit. It must be wonderful living in a world where everything is so black and white and straightforward and easy.
I've said this before because these always go threads go this way. There are a lot of people out there quietly and discreetly doing what they feel they need to do whether inside or outside the relationship. It doesn't always have to end in chaos, tears and strangers being named in divorce proceedings, in fact it rarely does.
And perhaps the reason why men and women come out of divorce proceedings differently can be linked with unequal pay, women's career prospects usually being damaged if they choose to have children, and other factors of that kind - not some army of evil harridans sleeping around while their poor hardworking husbands are out earning the bread. FFS. "
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