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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile seems fine to me
Its a case of supply and demand, more men supplying themselves than woman and couples demanding them 
On a site where men outnumber women 100 to 1 it stands to reason some men will struggle to get meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Solved it in one... Your only public photo you have left your socks on.
I've got no socks on and I'm in the same boat x"
No but you do have a sponge on your cock |
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over a year ago
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"Solved it in one... Your only public photo you have left your socks on.
I've got no socks on and I'm in the same boat x
is that a sponge? "
Its to soak up any water that gets in his boat  |
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"Solved it in one... Your only public photo you have left your socks on.
I've got no socks on and I'm in the same boat x
is that a sponge?
Its to soak up any water that gets in his boat "
maybe a submarine.? Dive! dive! No muff too tough we Dive at 5! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Ashley
Perhaps I can direct you to some of the other threads that ask the same question.
The difference being that at least you've been here a while.
Don't forget though that there are around 100 guys to every 1 girl on here, so the ladies really can pick and choose. They also tend to get around 100 messages daily , so they probably don't get a lot of time to go searching - so if unless you're being pro-active and messaging people, it's less likely - though not entirely unlikely - that it's going to happen.
As for your profile. There's nothing really that Screams out immediately, but i've gone through it and offer a few pointers.
1. Get rid of text speak. You're not SMS-ing. There's room for correct spelling, punctuation and grammar and this WILL make a difference.
2. Lose the comment about being new to swinging. It makes it look like you haven't updated your profile since you joined up.
3. Asking people to message you to find out more is also going to put people off. It shouldn't, but it does - because it requires effort on their part when they simply might not have the time.
4. You mention that you have a face picture, that you'll provide on request. Is there any good reason why it's not on display on your profile?
5. Good to see that you've got a comment in there about your tongue skills, but I would suggest that you might want to elaborate more. What is it that you're pretty good at doing with it? Licking Stamps? Whistling? As for the bit about being able to cum on demand - If it were me, i'd lose it. It may well be true, but many will doubt it. Best leave that as a nice surprise for the lady eh
6. You can't accommodate. Nothing wrong with that, but you might want to think about explaining why. People will be suspicious. Are you married and cheating on a partner. etc.
7. You've got the green verification tick, which is nice, but not displaying any verifications on your profile also raises questions. Are you only webcam verified etc.
And lastly, get a few more pics up.
Like I said, nothing drastically wrong with it, but it needs to stand out from the thousands of other single male profiles on here.
Think of it as your advert to the people of Fab and sell yourself.
Stand out!
Good luck fella. Hope i've helped.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think naughtynyphos has a point tbf , there are a lot of guys on here
Course I do, I'm a woman in always right
So it's my socks then? But they keep my feet warm "
If I liked a guy's pics having socks on wouldn't put me off so long as you don't shag in them but who knows on here, ive been turned down for meets because they didn't like the look of someone who had verified me  and ive been blocked by people i have never exchanged a message with, you just never know on here |
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By *sher d OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hi Ashley
Perhaps I can direct you to some of the other threads that ask the same question.
The difference being that at least you've been here a while.
Don't forget though that there are around 100 guys to every 1 girl on here, so the ladies really can pick and choose. They also tend to get around 100 messages daily , so they probably don't get a lot of time to go searching - so if unless you're being pro-active and messaging people, it's less likely - though not entirely unlikely - that it's going to happen.
As for your profile. There's nothing really that Screams out immediately, but i've gone through it and offer a few pointers.
1. Get rid of text speak. You're not SMS-ing. There's room for correct spelling, punctuation and grammar and this WILL make a difference.
2. Lose the comment about being new to swinging. It makes it look like you haven't updated your profile since you joined up.
3. Asking people to message you to find out more is also going to put people off. It shouldn't, but it does - because it requires effort on their part when they simply might not have the time.
4. You mention that you have a face picture, that you'll provide on request. Is there any good reason why it's not on display on your profile?
5. Good to see that you've got a comment in there about your tongue skills, but I would suggest that you might want to elaborate more. What is it that you're pretty good at doing with it? Licking Stamps? Whistling? As for the bit about being able to cum on demand - If it were me, i'd lose it. It may well be true, but many will doubt it. Best leave that as a nice surprise for the lady eh
6. You can't accommodate. Nothing wrong with that, but you might want to think about explaining why. People will be suspicious. Are you married and cheating on a partner. etc.
7. You've got the green verification tick, which is nice, but not displaying any verifications on your profile also raises questions. Are you only webcam verified etc.
And lastly, get a few more pics up.
Like I said, nothing drastically wrong with it, but it needs to stand out from the thousands of other single male profiles on here.
Think of it as your advert to the people of Fab and sell yourself.
Stand out!
Good luck fella. Hope i've helped.
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That is actually great help and Il be more than sure to take all of that on board
Thank you I appreciate the honesty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"....ive been turned down for meets because they didn't like the look of someone who had verified me "
Wouldn't put me off from meeting you Nymphos, but then I've also seen you in Chat rooms and liked what I saw on camera very much indeedy!!!
Just a shame you're so bloody far away really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That is actually great help and Il be more than sure to take all of that on board
Thank you I appreciate the honesty "
Always happy to help a fellow fabster! |
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By *sher d OP Man
over a year ago
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That is actually great help and Il be more than sure to take all of that on board
Thank you I appreciate the honesty
Always happy to help a fellow fabster! "
Oh and as of the face pic , it's because of my job , oh perhaps I should've put that in the profile
Right then I'm on it
Thanks again |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Oh and as of the face pic , it's because of my job , oh perhaps I should've put that in the profile "
Bingo!!
There's nothing wrong with keeping it in private, just make sure you explain why it's not on view, that's all.
Oh, incidentally, before I forget, regarding point 3. I should have expanded on that by adding that you should put more information about yourself on your profile - but I'm guessing you've worked that out already
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