"why is it so many swingers call themselves shy? and whats even odder is that so many of them are!"
Bit strange you bringing this up because on your own profile you yourself state that the fem half of yourselves is 'Very Shy'  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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oh yea Ella is VERY shy, im not though lol, its because she is so shy i notice it now.
I go with the British thing though god forbid we actually admit to enjoying something |
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over a year ago
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"why is it so many swingers call themselves shy? and whats even odder is that so many of them are!
Bit strange you bringing this up because on your own profile you yourself state that the fem half of yourselves is 'Very Shy' "
Think it would be easier to ask his partner this one wouldn't you?!!  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I wouldn't really call myself shy, because you lot would all say "piss off!!!"
But I would call myself an "introverted extrovert"... in the sense that I can be quiet until i am comfortable... and then i am a touch louder.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn't really call myself shy, because you lot would all say "piss off!!!"
But I would call myself an "introverted extrovert"... in the sense that I can be quiet until i am comfortable... and then i am a touch louder...."
Ella is a bit like that shy then relaxes- then gets all shy again usually before saying something outrageous!
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"why is it so many swingers call themselves shy? and whats even odder is that so many of them are!"
are we saying shy folk can't enjoy sex or shouldn't consider being here?
i can get incredibly shy and nervous on a date and i make a point of telling my meets that, but once i'm in the bedroom and naked, i'm clearly at the point of being relaxed with that person so it's gone by then.
are we really running put of folk to attack here??
...will wait for the thread that asks why women who own cats are on here...clearly if they have a cat they're a spinster and therefore cannot like sex either?? or men who like football, what they doing on here? sex and football being age old enemies.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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are we really running put of folk to attack here??
I dont see any attacking in the OPs question or in any of the replies...."
attack may be a strong word, but it's certainly not positive to shy folk.
i resent anything that someone writes on their profile being up for public debate though...surely what's on a profile is an individuals right?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"why is it so many swingers call themselves shy? and whats even odder is that so many of them are!
are we saying shy folk can't enjoy sex or shouldn't consider being here?
i can get incredibly shy and nervous on a date and i make a point of telling my meets that, but once i'm in the bedroom and naked, i'm clearly at the point of being relaxed with that person so it's gone by then.
are we really running put of folk to attack here??
...will wait for the thread that asks why women who own cats are on here...clearly if they have a cat they're a spinster and therefore cannot like sex either?? or men who like football, what they doing on here? sex and football being age old enemies...."
Are you on drugs? at what point did i say shy people cant be swingers? get a grip ffs
its a simple question brought about by my curiosity not a dig at shy people- if it was that i would be having a pop at my own gf! some people her are to bloody quick to think someone is having a dig.
humph i was all relaxed when i got out of the bath now im going to have have have a beer to calm down GGGGGRRRRRRRRRR |
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"why is it so many swingers call themselves shy? and whats even odder is that so many of them are!
are we saying shy folk can't enjoy sex or shouldn't consider being here?
i can get incredibly shy and nervous on a date and i make a point of telling my meets that, but once i'm in the bedroom and naked, i'm clearly at the point of being relaxed with that person so it's gone by then.
are we really running put of folk to attack here??
...will wait for the thread that asks why women who own cats are on here...clearly if they have a cat they're a spinster and therefore cannot like sex either?? or men who like football, what they doing on here? sex and football being age old enemies....
Are you on drugs? at what point did i say shy people cant be swingers? get a grip ffs
its a simple question brought about by my curiosity not a dig at shy people- if it was that i would be having a pop at my own gf! some people her are to bloody quick to think someone is having a dig.
humph i was all relaxed when i got out of the bath now im going to have have have a beer to calm down GGGGGRRRRRRRRRR"
Don't worry - some people will think too deeply about anything and that's their right - everything is a fight or a slight! I couldn't start a fight whilst locked in a room alone but......................................................................................... Z |
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"why is it so many swingers call themselves shy? and whats even odder is that so many of them are!
are we saying shy folk can't enjoy sex or shouldn't consider being here?
i can get incredibly shy and nervous on a date and i make a point of telling my meets that, but once i'm in the bedroom and naked, i'm clearly at the point of being relaxed with that person so it's gone by then.
are we really running put of folk to attack here??
...will wait for the thread that asks why women who own cats are on here...clearly if they have a cat they're a spinster and therefore cannot like sex either?? or men who like football, what they doing on here? sex and football being age old enemies....
Are you on drugs? at what point did i say shy people cant be swingers? get a grip ffs
its a simple question brought about by my curiosity not a dig at shy people- if it was that i would be having a pop at my own gf! some people her are to bloody quick to think someone is having a dig.
humph i was all relaxed when i got out of the bath now im going to have have have a beer to calm down GGGGGRRRRRRRRRR
Don't worry - some people will think too deeply about anything and that's their right - everything is a fight or a slight! I couldn't start a fight whilst locked in a room alone but......................................................................................... Z"
you know who we need now........
i like fight, i like slight but....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a simple question brought about by my curiosity not a dig at shy people- if it was that i would be having a pop at my own gf! some people her are to bloody quick to think someone is having a dig.
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perhaps you should have structured your question that way then instead of saying that it's odd of us to use the site...your word, not mine.
makes perfect sense to me why someone shy would use this site. gives them a chance to get to know someone before having to talk to them face to face. nothing odd about that |
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