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I think when we first got into swinging the thought of a young horny ripped stud was what i liked but found the men who were our age or slightly older that still looked after themselves to be just better at the finer things ! |
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over a year ago
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Most young women (18-25) now seem so unreal and airbrushed to me that it's getting progressively difficult to see them as sexy. A REAL woman, in her 30's or 40's, just radiates a wonderful curvaceous sexiness, a comfort with herself, and a sassy understanding of carnal pleasures. The only trouble is that most of them are married and firmly off limits... which is what drives people like us onto swinging sites in the first place 
In the last few years a new phenomena has appeared on my horizon... the sexy 50 something woman. I haven't seen a lot of them... but it is a curious new experience for me 
So my personal ranking of sexiest decades is... 40's, 30's and then joint third for 20's and 50's  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer a real women. Mostly older than myself. Much more fun and aren't fake like most of the younger women. Plus older women have shown me a lot of tricks in the bedroom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope always liked the older gent 
Same  younger men can be gents to just finding the one with respect manners and a naughty mind"
I'm sure! It's just a preference. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"I prefer a real women. Mostly older than myself. Much more fun and aren't fake like most of the younger women. Plus older women have shown me a lot of tricks in the bedroom."
Do you mean a real woman as opposed to a blow up one?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope always liked the older gent
Same younger men can be gents to just finding the one with respect manners and a naughty mind
I'm sure! It's just a preference. "
. Maybe one day il get to show you my gent side I hear ya I prefer older women too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nope always liked the older gent
Same younger men can be gents to just finding the one with respect manners and a naughty mind
I'm sure! It's just a preference. . Maybe one day il get to show you my gent side I hear ya I prefer older women too lol "
Possibly, although I'm younger than you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've gone the opposite way too. Always liked men a good 10 years older than me...but found myself the past year more interested in 19/20 year olds. I feel more confident with younger men... and slightly intimidated by older men. That is totally because of me though...and not their doing. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i've also gone the opposite way.
when i was a teen i was interested in guys double my age, until my mid twenties, then i still wanted older guys but ended up with someone 5 years younger (never regretted it though, great guy and dad to our kids).
this time round i was looking for guys around my age, give or take a few years either way, had ended up younger guys again. i'm more comfortable, socially, with someone 10 years younger but seeing as it's only sex i'm not fussed about age now, so long as they're old enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never understood this 'real women' tag. I've been fortunate enough to meet fantastic women of all ages. It really comes down to the individual women for me, I try not to limit my options based on age too much. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, the only difference is that I am now the same age as the men I generally find attractive. That means they are less interested in me as I am now in the too old box for them. "
Coincidently a platonic female friend of mine was recently explaining exactly the same thing to me, I wasn't convinced. I respect your posts so accept what you're saying, but I am a bit surprised by it. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"No, the only difference is that I am now the same age as the men I generally find attractive. That means they are less interested in me as I am now in the too old box for them.
Coincidently a platonic female friend of mine was recently explaining exactly the same thing to me, I wasn't convinced. I respect your posts so accept what you're saying, but I am a bit surprised by it. "
Here I am attractive to younger and older (63 - 78 so far), with a few in my age group. I cherish those few.
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"I find the younger guys a lot less pushy then the older ones (in general). "
That's funny cos I chat to a fair few women on here and they have said at one point or another they have blocked younger guys for being rude, pushy and asking 'why?' |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I seem to find older men more appealing, both for dating and for fab.
I dated a younger guy, and he just was too much hard work - constantly needy and got really annoying, and have found a few other younger guys the same (mid 20s)
Older men have a confidence and grace about them that I find very appealing. Also, I just find we have more in common to talk about - anything from my age + 10 years, biggest age gap has been 27 years, but its also about appeal, charisma and looks (yes I am shallow lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just finding I know more of what I want or would like to attract. And also more of what I don't want.
Lots of pretty girls/women out there so don't like to judge books by covers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a type as you can miss out on some fantastic people that way...
Although I prefer someone who can actually communicate! That way you can see what makes them tick and give them what they want  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never understood this 'real women' tag. I've been fortunate enough to meet fantastic women of all ages. It really comes down to the individual women for me, I try not to limit my options based on age too much. "
I think that younger people tend to suffer from trying to make up for their inadequacies by bluffing and bullshit more than older people... who tend to expect people to take them as they are. Once you get to a certain age you start to find the bluff and bullshit less and less attractive... and find people who are just who they are... more comfortable with themselves... more real and less airbrushed... more and more attractive. That's not saying all young people are full of hot air... but a lot of them are
However... I'll admit... many older people can try and fake youthfulness by plastering themselves in all sorts of crap. This kind of fakery is also a massive turn off for me... so 'real' women aren't necessarily a certain age, I'll concede  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My tastes constantly evolve.
There is always an odd exeption to them too.
Also my experiences help define changes in my tastes in some ways too."
I used to gravitate to younger men but have recently started to appreciate the experience of older men also.
The ones I have met have been wonderful lovers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My tastes constantly evolve.
There is always an odd exeption to them too.
Also my experiences help define changes in my tastes in some ways too.
I used to gravitate to younger men but have recently started to appreciate the experience of older men also.
The ones I have met have been wonderful lovers"
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