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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A conundrum has leapt to my mind.
I like many people have the broad brush 18-99 age range listed. Now this could be classed as lazy but actually means I find people as I take them.
For the record I understand that people have their own choices to make, and in reality I don't think I would be interested in an 18 yr old and possibly not someone as young as 97.
My conundrum is, do people ever consider upping they're age range by a year, as they personally age a year?
Conversely if someone has found the elixir to eternal youth, have you lowered your age limits.
Apologies for being long winded, I'm just wondering. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I've asked this question before. Don't recall anyone saying they did - but as we all get older so do those we've met before, might want to meet and even those we've never noticed yet.
I guess if we're still here in 20 years time we'll up our limits. But as there's a few years between us anyway we've plenty of scope to be flexible.
Like everything - it's just another preference.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here I have stated preferences that are lower than the age of my husband purely because I was getting messages from men in their '40s' that looked older than my Dad
Out in the real world I never ask peoples ages and just chat to who I find attractive ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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Through the day I work with women all ages but I prefer ladies over 40 upwards, saying this I go to clubs with my wife & we chat to people all ages.
It depends on the person, the time & how mature they are for whatever age lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The big problem that I have is that I don't want to meet men under 40 - but I love women of any age...
So if I drop my profile age limits to welcome younger women, I get bombarded with "Wot u up 2" messages from immature boys....
Aaaaaargggghhhh!!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The big problem that I have is that I don't want to meet men under 40 - but I love women of any age...
So if I drop my profile age limits to welcome younger women, I get bombarded with "Wot u up 2" messages from immature boys....
Aaaaaargggghhhh!!!!
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Wot u up 2 ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am 37 but look younger,
I don't get Women my age or older trying to chat me up,
And I don't approach Women in their 20s as I feel I have to tell them my age straight away as I don't want them to think am a dirty old man
Not sure if that's a conundrum ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our age limits aren't set in stone upper limits, we have just set them because we were getting messages from people in there 50's and 60's which is old enough to be Mrs l's parent, our lower limit is set we wouldn't go younger than 21 |
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