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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
I disagree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just see it as it is. A site on the net and not something that should change life as its cyber land and not real all the time .. Going out meeting is real . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just see it as it is. A site on the net and not something that should change life as its cyber land and not real all the time .. Going out meeting is real ."
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I think there is a level of complacency to the fact that the site is well thought of and if another were to set up to seriously rival it, people would haemorrhage.
but it is the best that I have used. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
I disagree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, we left and came back as we missed the forum.
Its a lot better than any other site we have tried and,as long as you don't post anything too contentious, the forum is fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab is just a means to an end, you want fun it actually means stepping into the real world and going to socials and clubs the only thing free and easy in the swinging world is the sex when you get it. Even as a couple we have more fun in clubs and parties than we find on the web. Swinging existed before the internet. |
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
The forums make this site good  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
Be the change you want to see. Stop whinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only thing I don't like is people having loads of profiles here as it comes across as hiding and 9/10 I know who they are and I ask why do they need them when they have a couples and single one to go on and I know up to them. But when its free and easy to get a profile it's easy to do. To me its far too much hard work. Maybe they see it as fishing more nets they cast out here more mail they may get back I am not sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say as we've noticed it going down hill.. It's much the same now as when we first joined! Apart from the the fact my pussy is dripping for paddy "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say as we've noticed it going down hill.. It's much the same now as when we first joined! Apart from the the fact my pussy is dripping for paddy
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I see what you did there paddy 
You naughty man  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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To some of the ones we joined, this and two others are the best we have used.
The ones we thought were crap we deleted our profiles on them as it would seem pointless staying if we didn't like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can't say as we've noticed it going down hill.. It's much the same now as when we first joined! Apart from the the fact my pussy is dripping for paddy
I see what you did there paddy
You naughty man "
LICKS xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To some of the ones we joined, this and two others are the best we have used.
The ones we thought were crap we deleted our profiles on them as it would seem pointless staying if we didn't like it. "
I'd like to know what other sites your on...just for wanking at your pics |
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There's no barb wired fence around the site , if its not working delete the profile , or maybe revamp it
And like so many couples we have blocked all single guys as most seem to have a reading a profile fully problem |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"To some of the ones we joined, this and two others are the best we have used.
The ones we thought were crap we deleted our profiles on them as it would seem pointless staying if we didn't like it.
I'd like to know what other sites your on...just for wanking at your pics"
There are too many pics on the other ones for you to wank at, it would take all day! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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I'm having a whale of a time, to be honest. I'm going to socials, know some truly lovely peeps on here and tons I'd like to meet if only for a chat and a giggle.
Am I doing something wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a free site why do ppl constantly complain about something they dont pay for  .try and put more effort into finding what you want instead of moaning.this post is doing your chances no favours at all |
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All the people we meet are Lovely! Plus once you get out there, mix n mingle ,the doors get wedged wide open! invites to private parties etc.. Meet more people... And more! Lol ... Staying possitive n being real helps |
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
Nope.
Been on this site 5 years and maybe a bit more , thought it so good a site supported it within a couple of days and always have and will do, never have a problem with fakes, timewasters or anything else, just have great meets!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It comes down to the balancing your E's
Experience + effort
Versus
Expectations + entitlement
The more of the first two you have, the less of the second two you'll have.
Somewhere in the middle comes the change in mindset : if you get that far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just see it as it is. A site on the net and not something that should change life as its cyber land and not real all the time .. Going out meeting is real ."
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
the site is the same as it always was maybe what has changed is your expectations from the site,
It's like life you only get out what you put in,
a lot of guys come on and expect a free ride
If you get out there and go to clubs and socials and get known on the site in the forums and chat rooms you will get known and if you're not pushy and respectful to the ladies and couples you will get meets,
As an older member,and before i met Scouse this was the way i went and was very successful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think there is a level of complacency to the fact that the site is well thought of and if another were to set up to seriously rival it, people would haemorrhage.
but it is the best that I have used. "
I agree with Mr View....having been on and off here for 6 years I have seen changes and not all for the best, but it is better than other sites I have been on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's be that's changed not the site. This isn't the only site I've used and I do have a profile on another couple if sites, but this is the one I tend to use the most.
As View said when another site is setup to rival this one people will move, but currently there isn't one.
There are things on the site that could be easily improved and there does seem to be very little investment & improvements made by admin. However I just get on with it and enjoy it for what it is in the format it is.
I tend to have very few meets via the site now relying more on club visits and that suites me.
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I've been around for over 6 years and I don't think it's changed much. Chat is different (I liked it best when the trial of new chat was running) but apart from that I see no great changes. The "regulars" in the forums change as people come and go, but the threads remain pretty much the same. I'm not sure there is the same ammount of forum socials as there were 3/4 years ago (ahhhh happy memories of the Pussy Posse parties), but there are still loads of socials/parties so anyone can get out there and meet people.....like others have said, you'll get more from the site if you're prepared to put something in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It comes down to the balancing your E's
Experience + effort
Versus
Expectations + entitlement
The more of the first two you have, the less of the second two you'll have.
Somewhere in the middle comes the change in mindset : if you get that far."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its changed a huge amount since I joined,some of it for the good,some if it for the bad,all the time I can still get what I originally joined for then im happy |
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swinging has been going long before these sites were ever heard like ive said b4 i started off in the days of contact magazines ,
i wasnt on this site back in my day but 1 that you pay to join which im still on too BUT there are timewasters there too cpls that say they will meet you arrange a date ,nearer the time they go offline thats why we went to clubs my ex used to say folk get off on the idea of swinging then bottle it
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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it is after all a revenue generating business and I can't think of many companies ( if any ) in these tough economic times, so bold as to say 'if you don't like, just go'.
That is why the ideas & suggestion forums are key to generating improvements for consideration.
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The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully."
post some fanny pics, and the site gets better...honest! |
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"The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully.
post some fanny pics, and the site gets better...honest!"
There are enough cunts on here already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully.
post some fanny pics, and the site gets better...honest!
There are enough cunts on here already."
but its YOUR cuntness I desire...I'm tired of chasing other fannies...lets hook up x |
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"The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully.
post some fanny pics, and the site gets better...honest!
There are enough cunts on here already.
but its YOUR cuntness I desire...I'm tired of chasing other fannies...lets hook up x"
OK |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully.
post some fanny pics, and the site gets better...honest!
There are enough cunts on here already.
but its YOUR cuntness I desire...I'm tired of chasing other fannies...lets hook up x
OK"
do u do anal? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I'm actually having MORE fun, but that's because I use the site to get to clubs and parties.
As said above, if you just sit at your laptop expecting women to stampede to your door you're going to be woefully disappointed. Get out and start meeting people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm actually having MORE fun, but that's because I use the site to get to clubs and parties.
As said above, if you just sit at your laptop expecting women to stampede to your door you're going to be woefully disappointed. Get out and start meeting people."
fancy a cam wank? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm actually having MORE fun, but that's because I use the site to get to clubs and parties.
As said above, if you just sit at your laptop expecting women to stampede to your door you're going to be woefully disappointed. Get out and start meeting people.
fancy a cam wank?"
Get your arse to York and I'll tit wank you |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
I think it has gone downhill in a number of ways, the forums do not have the wit or the humour they used to, but people come and go. Chat I never bother with, as for the people I speak to, then, no. I as part of a couple are still getting out of the site so we stick around...the site is what you make it yourself, stop whinging and either go elsewhere or make more of what you have/want on here.
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"The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully.
post some fanny pics, and the site gets better...honest!
There are enough cunts on here already.
but its YOUR cuntness I desire...I'm tired of chasing other fannies...lets hook up x
OK
do u do anal?"
Looking for a get-out? |
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"The site generally is quite dated in terms of how it looks and what you can do - especially the forums and chatrooms.... and profiles.... ok all of it.
As for the people... well I don't think the forum is an accurate representation of the people out there in profile land... thankfully.
post some fanny pics, and the site gets better...honest!
There are enough cunts on here already."
pmsl but i agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? "
Totally agree.  The only reason I'm still here is because the forums are such a good source of amusement and entertainment.
It's a shame, but that's life I guess. Never mind I shall just keep enjoying the forums. |
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"This site has gone downhill since I first joined (another profile, this new one). So few women, tons of guys, so much vanity, fakes, rudeness, arrogance etc. Disappointing. Seen one or two improvements but not many. Anyone else think site is not what it use to be? I think it has gone downhill in a number of ways, the forums do not have the wit or the humour they used to, but people come and go. Chat I never bother with, as for the people I speak to, then, no. I as part of a couple are still getting out of the site so we stick around...the site is what you make it yourself, stop whinging and either go elsewhere or make more of what you have/want on here."
Exactly.
I have been on the site for a few years now and have not noticed any decline.
There have always been tons of guys, vanity, fakes, rudeness and arrogance in more or less the same proportions as today |
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i wouldnt know, i have only met 1 couple on here, i have tried many people, contacting but getting no reply or being blocked for some reason or other, im here for the social side and the horny and sexual side aswell, but nobody really wishes to know me from im seeing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How can the site be better? Browse profiles... mail who you like... chat... meet. The site doesn't need any fancy tools to make that happen. It's down to the people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can the site be better? Browse profiles... mail who you like... chat... meet. The site doesn't need any fancy tools to make that happen. It's down to the people. "
Spot on |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I suppose it depends on what people are looking for....the amount of mails being exchanged every day on here is huge....which could mean lots of people using it for the same reason as we joined....to meet people.
You only need a mail option for that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, are there not enough women into rimming on here??
I love this site, been on and off for 4 years and it really hasn't changed much, in fact I find it better now but that's maybe because I've sorted my selection criteria and don't get bothered by fakes or time wasters anymore. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"How can the site be better? Browse profiles... mail who you like... chat... meet. The site doesn't need any fancy tools to make that happen. It's down to the people. "
Also, the more bells and whistles there are on a website, the more expensive it will be to run. Cost gets passed on to members, people moan.
Seems the site gets blamed whatever.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, are there not enough women into rimming on here??
I love this site, been on and off for 4 years and it really hasn't changed much, in fact I find it better now but that's maybe because I've sorted my selection criteria and don't get bothered by fakes or time wasters anymore. "
Rimming? Huh?
I am not saying its a rubbish site, it dies what it says on the tin. But it not the same as it was few years back. |
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"How can the site be better? Browse profiles... mail who you like... chat... meet. The site doesn't need any fancy tools to make that happen. It's down to the people.
Also, the more bells and whistles there are on a website, the more expensive it will be to run. Cost gets passed on to members, people moan.
Seems the site gets blamed whatever. "
Would agree with that, i was on another site similar to this and they were forever making changes to the site, upgrade this, new message centre that, change profile layout, etc, the constant chopping and changing just annoyed me in the end so i stopped paying for a membership there. These sort of sites don't need to be complicated, just keep them simple i say. If it ain't broke don't try to fix it. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"How can the site be better? Browse profiles... mail who you like... chat... meet. The site doesn't need any fancy tools to make that happen. It's down to the people. "
Would it be cynical of me to suggest that those most unhappy with the site aren't finding it provides them with the level of meets they want/expect?
Certainly comes across that way from reading forum threads and status updates.
However - I dare say there's probably a higher percentage happy with the facilities on site and the opportunities it gives them. Else there'd be a far higher turnover of profiles.
As others have said - if there was a decent enough alternative maybe those unhappy would just jump ship and move - but at present it seems even the discontent prefer to stay here.
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"As others have said - if there was a decent enough alternative maybe those unhappy would just jump ship and move - but at present it seems even the discontent prefer to stay here.
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Better the Devil you know |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would it be cynical of me to suggest that those most unhappy with the site aren't finding it provides them with the level of meets they expect"
Actually no, it's nothing to do with finding the meets for me. It's more down to the useability of the site that I think could be improved. Simple things like been able to bold, italic & underline in profiles, more mail filters, enhanced search facilities, multiple message contacts, non flash based chat....none of this stops me using the site very successfully to find the fun I'm looking for, but for the amount of money generated by FAB I think more investment could be made.
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To the OP.
Fab is Great!
Fab is genuinely free to use, so it has its share of knobs and time wasters, but so do all the other sites and they all want to dip into your pockets for the privilege of being jacked around!
If you dont like the direction Fab is going in, do something to change it.
Volunteer to help run the site, or instead of whining here report the problems you find to the site owners or admin so that they can do something about it!
After all the site is only as good as we make it. And if you dont try and help develop the site in the way you would like how can you complain when it does not go the way you want!
Just a thought from a no one, maybe you would like to repost? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"To the OP.
Fab is Great!
Fab is genuinely free to use, so it has its share of knobs and time wasters, but so do all the other sites and they all want to dip into your pockets for the privilege of being jacked around!
If you dont like the direction Fab is going in, do something to change it.
Volunteer to help run the site, or instead of whining here report the problems you find to the site owners or admin so that they can do something about it!
After all the site is only as good as we make it. And if you dont try and help develop the site in the way you would like how can you complain when it does not go the way you want!
Just a thought from a no one, maybe you would like to repost?"
In my opinion, the site is not what it use to be. I am not saying it is terrible. It is good site but you should of seen it in the glory days lol. Ahhh those were the days. |
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"To the OP.
Fab is Great!
Fab is genuinely free to use, so it has its share of knobs and time wasters, but so do all the other sites and they all want to dip into your pockets for the privilege of being jacked around!
If you dont like the direction Fab is going in, do something to change it.
Volunteer to help run the site, or instead of whining here report the problems you find to the site owners or admin so that they can do something about it!
After all the site is only as good as we make it. And if you dont try and help develop the site in the way you would like how can you complain when it does not go the way you want!
Just a thought from a no one, maybe you would like to repost?
In my opinion, the site is not what it use to be. I am not saying it is terrible. It is good site but you should of seen it in the glory days lol. Ahhh those were the days. "
OK I understand that. But what I am saying is what are you doing to help return it to those glory days?
Do you actually believe that the Admin and site owners have time to read every thread in every forum. Or even that the forum mods have time to do that? I bet they only have time to follow the threads that interest them or are generating complaints about content or abuse. As I said, if you genuinely feel this way and are not throwing a 'Sunday night have to go to work tomorrow paddy' contact the site owner tell them what you think and make suggestions to improve the site, and more importantly volunteer to give up a few minutes of each day to help make the site run more smoothly and to make it better for all.
For myself I always report profiles of single guys pretending to be couples or women, or for that matter any profile I come across that has the wrong gender, it only takes 3 mouse clicks and a scroll and past.
I know its not much, but its a bit I put back in to make the site better for all. |
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