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By *riskygaz OP   Man  over a year ago

birmingham

I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol

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"I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol"

Yep that's women for you ,

The strangest most unpredictable species on the planet .

Just out of interest what did you say or do to make the pass,

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By *riskygaz OP   Man  over a year ago

birmingham


"I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol

Yep that's women for you ,

The strangest most unpredictable species on the planet .

Just out of interest what did you say or do to make the pass, "

well I went into a room to fix something and she was in there, she was sat down writing when I went in got a big smile, had a little chat, then she stood up lent against a wall looking rather seductively at me, and I thought sod it make your move you might not get another chance like this, so I started edging a little closer and a little closer intending to put my arms around her for a little cuddle, but she put her arms up and politely said no, then a bit embarrassing for us both, she left the office, it was a little bit awkward bumping into her for a while, but she has been ok about it, we still work together, was having a chat with her today, time eased the embarrassment lol.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Why would you approach someone IN the workplace?

Why if women are friendly, especially at work, does that equate to them being interested?

I agree that nothing ventured nothing gained but not in the workplace and certainly not with physical contact before you even know whether someone is interested or not.

I will also remember to never lean against a wall when chatting and smiling if I am not specifically interested in that person.

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes men and women are totally different...and I have learnt this the hard way!

I think I am just being friendly saying hello in the morning etc and having a conversation, they seem to think I am really saying, I am interested in you, do you fancy it? Now I probably come across as stand offish though I still have a much older guy at work that followed up on a conversation with an email that made me feel icky

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman  over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I met my exhusband in our workplace. He did ask me for a date tho didn't try anything on first

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By *ourbonKissMan  over a year ago

a land up north..... of leicester


"I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol

Yep that's women for you ,

The strangest most unpredictable species on the planet .

Just out of interest what did you say or do to make the pass, well I went into a room to fix something and she was in there, she was sat down writing when I went in got a big smile, had a little chat, then she stood up lent against a wall looking rather seductively at me, and I thought sod it make your move you might not get another chance like this, so I started edging a little closer and a little closer intending to put my arms around her for a little cuddle, but she put her arms up and politely said no, then a bit embarrassing for us both, she left the office, it was a little bit awkward bumping into her for a while, but she has been ok about it, we still work together, was having a chat with her today, time eased the embarrassment lol."

Uuummm so you went straight in for kill.... Did you honestly think that she would tucked you there and then?

Why not ask her out and see where that would lead you to?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Couldn't you have just said fancy a coffee instead of going straight in for a cuddle ?

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By *yrdwomanWoman  over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol"

This should be tattooed on mens cocks at birth.

If I fancy someone I tell them. I don't do coy or coquettish. Unfortunately all the lovely totty where I work are married. *sigh*

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By *riskygaz OP   Man  over a year ago

birmingham


"I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol

Yep that's women for you ,

The strangest most unpredictable species on the planet .

Just out of interest what did you say or do to make the pass, well I went into a room to fix something and she was in there, she was sat down writing when I went in got a big smile, had a little chat, then she stood up lent against a wall looking rather seductively at me, and I thought sod it make your move you might not get another chance like this, so I started edging a little closer and a little closer intending to put my arms around her for a little cuddle, but she put her arms up and politely said no, then a bit embarrassing for us both, she left the office, it was a little bit awkward bumping into her for a while, but she has been ok about it, we still work together, was having a chat with her today, time eased the embarrassment lol.

Uuummm so you went straight in for kill.... Did you honestly think that she would tucked you there and then?

Why not ask her out and see where that would lead you to? "

to late for that, she got married last year lol, oh well cant win them all

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By *ecretly seductiveWoman  over a year ago

Palookaville

I think if you have chemistry with someone is pretty obvious. ... But would never mix work and pleasure

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By *aucy3Couple  over a year ago

glasgow


"I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol

Yep that's women for you ,

The strangest most unpredictable species on the planet .

Just out of interest what did you say or do to make the pass, well I went into a room to fix something and she was in there, she was sat down writing when I went in got a big smile, had a little chat, then she stood up lent against a wall looking rather seductively at me, and I thought sod it make your move you might not get another chance like this, so I started edging a little closer and a little closer intending to put my arms around her for a little cuddle, but she put her arms up and politely said no, then a bit embarrassing for us both, she left the office, it was a little bit awkward bumping into her for a while, but she has been ok about it, we still work together, was having a chat with her today, time eased the embarrassment lol."

Possibly asking,would you like to go for a drink sometime,

would have ended with a more positive outcome.

Unless of course,you speak with a German accent,

have a mullet,a moustache,

and fix washing machines.

If so,your approach was perfect.

within 5 minutes,you should have been,

shagging her vigorously over her desk,

her dress pushed up revealing her stocking tops,

her tits swinging wildly,displacing the paper work on her desk,leaving it strewn all over the floor.

Then a blow job,

Culminating in her licking your seed,

from her luscious pouting lips.

Could be you'll have to brush up that German accent.

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By *riskygaz OP   Man  over a year ago

birmingham


"I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol

Yep that's women for you ,

The strangest most unpredictable species on the planet .

Just out of interest what did you say or do to make the pass, well I went into a room to fix something and she was in there, she was sat down writing when I went in got a big smile, had a little chat, then she stood up lent against a wall looking rather seductively at me, and I thought sod it make your move you might not get another chance like this, so I started edging a little closer and a little closer intending to put my arms around her for a little cuddle, but she put her arms up and politely said no, then a bit embarrassing for us both, she left the office, it was a little bit awkward bumping into her for a while, but she has been ok about it, we still work together, was having a chat with her today, time eased the embarrassment lol.

Possibly asking,would you like to go for a drink sometime,

would have ended with a more positive outcome.

Unless of course,you speak with a German accent,

have a mullet,a moustache,

and fix washing machines.

If so,your approach was perfect.

within 5 minutes,you should have been,

shagging her vigorously over her desk,

her dress pushed up revealing her stocking tops,

her tits swinging wildly,displacing the paper work on her desk,leaving it strewn all over the floor.

Then a blow job,

Culminating in her licking your seed,

from her luscious pouting lips.

Could be you'll have to brush up that German accent.

"

lol I like the way your naughty mind works

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought you were going to say 'Fart - and give us a clue!'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Op .

Next time offer a girl something, then don't let go of it , do a little tug of war .

When she gives up do it again . This time say she can have it .

I hope you can kiss better than you can take a pen etc etc .

Look in her eyes , when she looks away say you can't win a staring competition either ..

Now by this time you have either pissed her off so much she is fuming or she hits you .

If she is fuming smile and walk away .

If she hits you say " don't touch the goods you can't afford " look her in eyes ,

Then. Move hand up to touch hair, if she doesn't move away, keep looking and go for the kiss..

After the kiss. Say she is better at staring than kissing

Or walking down corridor , keep moving towards her so she will walk into something, eventually she will hit you and then start from don't touch the goods you can't afford

I have said it before and I will say it again. Most women if not all women have 1000s of men all want to please her. You have just stood out from the crowd.

Also it's really easy to piss women off , this may work one day and it may never work on this girl

It all comes down to timing, as you know with your mrs or ex mrs, she doesn't want sex all the time, sometimes she says no sometimes women just don't feel like it

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By *empting Devil.Woman  over a year ago

Sheffield


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Op .

Next time offer a girl something, then don't let go of it , do a little tug of war .

When she gives up do it again . This time say she can have it .

I hope you can kiss better than you can take a pen etc etc .

Look in her eyes , when she looks away say you can't win a staring competition either ..

Now by this time you have either pissed her off so much she is fuming or she hits you .

If she is fuming smile and walk away .

If she hits you say " don't touch the goods you can't afford " look her in eyes ,

Then. Move hand up to touch hair, if she doesn't move away, keep looking and go for the kiss..

After the kiss. Say she is better at staring than kissing

Or walking down corridor , keep moving towards her so she will walk into something, eventually she will hit you and then start from don't touch the goods you can't afford

I have said it before and I will say it again. Most women if not all women have 1000s of men all want to please her. You have just stood out from the crowd.

Also it's really easy to piss women off , this may work one day and it may never work on this girl

It all comes down to timing, as you know with your mrs or ex mrs, she doesn't want sex all the time, sometimes she says no sometimes women just don't feel like it "

Making a move in the workplace can lead to disciplinary action or even the sack.

The best first move would be to invite her for coffee or a drink. If she's already married then she may just be looking in appreciation with no intent to do more.

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By *andybeachWoman  over a year ago

In the middle

I am a hopeless flirt as I take it all as banter and never actually read the proper signals, so any advice from me would be useless

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

I wish I found it alarming that the op thought it appropriate to try and touch a colleague. Whatever happened to finding out if there was interest by asking her for a coffee?

Sadly, on a daily basis I encounter cases of sexual harassment stemming from incidents such as this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

there was a thread about a similar thing a few weeks ago - giving people the come on in the work place and the consequences etc

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I am not talking about on this site, maybe at work or just someone you pass on the street, what do you do to try and let a guy know you fancy him,

got a couple of women at work I think maybe fancy me, but having said that their was a women a couple of years ago, I was always catching looking me up and down and looking at the bulge in my jeans, one day I got up the courage to make a pass at her, and got a polite no so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol

Yep that's women for you ,

The strangest most unpredictable species on the planet .

Just out of interest what did you say or do to make the pass, well I went into a room to fix something and she was in there, she was sat down writing when I went in got a big smile, had a little chat, then she stood up lent against a wall looking rather seductively at me, and I thought sod it make your move you might not get another chance like this, so I started edging a little closer and a little closer intending to put my arms around her for a little cuddle, but she put her arms up and politely said no, then a bit embarrassing for us both, she left the office, it was a little bit awkward bumping into her for a while, but she has been ok about it, we still work together, was having a chat with her today, time eased the embarrassment lol."

Good lord man ask her for coffee before going in for a grope at least

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"so just because they are looking doesn't mean they want you lol"

Always remember every woman who makes eye contact with you absolutely definitely want to fuck you.

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