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In my experience no-one really cares. Nor do I. I'm a woman. I yo-yo diet. I have stretch marks. I'd be very surprised if any man gave a shit about stretch marks.
We all worry too much about the physical, mostly thanks to the media. While it's true we all have things we find attractive, stretch marks are of no consequence and if someone made out they were bothered by them I'd walk on by. Shallow people are just not for me.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's ur honest opinions on stretch marks? No nasty comments please. "
Who cares ?
They have no effect on someone's personality or how sexy they look !
They are something anyone can get ? But for a woman I suppose they could make you feel uncomfortable ?
There are a lot worse things to worry about ? Stretch marks not one of them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Very tru I'm sure everyone has some sort of scar on there body... Just I've seen some heartless profiles on here and does make me wonder what people really do think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very tru I'm sure everyone has some sort of scar on there body... Just I've seen some heartless profiles on here and does make me wonder what people really do think "
Sorry just checked your pictures ?
Stunning should be the words !
Not oh look a stretch mark lol |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"What's ur honest opinions on stretch marks? No nasty comments please. "
I'll be honest and say that I don't particularly like mine. But not much you can do about them....
I think we notice our own far more than anyone else does.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What's ur honest opinions on stretch marks? No nasty comments please.
I'll be honest and say that I don't particularly like mine. But not much you can do about them....
I think we notice our own far more than anyone else does. "
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Yeah I think your right. & I wouldn't change them there my tiger stripes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's ur honest opinions on stretch marks? No nasty comments please.
I'll be honest and say that I don't particularly like mine. But not much you can do about them....
I think we notice our own far more than anyone else does. .
Yeah I think your right. & I wouldn't change them there my tiger stripes "
Great description  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No one I've met has every made nasty comments about my stretch marks than goodness however I am now worried about the massive scar I have on my knee following an opertion, I am not so sure people will still want to meet me now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people look better without them but quite a lot of people have them no point in worrying about things you cant change. iv met men who have skin blemishes and inperfections most people have them when they get older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have stretchmarks and scars I used to hate them but they are part of me no one has ever said anything nasty ( apart from late hubby but that was his problem)"
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By *entkevMan
over a year ago
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Although they are a natural body happening that you shouldn't worry about the fact is that if you have a hang up... you have a hang up.
And no matter what other people say its whats in your head that needs correcting not whats visible.
I have a huge hang up about my vitiligo but I'm trying not to let it beat me. Hence attending a naturist club. Most people are bloody fantastic which helps, and a few are just ignorant idiots.
Love your body... its the only one you're getting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one I've met has every made nasty comments about my stretch marks than goodness however I am now worried about the massive scar I have on my knee following an opertion, I am not so sure people will still want to meet me now "
Sorry you feel that way but just to let you know it wouldn't bother me one iota. And I'm sure there's plenty of others on here that would say the same X |
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I have them all over from an early age from growing to quickly.. I also have a lot of scars but fuck it they are just me!
The Rock has stretch marks so if someone as hot and buff as him can pull them off anyone can |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one I've met has every made nasty comments about my stretch marks than goodness however I am now worried about the massive scar I have on my knee following an opertion, I am not so sure people will still want to meet me now
Sorry you feel that way but just to let you know it wouldn't bother me one iota. And I'm sure there's plenty of others on here that would say the same X "
Thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have tons of visible stretch marks, I'd rather they weren't there, but they don't particularly bother me, also don't notice them on others and it wouldn't make the slightest difference if I did, not a single person has ever commented on mine
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's ur honest opinions on stretch marks? No nasty comments please. "
Some like some don't some are hardly noticeable and some pretty bad I don't see any issue in people liking them or any issue in people not liking them I do have to ask why some try to force people to like them by insinuating derogatory comments about people who don't that's just plain childish. |
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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago
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A year ago I was conscious of my stretch marks but met someone who changed all that. With him I felt sexy and finally became comfortable with my body.Now I have accepted they are part of my past, which I wouldn't want to change. |
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I shoot ladies 40 plus for various sites/mags etc and 90% of the ladies have stretch marks, its a normal and very natural thing to have be it having babies or losing weight.
Guys couples honestly don't take any notice and if you get the few shallows ones that do they aren't worth meeting anyway.
Don't ever feel embarrassed as us guys love you ladies just the way you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shoot ladies 40 plus for various sites/mags etc and 90% of the ladies have stretch marks, its a normal and very natural thing to have be it having babies or losing weight.
Guys couples honestly don't take any notice and if you get the few shallows ones that do they aren't worth meeting anyway.
Don't ever feel embarrassed as us guys love you ladies just the way you are. "
That's a little patroniseing can't people have various reasons for meeting or not. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"A year ago I was conscious of my stretch marks but met someone who changed all that. With him I felt sexy and finally became comfortable with my body.Now I have accepted they are part of my past, which I wouldn't want to change. "
So did Shirley Valentine x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every stretch mark every scar every blemish on our skin is the history of our life. If people don't like them, they are the ones missing out on a chapter that's yet to be written |
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"I shoot ladies 40 plus for various sites/mags etc and 90% of the ladies have stretch marks, its a normal and very natural thing to have be it having babies or losing weight.
Guys couples honestly don't take any notice and if you get the few shallows ones that do they aren't worth meeting anyway.
Don't ever feel embarrassed as us guys love you ladies just the way you are.
That's a little patroniseing can't people have various reasons for meeting or not."
They can if they dont like you as a person or you are not the right age size colour etc, if they are petty over stretch marks then they are not worth meeting.
My two pennies worth i know but i think most people here on Fab have the same views...well except for the odd few that is. |
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"I think people look better without them but quite a lot of people have them no point in worrying about things you cant change. iv met men who have skin blemishes and inperfections most people have them when they get older."
Men get stretch marks too. |
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By *4nc3rCouple
over a year ago
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I love seeing people that embrace them.
I'm not saying they look good particularly, but I'd rather see someone who accepts their flaws and gets on with it than someone who is constantly worrying about it. Confidence is sexy
A few weeks ago we were down the beach and a new mum n her partner were walking along, she had very red tiger stripes but was wearing a crop top and shorts like nothing was wrong - all I could see was my hubby smiling when I asked him why he just said "because it's great that she doesn't hide them when most girls would"
Personally I have quite a few since I had two kids, I figured honesty is best policy so I posted a photo that shows my figure and my marks so if anyone doesn't like me they need not contact me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love seeing people that embrace them.
I'm not saying they look good particularly, but I'd rather see someone who accepts their flaws and gets on with it than someone who is constantly worrying about it. Confidence is sexy
A few weeks ago we were down the beach and a new mum n her partner were walking along, she had very red tiger stripes but was wearing a crop top and shorts like nothing was wrong - all I could see was my hubby smiling when I asked him why he just said "because it's great that she doesn't hide them when most girls would"
Personally I have quite a few since I had two kids, I figured honesty is best policy so I posted a photo that shows my figure and my marks so if anyone doesn't like me they need not contact me "
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im not put off by stretch marks at all.. they are not some ugly disfigurement .. just the body adjusting to the sudden demands of child bearing .. so bring on the lovely fecund tiger stripes .. and the baby bearing bellies .. just part of life and proud motherhood |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive got some through weight training. they look horrible when they are fresh but once they fade its not so bad.
my half sleeve i eventually get will cover mines |
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"im not put off by stretch marks at all.. they are not some ugly disfigurement .. just the body adjusting to the sudden demands of child bearing .. so bring on the lovely fecund tiger stripes .. and the baby bearing bellies .. just part of life and proud motherhood "
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The mrs dosnt like hers but I kinda like hers. If other people have then they don't bother us. Everyone can have/get them. Male and female, just the human body isn't it. And hey we are more interested in your mind and what's between your legs :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just one of those things. They happen to the best of bodies. If people have a problem with something like that, they aren't worth meeting anyway. "
if people have a problem with stretch mark they wont be meeting many people |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's ur honest opinions on stretch marks? No nasty comments please. "
After checking out your pics to see what the fuss was all about ... Not a stretch mark in sight !!! In fact your pretty FAF!!
There's a million lady's out there who would love your figure/shape/looks
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On the grand whole scale if things and when thought of in a rational mind, a stretch mark or two are actually way down on my list of things to concern myself about.... Think we all are guilty of worrying about stuff that actually others see no problem in.... Be Happy in your skin, you got it for life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the grand whole scale if things and when thought of in a rational mind, a stretch mark or two are actually way down on my list of things to concern myself about.... Think we all are guilty of worrying about stuff that actually others see no problem in.... Be Happy in your skin, you got it for life "
That's true it probably stresses us out far more than others. |
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