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Ladies, the LEAST attractive thing guys do, that you encounter often?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Obviously I don't mean a guy has gone into a muddy field full of cow pats and rolled around prior to you meeting them, by 'often', I mean as in, something that's actually fairly common amongst males, either in the things they do or the way they act, that you find particularly unappealing or even repulsive? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Lying, even the slightest whiff of bullshit - huge turn off.
Any lack of hygiene of course
And lack of awareness.
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 and too many compliments.. Get your head out my arse until i ask for it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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men who brag and boast about how young they look for their age, how big their cock is and how good they are in bed.
I don't know if its fairly common though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cleanliness.
Expecting you to want to send pics for their personal "Wank bank"
When you have been polite and said a thanks, but no thanks, getting abusive because they can't get their own way.
Men who think degrading a woman and lack of respect for a women is a turn on.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Suck my tongue.
That's usually the ace up my sleeve!
At least you're warned for when I hit you over your head "
Thanks, it'll be nice to not have to wear a helmet to a meet for once. |
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"Being on their mobiles during meets
huge turn off
One young man actually verified me half way through a meet, haha, I was fairly speechless!
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half way through a meet? If that had been me it would of been the end of the meet |
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"Being on their mobiles during meets
huge turn off
One young man actually verified me half way through a meet, haha, I was fairly speechless!
omg incredible "
Lol, he couldn't wait to say he was having a great time apparently! He wrote a 'proper' one later as well, but I preferred the first actually, 'hot off the press' you could say, hahaha!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being on their mobiles during meets
huge turn off"
Not just men do this - We went to a party / MMMMMFF and all the other woman did was send text and play phone games while we chatted. What a miserable bitch lol
Never met her again thank god and put us off a ruturn meet as she was also invited |
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1)Leaving sock on when every thing elas is off
2) the I really want more than a fuck , why lie ! I am not desperate to date any one and am happy to just have fun , so stop talking shit
3) the over complimenting , sorry but have heard it all be fore and it's boring havering smoke blown up my ass , then once we have met and had fun you bugger off
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By *ybMan
over a year ago
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"Lying, even the slightest whiff of bullshit - huge turn off.
Any lack of hygiene of course
And lack of awareness.
and too many compliments.. Get your head out my arse until i ask for it "
Oh my.... Anywhichway you do have a fantastic arse 
Some of us do read profiles
Mx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In general, from having lived with men, belching, farting, etc all night is not conducive to me seeing you in a sexy light. So don't be surprised when I'm not in the mood after you've been serenading your sports match. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being on their mobiles during meets
huge turn off
One young man actually verified me half way through a meet, haha, I was fairly speechless!
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i met a guy once and he sat talking to another women off here on his phone during our meet, the biggest piss take was he called her, you can talk on the phone anytime why would you arrange a meet with someone and then call someone else instead of talking to them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dishonesty.
No foreplay.
Sex chats in messages before we've met.
Be impatient.
Suck my tongue. "
i hate the tongue sucking thing and guys who lick my face, makes me cringe |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being on their mobiles during meets
huge turn off
One young man actually verified me half way through a meet, haha, I was fairly speechless!
i met a guy once and he sat talking to another women off here on his phone during our meet, the biggest piss take was he called her, you can talk on the phone anytime why would you arrange a meet with someone and then call someone else instead of talking to them "
That's the height of ignorance. What a tool! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like my tongue sucked; one of my regular partners bites it too. I can't think of anything that men do to put ne off during a meet. I suppose the trying to force me to squirt/gush/piss the bed is a contender but only a few have done it. Before meeting,at the chatting stage it's asking when I'm free after a couple of messages |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smelly bits *retch*
The amount of men who have clearly washed their cock but forgotten to give their balls the same treatment "
That happened to new too. I smelt his cock and told him it stunk and I wasn't going anywhere near it. He told me had had a wank before he left the house!! Smelt like he had been fucking a bag of prawns to me x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Smelly bits *retch*
The amount of men who have clearly washed their cock but forgotten to give their balls the same treatment
That happened to new too. I smelt his cock and told him it stunk and I wasn't going anywhere near it. He told me had had a wank before he left the house!! Smelt like he had been fucking a bag of prawns to me x"
Haha I actually just burst out in laughter from reading that, haha brilliant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One thing that happens to me once which put stop to the meet was a guy who i had arranged to meet, was working in the area and staying in a hotel in Birmingham, the arrangement was to have a drink in the bar downstairs and see how things went
anyhoo
i got there and called him and he gave me his room number and told me to come up, i said id rather meet him down here and he said he had just had a shower and couldn't be bothered going to the bar he would sooner have a drink and chat in the room
so i hung up and started walking back to the train station, 10 mins later he calls asking where i am so i said i was going back home, i said i wasn't comfy going straight to the room and you wouldn't come down so I've gone
really put me off that id made the effort to get a train and walk through Birmingham at night yet walking to the bar in a hotel he was in anyway was to much trouble  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Smelly bits *retch*
The amount of men who have clearly washed their cock but forgotten to give their balls the same treatment
That happened to new too. I smelt his cock and told him it stunk and I wasn't going anywhere near it. He told me had had a wank before he left the house!! Smelt like he had been fucking a bag of prawns to me x"
Adds a whole new meaning to prawn cocktail.....
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"Presumptions. A huge turn off. "
Not trimming down below.... I don't expect shaved(though that's nice) however neat and tidy all men should be......
Finally some just can't shut up........ Oops shutting up now x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Presumptions. A huge turn off.
Not trimming down below.... I don't expect shaved(though that's nice) however neat and tidy all men should be......
Finally some just can't shut up........ Oops shutting up now x "
Ooh yes, a running commentary whilst playing is a big turn off for me. I know what you're doing, I don't need a blow by blow account  Is that something men find too? Women who insist on chattering throughout? I've usually got my mouthful & it's plain rude to talk then  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking "
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
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Yayyyyy - sucking tongues is back on the agenda!!!
Some girls like it, some girls don't. How are we poor men supposed to know who likes what? Guess I'll have to keep trying it. And stop when she starts to gag!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
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Talking as you're fucking is good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yayyyyy - sucking tongues is back on the agenda!!!
Some girls like it, some girls don't. How are we poor men supposed to know who likes what? Guess I'll have to keep trying it. And stop when she starts to gag!!"
Communication. If a man does something I don't like I tell him and I would hope he would tell me too |
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"Smelly bits *retch*
The amount of men who have clearly washed their cock but forgotten to give their balls the same treatment
That happened to new too. I smelt his cock and told him it stunk and I wasn't going anywhere near it. He told me had had a wank before he left the house!! Smelt like he had been fucking a bag of prawns to me x
Adds a whole new meaning to prawn cocktail.....
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
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makes note to remember to tell you off! |
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Getting sexual on the phone before a meet. And then being all hype and not able to deliver much at all in reality. Suddenly grabbing my tongue with their vice like teeth and sucking like a dyson on steroids. My tongue has to be checked into A&E for a week to recover, and I probably dont even get my own back. Arriving with fumigation strength levels of cologne etc on - even worse if sprayed on crotch area, makes me gag. Not holding much eye contact is a turn off - shy is ok, but someone who cannot look me in my beautiful eyes is an issue. Or someone who stares like Hannibal Lector, as if ready to dismember me - more at clubs possibly. The repeated surging of head down - there is a way to do this helpfully or with the right finesse thats horny, but some heavy handed shoving is nothing but insensitive and ungainly. Arriving with too little time is an issue, as it stresses the meet. Repeated checking of phones is a turn off - stop it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
Talking as you're fucking is good "
So, is it going to be the right time for me to ask how your day went whilst staring in to your eyes?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
makes note to remember to tell you off! "
There's other ways of shutting me up.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Giving out a load of macho bravado which completely turns me off
Everything else is by the by
Clean & nice smelling
Well dressed
Shaven
Tactile
Kissable
Fuckable
Don't meet that criteria then they shouldn't be swinging |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Dishonesty.
No foreplay.
Sex chats in messages before we've met.
Be impatient.
Suck my tongue.
i hate the tongue sucking thing and guys who lick my face, makes me cringe "
Wait......
Guys who lick your face?
Hahahaha |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Dishonesty.
No foreplay.
Sex chats in messages before we've met.
Be impatient.
Suck my tongue.
i hate the tongue sucking thing and guys who lick my face, makes me cringe
Wait......
Guys who lick your face?
Hahahaha"
I've had guys lick my eyelids during sex before!
Ewwwwww! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men who stand with their hands on their hips while your sucking their knob.....i REALLY hate that "
Yes, that too. And men who make no noise whatsoever whilst receiving a bj. I mean at least moan a bit fgs, I like to know I'm having some effect.... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
makes note to remember to tell you off!
There's other ways of shutting me up.
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Chicken
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"Dishonesty.
No foreplay.
Sex chats in messages before we've met.
Be impatient.
Suck my tongue.
i hate the tongue sucking thing and guys who lick my face, makes me cringe
Wait......
Guys who lick your face?
Hahahaha
I've had guys lick my eyelids during sex before!
Ewwwwww!"
Hahah
Its like crufts round here... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dishonesty.
No foreplay.
Sex chats in messages before we've met.
Be impatient.
Suck my tongue.
i hate the tongue sucking thing and guys who lick my face, makes me cringe
Wait......
Guys who lick your face?
Hahahaha"
yep had it a few times
guys licking my face, lips, ears etc
its like taking my Labrador to bed ffs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"men who brag and boast about how young they look for their age, how big their cock is and how good they are in bed.
I don't know if its fairly common though."
Very rare I would say because there are very few men that look as young as me at my age, have a 12"dick and can go all night. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
Talking as you're fucking is good
So, is it going to be the right time for me to ask how your day went whilst staring in to your eyes?
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Lol better than asking if I'm ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
Talking as you're fucking is good
So, is it going to be the right time for me to ask how your day went whilst staring in to your eyes?
Lol better than asking if I'm ok "
There's no right answer to that question if i ask that then.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who talk to much during sex, keeps asking incessantly if it feels good, if you want their cock etc
I like talking
...the amount of times they tell me 'Pops. Just shut up and fuck me will ya!'. Makes a meet complete haha
makes note to remember to tell you off!
There's other ways of shutting me up.
Chicken
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...won't last for long.
And what??!! Why on earth are people licking each other's faces? Is he licking his cum off your face? Now, that's kinky though
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Smelly bits *retch*
The amount of men who have clearly washed their cock but forgotten to give their balls the same treatment
That happened to new too. I smelt his cock and told him it stunk and I wasn't going anywhere near it. He told me had had a wank before he left the house!! Smelt like he had been fucking a bag of prawns to me x"
I feel sick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When they slurp their tea on a social. Instant turn off
Where do you stand on dunking our biscuits?"
I don't mind dunking. Just not noisy drinkers/eaters  |
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Having messaged and met quite a few ladies, I get the feeling that the general selfishness of men on here is all pervading.
All the things so far point to an egocentric bias that makes men so unaware of their foibles. Sometimes even the ladies don't realise the extent to which they are taken for granted. I met one lady who, after a year on here, couldnt remember the last time she had an orgasm
She just accepted it as a part of Fab !
A gentlemanly outlook would do men no harm at all.
Thank God I am perfect though |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having messaged and met quite a few ladies, I get the feeling that the general selfishness of men on here is all pervading.
All the things so far point to an egocentric bias that makes men so unaware of their foibles. Sometimes even the ladies don't realise the extent to which they are taken for granted. I met one lady who, after a year on here, couldnt remember the last time she had an orgasm
She just accepted it as a part of Fab !
A gentlemanly outlook would do men no harm at all.
Thank God I am perfect though "
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