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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just need some advice after a nasty message earlier.
A new member contacted me, complaining I shouldn't be on here if i wasn't meeting anyone new. I shouldn't have to explain myself but found I did. He got very abusive, in the end calling me fat old ugly, I need to go to a gym etc...
I did report him but he sent a final message saying, oh my god I see you in the shop, we live in the same village!! Then promptly delegated his account.
Do you think he really does know me and what are the chances he will tell people???
Thank you for any help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm delegating responsibility to a couple of heavies to go and knock on his door, sounds about right 
I reckon he's just a wind up merchant, try not to worry about it  |
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Yes... no... may be... yes... no... I have no idea.
But I trust you have learnt to just ignore such things early on before they get under your skin..... and leave you looking over your should for the foreseeable future. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Nah, he was just being mean knowing you would worry.
Although if you see anyone looking at you knowingly you'll know its him and can knee him in the nads for being a complete berk. |
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Some men can get very defensive when facing rejection!
Its very hard not to take it personally as we are still humans and have feelings but be safe in the knowledge he is probably ugly with a tiny dick which is why he has to attack you!
Even if he does live in the same village should he tell anyone he outs himself as being/been on it.. Or just say he is unhinged and crazy to people and you think he may need sectioning x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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U dont need to explain to anyone why or what your doing or not doing...You've maybe knocked him back and hes pissed about it lol......try not let it bother you tho.....x |
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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago
Manchester and that's all you need to know |
"Just need some advice after a nasty message earlier.
A new member contacted me, complaining I shouldn't be on here if i wasn't meeting anyone new. I shouldn't have to explain myself but found I did. He got very abusive, in the end calling me fat old ugly, I need to go to a gym etc...
I did report him but he sent a final message saying, oh my god I see you in the shop, we live in the same village!! Then promptly delegated his account.
Do you think he really does know me and what are the chances he will tell people???
Thank you for any help "
Hun what that person do was out of order. Going forward report, block, delete.
He doesn't know you....How could he when he never saw your face. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
Did you have face pics on your account? If so, I'd maybe make them private for a while, if not, forget about it, there's probably no way he could know you. Don't ever explain yourself any further than you're comfortable with and at first sign of arsiness, block the buggers |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I meant face, sorry auto text.
Thank you for the advice, I think it's best to put it out of my mind, I just worry as I work with kids and can't have my private life come out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just need some advice after a nasty message earlier.
A new member contacted me, complaining I shouldn't be on here if i wasn't meeting anyone new. I shouldn't have to explain myself but found I did. He got very abusive, in the end calling me fat old ugly, I need to go to a gym etc...
I did report him but he sent a final message saying, oh my god I see you in the shop, we live in the same village!! Then promptly delegated his account.
Do you think he really does know me and what are the chances he will tell people???
Thank you for any help "
Who knows I would have thought he would have said he knew you if he did. We get lots of threads on here from people saying they recognise people and most are excited and intent on saying hello not saying people shouldn't be here so its more than likely he doesn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Report at the first sign of abuse and block, keep your face pics private and don't put key personal details on your profile.
Trolls want one thing, to be in control. They set out to make you doubtful and paranoid, so the important thing is to be in control of your own matters and the situation at hand, even if it just means blocking.
Women seem to have that as a full-time job here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meant deleted
did he see a face pic of you ?
Only the bottom half I didn't have any place pics on show "
Well if you walk around topless in the village i wouldnt worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless you go to the shop with your boobs out (you're only public pic... Which can still be seen even though you're hidden) I wouldn't worry too much. Sounds like he was just being a twat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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what a sad sad little man... I suspect behind the keyboard Don Juan's like himself will be back here, with a different profile.
If he happens to live near you, he probably doesn't have the nerve to front up to you. Cowardly, trollish behavior. I doub't he would follow up on his threat xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meant deleted
did he see a face pic of you ?
Only the bottom half I didn't have any place pics on show Well unless you walk around topless in the village i wouldnt worry about it"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Unless you go to the shop with your boobs out (you're only public pic... Which can still be seen even though you're hidden) I wouldn't worry too much. Sounds like he was just being a twat "
I feel happy enough to un hide now, just only the 1 pic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meant deleted
did he see a face pic of you ?
Only the bottom half I didn't have any place pics on show Well if you walk around topless in the village i wouldnt worry about it"
I'm not that brave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meant deleted
did he see a face pic of you ?
Only the bottom half I didn't have any place pics on show Well if you walk around topless in the village i wouldnt worry about it
I'm not that brave "
you should be. Im licking my lips. You have a fine pair  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meant deleted
did he see a face pic of you ?
Only the bottom half I didn't have any place pics on show Well if you walk around topless in the village i wouldnt worry about it
I'm not that brave you should be. Im licking my lips. You have a fine pair "
Blush... Why thank you, your a little hottie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I meant deleted
did he see a face pic of you ?
Only the bottom half I didn't have any place pics on show Well if you walk around topless in the village i wouldnt worry about it
I'm not that brave you should be. Im licking my lips. You have a fine pair
Blush... Why thank you, your a little hottie "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I meant deleted
did he see a face pic of you ?
Only the bottom half I didn't have any place pics on show Well if you walk around topless in the village i wouldnt worry about it
I'm not that brave you should be. Im licking my lips. You have a fine pair
Blush... Why thank you, your a little hottie "
Hee hee |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Just need some advice after a nasty message earlier.
A new member contacted me, complaining I shouldn't be on here if i wasn't meeting anyone new. I shouldn't have to explain myself but found I did. He got very abusive, in the end calling me fat old ugly, I need to go to a gym etc...
I did report him but he sent a final message saying, oh my god I see you in the shop, we live in the same village!! Then promptly delegated his account.
Do you think he really does know me and what are the chances he will tell people???
Thank you for any help "
He's probably trawling sites to abuse women on. In the old days he would be randomly phoning women to abuse. He's a sad little misogynist who only wants to exert power over women because he's either impotent or has a tiny 'shroom.
Forget and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No he don't op, he is just trolling you, click on the message and click block so he cant reply more.
He deleted his account straight after "
Ah yes he did there, that's good he left to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just need some advice after a nasty message earlier.
A new member contacted me, complaining I shouldn't be on here if i wasn't meeting anyone new. I shouldn't have to explain myself but found I did. He got very abusive, in the end calling me fat old ugly, I need to go to a gym etc...
I did report him but he sent a final message saying, oh my god I see you in the shop, we live in the same village!! Then promptly delegated his account.
Do you think he really does know me and what are the chances he will tell people???
Thank you for any help
He's probably trawling sites to abuse women on. In the old days he would be randomly phoning women to abuse. He's a sad little misogynist who only wants to exert power over women because he's either impotent or has a tiny 'shroom.
Forget and move on."
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"I did report, and he deleted his account before I could block, he had only joined today too. "
As you don't have face picture showing, ignore his stupidity, block new members, maybe single guys too, and choose those you wish to message, good luck  |
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"It might be worth changing your location to something slightly less specific
That's a really good idea thank you x"
If I can get YeOldeWitchDoc to budge over a bit, there should be room in Cloud Cuckoo Land   |
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