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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm a woman who loves to look good for a meet. Nails, lashes, hair, tan etc....this is my opinion of me being as perfect as I can, obviously this varies depending on the woman.

Is this something men actually appreciate and like or they just looking for anyone who'll turn up

pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sat in front of a man Saturday night, looked him in they eye, crossed my legs, flashing my stockings, it worked.

Her

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

No man has ever got that from me, I make myself look nice but I certainly wouldn't go over the top, plus it wouldn't last 5 minutes with my shagging anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I sat in front of a man Saturday night, looked him in they eye, crossed my legs, flashing my stockings, it worked.

Her"

I bet it would....lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met guys who have told me they get turned off by some pictures ie chipped nail varnish, non matching undies etc so I'm guessing they would also be turned off if a woman turned up without making a bit of an effort. I always make an effort .... not just for the guy but because it makes me feel sexy. I'm sure there are plenty of men that would just be happy you turned up though.

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By *ittykate84Woman over a year ago

CHESTER

I will do makeup and shower etc and depending on what time it is where we are going will dress sexy, sometimes they get jeans and tshirt as i know it will be off so quick!

Hair i have learnt that usually its easier to put it up as it ends up being a sweaty tangled mess otherwise!

Nails, lashes and tan.. Well nails tend to be painted most of the time anyway, lashes nah mascara for me (waterproof) id be mortified if one came off.. Tan nope i like pale and interesting plus fake tan smells horrible i heave whenever i smell my mates

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've met guys who have told me they get turned off by some pictures ie chipped nail varnish, non matching undies etc so I'm guessing they would also be turned off if a woman turned up without making a bit of an effort. I always make an effort .... not just for the guy but because it makes me feel sexy. I'm sure there are plenty of men that would just be happy you turned up though."

Totally agree that I do it for me to make me feel sexy....thus acting sexy (or my version of it anyway

lol)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this something men actually appreciate and like or they just looking for anyone who'll turn up

pmsl xx"

Every time! Sometines meeting with an old friend, I get them as I am, but nothing makes a man feel special than seeing a lady who wants too look their best for him!

before I get accused of being superficial, it isn't about the look, it is about the effort required. When I get the chance, I like to dress smartly, splash of Hugo Boss, good cufflinks and polished shoes. If you can't put effort in before the bedroom, how much effort will someone put in later...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When I get the chance, I like to dress smartly, splash of Hugo Boss, good cufflinks and polished shoes. If you can't put effort in before the bedroom, how much effort will someone put in later...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will do makeup and shower etc and depending on what time it is where we are going will dress sexy, sometimes they get jeans and tshirt as i know it will be off so quick!

Hair i have learnt that usually its easier to put it up as it ends up being a sweaty tangled mess otherwise!

Yeah every woman / mans opinion of perfection and what they think is sexy is different and I totally agree. Just wondering whether an effort whatever that may be is appreciated or whether they think you'll be a sweaty mess when you leave anyway so makes no difference! Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a woman who loves to look good for a meet. Nails, lashes, hair, tan etc....this is my opinion of me being as perfect as I can, obviously this varies depending on the woman.

Is this something men actually appreciate and like or they just looking for anyone who'll turn up

pmsl xx"

Hell yes she has to look the part..me personally I notice everything. .teeth, nails and hair are what I notice first..then dress sense etc etc

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

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I always make an effort for a meet... But I do make an effort to look and feel good all the time.... Not a time consuming effort but I do feel good if I think I look good.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a woman who loves to look good for a meet. Nails, lashes, hair, tan etc....this is my opinion of me being as perfect as I can, obviously this varies depending on the woman.

Is this something men actually appreciate and like or they just looking for anyone who'll turn up

pmsl xx"

Very much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Guys get me as i come, I'm always clean, i wear a bit of make up but tend to stick to natural colours, i don't like bright make up, i never wear false lashes or nails though, to be honest i don't like them and wouldn't wear them because i thought a guy may like me more

ive never had a problem, ive had a few tell me they prefer the more natural look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

before I get accused of being superficial, it isn't about the look, it is about the effort required."

Couldn't agree more with that.

And I expect the same to be expected of me - though I have to admit that I don't usually do my nails specially

I like to dress smartly and look like I've made an effort.

I can't imagine I would get very far if I rolled up in T-shirt, Jeans and trainers - at least not unless it was with someone I knew very well.

But then, even then, I generally like to make the effort.

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By *opsy RogersWoman over a year ago

London

Do having false nails, eyelashes and a tan equate to making an effort? Does not having those things mean lazyness?

I have never and will never use any one of those things. I will meet looking good, clean and appealing though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

before I get accused of being superficial, it isn't about the look, it is about the effort required.

Couldn't agree more with that.

And I expect the same to be expected of me - though I have to admit that I don't usually do my nails specially

I like to dress smartly and look like I've made an effort.

I can't imagine I would get very far if I rolled up in T-shirt, Jeans and trainers - at least not unless it was with someone I knew very well.

But then, even then, I generally like to make the effort."

Oooo nice clean cut nails are important on a man you shouldn't neglect them, although I'd stay away from the passion pink and sultry reds they might not compliment your skin tone!

lol

Nothing wrong with a man in jeans as long as they're not the one he wears for work. Love a sexy arse in a nice pair of jeans. Also love a man in a suit but I'm quite specific when it come to this look

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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clean, tidy and & comfortable does me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do having false nails, eyelashes and a tan equate to making an effort? Does not having those things mean lazyness?

I have never and will never use any one of those things. I will meet looking good, clean and appealing though."

Think its a person preference which everyone is entitled to, definitely not lazy though as it can take many man hours to achieve....and believe me I need it

haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will do makeup and shower etc and depending on what time it is where we are going will dress sexy, sometimes they get jeans and tshirt as i know it will be off so quick!

Hair i have learnt that usually its easier to put it up as it ends up being a sweaty tangled mess otherwise!

this!

I hate fake tan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do make an effort with my appearance for meets,the same as I do if I was going out with friends except with less clothing

I don't have anything false though incase something falls off halfway through the night

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I will do makeup and shower etc and depending on what time it is where we are going will dress sexy, sometimes they get jeans and tshirt as i know it will be off so quick!

Hair i have learnt that usually its easier to put it up as it ends up being a sweaty tangled mess otherwise!

this!

I hate fake tan"

It does stink and lots awful coming off

but there's lots of new ones on the market that are getting better. And the trick is not to meet on the day u apply or you'll leave streaky and a mess on the sheets

haha

I tend to go abroad 6 times a year so like to keep the tan topped up naturally, although must admit I'm no bronzed beauty just a light olive colour....usually get mistaken for Spanish! And before everyone starts iI don't sunbathe and use a high factor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For a night out with the ladies I can spend hours getting ready if I'm having a shower, making myself hair free. Doing my makeup, hair, nails and then eyelashes too. I wouldn't spend this long getting ready for a meet because I would want a social first and this would be brief (maybe an hour talking) and no play so I think it's way to much time to be spent on a social, most people will look great just doing what they would do every day. Normal makeup and casual clothes

I may get dressed up a little more for a proper (play) meet but I definitely wouldn't do false nails and eyelashes, fake tan and curling my hair. I honestly don't think any of the men will care about that once your having sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will do makeup and shower etc and depending on what time it is where we are going will dress sexy, sometimes they get jeans and tshirt as i know it will be off so quick!

Hair i have learnt that usually its easier to put it up as it ends up being a sweaty tangled mess otherwise!

this!

I hate fake tan"

I quite like fake tan and nails and hair and eyelashes. To me, it can look really nice together with good dress sense and style

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I do make an effort with my appearance for meets,the same as I do if I was going out with friends except with less clothing

I don't have anything false though incase something falls off halfway through the night

Haha I worry with my lashes sometimes everything else is my own so no worries. I'm the same, make the same effort as with friends...unfortunately thus isn't enough lately. Tend to be more camping in muddy fields haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do having false nails, eyelashes and a tan equate to making an effort? Does not having those things mean lazyness?"

Absolutely NOT!!!

Regardless of nails, makeup etc, one can usually tell if someone has made an effort or not by their overall appearance.

Personally i'm not a big fan of the fake tan - on the ladies. I mean, why?

Fake nails. Fake eyelashes. Why do some of you women do these things to yourselves?

Do you really think we men are attracted by such things?

I suppose we could turn the question around. Are you ladies impressed by a flash car? - Of course, there's another thread on that subject and the answer is clear - No. Just be yourself.

Oooo nice clean cut nails are important on a man you shouldn't neglect them, although I'd stay away from the passion pink and sultry reds they might not compliment your skin tone!

lol

My comment was rather tongue in cheek.

I don't neglect my nails.

I have to keep them trimmed short for playing guitar.

Personally I'm not a big fan of wearing a suit anymore. Just find them uncomfortable - really, really gone off ties.

Not entirely sure i've really ever suited a suit anyway.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I have to make a big effort, otherwise I'd look really daft, as opposed to merely daft.

It's also why I turn people down who when they discover I'm off to a TG Event near them and they ask if I want to pop into theirs on the way for a quick shag. I'd hate to appear in public post shag

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By *emmefataleWoman over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I don't know one guy who doesn't appreciate the effort women they meet make.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Do having false nails, eyelashes and a tan equate to making an effort? Does not having those things mean lazyness?

Absolutely NOT!!!

Regardless of nails, makeup etc, one can usually tell if someone has made an effort or not by their overall appearance.

Personally i'm not a big fan of the fake tan - on the ladies. I mean, why?

Fake nails. Fake eyelashes. Why do some of you women do these things to yourselves?

Do you really think we men are attracted by such things?

I suppose we could turn the question around. Are you ladies impressed by a flash car? - Of course, there's another thread on that subject and the answer is clear - No. Just be yourself.

Oooo nice clean cut nails are important on a man you shouldn't neglect them, although I'd stay away from the passion pink and sultry reds they might not compliment your skin tone!

lol

My comment was rather tongue in cheek.

I don't neglect my nails.

I have to keep them trimmed short for playing guitar.

Personally I'm not a big fan of wearing a suit anymore. Just find them uncomfortable - really, really gone off ties.

Not entirely sure i've really ever suited a suit anyway.

Mine was also tongue in cheek

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I have to make a big effort, otherwise I'd look really daft, as opposed to merely daft.

It's also why I turn people down who when they discover I'm off to a TG Event near them and they ask if I want to pop into theirs on the way for a quick shag. I'd hate to appear in public post shag

Haha yeah I don't think the post shagged look is a good look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No man has ever got that from me, I make myself look nice but I certainly wouldn't go over the top, plus it wouldn't last 5 minutes with my shagging anyway"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Can I clarify this wasn't about do you like the way I choose to look. Merely do men like it when women turn up looking their best...what you may consider that to be us your opinion.

I often get guys asking to meet me after work, or worse the gym!!! Its not nice and its not pretty lol....I'm not one if these pre Madonnas who get made up to go to the gym and stand on the treadmill texting!! I sweat, and am bright red with mad hair!! My point being do men care or as long as its a shag they don't care!?

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I won't do spur of the moment meets because I like time to get ready. I usually need to do my nails for a meet and that takes at least a couple of hours because the varnish has to dry.

I get a fair few guys wanting immediate meets because they're horny, trying to convince me they don't care what I look like, (obviously I'd be clean). They don't get that I want to have time to make sure I am reasonably presented.

I wouldn't do fake tan or lashes for a meet but I do like some time to prepare. That's for me more than for my meet though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't know one guy who doesn't appreciate the effort women they meet make."

I would also think this is true but time and time again I say I can't meet I don't look good, yet they insist they don't care and try to persuade me to meet.

Maybe they're aren't superficial and appreciate a woman warts and all, I'll like to believe this theory anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I won't do spur of the moment meets because I like time to get ready. I usually need to do my nails for a meet and that takes at least a couple of hours because the varnish has to dry.

I wouldn't do fake tan or lashes for a meet but I do like some time to prepare. That's for me more than for my meet though."

Yeah appreciate everyone likes different things

and definitely has to be for u not him, feel sexy= act sexy

its my only excuse to get done up these days though lol. Daily I am just clean and presentable, but not what I would consider sexy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well as a guy I always make a effort to look my best.shaven and smelling good.

Nice clothes and polished shoes.

You never get a second chance to make a good first impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

After a meet I look like shit and have even been asked what happened to me was I caught in the rain...lol. I don't care though as long as I feel good walking in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind how they look my self as they turn up lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't mind how they look my self as they turn up lol."

Fair point.

No good them looking fantastic if they don't turn up, lol

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By *rtemisiaWoman over a year ago

Norwich

Light make up and a clean, moisturised body is what I go for. Hair washed and loose although I may take a band to tie it back for when it gets that crazy rag doll sex hair look! If I meet out, I look nice. If I meet in, I'm generally naked from the get go.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I won't do spur of the moment meets because I like time to get ready. I usually need to do my nails for a meet and that takes at least a couple of hours because the varnish has to dry.

I wouldn't do fake tan or lashes for a meet but I do like some time to prepare. That's for me more than for my meet though.

Yeah appreciate everyone likes different things

and definitely has to be for u not him, feel sexy= act sexy

its my only excuse to get done up these days though lol. Daily I am just clean and presentable, but not what I would consider sexy

If you took ages to get ready but the guy turned up and had obviously made no effort, what would you do? x

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By *edangel_2013Woman over a year ago

southend

I will shower, smell nice and dress appropriately for me and the environment I am going to.

I don't do false nails, tan, eye-lashes or boobs. I meet as me, not some media acceptable version of me.

If I am meeting for a social in a pub, I will wear jeans and a nice top, I'm not going to dress as a Saturday night in a club, what would be the point?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I dress how I want to dress, I wear my make up how I want to wear it and I smell how I want to smell (usually smell of Chanel) because I want to do it for me....not for a man. I love to look and dress nice because then I feel fantastic...

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By *omMLMan over a year ago

The Centre of the Universe

Us guys appreciate the effort you ladies put into getting ready for a meet. Even if you do it for yourself it makes us feel good.

I put effort into looking good for a meet as I'm sure most guys do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a fan of fake hair unless i can't tell and it doesn't come off in a club in my hand lol

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By *ee VianteWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I won't do spur of the moment meets because I like time to get ready. I usually need to do my nails for a meet and that takes at least a couple of hours because the varnish has to dry.

I wouldn't do fake tan or lashes for a meet but I do like some time to prepare. That's for me more than for my meet though.

Yeah appreciate everyone likes different things

and definitely has to be for u not him, feel sexy= act sexy

its my only excuse to get done up these days though lol. Daily I am just clean and presentable, but not what I would consider sexy

If you took ages to get ready but the guy turned up and had obviously made no effort, what would you do? x"

I don't take ages to get ready, but I do like to have time to do my nails and things.

I suppose it depends on what him having made no effort means. If he was dirty or smelly, that would be the end of the meet. Other than that I'd be fairly relaxed about it.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I always make an effort for a meet... But I do make an effort to look and feel good all the time.... Not a time consuming effort but I do feel good if I think I look good."

snap! ( mrs)

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"I dress how I want to dress, I wear my make up how I want to wear it and I smell how I want to smell (usually smell of Chanel) because I want to do it for me....not for a man. I love to look and dress nice because then I feel fantastic...

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By *ittykate84Woman over a year ago

CHESTER

"Can I clarify this wasn't about do you like the way I choose to look. Merely do men like it when women turn up looking their best...what you may consider that to be us your opinion.

Ah ok well from past experience with fb's they have loved it when i have gone full of makeup, hair done, lingerie, sexy dress and heels but they have also thought i look amazing fresh out of the shower, hair wet and no a stitch of makeup just wearing a tshirt!

So yes they do like the effort but it is not always necessary for them to be happy

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